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A commission for @gummy-axolotl!!! 💜

They are besties 💜

I wanted to draw Hatsu Miku for a while so I got so exited for this commission :3

Commission 💌

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Sorry it’s early but you really can’t use fanfiction terms in a non fanfiction context like if someone is trying to sell me a book to read and they tell me there’s an enemy to lovers I would be annoyed because why are you spoiling the story lol

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begging people to make it clear if they are shippers or not bc i do not want to infiltrate in places of the internet i am not welcomes

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is this orange or yellow.

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Fuck it

(pls dont kill me I mean the characters not the ccs)

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"We're sometimes here to help"

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ISTJ Jacket Behind the Scene — Chenle

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230715 Sucker Punch! (part change ver.) cr. 901xdh

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the hermits are already predisposed towards crime and they always have been. however, they struggle due to the lack of law structures in which to commit their crimes; if nothing is illegal, what is a crime? season 10 has given them new laws, and with that, new crimes. this is enrichment for them. they are printing counterfeit diamonds and committing mail fraud and threatening to sue over breach of contract. these are signs of a healthy and thriving hermit population

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as soon as i saw gem's thumbnail i fell in love i adore this build so much. here is my attempt at big glowy fish

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idk if anyone cares but i have been talking to lawyers to see if i can sue my doctor who assaulted me and also filing an official complaint against him and it has been a rough couple days but I just wanted to let everyone know because i am proud of myself for keeping it together as best as I can

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If you’re not following Doc on Twitter you really should it’s an absolute TREAT to see him get thoroughly eviscerated by ginger haired bisexual hermits

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So, I've seen a lot of people describing the Wilbur situation as like a car wreck or a fire or some other disaster that's destroying their community and I want to offer an alternative perspective.

To be clear: it hurts. It hurts like a bitch. It fucking sucks and it's awful and we all wish we weren't going through it and if you need to log off and throw a little baby tantrum about it, feel free. I've already done that a couple times.

But I think the pain is more like resetting a badly healed bone or cleaning an infected wound. It hurts, but the process is ultimately healing.

What we're going to be left with at the end of this process is a stronger community with one less abuser in it, maybe even more if more people feel empowered to come forward. Shelby wasn't the only person Wilbur hurt. Even if she had been, that would have been enough to justify getting rid of him, but she wasn't. There are so many people now who will be more comfortable and happier and safer in the community, which will be stronger and more open and more able to trust.

Is it going to hurt to get there? Yes. Does it hurt a lot right now? Yes. Would it have been a thousand times worse to let it fester for fear of that pain? Yes.

Cry about it all you need, but it's not a disaster. It's a surgery.

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Anyway, while people are discoursing about men and not sharing Shubble points, here’s the actual advice I got from watching the stream bc I think that probably needs to be spread more. Shubble elaborates it much better but if you can’t watch it’s better than nothing.

Physical abuse is not just hitting or kicking, anyone causing physical pain intentionally to you without consent is physically abusive, regardless of how that manifests or if it seems silly.

Pressuring someone into using a safeword on something that’s not, like, a mutually agreed thing and is just something one partner wants is controlling and creepy.

Partners who push at the edge of your boundaries and avoid safewords are abusive.

A partner insisting you’re remembering things wrong and making you seem crazy is abusive (specifically, it’s gaslighting)

Grand romantic gestures from the beginning can very easily be a sign of abuse, as abusers use it to endear themselves to their victims.

Controlling behaviour and refusing to break up while also refusing to make changes is possessive and unhealthy at best.

Abusers will manipulate things to make it seem normal to those outside of their victims- by being kind and helpful even as they neglect their victim, by pressuring their victim to treat their abusive behaviour as a joke, ect. It’s often very hard for an outside observer to know if something is abusive, and making assumptions off of what you know in front of closed doors isn’t helpful.

It’s very hard to tell that you’re being abused, and you'll often still retain affection for your abuser for a long time- this is normal, and this isn’t your fault if you wanted to stay friends.

Even if an abuser is struggling with their own problems, taking it out on you is not acceptable. People can be bottling up their emotions and struggle with depression and past trauma and that gives them no excuse to hurt you.

If your partner relies entirely on you to take care of them, and support them financially, that’s financial abuse one way or another.

Abusers tend to hurt more than one person, and their actions escalate without outside influence (be it intervention if possible or something that keeps them away from victims if not.)

Listen to your gut, if you think a relationship is bad. Even if you’ve been through this before, sometimes you can’t realise in it, but you’ll feel it subconciously.

Also, Shubble is being supported by friends who helped her cope and went through different but similar things. She's specifically mentioned right now keeping the stories anonymised, but she might change her mind, if I interpreted the last bit correctly. She's doing alright, she's healing, and it sounds like she's being believed by her friends, at least most of them. I wish nothing but growth and healing for them, and wish them the best moving forward.

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to my authors who wrote about wilbur soot, do not blame yourself or feel guilty about your writing. you didn't know about this.

all i can suggest is deleting the works that include him, or possibly changing the names used if you really adore the work.

but also, here is a point made by @ruffboijuliaburnsides that i completely agree with ;

I think adding a note to fics and creations is better if you can do so, maybe orphaning the work if you must, because by deleting works you are removing so much of fandom history and that's not really a great thing either. Deleting your fanworks is not going to help the situation in any way, and you may regret it later. At the very least just lock it down to a less public access, but please save deletion as a last resort.

do not let this discourage your writings. find others or different fandoms to write about.

and i hope those who had wilbur soot as a comfort streamer are okay. know that there are other streamers, bands, and things that can be used to comfort you.

don't let people rush your acceptance, alright? things like this take a while to recover from.

now, here are some recommended streamers and bands for if you watched wilbur soot, or listened to lovejoy. feel free to comment if there's any you'd like me to add! these are my personal comfort streamers and bands.

STREAMERS ;

ranboo

aimsey

billzo

tubbo

tommy

jack manifold

quackity

shubble

punz

philza

awesamdude

slimecicle

eret

BANDS / ARTISTS ;

artic monkeys

los campensinos!

james marriott

the jungle giants

remember as well, support the abused, not the abusers. im posting this so people don't do anything they'll regret, for i have seen many things on twitter, and i wish to prevent those things.

if none of these help you, please dial 988 if you have any thoughts. it's hard, i understand, but please don't do anything. my messages are always open to those in need.

and remember, support shubble and her story.

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Everyone say “thank you, Shubble”

And, if you’ve got time, I would say that while we should be worrying about deplatforming an abuser, supporting Shubble is really what’s most important!

I recommend watching a few of her videos to give her that boost! You can throw a like and a comment her way. Remember that content creation is a job and we can contribute even if just a little.

Her recent hide and seek video featuring Gem, Jimmy, Lizzie and Scott is incredibly cozy, her SOS video is cute and for a series that’s just barely started, both her empires seasons are solid (one link because they’re on the same playlist), her Witchcraft smp series is fun! She has a bunch of videos on other assorted games, and a small AITA podcast series featuring HBomb!

Send all the love to Shelby! Let’s put our time where our hearts are 💗