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Do you think saying someone is gay when they haven't come out or say they aren't, is homophobia? What is it is from someone who is gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc. I want to know what this is considered. What do you think

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I really hate that people call bisexual, polysexual, pansexual, or any multiple-sex attractions, people gay or straight. They aren't. They might be in a same-sex or opposite-sex relationship But that doesn't make them gay or straight. Stop assuming people's sexualities and genders. Stop making people feel like shit

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Up to the point of coming out of asexual, I really didn't know you had to be oppressed to be in the LGBT community. I thought that it was open to everyone who had a different sexuality. Then I came out and went in tumblr and realized...I didn't belong in any community. Until the president of my GSA said I am valid and the fuck the haters. GSA will be my safe space. Even if LGBT isn't sometimes

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I WANT ELSA TO BE ASEXUAL SO BADLY

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Would therapists stop fucking telling me that I am only “believing” I’m asexual because I thought I had “problems” and needed to solve these “problems”. Can they stop telling me I am just a “late bloomer” and only care about school. Can they stop telling me that it’s because I’m depressed or “the wiring is all out of wack”. Can they please stop making me doubt myself. Coming upon asexuality was the best thing that happened to me because I didn’t feel like a fucking freak. Every damn time I bring it up to a therapist, they say there’s something fucking wrong with me. I keep changing therapist because they are basically trying to convince me that I need to not call myself asexual and then they get upset when I get upset. Also, can they stop saying once we figure stuff out we can solve what’s causing these “disorders” and “problems”. No. asexuality isn’t a disorder or a problem. Even if it is because of those reasons, let me say I’m asexual. I find comfort in the label. It makes me feel safe and healthy. It makes me feel less alone. Through the entire therapy session, she kept saying how I don’t have a sex drive because of my depression. But my asexuality isn’t about my sex drive. I have one. It isn’t about that. It’s not having the sexual attraction towards individuals. I’m just sick of hearing it. I have my friends who keep reassuring me that I’m not messed up or that I’m not asexual. One even said they needed to go back to school. It fucking sucks. I’ve come to terms with it for three fucking years. But every time I tell a therapist they make Me doubt myself again. They make me feel that I’m messed up and it sucks. It sucks a lot.

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My GSA didn't say anything about it being asexual awareness week when it was. I couldn't really do anything because I was still in recovery. but they didn't... seem to care I guess? They did something for Bisexual week and they are doing something for Transgender Day of Remembrance. I'm not asking for them to have Tshirts or anything... I just want to be recognized. Please don't fight me on this. I just...im sick of sitting in the background. I don't let my sexuality define who i am, but it still hurts when people don't recognize me.

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Or my favorite "stop trying to guilt us into accepting you"

Ace discoursers: asexuals face no discrimination

Me: here are some Experience Based Examples™

Ace discoursers: that’s just you tho

Many many other asexuals: here’s Experience Based Examples™ and Statistically Proven Facts™

Ace discoursers: I can’t read suddenly?

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Happy National Coming Out Day! Remember to come out when you think it's safe and best for you, not because it's a national day in the calendar

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If you're going to bring your "Asexuals are homophobic" bullshit then you better have proof. I want quotes, accounts, receipts, screen shots, and any other evidence. I'm tired of being called homophobic (when I'm not) because I say I'm asexual or a defend Asexuals on an aphobic post

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Omg so true. Then when you do tell how people have oppressed or harassed or whatever you they go and be like "stop guilt tripping us"

And I'm? Why is there so much contradiction

#JustAphobeThings

me: ugh being ace sux

aphobes: *inhale*

me: oh no

aphobes: DO YOU imply that aces have worse than EVERYONE ELSE IN THE WORLD? aces do not suffer in any WAY. do u wanna be opressed so BAD??

me: oh my god

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I'm at a really weird phase like I'm out but I'm not really out but I'm kinda out but I'm not openly out However, I am not afraid to say I'm asexual but sometimes I am it's very weird tbh Maybe it has to do with the fact I don't really find it necessary to blurt out "I'm asexual" to everyone. Like why do they need to know in order for then to like me? Sure if a person wants to date me (which rarely happens lmao), I would tell them from the beginning. Idk maybe in just confused 😂