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Something NOT to say to someone who is depressed:

1. “Is that self harm?” “Have you been cutting?” “Stop tryna cut!” I mean for the love of God! YES!! NO NEED TO POINT IT OUT!

2. “Why are you crying all the time” If you have deppression or anxiety, its hard NOT to break down when things go wrong. And asking why sucks! How about “are you okay?” Thats better

3. “Are you trying to get our attention?” CUTTING AND BEING DEPRESSED IS NOT ALWAYS TO GET ATTENTION! Sometimes it is for a wake up call for friends and family but most of the time it isn’t

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~Elle

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NOVEMBER IS HERE! Elle is ready!!!

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Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

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A Little Advise! Bullies!

Hey! It’s Elle!

I have decided it may be time to have a convosation about bullying. Today, my best friend and I were threatened. And now my other 2 friends are saying they wanna start a fight! Do you think I can fight… NO!!

I am honestly not sure what to do but I have some advise for people who are suffering from bullying:

1. report it! I get it, you think you will look like a weakling, a little stick in the mud. But it works! My friend (Imma give her a nickname… how about Bookie coz she is a bookworm) and I are reporting this asap!

2. DON’T MAKE A DRAMA! The last thing we want is for a big fight to happen! My friend (nickname… Mumma. Inside joke, don’t ask) spent all day protecting Bookie cause she thought she was gonna start a fight. It caused a bot of drama!!!

3. Friends! They will help you! Spend time with the people who matter!

ARE YOU HAVING AN ISSUE WITH BULLIES?! PLEASE! SEND US AN ASK! WE WILL TRY OUR BEST TO HELP!

Stay strong! Loves ya all!

Elles xx

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Just a little advice.

This happens to all of us at least once. We all go through a stage of depression. Even If we seem like the happiest person on earth. Sometimes it’s only a phase that goes away simply. Others, you may end up cutting. 

None of it is a joke. The cutting, the depression. It’s not for attention. It’s basically when you’ve been on edge for so long and you finally slip or you finally crack. You can’t always be strong. No one can.  Even the hardest of rocks crack eventually.

When you’re cutting most of the time you feel like you are alone, unwanted, hated, misunderstood. You feel as if no one will ever know what you’re going through, but the thing is. People do know what you’re going through.  People have gotten past it, are still going through it, are only just starting it. They just might be in a different stage compared to you. But, they may be able to help you. They can help you overcome it and you could help them overcome it. You could work together. To help each other. Just know, you’re never alone. You are wanted. Loved and understood. People know what you’re going through. 

If you’re cutting or depressed, tell someone. They may be able to help. If you know someone who is depressed or cutting. Let them know that they aren’t alone. Try and help them. Or let them know how amazing they are.

Even the hardest of rocks crack eventually.

Don’t lose a friend because you were to afraid to help. And don’t lose yourself because you were afraid to tell someone. If you need someone to talk to, we are available. You can talk to us. We are here to help. Don’t let anyone make you feel any worse. 

Stay strong guys. Love ya, 

Trigs.

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heya sibski! wassup? hows you be all up n doin taday??

Hellow :3 its been okay thanks and you? ~Elle

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The Break Ups

Okay, lets all face it! Breaking up with someone sucks! Especially when you loved that person for a long time! Here is how to GET OVER HIM/HER!

Tip 1: Excepting

It may seem super hard, but excepting its over is the best thing you can do. You can try friendships if you are super keen but still. If you dumbed them then it was for a reason and if they dumbed you... well they OBVIOUSLY are to blind to see what an amazing person you are and are TOTALLY not worth any of you valuable time!

Tip 2: Your Best Friends

They ALWAYS know what to do. Whether its a sholder to cry on, a hug, a lunch out or even just a funny text convosation, finding a best friend is what you need. When I broke up with an ex, I went straight to a friend who I am gonna nickname Piano Tiles (he is such and amazing pianist!). Him and Racoon (another friend and the nickname is an inside joke dw) took me out to McDonalds and we spent ages talking and laughing! It totally made me feel better about the whole situation!

Tip 3: DELETE THE MEMORIES!

Those cute photos on your phone? Put them in the trash! Delete them all! Socials? Remove him! That cute gift he gave you while he was away? Pfffffftttttt... ain’t worth having sweet-pea! Everything that makes you think about him, just delete and chuck away from you. Cause if they stay around, they will haunt you really bad!

Tip 4: Eat

I know, I know. Eating is stereotypical for someone to do after a break up but serious! It helps! Don’t eat to much that you have doubled your body weight and leave your mum/roomie/dog annoyed cause of all the dishes. A meal out with friends or watching The Notebook, City Of Angels or Titanic etc. will help dramatically. (Trust me, thats experience talking right there)

IF YOU ARE HAVING A TOUGH TIME, PLEASE SEND US A MESSAGE, ASK OR A SUBMISSION AND WE WILL DO EVERYTHING TO HELP! WE ARE HERE FOR YOU!

Stay safe lovelies!

Elle xx

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Happy Halloween!

Happy Halloween our 9 followers I love!

This year, for hallowwen, my school has a massive presentation so I can’t dress up this year :(

Oh well! Next year I will go for an angel or mermaid :P

HAVE A HAPPY HALLOWEEN AND STAY SAFE!!! CLOWNS COULD BE ANYWHERE! *cough* dead afraid of clowns *cough*

~Elle

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Same Sex Marriage Vote ~ Australia

As some of you know, my country (Australia) is currently under going a vote to change the law on same sex marriage. The law states that it is illegal to marry someone the same gender as you. I absolutely agree that this should be changed.

People say that if it is changed, our schooling will be different. Instead of teaching “mummy and daddy” they will teach “mummmy and mummy” or “daddy and daddy”. My mother is a grade 2 teacher and she does not teach “mummy and daddy” to begin with. Schooling will stay the exact same way as it is! Your children are not going to be told how 2 females have sex or how to males have ‘fun time’! They don’t do that to begin with! Schooling will not be effected at all!

People say that people of the same gender marrying is rong because they are homophopic! Let them marry! It is NOT going to change us! Places like Canada allow same sex marriage and they are in the top 10 happiest countries! Australia is the only advanced English speaking country that doesn’t allow it.

I don’t know why people think this is wrong. Asutralia is a perfect country. It would be better if everyone got there rights. We gave women rights, Aborigional and Torres Strait Islanders rights. Why can’t we give the gay and lesbians a say? If you disagree to any of this, think to yourself: “How would I feel if I was gay and I wasn’t allowed to marry my partner?” Please vote YES if you are Australian! We need it!

Why am I writing this? Because my best friend is gay, the love of my life is bi and my aunty is a lesbian. I want them to have rights. My aunty moved to Canada so she can be happy with her partner. Thats a love commitment! I would love it SO MUCH if she could come home and be happy with her wife!

Please reblog! Sincer; Elle (14 from Australia)

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Just a little advice.

This happens to all of us at least once. We all go through a stage of depression. Even If we seem like the happiest person on earth. Sometimes it’s only a phase that goes away simply. Others, you may end up cutting. 

None of it is a joke. The cutting, the depression. It’s not for attention. It’s basically when you’ve been on edge for so long and you finally slip or you finally crack. You can’t always be strong. No one can.  Even the hardest of rocks crack eventually.

When you’re cutting most of the time you feel like you are alone, unwanted, hated, misunderstood. You feel as if no one will ever know what you’re going through, but the thing is. People do know what you’re going through.  People have gotten past it, are still going through it, are only just starting it. They just might be in a different stage compared to you. But, they may be able to help you. They can help you overcome it and you could help them overcome it. You could work together. To help each other. Just know, you’re never alone. You are wanted. Loved and understood. People know what you’re going through. 

If you’re cutting or depressed, tell someone. They may be able to help. If you know someone who is depressed or cutting. Let them know that they aren’t alone. Try and help them. Or let them know how amazing they are.

Even the hardest of rocks crack eventually.

Don’t lose a friend because you were to afraid to help. And don’t lose yourself because you were afraid to tell someone. If you need someone to talk to, we are available. You can talk to us. We are here to help. Don’t let anyone make you feel any worse. 

Stay strong guys. Love ya, 

Trigs.

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Just relax and breathe, everything is gonna be ok ❤️

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A Little Advise! Bullies!

Hey! It’s Elle!

I have decided it may be time to have a convosation about bullying. Today, my best friend and I were threatened. And now my other 2 friends are saying they wanna start a fight! Do you think I can fight... NO!!

I am honestly not sure what to do but I have some advise for people who are suffering from bullying:

1. report it! I get it, you think you will look like a weakling, a little stick in the mud. But it works! My friend (Imma give her a nickname... how about Bookie coz she is a bookworm) and I are reporting this asap!

2. DON’T MAKE A DRAMA! The last thing we want is for a big fight to happen! My friend (nickname... Mumma. Inside joke, don’t ask) spent all day protecting Bookie cause she thought she was gonna start a fight. It caused a bot of drama!!!

3. Friends! They will help you! Spend time with the people who matter!

ARE YOU HAVING AN ISSUE WITH BULLIES?! PLEASE! SEND US AN ASK! WE WILL TRY OUR BEST TO HELP!

Stay strong! Loves ya all!

Elles xx

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~Hi~

Yeah. This is another promo. 

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Pleases and Thanks.

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~Welcome All~

Hello gorgeous beings, whether you be human, animal or other.

Merci, Gracias, Danke sehr, whakawhetai koe, Thank you for visiting, following, scrolling or however you have happen to come across our Blog.

+ Need advice on anything? Just ask and we’ll try help as best as possible. 

+ A bit shy to let everyone know anything. Make it Anon. 

+ Just wanna let out feelings/emotions, Go ahead. We don’t judge.

+ Just want someone to talk to? Send in a message.

We’re here for ya.

Imma Kiwi. I can help with whatever.

My blog is @galaxygal-trina   :)   (I might make a personal one)

Happy Scrolling, hope to hear from you soon.

xxx

Trigs