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Let me know.

If you do not love me. Tell me so. Don't make me journey through the day to day excited to see you. Thinking about what youi mght be doing. Building up the courage to tear finally tear down the wall and let you see more into why im me. But sometimes I'll let you in and you won't like it. Or worse, sometimes I'll let you in and you won't care. Which in all honesty hurts more. #hurtsmore #notcaring #spilledthought

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SAY IT ALITTLE LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK.👍 AND WHEN THIS FUCKING HAPPENS RESPECT YOURSELF ENOUGH TO STAND UP, WALK AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK. EVER. EVER. NEVER. EVER.

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Red

Red is what I see. When I think about that girl whinding her thin, black leggings with the cute boots around your waist and lifting herself up to your chest for a hug. I see red at the fact at what I didn't see. Cause I sure as fuck didn't see you push her away. I sure as fuck didn't see you bring her ass to me for an invite to your girlfriend. I sire as fuck didn't get an apology or an explanation. I. I got to act like I didn't see it while freaking out inside. I got to try to throw some white color into my red, to take out the sting and add some patience to the situation. I waaaiitteddd with this red in my mind till I knew you were too fucked up to hopefully see the pain, and red in my eyes. I said, "oh and letting girls wrap their legs around you makes me uncomfortable.". Yeah you reply. That made me uncomfortable too. I nod.... Thankful that you acknowledged. But at the end of the day you let her wrap her legs around you and didn't immediately try to remedy it. And you don't seem to really care.

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Important Terms

For approaching Religious and Anthropological Studies:

Cultural Relativism:

“The ability to view the beliefs and customs of other peoples within the context of their own cultures rather than one’s own; or, describing another culture from its own point of view without imposing one’s own cultural values.” Look at what people BELIEVE, not whether or not what they believe is “true.”

Ethnocentrism (the opposite of cultural relativism):

“The tendency to judge the customs of other societies by the standards of one’s own; combines the belief in the superiority of one’s own culture with the practice of judging other cultures by the standards and values of one’s own culture.”

Harnessing ethnocentric ideas when approaching religious and cultural studies will hinder one from truly being able to learn and understand other peoples and their cultures. 

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Leaving

If someone is going to leave, that's what is meant to happen. Do not point to blame to yourself, or any decisions you might have made. You made them for yourself and the good you were intending. And if someone leaves you for a choice like that, than they aren't the one you are suppose to be with and it was doomed either way.

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I will not fight for time.

Friendships are ever evolving with the people we are constantly around who are forcing us to change. For just the meer energy someone brings to you forces decisions, in moments, that only they give. So when I choose to be your friend it's because I love you. It's because you bring different aspects to my life that challenge me, and comfort me all wrapped up in a package. It's important to me. So what I will not do is waste time with people who don't speak into my changes. Who because of the energy they bring, and the decisions their presence forces me into, I am no longer growing, or becoming someone I want to be. So no I will not be around if they are. And no I don't have an opinion on their troubles because their troubles are not mine. If you see that as forcing you to "Fight for time, or Choose for time." I have no apologies for you, and you can take that as having no fucks to give. I am your friend, my love for you does not diminish because of it. Our relationship is no lease strong then it was a month ago. Life is always changing. Love it!

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2018

My wish for next year.

2017 has been a year of being comfortable. I have tabled alot of hard topics, I have avoided alot of hard realities. I have "forgotten" about to many responsibilities that I should have followed through with. All for the sake of being comfortable.

Next year I want to hurt. I want to be put in my place. I want people to push me and tear me down. It's time I own up to my obligations. And stop being half of the person I know I could be. I am hesitant of growing pains. I remember waking up to my knees burning from it. The discomfort of joints floating in unmanaged states and tension. Always slowly moving forward to where they have been predestined to slide into.

It's time to grow.

That's what I want in 2018.

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Will you play.

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Unlearning who I am not–so I can learn how to become who I am.

Lalah Delia (via vibratehigherdaily)

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Petite idée toute simple: en période un peu tendue, quand vous êtes fatigué et sur les nerfs, faites vous un petit carnet dans lequel vous recopiez des citations de film ou dès citations trouvées sur we heart it, vous verrez ça détend et c est relaxant !

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Hello everyone ! Today i’ll show you how tout make a cute wall hanging diy. First you need a bough ( i found mine in my garden 😂) et some wool threads. It’s not difficult but you need to be patient. Make 8 groups of 8 threads. Then divide each group in two, so that you have 16 groups of 4 threads. Then , knot the right group of number 1 with the left group of number 2 ( you’ll understand with the photo 😅) and do the same for each group . You have to make double knots. Repeat that as many time as you want (i made 5 lines ) . Finally , cut the bottom of your masterpiece and that’s all! I hope you’ll manage to do it 😂❤