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I think it’s finally time for me to log off all my socials for a while. I’ve officially run out of energy for the constant stalking, the tinfoil-hat theories, and the general inability to just let things be.

And the final straw?

Oh, just a casual post from an “ARMY” declaring that the Jikook videos must obviously be filmed by staff because, wait for it, the audio is 'too clear'. Yup. The biggest problem is not that the boys are clearly being stalked and that their safety is at risk. Nope. Apparently, Hybe is simply pushing their Jikook agenda. Another brought up the leaked yacht jikook video and how it was also probably staff despite it being confirmed that the captain filmed it. What's one more conspiracy, huh? 🤔

Then I stumbled on someone lamenting that we might get a Jikook subunit before a Taekook one. And the quotes and replies? A whole meltdown. Like, are y’all okay? Blink twice if you’ve touched grass in the last six months. I would worship Bighit if we ever get a Taekook subunit, because I love Tae's voice and it would blend beautifully with Kookie's especially his runs but why make it seem like a jikook subunit is part of a coded anti-Taekook scheme?

What pisses me off more? These conversations are happening not in shipper spaces, by ARMY.

If you truly believe that in 2025, a publicly traded company is strategically promoting one ship while suppressing another like it’s some Cold War psyop , go off I guess. I sincerely wish you well on your fanfiction fueled journey. I, however, am tired. Y’all go ahead. I’m out.

I'll see y'all when I see y'all.

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I don't know what fandom you are talking about but on my side of the streets, whether here, Twitter or TikTok, there was equal parts enragement at the invasion of privacy for all members. They deserve respect too, at least even human decency. Just because they are in public, it doesn't equate to them consenting to basically being stalked. Stop defending this problematic behaviour. I thought that was the fandoms etiquette 101 -dont take pictures of the Tannies in unofficial settings. It's not cute. Please, for love of all that's holy, don't normalise it.

Is this a joke? The fandom was so happy and jubilant about leaks of photos of Taehyung and Jungkook at the opera, leaks of Jimin with Bangchan in the store, or recently a video of Namjoon smoking, everyone discussed it, our boy doesn't even hide 🤤 (lol he actually hides and turns around, it makes him uncomfortable).

But as soon as leaks of jikook started, who openly walk the streets, don't hide from anyone, they are absolutely comfortable, the fandom started to boil - delete. This is stalking. You are interfering in their lives. You are scum if you are okay with it and like jikook leaks.

Oh, what happened? Scum, who were happy with all the leaks before, what's wrong with your face now? 🌚 And why did thoughts about some problem suddenly surface with jikook? 🌚 It's especially funny to watch in those blogs and channels where you can easily find leaks of all the other guys the author admired a week ago... Honestly, it's funny to read this sh! t. Turn off your inner worried mother where it's inappropriate. When sasaengs came to Jungkook's house - that's where the problem is. When sasaengs went to a restaurant after Taehyung and IU - that's where the problem is. And not when jikook walk openly around countries and don't worry about anything, and fans notice them and film them, judging by the quality, standing a kilometer away from them.

If jikook were uncomfortable, they would take closed places and be on private territories. But they literally walk with open faces in a CROWD. They are ok that they can be filmed at this moment.

But the fact that they are comfortable with it now does not mean that you are now allowed to always pester them 😉

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When I first discovered BTS, I was immediately met with countless fan theories and narratives which painted Yoongi as cold, distant, or “savage.” These labels were so frequently repeated that I began to internalize them, and, almost unconsciously, I found myself feeling slightly less connected to him than to the other members. But as I got deeper into the group, I realized something: how could I truly enjoy and support BTS while holding a biased view of even one member? I wanted to appreciate BTS as a whole and that meant giving every member a fair chance on my own terms.

So I set out on a personal journey to understand Min Yoongi for myself. I immersed myself in his music and rap, watched countless YouTube compilations, and paid close attention to him in their original content with focused attention on his expressions, interactions, and presence. And what I found was someone entirely different from the version I'd been told about. Yoongi is, without question, one of the most sincere, thoughtful, and warm-hearted individuals I’ve come across. He isn’t emotionally distant but simply expresses his affection differently. He gives himself completely to his members, to ARMY, and does so with quiet dedication. His kindness is subtle but unwavering. In short, he's a misunderstood sweetheart and before I knew it he became one of my top bias wreckers.

I share this because I’ve never understood how some fans, particularly in the Jikook and Taekook circles, form such strong opinions about Jimin or Taehyung based purely on hearsay or speculative narratives. How can you not feel the urge to form your own impression, free from the echo chamber? Why would you let others decide who someone is for you? Why wouldn’t you want to know them for yourself? I genuinely pity those who don't try, because these two are among the kindest, most remarkable individuals you could ever hope to admire. They are not defined by fan debates or edited clips taken out of context. They are artists, friends, and human beings with their own stories, strengths, and vulnerabilities. To ignore that in favor of someone else’s opinion is to miss out on the very heart of what makes BTS so compelling. They deserve more than shallow judgments based on rumors or groupthink.

Be cautious with the stories you're fed. Take the time to look a little deeper. Challenge your assumptions. Be bold enough to form your own perspective. You just might change your mind and discover something beautiful in the process. You may be surprised by how much more meaningful your connection becomes when it's rooted in your own discovery not someone else’s version of the truth.

So stay curious my friends. This doesn’t just apply to fandoms or the way we view public figures but it applies to life as a whole. Stop accepting every opinion as fact. Stop following the crowd simply because it’s louder. You owe it to yourself to think independently, to look closer, and to form your own understanding of people, of stories, of the world around you.

Don’t be a passive observer. Don’t be a sheep.

Ask questions. Challenge assumptions. Let your judgment be shaped by your own experience not someone else’s bias.

Curiosity is a quiet kind of power and it will take you far.

Peace and love 💜.

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I don't know what to say or how to express how significantly huge this is in a country that has deep rooted social stigma and inadequate public support towards Autism.

Min Yoongi Treatment Centre will change lives and am in awe at the steps he took to make this happen.

You are exactly the person I think you are Min Yoongi.

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My goodness!!!

The entitlement I’ve witnessed on Twitter is honestly heartbreaking. I am sure it extends to other platforms too but this is where I have encountered it. It's as if some people have forgotten that the Tannies are human. They are real people with emotions, limits, and lives outside of the spotlight. They are not simply a source of entertainment who should be expected to perform endlessly just to satisfy fleeting demands.

I’ve come across posts that made me pause in disbelief. Some are said in jest, but the tone of some has hostile undertones:

1. I’m so disappointed in Yoongi. We waited for him for two years and not even a live or a picture?

2. It is so dry on ARMY twt, where is the OT7 content we’ve been waiting on for three years? Bighit should have organised something like never before seen behind the scenes or the footage kept in their vault.

3. Where the hell is Jimin? Why has Jungkook not gone live yet? At least we’ve had updates for Tae and Joon.

And am there like, 'I BEG YOUR FINEST PARDON?'

Hobi and Jin (aside from Run Jin) largely stayed away for a while since completing their military service. Hobi even stayed for a month in US trying to recuperate. That time might have been spent making music but they also took time to rest and reset. They had just spent two years in a rigid, exhausting environment. They deserved time to decompress, to reconnect with themselves, and to rediscover who they were outside the structure of military life. But instead of allowing the others the same grace, many fans are already demanding their immediate return to the spotlight. Like WTF????

My beautiful poet Joonie literally talked about loosing his spark and motivation for writing music and you want him to jump into doing what exactly? 🤬🤬🤬🤬 Let that man heal.

And what do you mean by lack of content? We have been bombarded with it for the past 2 years to the point of fatigue (at least for me). We are still getting content. Hobi is promoting KIG and we have a tour that starts in one week !!!!

People need to remember that these men are not machines. They’re not content factories or characters in a show we binge when it suits us (though going by how people talk about them including here, that may be exactly how y'all see them. "What if it's"...."what if they are" ....Oh shut up, let them be).

They are sons, brothers, friends, and human beings who laugh, cry, grow, and sometimes break under pressure. Let’s not reduce them to expectations, we owe them more than that. We need to let go of the idea that they owe us constant access, and instead, hold space for their growth, healing, and lives beyond the stage. Because before they are idols, they are people. And people deserve to be seen, not consumed.

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I hate the fact that he felt the need to apologize again.

It hurts my heart that this probably weighs on his heart when it was a non issue for a good majority of us.

I hope in future he is able to approach us without feeling like he disappointed us.

I hope in time he is able to just visit us, guilt free, because he missed us and he knows we miss him too. This is his home, he built it, we want him here.

Welcome Home My Love

The Future is OK.

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I am happy about your blog, but skeptical. I love Vmin soooo much. No, I don't think they are a couple. I just love their friendship to the extreme. What I haven't been able to fathom is how any Jikooker or Jimin solo can say such horrible things about Tae or how any Taekooker or Tae solo can diss Jimin. It makes zero sense if you truly respect your favourite artist. Vmin LOVE eachother and are greatful for one another. They would hate seeing their fans push such negativity out there towards one of their best friends.

It also leads me to beleive that the Jikooker and Taekooker accounts that think Tae or Jimin could be sabotaging a possible romance have zero observational skills and their analysis abilities amount to a big fat zero! If they can't see Vmin love or ML love and the support they show one another then they aren't capable of rational analysis. Automatic block.

Sorry for the rant. I have ended up blocking hundreds of accounts and although I have found some positive Jimin loving Taekook accounts, I have yet to find a Tae loving Jikook one. My hopes are high. Don't let me town! 🤞

Funny how that works. I must be on the same quest as you but just trapped in a parallel universe because somehow, I still haven’t found a Jimin loving Taekook account that doesn’t eventually throw shade at him like it’s a spiritual obligation. Like at first, it’s subtle "no hate but…" (spoiler alert: hate incoming) or "just saying" (aka passive aggression unlocked). And then suddenly, we’ve connected the dots and Jimin is responsible for inflation, climate change, seasonal allergies and your ex leaving you in 2014. Like... is this a rite of passage? Is there a secret Taekook Temple where you unlock Level 3 Passive Aggressive Commentary after sacrificing a Jimin photocard under the light of a purple moon?

But I’m still out here like an unpaid intern looking for that rare Taekook account. With hope in my heart, pain in my eyes, and Jimin protection spells in both hands. Call me a masochist. Call me a delusional optimist with a dream and a Wi-Fi connection. Call me what you want, just don’t call me if you’re gonna disrespect Park Jimin.

I do understand your caution and skepticism, it is very valid. I also have been burnt by people I thought were sane but later spewing hateful rhetoric about either Jimin and Tae. I have been led to believe someone was a safe space, only to find them full on monologuing like a Disney villain about how Tae "isn't even close with Jimin anymore" while sipping tea brewed in delusion.

Let me be clear: I love Tae. He is the reason I fell headfirst into this beautiful mess of a fandom. Some days I don't know whether to thank him or curse him. His voice? Deep and rich like melted chocolate that’s been blessed by the vocal gods. His aura? Mysterious and magnetic, like a cat that might curse you or cuddle you, you just never know. His artistry? Off the charts. Whether it’s fashion, photography, or making me question my entire sense of identity every time he breathes, he’s got it. I love his quirks, his honesty, his chaotic good energy. I could go on and on.

And when I say I love Vmin, I mean it with my chest. They are my second favorite duo (also shoutout to Minimoni who have in the past year sneaked in to also occupy that second position because somehow Namjoon and Jimin manage to radiate therapist energy and chaotic academia at the same time). These two have been through it since their trainee days; laughing, crying, bickering, and just being there for each other. “Friends” and "4 o'clock" weren't just songs but an emotional ambush.So yeah. I don’t do slander. Not of Jimin, not of Tae, and definitely not of Vmin.

As I once humbly declared on my blog (okay, maybe not humbly): I am here to advance the Vminkook throuple agenda. And no, I will not be taking questions at this time. Honestly, if BTS ever confirmed a sub-unit with the three of them, I’ll be on the floor, sobbing. Until then, consider me the unofficial president of the Vminkook fan club....lol 😆😆

In all seriousness though, I really hope you find your people. They exist. The ones who love BTS without agenda, who cherish every bond without pitting members against each other, and who don’t use “just my opinion” as a smoke bomb for shade. They’re out there. Somewhere. Maybe even reading this post.

Good luck, Anon. And may your block list be long and your heart stay soft. 💜

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Every performance radiated your energy and love for music, reminding us why you’re such a unique force in the world.

Thank you for sharing your light with us and for giving your all every step of the way. We’re endlessly proud of you and excited for everything that lies ahead.

Until next time.

Rest well my super star.

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Feeling super goofy and hyper.

Am yet to shut up about vminkook.

I have got my vminkook back, prepare to be sick of me.

Yes, jikook are my ults but the other two duos are a close second. All three together, magical.

I got playful Taekook, playful vmin and playful Jikook all in the amazing quality of 144p 😂😂. Am happy as a clam today. 😊

This is just me trying to recruit more people to the vminkook throuple agenda btw 😜. Any takers?

And the vmin divorced allegations are for the streets. We cheer.

Happy happy day 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

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My Home is Home. My OT7 😭😭

HAPPY FESTA!!!!!

I have too many feelings and emotions going on after seeing Yoongi that I can't express and probably never will.

So I wrote this really short terrible poem because that is all I got.😊

Yoongi, you were gone so long,

Like a missing note in our favorite song.

We looked around, checked every place

Just hoping for a glimpse of your face.

We missed your smile, your playful cheer,

So glad you’ve finally reappeared!

Stay a while, don’t disappear

We missed you more than spring each year!

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Someone stop Jimin 😂😂😂

Hobi is going to be so sick of the maknaes.

My vminkook is back y'all !!!!!!!!!

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This is me trying to write again after the previous post didn't go through.😭😭. These are my semi-coherent thoughts after today.

1. Jimin and Jungkook are finally home. It still feels surreal to say it. After months of holding our breath, counting down days, and holding onto every small update, they're finally back. Their absence was a quiet ache that followed us everywhere, and now that they’re here, the world feels a little more right. But strangely, it hasn’t fully sunk in yet. I see the pictures, watch the videos, and still, a part of me can’t believe it. Maybe it will take time. Maybe this kind of joy needs a little space to settle. Screams: Jikook is back! Jikook is home!

2. The more things change, the more they stay the same. We will only be able to grasp the extent to which the military has left it's mark on Jikook in due time. Their bond, however, is unchanged. Watching them together again, their familiar dynamic, their shared glances and giggles is like seeing two souls pick up exactly where they left off. Time and structure may have shaped their outer selves, but the core of Jikook remains beautifully intact. They have always leaned on each other and this experience seems to have deepened that connection. Even their shared silence speaks louder than ever.

3. The military has changed them all

a) Namjoon.

I am convinced that the sole reason of sending him to one of the harsher units was to humble and break him (all of them). Joon's experience in the military cuts deeply. Listening to him speak about the mental and emotional toll of being disconnected from himself broke something in me. A poet unable to wield his greatest weapon, a pen. He’s always been open with us and so deeply human. He will never understand the impact his willingness to be vulnerable has had on my life. I hope, with everything in me, that he gives himself time now. Time to rest. Time to reconnect with who he is outside of the uniform. I hope his heart continues to heal and that he is surrounded by people who appreciate him, not as the leader or the artist, but Kim Namjoon. I hope the world is a little kinder and a whole lot more gentler. I hope he knows there is no rush to be "okay." Just being is enough.

b) Jimin

I can only imagine how difficult it must have been for someone so expressive and emotionally intuitive to exist in such a structured, restrictive space. Someone so emotionally attuned, soft and gentle. How does softness exist inside a space built on orders, commands and control? I imagine he became a kind of quiet warmth to people around him. I hope the world slows down for him and that he wakes up everyday feeling like he can be soft again. I hope he laughs more. I hope he rests deeply and I wish for him not to be so hang up on his weight and diet. I hope he finds new things to love. I want him to feel free to explore whatever paths speak to him, without pressure. I want him to be a little more kinder and gentler with himself.

c) Jungkook

With his boundless energy and his big heart it hurts my soul picturing someone so full of light and motion being confined. The military may have reshaped some of his rhythms but it did not dim his light. Even in the military, he found ways to express care and to nourish others through food. That's who he is. His warmth doesn't shout, it shows up. I hope he sings because it makes him happy, creates for the sake of curiosity, and surrounds himself with people who remind him of who he is outside of the expectations. I hope he takes time to live loudly and make mistakes without fear of being judged. I hope he travels, eats good food, stays up late and let his big heart lead him to new adventures.

d) Taehyung

He carries himself with such poise, such quiet strength and grace in the face of uncertainty and challenges. He’s always been resilient in his own way, and that carried over to his service because he served with dignity and strength and gave it his full heart. Throughout his service we got glimpses and every piece told the story of him giving his best. I hope he also gets to rest. I hope he leans into art, music and acting (only if he wants to). Taehyung has always walked his own path, my little wanderer, so I hope he walks it with more freedom than ever before. I hope he follows every strange idea and every quiet impulse. I hope he makes things we have never seen before, or he can simply rest. Whatever he chooses, I hope it's peaceful.

4. Jin and Hobi are our pillars.

My respect and admiration for 2soek has soared to new heights especially in the face of what the others revealed about the military. Jin, with his warmth and humor, stepped back in and instantly made things feel lighter. He dove head first into creating content, he gave us Happy, Echo, Run Jin among a plethora of other content. And Hobi who is ever the beacon of strength and encouragement returned with so much grace. Gave us a concert is a short time span and great music. 2soek's resilience and work ethic revealed who they are to the core and speaks volumes about their character. Their presence made the waiting feel less bleak. In a time when everything felt uncertain, they reminded us that BTS is still here. They successfully held down the fort and for that, I will be eternally grateful.

5. The fandom is changing and that’s okay.

Things don’t feel the same as they did a few years ago. The fandom has fractured and subsequently tried to piece itself back together, people have moved on, some have stayed, and the energy has shifted. 2024 tried to break us but we fought and we won. So BTS return will not be to the old normal but a new reality. It feels different now, maybe a little scattered but there is still so much love here. What matters now is how we adapt. How we continue to support each other and BTS in this new chapter. The bond is still here, we just need to nurture it in new ways. We'll find out new normal.

6. Yoongi is almost home.

The countdown has begun. I think about him often especially about what he’s seen, felt, and reflected on during his service. He’s always been someone who says so much with so little. His lyricism is what has been a pillar of strength for me because "Futures gonna be ok" and "May all you trials end in full bloom" is the scripture that gave me quiet strength to hold on a little longer. I have no doubt that when he returns, his art will reflect something deep and true. His return feels like the last light turning on, everything falling into place. I can't wait to welcome him home.

7. Jimin and Jungkook as they begin again.

I’m proud of them. Of how they endured, how they grew, and how they returned. They've grown in ways we may never fully understand. But they are here. And I hope they know that they are loved just as they are. They walked this road side by side for the past 18 months. Knowing they had each other brings a sense of comfort words can't hold. As they begin again, we'll walk with them into whatever future lies ahead. Their futures are unwritten. And that’s beautiful.

8. Always BTS.

So here we are, almost whole again. The long wait is ending and the pieces are falling into place. We don’t know exactly what lies ahead. But what I do know is that their bond hasn’t broken. Their vision, even if evolving, is still there. I trust them. I trust their love for each other, their creativity, and their desire to keep creating, together. And as BTS steps into the next chapter, we will walk alongside them with hearts wide open.

We waited. We learned. And now, we begin again.

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This one right here.

Jimin flinched.

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Welcome home my loves.

Will write a more coherent blog when I stop shaking

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Me right now watching the Joon live.

Not understanding a thing but happy my favorite yapper is home

Let it all out Joon. Speak your piece.

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Joonie skipped his heart out of that fvcking place. I love my little dork. He has never been more golden retriever than he was today; giving off happy puppy energy.

And this is the most Tae picture I have seen in while. Just look at that smile. Gosh, I missed him. And him saying his MBTI has changed (I don't know why Koreans love this useless pseudo science) and Joonie saying to give it a month.

Exactly. Like give it time, babes, you just got here. Anyway, however the military has changed or molded him, Tae will always be my baby.

And we do this again tomorrow with Jimin and Jungkook.

Can't wait.

Welcome home Tae

Welcome home Joon

You were missed. 🫶💜

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Freedom!!!!!!

They are free.

My babies are free!!!!!!!!😭😭