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becoming an adult cheat sheet!

learn to coupon

what to do when you can’t afford therapy

cleaning your bathroom

what to do when you can’t pay your bills

stress management

quick fix meals

find out if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill

resume workshop

organize your closet

how to take care of yourself when you’re sick

what you should bring to a doctor’s appointment

what’s a mortgage?

how to pick a health insurance plan

hotlines list

your first gynecology appointment

what to do if the cops pull you over

things to have in your car in case of emergency

my moving out masterpost

how to make friends as an adult (video)

how to do taxes (video)

recommended reads for surviving adulthood (video)

change a flat tire (video)

how to do laundry (video)

opening a bank account (video)

laundry cheat sheet

recipes masterpost

tricks to help you sleep more

what the fuck should you make for dinner?

where should you go for drinks?

alcohol: know your limits

easy makeup tips

find seat maps for your flight

self-defense tips

prevent hangovers

workout masterpost

how to write a check

career builder

browse careers

birth control information

financial management software & app (free)

my mental health masterpost

my college applications masterpost

how to jumpstart a car

sex ed masterpost

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16/6/25 🤣🤣

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Three options, and this was his choice

(via)

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for anyone that’s having a bit of a sad time lately, it will get better i promise

for now, Harry giggles😚

(credit to the original poster on tiktok)

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Harry Styles:

- Wears a dress on the cover of Vogue.

- Consistently wears women’s wear, even when wearing traditionally male clothing (suits).

- Puts the trans flag on the cover of Fine Line.

- Calls the album Fine Line and proceeds to use that phrase to speak about gender presentation.

- Says that wearing a traditionally feminine piece of clothing (tights) as a child ‘started it all’.

- Likes to be referred to as H or Sue.

- Refers to the concept of a Safe Space unironically.

- Writes a song called She about having a feminine prescience with you at all times and not understanding it.

- Waves trans and pride flags at concerts.

- Has rainbow merchandise.

- Exclusively refers to the idea of a love interest as a ‘someone’ or ‘they/them’.

- Asks consent from lgbt fans before openly reading their lgbt based signs.

- Only person ever openly sexualised in an interview was Patrick Dempsey.

Harry Styles’s Fans:

‘This is clearly a pretty straight, cisgender man!’

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I’m honestly still processing the video and the song, but the first coherent thought that came into my head was whether there was a red pill/blue pill reference.

The terms "red pill" and "blue pill" refer to a choice between the willingness to learn a potentially unsettling or life-changing truth by taking the red pill or remaining in contented ignorance with the blue pill. The terms refer to a scene in the 1999 film The Matrix.

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WE’RE WE HERE FUCK WE’RE SHIT QUEER UP

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Be gay, do crime 🏳️‍🌈

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I just think everyone should take a moment to consider the question "what is your visual shorthand for cruelty?" and then follow it up with a critical "and who taught you that?"

specific examples include but are not limited to

why is an evil timeline character design disabled? (why do the heroes go through equally punishing battles and never lose an arm, a leg, an eye?)

why are the futuristic scifi terrorists uniformly darker skinned? (why are the heroes so much lighter?)

why is the greedy boss fat? (why are the heroes skinny?)

why is the criminal mastermind heavily scarred? (why is the brooding, traumatized hero unscathed?)

why is the predatory creep a bearded person in a dress and makeup? (why are none of the heroes trans women?)

who taught you that this is how things are?

how long do you plan on repeating it?

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his aura is something else 🔥

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The not-so-blissful side of fatherhood. Francis Riggs with John and Monette Riggs, probably in Brooklyn, no date.

Photo: Joseph Solomon (probably a child) via the NY Times

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Breakfast lunch dinner dessert midnight snack

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