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you have to stop hating yourself for not taking care of yourself before you can start taking care of yourself in a more sustainable way

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can sm1 go to Tempa Cafe in MKT and get me a taro bubble tea? Im craving it so much

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Polished and Productive: The It Girl Playbook for Organization. 💋☕️

- The Power of a Chic Planner 📄 Your planner is more than just dates and deadlines; it’s your daily sidekick. Opt for one that’s stylish and functional—think sleek leather covers, minimalist designs, and plenty of space for your goals. Use it to jot down tasks, appointments, and those brilliant ideas you get on the go.

- Create a Morning Routine That Sets the Tone 📋 Start your day with a quick, five-minute planning session. Outline your top three priorities, a to-do list, and a motivational quote. This mini habit keeps you focused and ready to conquer the day ahead.

- Declutter Your Digital Space 💻 Your phone and laptop should be as chic as your outfit. Organize your apps into folders, clear out your camera roll, and set a wallpaper that inspires you. Keep your inbox clean by unsubscribing from emails that no longer serve you—it’s like a digital detox.

- Capsule Wardrobe, but for Your Desk 🖋️ Keep your workspace minimalist and clutter-free. Think of it like a capsule wardrobe: only the essentials, but each item should be purposeful and aesthetically pleasing. A sleek pen holder, a chic planner, and a scented candle are all you really need.

- Time Blocking: Your Secret Weapon 🗓️ An It Girl knows that multitasking is out, and time blocking is in. Set specific times for studying, working, and breaks. This method keeps you in control of your schedule, so you can slay your to-do list without feeling overwhelmed.

- Organize Your Thoughts with Brain Dumps 📓 Feeling overwhelmed? Do a quick brain dump—grab a notebook and write down everything on your mind. It’s like a reset button for your brain, clearing the clutter so you can focus on what truly matters.

- Weekly Reset Ritual 🕊️ Dedicate one day a week to reset. This is your time to clean your space, plan for the week ahead, and refresh your mindset. Light a candle, put on a playlist, and make this ritual something you look forward to.

- Stay Inspired with a Vision Board 🌆 Keep your goals front and center with a vision board. Whether digital or physical, fill it with images, quotes, and aesthetics that align with your dream life. It’s a daily reminder of what you’re working towards and why you’re putting in the effort.

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It takes 1 month to form a habit

2 months until you to feel it

3 months until you see the results

4 months until everybody sees it

Stop putting it off and start now!

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i would like to officially say it, i was very much a part of the section of society of women who internalise the misogyny..like i hated the colour pink, despised makeup, despised wearing clothes that were considered girly, didn't liked applying mehndi on my hands and I've wasted almost more than a decade of my life, not allowing myself to be the divine feminine I'm supposed to be.

It's a journey, I've realised during college and am still realising it especially since now I'm an unemployed adult daughter in a family where my career is a priority until I turn 24, where i am not allowed to leave my house for a job but I'll be allowed to leave behind my family, my existence to marry.

I've always thought being a women is so hard, and it has been hard.. especially for the little girl inside me who can't wear skirts because one uncle once told her girls with fat legs shouldn't even be allowed skirts when she was in 8-9 grade. My early teen self wants revenge, she's burning in anger because now she even feel uncomfortable in wearing sleeveless because in school her uniform had a jacket to prevent boys from getting distracted. And my current self is grieving over the burden of generational trauma that I'm slowly opening up. I'm trying my hardest to be kind to myself, to my mother, to my father even. But it's so hard.

Sometimes I feel like calling to my principal and telling her that I'm so grateful to god that she do not have kids, that she misused the power she got and now a tons of girls are insecure and tons of boys don't know how to treat women right because she was against the idea of boys and girls interacting in a co ed school. You'd the choice to make an all girls or all boys school, you willingly choose the co-ed option and for what? To make me feel insecure about my own body? To have a teacher tell a class full of girls that if they want to not wear the jacket, they make sure they're wearing smth underneath the shirt to not distract the boys? Y'know what? One day I'm going to have the power and then I'll show you how to run a school in a healthy way that doesn't ruin the future generation or traumatised them.

Does anybody feel it too? Sometimes I do wish to call back my classmates and ask them are you affected by it too? I wish to ask the boys from my class, if you'd a daughter, would you let her go to that school?

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i really had to say this, do men realise how easy it is to k*ll them? Like y'all can't cook, most of you don't even know about personal hygiene..and like y'know y'all are a man child.

If we, women, were as bad as you men, half of you have been dead because of food poisoning y'know?

It's so amusing how men think women are weak and yet they're highly dependent on them.

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the worst thing a parent could do is teach their child that hey that's your lil sibling and everytime there's something that you both want, I'm gonna ask you to whom to give it to first and you've to say your siblings name, cuz now you're not my child anymore, you're an elder sister, is that clear hun?

And now everytime someone ask me hey can I have this before you? And I'm like okay..

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spent my whole school life chasing after grades, i had no hobbies, no interest, no passion, just wanted to score good to impress my parents.

my first hobby, I discovered, was after I finished school.. because then i was empty.

And people say school don't ruin kids.

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last night me and my sisters were walking and we realise how much it hurt to have the potential and yet never be chosen.

Like how i was nominated for the best student in my department yet didn't won.

How she went to vacation, yet wasn't able to go to the cruise she was the most excited about.

And while I get it, these instances can be motivating and lessons for future.. does anybody else feel that these instances can also prevent one from trying, because what if I am not chosen again? What if all this potential get wasted infront of me?

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gonna spend my sunday reading the book "Tangle of Obsession" by Akwaah K.

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thinking about the time when i was a little girl who could not even look at herself in mirror because I wasn't fair skin and had (still have) a funny looking nose and was put in a tomboy category that I wasn't even allowed to say that I care about the fact that I don't look pretty without being mocked by people who were supposed to told me that beauty standards are the biggest villain of a women.

So to all the people who mock little girls who do their skincare and are highly invested in makeup, the problem isn't them. It's the society. Those girls are already suffering.

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one of the things i hate about trauma is the flashbacks when you’re finally feeling like you’re healing. then the dreams start up all over again. then you’re left wanting to tear the skin off your body so they would have never touched you at all.

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abusiveness and predation is not unique to men. abusive women (and the abuse of men for that matter) are much, much more common than you think. if your support for abuse survivors only extends to women or people who were abused by men, you don't actually support survivors.

so to all the survivors who aren't women, and the survivors whose abusers weren't men: i believe you, and i see you. you deserve to be safe and supported. you are not alone. your pain and suffering matters just as much as others' does. what happened to you is just as awful, and i'm wishing you so much healing and happiness.

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Can we please quit pressuring survivors to report?

Reporting is a valid thing to do, but not reporting is also valid for a number of reasons. The process can be re-traumatizing. It can be dangerous. And at the end of the day, it is never on a survivor whether this person does it to someone else. Ever. Quit blaming survivors. Quit guilting them and telling them “what if they do it to someone else…”

Reporting is a personal decision that should be respected.

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the streets are not for me, i belong in my room sleeping

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The sort of absolutely disgusting shit that takes place in my city, in my country, an example (TW: r*pe, m*rder):

I live in Kolkata, India. Recently, a second year doctor in training was brutally r*ped, and m*rdered, then her body was defiled again, in my city in her own workplace. It happened when she was resting after a long shift. She only wanted to take a few hour's nap before she went back to taking care of her patients, and she was accosted by what seemed like one person at first, later determined as a group. Only one person has been arrested as of yet, who conveniently gave himself up. It is suspected that this man is only a scape goat, and the real criminals are doctors and interns working in the same hospital as her (R.G.Kar Medical College). It is also suspected that this happened because she was privy to a bigger set of criminal activities taking place in this institution, and this was done to silence her. We are all angry and upset. This crime echoes that which happened in Delhi years ago (in 2012) to a physiotherapy intern. The chances are slim, since the criminals may have deep political connections, but I hope the perpetrators are brought to court. Even death wouldn't be a good enough punishment. Fuck r*pers and fuck the government.