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Dealing with one-sided relationships.

Are you currently in any form of relationship where you feel you’re giving everything to make it work whereas the other shows no interest at all?  The purpose of any healthy relationship is to enjoy a mutual affection between those comprising the relationship. Be it between a family member, coworker,or a significant other, we at least ensure everyone contributes in making it beneficial for…

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Quit perfection and follow authenticity.

Are you a perfectionist? Do you believe you can finally attain perfection? Being yourself is the greatest asset you can ever have to live with. At least it is the only real thing you can ever know and enjoy a full sense of ownership. As humans tainted with flaws, one of the biggest mistakes we could make is to completely lose ourselves in our drive to completely eradicate these flaws. Instead, a…

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Power, respect and violence.

How will you describe someone with power in society? Who do you consider to have respect? Are powerful people in society always respected? Just like love. the words power and respect are some of the most misused and misinterpreted words in our society today. Depending on the environment or culture we grew up in as well as personal perception and experience, these words are given a meaning …

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Why you need to quit a life of complaints.

Monday:No one seems to care about my situation. Tuesday: No guy seems to be interested in me. Wednesday: Why can’t get a job? Thursday: I’m broke and no one seems interested in helping. Friday: My sister is difficult to live with. Saturday: I’m not happy, life is so unfair. Sunday: Oh, my God. Why is it rainy today? Life has never owed any one any explanation on how it operates. From the moment…

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A helpful tip to use after struggling to convince a close one from taking an unproductive path.

Have you ever given everything it took trying to convince someone you honestly feel is taking a destructive or an unproductive path in life? What were the approaches you used exactly? How successful were you? Convincing someone can be extremely challenging sometimes. This can be true especially when those you try to convince involve close one such as a family member, friend, teenager,colleague,…

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How to get rid of jealousy.

How often do you get jealous? How easy do you get jealous? One of the most frustrating feelings experienced by humans is the feeling of jealousy. A moment in which we feel everything suddenly went biased against us. We either feel we merited more than what we have even though we do not merit them or do not feel others merit what they are or have. This of  course is often triggered by individual…

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Dealing with long distance relationships.

If you’re considering engaging in a distance relationship, you might as well be prepared for a unique love experience. The reality is that distance relationships are often challenging and definitely need to be handled with the best possible care in order for it to work properly. However, just like any other relationship, what counts at the end of the day is the mutual affection as well as…

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Why you need to stop searching for a perfect partner in order to begin a relationship.

Who is a perfect partner? Do you believe in the existence of established perfect partners or do you believe people do have the potential of becoming great in relationships? It’s very obvious that one of the main reasons people find it difficult to get a right partner is due to their quest for a perfect partner. Someone who suits their definition of a perfect partner. But some questions of thought…

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The truth, the fact and the propaganda.

  To be honest with you, I am writing this article in an office….Do you believe I’m actually telling the truth? Probably a little complicating right now. But what I know for a fact is that you’re reading this article right now. One of the biggest challenges we face in society today include finding the truth and believing who says the truth. Whether it’s the truth about history, our parents, our…

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The gentleman's case; who is he?

The gentleman’s case; who is he?

What’s your understanding of a gentleman? What traits make up a gentleman? As society continues to change with time,human behavior and values tend to respond to such changes by adapting to any norms they find in the present. Our demands increase and expectations both from society and humans become higher. Things become obsolete and certain behaviors are considered old-fashioned. But some…

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Why revenge isn't always the best form of response to unfair treatment.

Why revenge isn’t always the best form of response to unfair treatment.

How do you normally react when someone treats you badly? Is it always appropriate or necessary to make it even by responding? Without a doubt, one of the most annoying thing everyone can agree with is when we get treated badly. Whether it’s through betrayal, insults, impartiality or any other form of disrespect, we usually have the tendency to retaliate with a corresponding reaction. But some…

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How to use discouragement as a source of motivation.

How often do you find yourself discouraged, either through self-imposed means or from external sources? How easy do you do you get discouraged?  Believe it or not, discouragement is one of the easiest excuses used to justify our inability to do something. Of course it’s undeniable we sometimes go through challenging moments in life, replete with obstacles enough for us to conclude on the…

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What are those things you need in life to feel satisfied?

There is that one feeling we so hopefully desire in life, the feeling of satisfaction. That moment when life made sense again. Not only do we feel content for haven reached that point, but also feel rewarded for our effort in wanting to fulfill such desires. But a common challenge we face is what we desire in order to really feel satisfied as well as how feasible it is building a bridge between…

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How to communicate with an angry or hostile person.

How often do you find yourself trying to make a very angry or hostile person understand what you do or say? What kind of approach(es) do you use and how successful are you using it/them? One of the most fragile-minded people we usually encounter  are angry or hostile people. Fragile in the sense one need something special to be able to get along with such a person. They become very emotional at…

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How productivity is a function of those you regularly surround yourself with.

How productive are you, both to yourself and those around you? Are we born with our current state of productivity, or do we learn to be productive? As we grow up , we become exposed to social influence which plays a huge role in defining the person we become later in life. This affects the way we act, behave,communicate,think or in general terms, determines our level of productivity both to…

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Why there's no such thing as 'love at first sight''?

Why there’s no such thing as ‘love at first sight”?

  How will you rate your judgement about love? How successful is your interpretation of love? Can love be spontaneous or in other words, can love be felt on first sight? One of the most misinterpreted or misused word in society today is the word ”love”. Whether it’s through different ways we learn about it such as how we grew up knowing  what it is, from the messages we get through entertaintment…

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How concerned are you about people's perception about yourself?

How concerned are you about people’s perception about yourself?

  What type of person would you say you are? What do people say or feel about you? How concerned are you about others’ impression of you?. If you are a little honest, you’ll realise we often take into consideration, possible reactions from  others before implementing many of the decisions we take in life. These considerations usually influence decision making to some people,probably due to fear…