#Confidence

[introvertedx10]

If I could just muster 1/8 of the confidence this guy possesses

[spectrallydistracted]

Just had this conversation with a friend today.

Write it. Then fix it. But first, write it.

@majnoonathelibrarian

We can do it! 💖

my fave writing reminder

honestly, this phrase has been on my mind more times than i can count. i've kidnapped it, taken it as a hostage with no ransom money because i need it to live permanently in my head.

[thevirgodoll]

[darkhairqueens]

Feeling myself ✨. Double tap if you're vibing, and slide into @natalieflorence.co for more 🔥. Let's connect! 😉

[thehermitkind]

Growing up without a father, I didn't notice that the true impact is not having the direction and the will to power through things, not having that confident and sturdy support. Now that I'm just realizing this, I have to supply that. I need to find or generate that guiding light, the encouraging and reassuring voice that tells me to go for it.

[deardiarywrites]

deardiarytalks : you have to put in the work in order to achieve your goals

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i know that a lot of you are going to be like "yeah duh we know that" but READ IT AGAIN!! you HAVE to put in the work! your goals are not going to walk up to you and say "claim us". simply just planning and thinking about your goals won't help unless you get up, fight through those uncertainties and uncomfortable situations! I was thinking about how a lot of us compare our bodies to kpop idols and wonder why we can't be like them. well let me tell you why. they spend hours working out and dancing daily! they eat clean! they take action!!!! I was showering today and it struck me- if i want that goal, i will have to go through discomfort, there is no way around it. if i want to have a healthier body, i will have to stop eating junkfood which is destroying my gut, i will have to stop staying up late, i will have to move my body more! I will have to do those soul-sucking ab workouts and endure the pain, if i want to look like a manga character! i will have to endure all those yucky feelings and still continue if i want to achieve my goals. the only way to reduce the intensity of this discomfort is by building discipline, which comes from showing up. how can you dream of finishing a race if you never even start running in the first place?

[csuitebitches]

Traits I’ve Noticed in Confident People 

Disciplined - if a target is set, it is achieved 

Speaking - Can speak multiple languages. Can express thoughts clearly even if vocabulary is limited. The listener understands their point. 

Strong extroversion socially - can approach and talk to new people with ease, but also make them feel comfortable. Good at following up, asking questions and inserting little stories about themselves without exposing too much 

Strong general knowledge / industry knowledge. They know what they’re talking about 

Hard to please but not arrogant about it. They won’t readily accept a fact or opinion, even if the majority agrees - they’ll debate with it, think over it, play the devil’s advocate

Good posture

Strong set of principles and self control. There’s no shame in wanting to say, help someone, choose not to drink socially, buy a coffee for a poor person on the street; they don’t hesitate to do good deeds 

Hygienic. Clean, groomed, well dressed, well maintained. 

Observant and proactive at the same time. Can pick up on body language relatively easily - can sense discomfort or unease in someone and do something about it. 

Have a strong sense of self identity. Can be opinionated but open to challenges. 

[classycookiexo]

[life-spire]

[paperplanes134]

You're already blessed in so many ways

Focus on that ⋆ 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

[feminineenergylife]

Highly Valuable Woman Affirmations

[princessdollie111]

"i'm so pretty!" YES U AREEEE. Let's normalize being confident plssssss

[thepersonalwords]

When you choose a career that is aligned with your passion, the work becomes irrelevant because anticipation and fulfillment can outweigh everything.

Susan C. Young, The Art of Being: 8 Ways to Optimize Your Presence & Essence for Positive Impact

[succulentsiren]

Get over the fear of being seen.

Stop caring about how you’re gonna be perceived. Stop doubting yourself. Stop aiming to be perfect. Stop ruminating.

Accept who you are. Hype yourself. Invest in yourself. Be audacious. Trust in the greater outcome. Allow yourself to be seen as you are.

[nourishcolourwellness]