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Hello, my name is Jaafar from North Gaza. I previously created a GoFoundMe donation campaign, and when I got $2,400, they deleted the campaign without knowing the reason. Please support me in my new campaign, Chuffed. Any amount you donate, even if it is small, will help buy flour and vegetables for my family. The price of everything we have is many times its normal price. Please help save my family from starvation! 🥹🙏

✅️Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is ( #299 )✅️

Please know that the beginning is difficult for everyone, donate even a small amount, it will definitely mean a lot to us 💔🥲

https://chuffed.org/project/helpjaafar

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vetted palestinian fundraisers 8/8

this is a call to action: if you have seen these posts of dozens of family's calling for help raising these funds before, please donate at least $5 to two of them. these families need our help and our continued support to spread their campaigns as far as we can so they can raise these funds.

Ola's Family Call for your Support Amid Crisis // @olagaza // vetted #205 // $23,400/$50,000 USD

Help Hadeel Mikki & Her Family Escape // @hadeelchilds // vetted @/90-ghost // €11,240/€35,000

Save Mohammed Salem's Family // @save-salem-family2 // vetted by @/90-ghost // €1,789/€50,000

Help Nesma Ahmed & Her Family Evacuate // @nesmamomen // vetted by @/nabulsi // $96,742/$150,000

Help Ahmed, Abedelrahman, and family Escape war // @ahmedalnabeeh11 // vetted #218 on fundraiser list // €19,245/€30,000

Please save Rajaa and her family from Gaza // @rajaagaza & @khaled-gaza // vetted by @/90-ghost // $8,570/$20,000 CAD

Help Shaima's Family Reunite in Egypt // @shymaafamily // vetted #141 // $10,008/$50,000 USD

Help Mahmoud Khalaf save his family // @supportgaza // #151 on vetted spreadsheet // €19,607/€30,000

Help Samer & Dima Save Their Son Yousef // @dima96yousef // vetted by @/90-ghost // €13,206/€25,000

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My tweets from February again alarming well, I fear

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Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost

The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.

The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.

The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.

The “get stuff done while you wait” method.

The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.

The “break the task into smaller steps” method.

The “treat yourself like a pet” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.

The “put on a persona” method.

The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.

The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.

The “wait for a trigger” method.

The “do it for your future self” method.

The “might as well” method.

The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.

The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.

The “make it easy” method.

The “junebugging” method.

The “just show up” method.

The “accept when you need help” method.

The “make it into a game” method.

The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.

The “trick yourself” method.

The “break it into even smaller steps” method.

The “let go of should” method.

The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.

The “fork theory” method.

The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.

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Sorry if u commented on one of my vent posts and I didn't respond, I got a bit overwhelmed 🫶

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I genuinely cannot believe the democratic party is acting like they actually want to win. Amazing, I am so happy for you guys.

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Cw // vent, discussion of emotional/physical/sexual abuse, mentions of body image issues and controlling food habits

This might be a bit worrying to read but I promise I'm fine lmao we are already planning to leave I just needed to put this in writing.

Three years of "you shouldn't wear that much makeup" "you will be a great housewife" "you're weird" "you're insensitive" "you're too sensitive" "you're uncaring" "you don't have empathy" "you're a liar" "you're made of stone" "you don't say hello enough" "you don't look me in the eyes enough" "you eat too much" "you eat too little" "you always agree with your father" "you shouldn't be a psychologist because you don't care about people" "you have such a tiny and pretty body, why would you want to gain weight" "you must be glad your mom died before you started university so you can focus"

And that's just me.

You called my dad manipulative and abusive when that's only ever been you. You called his girlfriend a mop, said that she should serve you, said that she should marry my dad so that if she dies of cancer he can get money. You comment on everyone's lifestyle and compare them based on how much you approve of them. You rank your grandchildren in terms of intelligence, work ethic, salary, partners, etc and you do so in front of us. The first time you met my mom you took the chair from under her so that she would fall to the floor. You've sexually harassed my dad's girlfriend, her daughter, your granddaughter, your granson's girlfriend, random waitresses, and cleaning staff and those are only the instances I have seen. You've been physically abusive at least once with my dad that I know of.

Your wife died of lung cancer and she asked explicitly that you didn't come near and denyed you hugs when she was hospitalized.

You've caused my dad so much stress that he has incredibly high blood pressure now with the worries that entails.

I'm done. I tried to love you as family but YOU have made that impossible. We may live in the same house, but you're not my grandfather anymore.

For my own wellbeing, I can't care about you.

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Charli xcx and Billie Eilish for the ‘Guess’ remix

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There's something deeply sad about losing all love and respect for a family member but there comes a point where you can't and that's okay

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Does anyone know of any good books about how to cope with abusive family members?

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GREAT NEWS i got my scholarship this year ‼️‼️‼️

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So twitter is being really fucking weird about Imane Khelif because they found out that she has elevated levels of testosterone. Anyone do this to Phelps who had the proportions and lung capacity to be a great swimmer? How about strongman Eddie Hall who has a gene that allows him to build muscle a lot more efficiently? She doesn’t even have a perfect record so it’s not like she’s been beating women left and right and setting off world records here. A white woman cried about getting hit too hard in a BOXING match and and all the transphobic racists came out to play. Hell she was born and assigned female at birth in a country that is notoriously anti-trans 😭

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Please watch the video I know it's long but u won't regret it I need people to understand why this was so important

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listen. i honestly do try my best to not be bitchy about stuff. but if you not-joking-joked that you wanted to watch a video essay from hbomb on the kendrick-drake rap beef. i think that you are obligated to watch fd signifier's 3 hour video essay. i KNOW the watch time is not the issue.

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I just finished listening to I LAY DOWN MY LIFE FOR YOU by JPEGMAFIA and it's an amazing record. I'm going to need a couple of listens to fully digest it, but exmilitary is my favorite song so far along with the Vince and Denzel features.

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So jealous of him. Nothing in between the eyes, just pure love and whimsy.

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the definition of aura