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A DECADE IN KPOP: 2010

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Wake up, Cha Hakyeon posted a choreography video

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I do have a cooking certificate, but I got it just to put it on my resume. But they say what’s important is that you make it with love, right?

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i went to kcon premiere 2022 in chicago this past weekend and omggg my melody heart! i had an aisle seat the first night and i was able to high five eunkwang, minhyuk, changsub <3, hyunsik, and peniel!!! can’t be real life honestly

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I wanna get paid for wasting my time on tumblr

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go ahead and love jazz musician, im hyunsik, pls.

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if you have never listened to U-KISS covering Shakira’s Try Everything then you are 100% missing out on talent.

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so im pretty sure almost all of you have heard the devastating news that took place a couple days ago. it definitely has affected me negatively, as in ive been finding it hard to concentrate and smile.

she was called sulli, but her name was choi jinri. i admired and loved her. in a society where so many stigmas existed, she fearlessly continued to talk openly about things.

she held on as long as she could and for that i am proud of her.

but the topic of this post isn’t about her. it’s about the importance of kindness and the importance of listening.

it’s important to know and remember that we are all human capable of getting hurt. our sensitivities are all different. the amount of hurt we can take in before breaking is all different. why do we have to break each other down? our freedom comes with responsibility. know that what we do always has consequences (negative and/or positive). each of us are going through something and it’s never okay to invalidate someone’s problem. just be kind. think before you speak. i dont know if i’m making any sense but i hoe you’re getting the gist of it.

please, take the time to listen to your friends. from my own experience, it’s quite hard to open up. so if someone chooses to open up to you, give them your full attention. let them feel heard. let them know that they’re not alone. it is so important to let people know that there’s someone in their life that cares for them. if you can’t be your friend’s confidant, help guide them into seeking professional help.

as someone with depression, it means the world when a friend hits me up to check up on me. it makes me feel like i’m not less.

i’ve probably already swerved from the topic, but imagine how much better our lives would be if everyone showed a bit of kindness to each other everyday.

i guess what i’m trying to say is, try not to be a douche, listen to people when they talk to you.

(if i said something you don’t agree with, feel free to politely leave a reply)

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support this adorable flower Hyunsik’s 1st solo album!! 🚀

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really wanna fall in love but mostly with myself

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support this adorable flower Hyunsik’s 1st solo album!! 🚀

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(191009) ELLEN DeGeneres SuperM donate $50,000 to Ellen’s charity

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