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About the finale: Every part of it

On Twitter, I posted these comics in four parts. People liked it there so may be some would like to it here too.

They all just love each other so much.

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saw this on tiktok today ♡

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bloodstained witch

i think signora could have worn anything alexander mcqueen rly well. dress and pose from mcqueen's FW 1998 'joan' show

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hello i love her.

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so quite a lot of people expressed interest in a guide to lion dance! and since the lunar new year is coming up in a couple weeks, which means everyone’s exposure to lions is probably going to increase, i figured i’d go ahead and make it! right click + open in new tab to fullview, etc etc, i hope it’s helpful, although if you only take one thing away from this powerpoint, it’s this: lions are not dragons

disclaimer: i learned fut san style at an american university, and the senior members of the troupe were almost all from hong kong and taiwan, so most of my knowledge is drawn from what they taught me. lion dance varies widely depending on the style and the country of origin, and many schools do things differently! this is just an attempt to establish a baseline and give you a really basic intro to one of my favorite art forms. :)

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I'm not going to link to the post but I saw a post about how making fun of the interests/hyperfixations of someone with ADHD is ruinous and will close them off from you forever, and like. not to be old about it but this is something we have to work on handling ourselves. RSD sucks, but it's too easy to trigger for us to just expect those around us to never trigger it.

"never criticize me and never express a negative opinion about anything I enjoy" is not a realistic expectation to have of anyone, and it's not a reasonable thing to ask of the people close to you. They need to be able to tell you when you're doing something they don't like.

like, for example, both my partners love Saw. I tried to watch Saw with them because they like it and I want to participate in things that they like, but Saw makes me very sad and uncomfortable. The partner who likes Saw the most actually told me to leave the room because they could tell it was upsetting me, and this was the right thing for them to do! It would not have been good for me to pretend to enjoy something that was distressing me in order to spare their feelings, and it would have been cruel of them to demand that of me. I tried it because I love them, but I didn't like it, and that's fine.

on the other side of the coin, I spent a lot of my childhood wanting to make music that my dad would like, because I loved and looked up to my dad and he had a lot of opinions about music. I felt embarrassed about liking music that he thought was bad, I felt ashamed of not being able to identify chords by ear the way he could, and when I made music I was sometimes paralyzed by the question of whether he would think it was good, even if I never expected to show it to him. It was great for me when I learned to disagree with him about music. Now I can hear him say "Ugh, this chord structure is so boring, it isn't going anywhere" and respond with "Well, I don't think so," or "Maybe so, but I like it," or just not respond at all and continue enjoying the song for what I appreciate about it.

You don't need other people's approval to live your life or to enjoy things. Rejection-sensitive dysphoria makes it feel that way, but you can choose how you manage that feeling and how you react to it. You may feel reflexive shame when someone disapproves of you, but you don't have to agree that that shame is warranted. It's really, really hard--I'm still working on it!--but it makes life more bearable and less anxiety-ridden, it makes it easier to just genuinely enjoy what you enjoy without worry, and it frees you from being beholden to other people's approval.

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Mae celebrating Harfest for the spooky season 🎃

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Hey, it’s Hershey. We already got our first exciting fan letter! Let’s see what it says

It’s from Forrest. Hi, Forrest! You suggested that we should delete our account on July 17th, 2021. 

Well Forrest, I have a suggestion for you. On July 17th, 2021, I suggest you start running. 

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GRRRRR WHY DO YOUR EYES SMELL SO FUCKING BAD AGHRHGAGHA WHATS WRONG WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JUST MAKE THEM SMELL BETTER WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!!!!!! STINKY EYE BARKBARKBARKBARKBARK

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birds are coming to your home. sea monkeys in your home

lmao js i was pretending last time when i asked who you were bc i know exactly who you are and you double sending me asks only you would send proves it. i have your ip address bc you keep visiting my blog and i can see it, move the fuck on, it's been four years. i want nothing to do with you anymore and you know that.

(for anyone else seeing this post, this is someone who won't stop stalking and harassing me and has been doing this for years.)

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you stole fizzy lifting drinks

um who is this?

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He... He rlly dont know the weight of his words...

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D&D spells named for the wizard who developed them nearly always take the form of <developer’s name><adjective><noun>, eg: Otto’s Irresistible Dance.

Therefore, Mike’s Hard Lemonade is a wizard spell. In this essay I will

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It’s all about cock. Every. Single. Thing.