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pain and exhaustion have this way of making it seem there is all that will ever be, but there is more to life than this, there is more to you than this. your existence matters even if pain impacts it a lot, even if exhaustion keeps you from doing all that you want. you’re not wasted because you’re suffering and you deserve help and to care for yourself so you can feel a bit better in your own body.

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you really just have to say 'it is what it is' and move on. like. completely move on. focus on what's important but also just have a nice life. play with your pet, go outside with someone somewhere, see a movie in theaters or borrow/buy a book, sit in the sunlight, get a plant, get a recipe, wear a fragrance, dance, talk to ppl, do pilates/sports/walking/swimming/biking, go somewhere new, start a casual or compelling project, compliment a stranger genuinely, call someone, drive for a while. remember that you're here. you're important because you're alive and that's enough

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i’m proud of you for facing the days you really don’t want to face

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To all the people who had a good christmas: have an even happier new year!

To all the people who didn’t have a good christmas: It’s alright to be upset. Not everyone has a perfect family, or even a good one. If you ended up crying, it’s okay. Please, know that people here care about you and it won’t always be like this. One day, you will have a christmas where you are surrounded by people who respect you and care about you, I promise. 

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also happy birthday mika !!!

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don't mind me, just processing the shock of proseka and enstars collab

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If you need a sign to take a break, rest, sleep, even though you still have a lot to do, take this as your sign. If you need a break, take it, before your body takes it for you by collapsing. If all you can do today is rest, you are allowed to do so even when other people don't want you to, no one should have to allow you to rest but yourself, so give yourself permission. You are still worthy even when you're not being useful to other people.

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GFRIEND ♡ KILLING VOICE

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Kaveh: Hangout Event ✩ The Pendulum of Weal and Woe

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when a ship involves one character being so utterly devoted to the other that its borderline religious????? when the devoted character is written to be seen as a sinner, or damned, or a non believer??? and the other character an angel or god-like???? i simply eat that shit UP how can you not??

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𝔴𝔢’𝔯𝔢 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔬𝔫𝔩𝔶 𝔱𝔴𝔬 𝔰𝔱𝔲𝔡𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔰 𝔰𝔱𝔲𝔡𝔶𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔩𝔞𝔱𝔢 𝔞𝔱 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔩𝔦𝔟𝔯𝔞𝔯𝔶. 𝔴𝔬𝔲𝔩𝔡 𝔶𝔬𝔲 𝔩𝔦𝔨𝔢 𝔱𝔬 𝔰𝔱𝔲𝔡𝔶 𝔱𝔬𝔤𝔢𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔯?

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“(…) December, the month of darkness.”

— Louise Glück, from Winter Recipes From The Collective in “Winter Recipes From The Collective: Poems”

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Shop , Patreon , Books and Cards , Mailing List

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teyvat scenery [1/??] - sea of bygone eras

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“trust your gut” is dangerous advice when anxiety causes you to perceive everything as a threat. like if i trusted my gut all the time i’d probably never do anything ever

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