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Let’s talk about Dani “Poppins” Clayton’s gorgeous hair

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You CANNOT serve from an empty vessel but go off I guess

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open and raw communication with your partner may be uncomfortable and feel so ugly and vulnerable but it solves soo many problems in the end

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Barriers To Intimacy, Olivia de Recat

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my aunt at the family dinner: so i heard you got a boyfriend?

me: uh yeah i am currently in a relationship with someone...

my mom: do we get to meet him?

me, a wlw:

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When your dad tries to guilt trip you into visiting him: “well I guess I’ll just spend the weekend all by myself...”

You say “glad to know we’re on the same page.” Slowly, he will have to adapt to just outright telling you what he thinks instead of playing mind games.

When your friend tries to hint that they’re mad at you without saying anything: “Oh, I’m fine, clearly you don’t need to worry about me,”

You say: “I’m glad you’re doing well. Call me if you want to talk, though!” Soon enough, they will accept that they can’t be passive aggressive with you.

When your boyfriend says: “All your friends are great, I really love *insert male friend* especially.”

You say: “I’m so glad you like my friends! I should invite them back soon.” He needs to understand that if he has a problem with your friends, he needs to just voice his concerns instead of being sarcastic and accusatory.

As someone who has lived through several toxic relationships and has an abusive father, I think one of the most important manipulation tools a toxic person has is excessive subtext and hidden meanings in their conversation. It hides all of the actual fighting from the eyes of onlookers while still hurting you, which is scary and makes you feel like you’re making it all up. Don’t put up with this bs. Make them stop hiding.

Make. Them. Say. What. They. Mean.

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euphoria: period. 

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“When you need to, take a break. Really. Burning out is a thing, being overworked exists, and chronic fatigue happens. You must learn to listen to your mind and body; when they tell you you’ve had enough, that’s it; you’ve had enough. Working hard is important, however be careful not to overdo it; for the good of your own mind, body, and soul.”

— Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

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I think seeing people in their 20´s and 30´s as “old” is pretty unhealthy tbh.

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i have to tell you the excitement of my swaying feelings!

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the mini skirt + over the knee socks look is the best look ever created and no one will ever change my mind

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emotional self-harm exists and is fucking horrible

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i have goals. and i have plans. but if those things don’t work out, it doesn’t mean i’m a failure. it just means i have to recalibrate and reassess. if one goal isn’t met it doesn’t invalidate all the other goals i will have in my life time. 

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Take a moment right now to appreciate how far you have already come. Of course, it has been tough. Challenging. Excruciatingly painful. But yet, look at you. You’re here. You’ve come so far.

Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

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me n my gamer gf

gf: (turns her PS4 on) me: babe… you’re so good at video games