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It's getting hard. My back hurt and my palms always have a shakiness to them. It feels like the days get longer yet the light does shine. Every breath hurts and every smile every laugh is tiering. I try to be ok cause I can't find anything to nessraly be sad about. It's like the world wants me to give up and collapse. Gives me random 6 month long periods of time where even blinking is a struggle. Every second feels like 10. I think the world just wants me to go. I've thought about it yes but never did anything. Cause I have someone in my life that ik would follow right behind me and I can't do that. They are my saving grace. But soon I fear I will bore them. No that I think they won't like me no I think I'll somehow drive them away.

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Post your flag and Pronouns.

Mines he/him, I hope you guys have a great day and do something nice for someone else today. They might need it!

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Hey, Well it's pride Month!! Let's remember what pride month is actually about tho. It's not just a "Woohoo! I wear rainbow" type thing. It represents the right that we've had to go to be equal! And we are still fighting so let's keep going and everyone have a happy Pride!

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Yah bro idk how people get one

hey do you have a tumblr

no sorry

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Holly hell ok please reblog this even if it isn't your pages type, it's very important thank you!

Please. Please please please read this and reblog!

If you support LGBTQ Rights you need to stop scrolling and read this. This is not a fucking joke.

If you cant read this, here it is: 

If you don’t remember Sophie M Herold, she is a German girl, who is extremely homophobic and transphobic. She has found out LGBTQ persons names, addresses, personal info etc. And set up her own database. Her intentions with this are harmful.

She is sending out this information, your information, your best friends information, someone you love and care about. She’s sending it to hate groups, malicious people, people with bad intentions. And if you think I’m blowing this out of proportion, people have been kicked out of homes, disowned by families and even MURDERED. Yes, murdered. Innocent people who have done nothing but love. She has had numerous blogs and each have been removed. Tumblr staff are aware of her, and as far as I’m aware she currently doesn’t have a blog, but this does not mean she isn’t still on peoples tumblrs, asking via anon where you live, what your name is. An email I received today. She’s sending out information of same sex couples with children so the children can be kidnapped. She entitled it “Time to strike back”. If that doesn’t suggest harmful intentions I don’t know what does. Please be extremely careful what you post on tumblr, on twitter, facebook, anywhere. Do NOT give out your full name or your address, or even the town in which you live. Look out for one another, and don’t answer any suspicious anons. Especially if they use your name in quotation marks. Sophie M Herold is still out there, she always will be, so please spead this message and warn people. She’s attacking in silence. We don’t need more people dying because of her actions.========This disgusting excuse of a human being of needs to stop, but the only way it can be stopped is if you spread this! Please, be aware of any suspicious people or anons asking for personal information. It can get you or your loved ones in SERIOUS DANGER. Thank you.

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Thighs and my star sign is Taurus

reblog with the best part of a mans body (tits, ass, dick, whatever) and your star sign i promise these are connected

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Omg!! Ive had my fist full gender envy. He was tall and big but like he also had mucle and he had tattoos and a niceeeee beard!! Omg I wish I could look like him. But I'm over here playing softball and having to be who I'm not, but know all I gotta do is wait till I'm out of highschool!

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Cat wife

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Finnaly came out to my school (made sure my parents wouldn't find out) and you know it kinda is weird to hear my deadname now by my other friends and family. Kinda wish I could just tell them.

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It's something that should be talked about and not shoved away.

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

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To any suicidal followers I may have: This is a sign to not kill yourself. You are loved and the world is special because you are in it. Keep holding on.

Reblog this when it’s on your dash. You will save someone’s life.

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Adorable 😊

“My spouse of ten years is trans! I feel like I'm meeting her for the first time, bc her personality was so restricted as a man”

You can find many gems over at reddit.  u/cetacean-station posted one about celebrating her spouse coming out as a transgender woman a couple of days ago. 

cetacean-station writes:

I’ve been living with this new person, formerly my husband, full-time for almost three weeks. Cuz of corona we spend our time at home, so she’s been dressing up, I’ve been doing her hair and showing her how to do all the girly things… and like, holy shit. I’m head over heels for her!! Omg

Like OK, so many things that were challenging for me when she was a man have just… disappeared for this new person. In part because of this fabulous, fancy, blooming personality that I’m meeting for the first time, but also in relation to my own gender presentation. I’m a cis-looking genderfluid AFAB person, and while I’m OK at being a girl, I’ve always been kinda masc. I give off kinda tomboyish energy, low-key dyke vibes, & i always felt i needed to hold that back, for fear of emasculating him/seeming stronger or more masc then him. Also cuz, society. But this girl yo, she’s like, the most delicate & ladylike thing… I don’t have to tone myself down around her… her girly energy totally increases my masc energy, and i feel so authentically myself. It’s nuts. I’m super gay for her honestly.

I just wanted to declare this somewhere cuz she’s not out, and she may not come out, cuz she’s afraid to affect her job. I’m in love with this woman!! Holy shit. I can’t believe she’s been there the whole time and i didn’t know!!! and I’m so excited to get to know her, the girl of my dreams, the way i got to know the man of my dreams. <3

Thank you for reading this, I hope you have a nice day <33

Edit: y'all are beautiful, thank you for the kind words & shiny awards. I feel so much love. My heart is so stinkin WARMED rn! ♥️ Think I’ll take this energy and make breakfast for the pretty lady sleeping in the other room (my, um, WIFE?! omg😍wat)

I find more and more stories about family and friends embracing the gender variance of the loved ones these days. The message is often this one: They are not losing the person they loved. They are getting more of the best parts of that person.

There is a cultural backlash against trans people these days, but keep in mind that that backlash is caused by the increasing support of transgender people. The trans-positive undercurrent is getting stronger every day.

Illustration photo: LaylaBird

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