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ethel cain pls stop i can't take it

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so 2015 core of me haha

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“women used to marry young and have a lot of children” VS “men used to marry women when they were still little girls and force them to be pregnant and give birth their whole life”.

“in the past women didn’t get education” VS “in the past, men stopped women from getting education and excluded them from all cultural spheres”.

“muslim women must wear hijab” VS “muslim men force muslim women wear hijab”.

“in this country, abortion is illegal” VS “men in this country made women getting abortion illegal”.

women’s oppression doesn’t happen by itself. women’s oppression isn’t passive. there is an oppressor class that actively chooses to oppress women, and the oppressor class is MEN.

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A (Wo)Man's World: Breaking Free From The Patriarchy

Chapter One: Redefining Feminism: A Push For True Liberation

In today’s socio-political landscape, there is an alarming trend of individuals—particularly women—who critique or outright reject feminism. This reaction is not only disheartening but also deeply troubling. The frustration intensifies when feminism is co-opted by those who use it selectively to advance their own interests, a phenomenon often referred to as liberal feminism or, more specifically, white feminism. This version of feminism is often devoid of the intersectionality essential to the movement, reducing it to a tool for personal gain rather than a force for collective liberation.

To reject feminism outright is to reject the very foundation upon which women’s rights and safety have been built. It is an acknowledgment, whether conscious or not, that one does not care about the progress that has been made or the battles that are still being fought. The rights and opportunities that women enjoy today are a direct result of decades of feminist activism. Yet, despite significant progress, the struggle is far from over. Feminism remains as vital as ever because the oppression of women persists in various forms, across all societies.

The true power of feminism lies in its intersectionality. Without this critical component, feminism is incomplete, even useless. Excluding women of colour, disabled women, women in poverty, LGBTQ+ women, women in occupied territories, women of diverse religions and cultures, and transgender women from the feminist agenda is a betrayal of the movement’s core principles. Feminism must embrace all women, in all their diversity, or it becomes nothing more than an elitist, exclusionary practice. This is why it is impossible to align with feminist ideals while holding right-wing ideologies that often contradict the very essence of equality and inclusivity.

Feminism is not merely about superficial issues such as “freeing the nipple” or having the choice to shave armpits and discuss menstruation. While these topics are valid aspects of the broader conversation, they are not the sole focus of the movement. At its heart, feminism is about dismantling the patriarchal structures that perpetuate misogyny—a deep-seated form of oppression that has been woven into the fabric of society.

Misogyny is not just sexism or the objectification of women; it is a systemic force that endangers women’s lives, subjecting them to shame, violation, and even death simply for being female. This reality is tragically exemplified in cases like the brutal death of Dr. Moumita Debnath. Her fate, as revealed in her autopsy report, is a horrifying reminder of the barbaric violence that can be inflicted upon women—a violence so extreme that it is almost unfathomable. Unfortunately, Dr. Debnath’s case is not an isolated incident. The stories of Junko Furuta, Jyoti Singh, and Anene Booysen, among others, serve as grim testaments to the global crisis of gender-based violence.

It is crucial to understand that misogyny is not limited to any particular culture, religion, or economic status. It is a universal issue that transcends these boundaries, rooted in patriarchal dominance. Attempts to justify such violence by blaming cultural or religious factors are deeply problematic and reveal ignorance and bigotry that perpetuate the cycle of abuse. The real issue is misogyny itself, a product of male dominance, which exists in every corner of the world.

The terrifying reality is that no place is truly safe for women. Whether in so-called “civilized” societies or war-torn regions, women’s lives are constantly at risk due to the pervasive influence of patriarchy. This is why feminism is indispensable—because it is not just about women’s rights; it is about human rights. Feminism aims to dismantle the patriarchal systems that oppress all marginalized groups, leading to broader social liberation.

Feminism is often misunderstood as a movement that seeks to harm men or diminish their importance. This is a gross misrepresentation. Feminism is not about hating men; it is about challenging the structures that harm everyone, including men. However, it is important to recognize that men, as the beneficiaries of patriarchy, have a responsibility to liberate themselves from its constraints. Women should not bear the burden of fighting for men’s liberation when men hold the power to dismantle the very system they created and continue to uphold.

Feminism has the potential to liberate women from the guilt, submission, and discrimination imposed by patriarchal societies. While religion and culture are not inherently oppressive, they have been manipulated by patriarchal interests to maintain control over women’s lives. Growing up in a Christian household, I grappled with the contradictions between religious teachings and the reality of gender inequality. I would always ask myself: why should I be condemned for loving someone of the same sex? Why is it that men are celebrated for their sexual experiences, while women are shamed for the same actions? These questions reflect the deep-seated misogyny that permeates religious and cultural norms, often used as tools of oppression rather than instruments of spiritual growth.

In conclusion, feminism is not just about achieving equality between men and women—it is about liberating women from centuries of oppression so that true equality can be realized. Men, though affected by patriarchy, are in a position of privilege and power, and it is their responsibility to dismantle the system they benefit from. Feminism, therefore, is not a battle against men but a fight for justice, equality, and the liberation of all people from the chains of patriarchy. Only through a truly intersectional approach can feminism fulfill its promise of a just and equitable world for everyone.

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