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I made a Discord server to hang out, hop on in

(Sorry, the link was in French)

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Hello, I'm Emilia. Help me emigrate to safer place.

I'm in a very vulnerable position.

I'm a trans woman from Indonesia looking to emigrate to Canada.

Indonesia doesn't have protection for trans people, and there was a talk last year to restrict trans people even more. My parents somewhat neglected me since I never have higher education and I've never been in job training, they never provide me with anything with the exception of shelter and food. My family don't like trans people, and I'm not sure what will happen if my parents died (the only family member that remotely care about me is my mother, it's a low bar in terms of standards).

I'm medically transitioned (DIY HRT) because of my dysphoria and my body starting to show changes, I'm afraid of people noticing that I'm trans. Indonesia is harsh.

I only ever come out to my friends and girlfriend, also isolated in my own house so I don't have targeted harassment directly. But I've been doxxed in someone's social media post.

If you're not in position to donate, please reblog my crowdfund. Otherwise, thank you for donating. I don't want to be poor in a country when I can be killed at any moment.

Donate below

[colddweller]

Hello, I'm Emilia. Help me emigrate to safer place.

I'm in a very vulnerable position.

I'm a trans woman from Indonesia looking to emigrate to Canada.

Indonesia doesn't have protection for trans people, and there was a talk last year to restrict trans people even more. My parents somewhat neglected me since I never have higher education and I've never been in job training, they never provide me with anything with the exception of shelter and food. My family don't like trans people, and I'm not sure what will happen if my parents died (the only family member that remotely care about me is my mother, it's a low bar in terms of standards).

I'm medically transitioned (DIY HRT) because of my dysphoria and my body starting to show changes, I'm afraid of people noticing that I'm trans. Indonesia is harsh.

I only ever come out to my friends and girlfriend, also isolated in my own house so I don't have targeted harassment directly. But I've been doxxed in someone's social media post.

If you're not in position to donate, please reblog my crowdfund. Otherwise, thank you for donating. I don't want to be poor in a country when I can be killed at any moment.

Donate below

[colddweller]

Hello, I'm Emilia. Help me emigrate to safer place.

I'm in a very vulnerable position.

I'm a trans woman from Indonesia looking to emigrate to Canada.

Indonesia doesn't have protection for trans people, and there was a talk last year to restrict trans people even more. My parents somewhat neglected me since I never have higher education and I've never been in job training, they never provide me with anything with the exception of shelter and food. My family don't like trans people, and I'm not sure what will happen if my parents died (the only family member that remotely care about me is my mother, it's a low bar in terms of standards).

I'm medically transitioned (DIY HRT) because of my dysphoria and my body starting to show changes, I'm afraid of people noticing that I'm trans. Indonesia is harsh.

I only ever come out to my friends and girlfriend, also isolated in my own house so I don't have targeted harassment directly. But I've been doxxed in someone's social media post.

If you're not in position to donate, please reblog my crowdfund. Otherwise, thank you for donating. I don't want to be poor in a country when I can be killed at any moment.

Donate below

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There will be a future when I become a gorgeous butch woman, I believe

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Girls, show your gorgeous armpit hairs and don't listen to people that told you to shave them

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Do you ever find yourself thinking about how adorable your girlfriend is to the point that you want to start throwing transphobes with rocks? 

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Trans women lesbian is not a group of secretly evil people, they spend time together (the nerds are playing games) and then they kiss.

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(Question for trans lesbian couples)

Which one of you is cooking a simple homemade dish, and which one of you is cooking a gourmet?

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Reblog if you or someone you know is ace… I’m trying to see something

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Anxiety is annoying because even if you know that your thoughts aren't make sense, you will experience it when something triggers you and the pain is gonna take some time.

"What is the fucking trigger this time?"

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Well, if I was on a mic and it was broadcasted to an entire nation, I would scream how much adorable my girlfriend is.

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I don't understand on why people feel the need to shit on asexual, it's 2024. "Why do you need to feel special if you don't want to have sex?" and they intentionally confuse it with being celibate.

I'm myself a demisexual and there was a time when I hold myself to use the label because someone was shitting on me, she said (I paraphrased her) "Thanks to her, she made the label useless".

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I'm curious about people perception of "binary trans woman" because like I'm myself a trans woman and I say that I want to be feminine, but my conception of femininity would be deemed too masculine by our society standards, I'm not comically hyperfeminine.

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Hating on the United States is a big lesbian energy

happy 4th of july ! :’)