#transfem

[ohfugecannada]

To my uk trans people and allies out there.

[imstillalexcomic]

I’m hoping that this is as “angry” as I’ll get with a comic, but given how the world is shaping up politically at the moment, I fear that might not be the case.

It’s been incredibly eye opening to witness the degree to which some people I know are willing to bury their heads in the sand in order to avoid the reality of the awful things that are happening around them.  Awful things that they were told were going to happen.

In America, people are being black bagged and shipped off to El Salvador without due process to be held indefinitely in prisons, with the current administration now making social media posts cruelly boasting that they’ll never return. 

Make no mistake, if people are being kidnapped by the government, given no due process, and are shipped to a foreign nation to be held in prison with no intention to give them any legal recourse, we need to call these prisons what they are:

They are death camps.

The United States of America is rounding up “undesirables” and sending them to death camps. 

There are people in this country that voted for this.  No matter how nice they otherwise seem or claim to be, these people are evil to the core. 

There are also people who didn’t vote for this, but do provide social validation and acceptance to those who did.

If you are someone who thinks you’re against fascism, but you also accept fascists in your life, you are a fascist. 

There can be no acceptance of intolerance.  In the comic, the person I’m lampooning is the “Fake Trans Ally”, but you can swap out “trans” for any other group of marginalized people.  Frankly, just call this person “The Fake Ally.”

If you’re someone reading this and feel attacked because I’m calling you a fake ally, it’s time to do some soul searching.  When the history books are written about this period of American history, are you going to be someone who was unambiguously against hatred, or were you someone that treated hate as acceptable? 

Were you someone that invited hatred into your home?

Were you someone that shared a meal with hatred?

Were you someone that allowed hatred a safe haven?

If you’re someone that does that, you yourself are hateful. 

When you accept hate, you do so at the expense of those who are the target of that hatred.

Be better, our lives depend on it.

[ashes2caches]

early gnostic theologian: material existence is a form of torture thrusted upon humanity by the treacherous demiurge.

the same theologian eleven months on estrogen: well maybe actually it not so bad.

[deadeyedfae]

I am a woman, legally or not. i am a lesbian, legally or not. I will not have my sense of self removed by some rich mold riddled children's author or the supreme court.

[shaveyoureyebrows]

A short comic on AI art 🫃🫃🫃🫃🫃🫃🫃🫃🫃🫃 If any AI bros are reading this you better watch yourselves 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈

This is probably a very predictable take but I think new-age AI (ChatGPT, Character AI, Gen AI, etc) is an absolute scourge in every possible way. As a programmer, it's impressive in terms of software but should have absolutely NEVER been released to the public for use lmao (or even released for use at all, considering the negative impact it's had on education, job losses, misinformation, the environment, etc)

[intersexgoose]

is she "masc presenting" or has she just not transitioned to your standards?

is he "fem presenting" or has he just not transitioned to your standards?

is she "masc presenting" or is she just intersex?

is he "fem presenting" or is he just intersex?

[lex-in-superposition]

“Imagine you were a girl, forced to live in a male body? And if you tried to change your body, a lot of powerful people would get really mad about it, and actively try to stop you? Wouldn’t that be fucked up? Wouldn’t that suck? Hi I’m Rod Sterling. Tonight we’ll experience the existential horror of:

- The Trans Woman”

[nekogirltwink]

*explodes from pure unadulterated yearning for cuddles*

[terraswallows]

I don’t know how anyone expects me to be “normal” again. after transitioning.

like I could ever go back to that numb, half-version of myself now that I’ve finally started to feel.

There’s a whole new language living in me. Thoughts that weren’t there before. Feelings that crept in slow and now won’t leave—soft, girlish things that’ve carved themselves into my vocabulary. A blush when a girl holds my gaze too long. The way I catch myself swaying to music that feels like home in my hips. The aching desire to just be held without needing to explain why.

And then there’s my autism—sweet, difficult, intimate autism. The way I stall right before doing something, because my brain wants a blueprint first. I don’t need a push, I need a hand. Someone to whisper, “Here’s how it's done.” and maybe smile as they guide me through it.

But most people? They get uncomfortable with those kinds of requests. They don’t like slowing down, or making space, or walking me through the step by step. They get impatient.

Except trans girls.

Trans girls get it. We’ve all stumbled through these messy, glowing awakenings together. We’ve all had to relearn how to live in our own skin. And so when I hesitate—when I stammer or freeze or overthink—another transfem will often just… know. She’ll soften her voice, offer a reassuring look, maybe graze her fingers against mine like she’s saying, “I’ve got you. Let's try this again.”

It’s tender. It’s playful, too—how we flirt with our fear, tease the tension away. How a “let me help you” can turn into “let me hold you,” and suddenly, you're melting into her arms wondering how you ever existed without this.

And if I happen to fall in love with every girl who walks me through it?

Well… I think that’s just part of the magic.

[zerosuitsammi3]

I dunno who bought me these but I just wanted to shout a thank you into the void 😘😘😘

[girlyinblush]

I love wearing matching lingerie

[ashes2caches]

y’know, after the first month or so of having a neovagina, the recipient in question still needs to dilate pretty regularly, but no longer has to use a dilator to do so. which is to say that you need to fuck that tgirl’s pussy on the daily. for her health.

[deadeyedfae]

So called "Great Britain!"

[theorchardsys]

GOD YES. One of my alters, a guy named Beep, uses exclusively beep/beeps pronouns. Weird, I know, but I don't judge. Listen. Beep gets really frustrated when beep tells people beeps pronouns and they then use they/them pronouns. It feels so damn invalidating and rude to beep. If you forget, that's one thing, but if you can remember beeps name, you can remember beeps pronouns, as they're literally beeps name. This is how it feels to Beep:

Beep: "Hi! I'm Beep. My pronouns are beep/beeps!" Person: "Oh! Okay, I'm actually not gonna use those, Beep." Beep: "Why not?" Person: "Well, you see Beep, I actually forgot them." Beep: "You remember my name, though? My pronouns are my name." Person: "I dunno what to tell you, Beep. Your pronouns are too hard to remember and you have no right to get mad at me because I'm trying." Beep: "Fuck you."

*grabs your hands and speaks to you in a tone that is so gentle* they/them pronouns stop being universal once you learn a person's pronouns. Sometimes that person's pronouns will include they/them and in that specific case you are allowed to keep using those pronouns for that person. In any case where you learn a persons pronouns and that person doesn't use they/them, you should no longer use those pronouns for that person. If you continue to use they/them pronouns knowing that person doesn't use them, you are now misgendering that person. Kindly stop doing that please. Thank you, I love you.

[ashes2caches]

tgirl who’s a little embarrassed about being naked in front of you for the very first time so she’s making a futile attempt to cover her privates with her six foot long flaming demon blade.