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I dont think most 'endo' systems are faking it. I think they don't remember their trauma, or don't acknowledge that something that happened in their childhood that is isn't absolutely horrendous might have been traumatizing.

I don't think it can. If you're plural, you have a CDD. Thats it.

It's not my place to hate on endo systems, and I think saying fuck endos all the time makes it very hard for endo systems to actually think about the fact that they aren't endogenic.

I am a diagnosed traumagenic DID system and if you are Anti-Endo I would like to have a good-faith conversation; I have two questions for you.

What part of Endo systems do you dislike and/or makes you think they're faking being plural?

And do you think plurality can be or is seperate from DID/OSDD?

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Being a system is so weird like my mummy and daddy didn't like me so now I'm sans the skeleton

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If you grew up constantly apologizing and then apologizing for apologizing and you were/are afraid (or unable) to express your emotions and feelings because it was seen as “manipulative”, or for any reason, I love you and I hope you’re having a good day

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Bro doesn’t even know I’m a we

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Shout out to all the kids who always picked shape-shifting as their hypothetical power growing up and assumed it was for gender affirmation but now realize it was also a plurality thing.

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Shout out to the systems that went through a “I’m fiction kin, oh also im gender fluid, and.. sexuality fluid? My face looks weird but I’m just gonna ignore it. I just have a bad memory, it’s nothing. Why does my name not feel right anymore? I wish I could just wear wigs everyday.” Kind of phase

And all the systems that had a “I refuse to call myself anything other than fiction kin until further notice,OR EVER” phase

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I am so sure I read the word narcissist more from people who believe in narcissistic abuse than I do when I literally write about shit as a fucking narcissist. Lmao.

Anyway. Love for my fellow narcissists. 😘 Wishing you that whatever you need most right now you receive. And may your narc supply be fueled and filled. <3 🥰

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All my love to every system this year! My heart goes out to

Osdd systems

Did systems

Systems with a high alter count

Systems with a low alter count

Systems who are diagnosed

Systems who are medically recognized

Systems who are self diagnosed after research

Systems who were programmed

Systems who are poly-fragmented

Systems who are religious

And every other system on here! You're loved supported and valid!

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[Text ID: This system/collective is looking for a partner system]

Feel free to use it with or without credit, but reblogs and likes if used are very appreciated!!

[Please read pinned post before interacting]

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“DID/disordered plurality isn’t just about having silly guys in your brain, it’s about TRAUMA AND SUFFERING”

yeah ok sure. but it can also be about the silly guys. that’s okay too

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(+pro) endos dni !!

all of the icons are gifs but unfortunately i can't show them here... :(

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i thought i’d share our SP custom categories (cause i personally am pretty proud of them :>)! the colour dividers are optional (all of this is optional but yk what i mean) but i think they make it way more fun!

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Shout out to people with Complex Dissociative Disorders (parents edition):

If your parents genuinely changed and improved overtime

If your parents were absent when you were a kid because they were sick / ill / working / otherwise indisposed

If your parents were not your abusers

If your parents would have acted differently if they knew you were being abused

If your parents didn't have the resources or knowledge to help / understand you

If your parents were loving and yet still neglectful

If your parents inadvertently invalidated / didn't believe you, but now do

If your parents weren't your primary caregivers when the abuse happend

If you weren't abused at all and your trauma was medical / environmental / etc

Had emotionally and physically present parents but you still had disorganized attachment with them as a kid because of your delusions / paranoia / etc.

If your parents regret how they treated you

If your parents loved and love you but acted the way they did because of substances / mental illness

If your parents are not completely bad people, or bad people at all

If you still get along with your parents regardless of what they did

If you ever invalidated your own traumatic childhood experiences because your parents were "too nice"

Your trauma is not less valid if you get along with your parents today. Sure, you needed disorganized attachment to your primary caregivers as a kid to develop a CDD. But that can take plenty of formes, and they don't all include your parents being monsters.

Edit: any other emotions regarding your parents are also valid and okay, and I couldn't mean that more. Childhood trauma survivors go through so many rough emotions, and self-invalidation is sadly way too common. Your feelings are a direct result of what happened and that makes them normal.

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I feel like the system community uses the phrase "all systems are different" too loosely.

Yes, every system will be a little different in ways of functioning and certain aspects of the disorder. However, DID itself exists as a recognized disorder for a reason. It has specific diagnostic criteria and traits that you need to meet in order to be a system. If every argument related to DID could be countered with "every system is different", then DID wouldn't even exist as a disorder. If you're a system who doesn't meet the diagnostic criteria for DID or OSDD/P-DID, then you're not a system and I'm sorry to be so blunt. If every system is different in the context of the way the disorder works, then the disorder doesn't even exist. It's just being normal.

Instead of using "every system is different" as a counter argument, take in the info you're given and do research. It's okay to be wrong about what you think you have. Self diagnosis will never be 100% right. Disorders are disorders for a reason though. Every system may be different in some ways, but DID will always have to follow a set of "rules" (the criteria) no matter what you claim.

*This is not said out of hate. Simply observation*

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