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Queerplatonic imagine

Please take time to imagine the way your QP f/os eyes light up whenever they see you. It's always the same, every time, doesn't matter how often you've seen each other in a day, stars burst into life inside their eyes at the mere sight of you.

Please think of that moment when you two finally sat down and told each other how you felt; what you have together is complex and hard to define but that's okay because now you know it's reciprocal, this tender, all encompassing feeling.

Consider other people trying and failing to label you and your QP f/o's relationship; people will think what they believe but at the end of the day, the only ones who needs to know how you and your QP f/o's relationship works is you and your QP f/o!

Maybe you live together. Maybe you don't. Maybe you're married or you don't even call yourself in a relationship with them. Maybe you both have romantic partners of your own and still have the QP bond you have.

Regardless of how your dynamic with your QP f/o works, it's so valid and lovely ♥︎

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Electronic

● $3 USD per letter

● guaranteed 4 paragraphs minimum

● can easily be a birthday/holiday gift for a beloved mutual via you giving me the username of who you want me to send a letter to + their f/o's information :)!

● will always be sent via anon (if anon is allowed) with my handle @sincerely-your-fo attached in small letters at the bottom like so: @sincerely-your-fo

Physical

● $10 USD per letter

● guaranteed 4 paragraphs minimum

●*can easily be a birthday/holiday gift for a beloved mutual via me sending the envelope containing the f/o envelope to you so you can then send it to your friend or you provide me with your friend's mailing information; whichever is more comfortable :)!

● will be sent in a second envelope to add protection to envelope containing letter

Customizable:

-wax color(s) & wax stamp

-envelope

Available upon request:

-flower petals

-perfume/cologne spritz

-star confetti

-washi tape

-miniature framed artwork

Additional notes:

-will do NSFW thirst writing for adult clients requesting a letter from a canonically adult character (ergo, a character that is NOT aged up by the client).

-will need links to webpages / docs regarding the character I am writing for.

Important Qs & As

1. How to request a letter:

Please contact via sending an Ask and I will DM you.

2. How & when to pay for a letter:

Payment is required upfront and can be paid through PayPal or Zelle.

3. Which Fandoms do you write letters for?

I do not focus on Fandom but instead on individual case by cases instances when given a character to focus on; part of the process of writing the letter is me asking questions and getting webpages to refer to the character's personality.

4. Do you write for OCs?

Yes I absolutely do! Please be ready to answer lots of questions/have a doc on hand to describe your OC so I may be a good scribe for them :)

5. Do you have any references of already written works to browse?

Indeed I do! Please turn to this post to be able to view what I have done so far ♡

Please tell your friends / tell your mutuals ♡

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💫 fat selfshippers i love you. fat self inserts i love you. fat ocs i love you. your f/o loves you too. they think you're perfect the way you are. they think you're the prettiest, cutest, hottest, handsomest, sexiest, most beautiful person in the world, both inside and out. they wouldn't change anything about you, either physical or psychological.

prøship, cømship, fatphøbes dni. safe for minors to like and reblog.

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very special shoutout to self shippers who are not only fat but also bipoc. sometimes we get overshadowed by general fat positivity because of the sheer amount of white self shippers, but meanwhile we experience an extra layer of hardships in our lives when being plus sized - both brought down for it or even fetishized for it. occasionally, those positivity posts fall short for us. but fat bipoc self shippers are incredible. not only are you beautiful and perfect the way you are, but you are resilient, and your f/os see this too. fat bipoc come in so many shapes and curves, with bodies as unique as their backgrounds. your f/os, whether bipoc themselves or white, love you for you, and they would never see your body as flawed in any way. at the same time, they love your body because it is the warm home your heart lives in, and not only because it is a fat body. you are treasured, you are adored, you are worshipped. as you should be. fat bipoc, i love you, and your f/os love you more than anything.

pr*ship/neutral dni. white people can reblog silently

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Brown-skinned selfship positivity

Applicable for f/os of all types (QP, Platonic, Romantic, Familial)!

Brown skinned selfshippers of any ethnic background and any shade/hue, please think of your f/os (of any type) marveling your ability to handle the sun better than they can if applicable- maybe they like to call you sweet things like "sunbeam" or "sunflower" :>!

Also think of them being mindful to help protect your skin by helping you apply sunblock bc melanin ≠ complete protection from the sun lol

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parental f/o Imagines but for like. found family trope . because there’s not enough of those ??

☆ someone assuming they’re your mom/dad and them not correcting it

☆ you making them something for mother/father’s day and it making them so happy

☆ if they have any bio kids, the kids calling you their older sibling without thinking twice

☆ another character saying ‘you’re just like your father/mother’ after you do something

☆ them teaching you about their hobbies/job/ect and being so happy you’re interested and want to learn

☆ them saying they’re proud of you *insert crying cat emoji here*

☆ them being protective and making sure your romantic f/o/f/os is treating you right

☆ if you’re having a hard/low spoons day them looking after you and making sure you’re taken care of

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Renaissance Festival Imagine

Applicable for Platonic, QP, Familial, and Romantic types of f/o and this imagine in particular will offer a bit for all types.

*For those who don't know what a Renaissance Festival is, it's a multi week festival with tons of homemade wares displayed, food, and entertainment for all ages. There are "spirit weeks" where people dress up, the weeks the festival takes place are broken up into themes covering European medieval times, 1700s Pirates, Steampunk, Vikings, the Celtic, as well as a general wizard/elf/dwarf fantasy theme.)

Imagine going with your f/o(s) to the local Renaissance Festival!

∆ For those with A Parental F/o(s) in mind

imagine them excitedly helping you put together a costume to attend the festival! They work so hard to help you find the different pieces of clothing that you need to capture the image of the outfit you had in mind and when you're all dressed up, of COURSE they want to take tons of photos of you and them all dressed up, showering you with praise over how lovely you look and how excited they are to go to the event with you!

∆ For those with with A Platonic F/o(s) in mind

imagine your friend and you walking around pointing out other people's outfits excitedly, taking mental notes together about how creative they were. Imagine helping your platonic f/o justify buying something because they really want it but just need the reassurance to get it and vice versa; them helping you buy something by telling you that you deserve that thing you're after!

∆ Regarding those with Sibling f/os

Imagine stopping at the stalls and seeing funky, weird, cute but strange wares and pointing at the different ones saying "that's you" to make them laugh!

Maybe you dress up in similar outfits or if you dress in completely different ones, think about your sibling(s) f/o(s) working with you to try and come up with a story about how you two are definitely still related despite one of you being a pirate and the other an elf!

For those with QP or Romantic f/os in mind

Imagine your f/o scouring each and every stall that sells homemade jewelery, trying to find the perfect ring or necklace to gift to you to express their special feelings for you and how excited they get when they finally find the right design that reflects you somehow, someway!

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the amount of detail you put into your imagines is incredible omg… @batty-axe

Howdy Batty!! You're very kind, thank you so much for taking the time to say that!! I hope this finds you in good spirits and good health ♡!!

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In response to this Mother F/O & (gender nonspecific) child selfshipper imagines post I made

Howdy @that2000sgirl !!! I can't tell you how grateful and zazzed I am to hear that you enjoyed it and I hope it fills you with lots of lovely daydream/writing/drawing material regarding you and your Mother f/o(s)!!! Please know it was my pleasure and I'm so grateful you reached out and requested it ♡!!!!

Also please know that if you ever would like to request a specific imagines scenario that I'd love to try my best to do what I can for you!

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@that2000sgirl howdy! Thank you so much for being patient with me- I've made the Mother F/O & (gender nonspecific) child selfshipper Imagines post you asked for, the link to which can be found here :D!

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Mother F/O & (gender nonspecific) child selfshipper imagines

Please take your pick from the following imagines ♡

PLEASE NOTE: you'll see several similarities in this post relating to the imagines I made for the Father f/o & (gender nonspecific) child selfshipper imagines post I made since many of what was said there still rings true regarding your Mother f/o but don't worry, there are some distinct differences I made & added ♡!!!!!!!!

If she adopted you, imagine her face lighting up like New Years Eve fireworks the very first time you call her "Ma"/"Mum" etc. She is just so thrilled, so honored to have earned that title from you; maybe she even tears up a bit in front of you or perhaps later when she's alone, overwhelmed with the sense of honor, gratitude, pride, you've given her.

If you only ever call her by her first name, for whatever reason, just know she's still so proud to have such a close bond with you and no, she doesn't mind that you don't call her "Mom" or anything like that! Your comfort matters most!

Think of the way her eyes crinkle, how she smiles, the pride and warmth in her voice whenever she introduces you as her kid. She can't get enough of it, can't get enough of calling you hers- she loves you so much! If she has a phone, you just KNOW you're her wallpaper and if she's just got her wallet in her purse, know your picture is in there ;w; ♡!

Think of your mother f/o telling you she's so, so proud of you after you tell her about how you've overcome a recent struggle in your life; think of her urgently reminding you that she's always there for you if you ever need her. She wants to fix everything for you, and while she knows she can't, that doesn't mean she won't try her hardest to help you when you ask her for it!

If you're currently going through something hard, please think of telling your mother f/o; just clarify what you need from her and she's happy to do it- listen, comfort, offer advice- she's just eager to do what she can for you to make you feel seen and heard, to validate your struggles and to help you overcome them however she can ;--; ♡

If you're a person who menstruates, please know she 100% has got you covered regarding products, medication, treats--- whatever you need to feel as comfortable as you can during this time!! She knows what you're going through and she knows it's rough!!! If she could take away the pain she would but she can't so she's happy to just get you what you need and hold you on the sofa if you want and tell you it's okay to cry it out if that'll make you feel better; she isn't going to judge you, she just wants her kiddo to feel better soon ;w;!!

If you're queer, think of your mother f/o wholeheartedly accepting you as you are, just happy and honored and grateful you trust her enough to come out to her- if you change your pronouns she of course will do her best to use these new ones- it doesn't matter what you identify as now, what matters is that you're still and always will be her kiddo ;w;!!

If you live with your mother f/o, think of all the little moments like...

-her eyes lighting up whenever you come home; she's always so relieved and happy to see you home safe!!!

-imagine her taking care of you while you're under the weather and vice versa ;--;!

-her gently waking you up in the mornings. Maybe she sits beside you and pets your hair as she softly calls out to you and, with a big smile on her face as you wake up, she reaches out and pushes your fringe off your forehead, telling you something like, "morning sleepy head, breakfast is ready." Alternatively: think of waking her up in the morning! Maybe you do the same to her or maybe you lay down beside her and pat her arm; think of her wanting to snuggle with you for five more minutes before you two finally get up for the day ;w; ♡

-think of stealing her favorite cardigan/ hoodie/jacket/jumper when she isn't using it so you can smell her perfume and feel comforted by it when she's not around; imagine her laughter over finding you wearing it, letting you keep it until she inevitably reclaims it :>

-consider helping her fix things up around the house! Even if it's just you bringing her water to stay hydrated, it's still helping and she appreciates you looking after her! If you're capable of fixing things yourself for her, just know she's so grateful to you and your help ;--;!

-catching her asleep on the sofa and putting a blanket over her- only for her to wake up later with her heart warm and full of love and appreciation for you ♡

-overhearing her singing your praises on the phone / while she has friends over- it's hard for her not to bring you up in conversation because you're her whole world and she is always proud and excited to share nice things you've said or done recently!

-if you're into photography, think of getting candid shots of her reading, resting, cooking in the kitchen, etc. and showing her your photography- she's always surprised and pleased you took time to capture a moment of her, touched you found her worthy of making your subject--- if she's into photography, think of her paying the favor back to you, telling you how lovely you look in the picture she shows you!

-imagine surprising her with her favorite coffee/tea in the morning made exactly as she likes it; think of her loving smile and sweet, warm voice as she says "thank you" ♡

-think of brushing/styling her hair for her; she's so touched with how careful you always are when you brush her hair ;--;! If you have hair long enough to be brushed/styled, think of her brushing your hair for you too!! Just as carefully, her voice soft as she praises your hair color and texture, stealing smiles at you in the reflection of the mirror, just so happy to do this simple thing with you ♡

-your mother f/o taking time out of the day to give you affection.

If you enjoy physical affection most, please think of her giving/ asking you for lots of warm hugs, gently patting/rubbing your back, ruffling your hair, playfully poking and teasing/tickling you when you least expect it (if you're okay with that ofc!), giving you kisses on the cheek, the top of your head, your forehead, snuggling with you on the sofa, holding your hand / interlocking arms in public depending on what you'd prefer, etc ♡

If you enjoy verbal affection most, think of her often telling you "I love you", calling you sweet endearments (I'd try to list some but everyone's different, I know each of you have your own preferences lol), telling you she's grateful for you when you do things for her without her asking, her praising you for the effort you put into dressing up any given day, telling you she enjoys getting to spend time with you, etc ♡

If you enjoy both in equal or varying measures then, well, you've a lot to think about :D!

Take a moment to ponder over her hobbies and then consider participating in some of those with her... below are some examples :>

Is your mother f/o into theatre arts / cinema / is she an artist? I just know she'd love to take you to the opera or theatre to enjoy a play / musical / movie with you, especially so y'all can discuss yalls feelings and insights on the themes / messages / physical effects / etc. of the show! She values your opinions and always wants you to feel safe sharing them! As for art, I just know you'd be her wonderful muse and she'd love to teach you how to paint/draw if that is something you wanted!

Perhaps she's into crocheting/sewing/mending etc! It's a vital art form to create new beloved clothing and to upkeep old, precious ones- if you're not into it, please think of sitting close by and chatting or listening to music with her while she works- just know that if you have a book with you, she'd enjoy hearing you read aloud to her! If you are into it or want to learn, she'd be so thrilled to split up projects with you or to teach you what she knows!

Is your mother f/o a collector? If so, think of having lots of fun on the weekends going to thrift shops, antique stores, and garage sales together to search for what she collects! She always appreciates how keen an eye you have for helping her spot what she's looking for and she loves surprising you with little gifts from y'all's searches whenever you take interest in something ♡

Is your mother f/o a gardener? If she is, do you ever help her in the garden with the weeding, sowing, watering, and layout planning? What do you plant together? If gardening isn't your thing, don't worry! You can always just bring her something cold to drink on hot days- that never fails to put a smile on her face!

Is your mother f/o an avid reader? If she is, please think of her wanting to read aloud to you, to tell you the stories she's reading about--- or!! Her wanting you to read aloud to her! Or!! Maybe you two have a book club together!!! How lovely would that be?!??

Does your mother f/o love sports or play any sports? Think of getting cozy on the sofa with tons of snacks on Sunday afternoons or Friday nights to watch the game on TV :D! Is she the type to "talk" to the players? Get really into the game? Or does she sit there quietly and excitedly point out the technicalities of what's going on? If you're on opposite teams, imagine her playfully making bets with you on who will win! If she plays on a team, think of how pumped she gets to win knowing you're at the game rooting for her!!

If you have a shared hobby/interest, by golly, think of your mother f/o excitedly sharing this with you!! She loves sharing this with you, loves growing with you in experience & mastery of this hobby / diving deep into this topic with you!

Think of your mother f/o encouraging you to chase after your goals / interests / dreams! She's happy to sit down with you and plan with you about how you can achieve those; your happiness is her happiness! If you ever change your mind about pursuing something, know she'll understand and that she only cares about you not giving up on something that truly is attainable ;w;

If you're ever scared or anxious about something, just know your mother f/o is ready to hold you and protect you the best she can; a mother's love will conquer anything that threatens her kiddo! She'll always be there to encourage you to try your best to be brave and remind you it's okay to be scared, it's okay to be anxious- just do your best to make it through okay and things will be better- she knows it will because she believes in you ♡

If you have a romantic f/o, just know your mother f/o will do her best to try and get along with them for your sake if she doesn't automatically 'click' with them! The fact that they make you happy is enough for her to like them enough! Alternatively, if your mother f/o and your romantic f/o get along well, think of your mother f/o flustering you on purpose by calling your romantic partner her future kid ;3c

If you have sibling f/os that share your mother f/o, think of her being careful to make time just to spend it with you and you alone so you don't feel ignored or overlooked!!!! She may love you all equally but that doesn't mean she won't do her best to make sure you feel special in her eyes!

Have you thought about going out on the town / leaving the house with your mother f/o yet? If not! Now you should :D! Let me help...

Think about going to the local diner with your mother f/o! Maybe she helps you get dressed up to look your best with her, maybe you both go in your PJs! If you don't mind it, she's always happy to order for you! Maybe she likes to hold your hand or point out the scenery to you to enjoy it together- maybe some people watching! Even if you're grown and have a job of your own, she still insists on paying but gets really soft when you sometimes sneakily beat her to it ♡

Please imagine going grocery shopping with your mother f/o! Maybe you divide the list and conquer, maybe you stick together and tackle one item at a time. Is she the type to sing along to the overhead songs playing? Is she the type to do a little fun ditty of a dance in the aisle???????? do you join her if so 👀???? Or do you get embarrassed and pretend you don't know her :3c? She'll stop after a while don't worry! She just wants to make you smile ♡

Perhaps you go on a little road trip! If so, think of her driving (or letting you drive if you're legal) with a smile on her face as you sing out-loud to the songs on the radio. Maybe y'all have a special playlist of y'all's favorite songs on it!

Planned Mother & kiddo outings!! Maybe it's the museum, maybe dinner, maybe the cinema-- wherever it is, just know she won't let her own worklife make her reschedule this outing with you! She always looks forward to these planned adventures with you and will always, always keep you safe ♡

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Hey there!! I saw your post with a bunch of imagines about a father F/O :)

I was wondering if you could do the same kind of thing, but with a mother F/O? I'd appreciate that so much, thank you! ^^

Howdy!! Yes absolutely, I can and will do that :D!!! It might take me some time (~3 days) but when I make it, I'll tag you in the post if that's alright with you? Just let me know but yes, I'll make one :>! I'm so glad you stopped by to request it!

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Father F/O & (gender nonspecific) child selfshipper imagines

Please take your pick from the following imagines ♡

If he adopted you, imagine his face lighting up like New Years Eve fireworks the very first time you call him "Dad"/"Pops" etc. He is just so thrilled, so honored to have earned that title from you; maybe he even tears up a bit in front of you or perhaps later when he's alone, overwhelmed with the sense of honor, gratitude, pride, you've given him.

If you only ever call him by his first name, for whatever reason, just know he's still so proud to have such a close bond with you and no, he doesn't mind that you don't call him "Dad" or anything like that! Your comfort matters most!

Think of the way his eyes crinkle, how he smiles, the pride and warmth in his voice whenever he introduces you as his kid. He can't get enough of it, can't get enough of calling you his- he loves you so much! If he has a phone, you just KNOW you're his wallpaper and if he's just got his wallet, know your picture is in there ;w; ♡

Think of your father f/o telling you he's so, so proud of you after you tell him about how you've overcome a recent struggle in your life; think of him urgently reminding you that he's always there for you if you ever need him. He wants to fix everything for you, and while he knows he can't, that doesn't mean he won't try his hardest to help you when you ask him for it!

If you're currently going through something hard, please think of telling your father f/o; just clarify what you need from him and he's happy to do it- listen, comfort, offer advice- he's just eager to do what he can for you to make you feel seen and heard, to validate your struggles and to help you overcome them however he can ;--; ♡

Consider how his voice changes when he talks about you / talks directly to you vs when he talks to other people; how his voice softens / quietens because of you ;w; ♡

If you're a person who menstruates, please know he is 100% that Dad that will happily go out and get whatever products, medication, treats you need to feel as comfortable as you can during this time!! He isn't embarrassed to be seen with anything that will ensure you'll have a better time handling this huge inconvenience/burden on your body!!! If he could take away the pain he would but he can't so hes happy to just get you what you need and hold you on the sofa if you want and tell you it's okay to cry it out if that'll make you feel better; he isn't going to judge you, he just wants his kiddo to feel better soon ;w;!!

If you're queer, think of your father f/o wholeheartedly accepting you as you are, just happy and honored and grateful you trust him enough to come out to him- if you change your pronouns he of course will do his best to use these new ones- it doesn't matter what you identify as now, what matters is that you're still and always will be his kiddo ;w;!!

If you live with your father f/o, think of all the little moments like...

-catching him asleep on the sofa and putting a blanket over him- only for him to wake up later with his heart warm and full of love and appreciation for you ♡

-watching him shave in the bathroom mirror (and maybe helping him do so or!!! Learning how to shave from him if that applies to you!)

-think of stealing his favorite hoodie/jacket/jumper when he isn't using it so you can smell his cologne and feel comforted by it when he's not around; imagine his laughter over finding you wearing it, letting you keep it until he inevitably reclaims it :>

-imagine him taking care of you while you're under the weather and vice versa ;--;!

-consider helping him fix things up around the house! Even if it's just you bringing him water to stay hydrated, it's still helping and he appreciates you looking after him!

-him gently waking you up in the mornings. Maybe he sits beside you and pets your hair as he softly calls out to you and, with a big smile on his face as you wake up, he reaches out and ruffles your hair, telling you something like, "morning sleepy head, breakfast is ready." Alternatively: think of waking him up in the morning! Maybe you do the same to him or maybe you lay down beside him and pat his arm; think of him wanting to snuggle with you for five more minutes before you two finally get up for the day ;w; ♡

-his eyes lighting up whenever you come home; he's always so relieved and happy to see you home safe!!!

-if you're into photography, think of getting candid shots of him reading, resting, cooking in the kitchen, etc. and showing him your photography- he's always surprised and pleased you took time to capture a moment of him, touched you found him worthy of making your subject--- if he's into photography, think of him paying the favor back to you, telling you how lovely you look in the picture he shows you!

-your father f/o taking time out of the day to give you affection.

If you enjoy physical affection most, please think of him giving/ asking you for lots of warm hugs, gently patting/rubbing your back, ruffling your hair, playfully poking and teasing/tickling you when you least expect it (if you're okay with that ofc!), giving you kisses on the cheek, the top of your head, your forehead, snuggling with you on the sofa, holding your hand (or you hold his pinky ;w;) / interlocking arms in public depending on what you'd prefer, etc ♡

If you enjoy verbal affection most, think of him often telling you "I love you", calling you sweet endearments (I'd try to list some but everyone's different, I know each of you have your own preferences lol), telling you he's grateful for you when you do things for him without him asking, him praising you for the effort you put into dressing up any given day, telling you he enjoys getting to spend time with you, etc ♡

If you enjoy both in equal or varying measures then, well, you've a lot to think about :D!

Take a moment to ponder over his hobbies and then consider participating in some of those with him... below are some examples :>

If he's a music listener, think of listening together, maybe singing together along to the songs, not a care in the world! If he plays an instrument, I just know you're his favorite audience! If you also play an instrument, guess what? He'd love to play with you!

Does he play chess or cards? Imagine playing cards with him or better yet, him teaching you how to play! He's proud of you for holding your own against him in a game and yes! Always proud of you for winning when you do!

Is your father a motor head? Think of him teaching you how to fix his car, telling you someday when you're old enough (or lol when he's old enough) it'll be yours so you have to learn how to take care of it. Think of him helping you fix up your first car or bike with you.

Perhaps he's a fisherman! If he is, take time to think of going fishing together. If you don't like to fish, you can still take a book with you to read aloud to your father f/o while he's got his line in the water- I know he'd appreciate you doing that ♡

Maybe he's a cook- if so, I just know he'd enjoy having you in the kitchen assisting him if you'd like or just hanging out to chat while he cooks- he loves your company regardless of whether or not your contributing to what he's doing.

Is your father f/o into theatre arts / cinema / is he an artist? I just know he'd love to take you to the opera or theatre to enjoy a play / musical / movie with you, especially so y'all can discuss yalls feelings and insights on the themes / messages / physical effects / etc. of the show! He values your opinions and always wants you to feel safe sharing them! As for art, I just know you'd be his wonderful muse and he'd love to teach you how to paint/draw if that is something you wanted!

If you have a shared hobby/interest, by golly, think of him excitedly sharing this with you!! He loves sharing this with you, loves growing with you in experience & mastery of this hobby / diving deep into this topic with you!

Think of him encouraging you to chase after your goals / interests / dreams! He's happy to sit down with you and plan with you about how you can achieve those; your happiness is his happiness! If you ever change your mind about pursuing something, know he'll understand and that he only cares about you not giving up on something that truly is attainable ;w;

Think of your father f/o cracking those infamous "dad jokes" on you! Even if you don't like them, just know that he apprecites you pretending to think they're funny on his behalf :>!

If you're ever scared or anxious about something, just know your father is ready to hold you and protect you the best he can; he'll always be there to encourage you to try your best to be brave and remind you it's okay to be scared, it's okay to be anxious- just do your best to make it through okay and things will be better- he knows it will because he believes in you ♡

If you have a romantic f/o, just know your father f/o will do his best to try and get along with them for your sake if he doesn't automatically 'click' with them! The fact that they make you happy is enough for him to like them enough! Alternatively, if your father f/o and your romantic f/o get along well, think of your father f/o flustering you on purpose by calling your romantic partner his future kid ;3c

If you have sibling f/os that share your father f/o, think of him being careful to make time just to spend it with you and you alone so you don't feel ignored or overlooked!!!! He may love you all equally but that doesn't mean he won't do his best to make sure you feel special in his eyes!

Have you thought about going out on the town / leaving the house with your father f/o yet? If not! Now you should :D! Let me help...

Think about going to the local diner with your father f/o! If you dont mind it, he's always happy to order for you! Maybe he wads up the paper coverings for the straws to playfully flick it at you or to engage you in a game of tabletop soccer! Even if you're grown and have a job of your own, he still insists on paying but gets really soft when you sometimes sneakily beat him to it ♡

Please imagine going grocery shopping with your father f/o! Maybe you divide the list and conquer, maybe you stick together and tackle one item at a time. Is he the type to sing along to the overhead songs playing? Is he the type to do a little fun ditty of a dance in the aisle???????? do you join him if so 👀???? Or do you get embarrassed and pretend you don't know him :3c? He'll stop after a while don't worry! He just wants to make you smile ♡

Perhaps you go on a little road trip! If so, think of him driving (or letting you drive if you're legal) with a smile on his face as you sing out-loud to the songs on the radio. Maybe y'all have a special playlist of y'all's favorite songs on it!

Planned Father & kiddo outings!! Maybe it's the museum, maybe dinner, maybe the cinema-- wherever it is, just know he won't let his own worklife make him reschedule this outing with you! He always looks forward to these planned adventures with you and will always, always keep you safe ♡

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Painting imagine 🎨🖌

Applicable for f/os of all types (QP, Platonic, Romantic, Familial)!

Howdy! Please imagine your f/o painting with you.

Whether it's a canvas or a rock or some other surface, think of them sitting beside you in comfy, loose fitting clothes they don't mind getting paint on. If they have long hair, think of them politely asking you to help put it up in a braid, bun, or ponytail for them and know that if you have long hair, they of course will happily do the same for you!

Think of them sometimes asking for your advice on what color they should use next, or if you think what they've painted so far looks okay; they appreciate how supportive and kind you are about your feedback and take your words to heart. Whenever you ask them for their opinions and advice, they take it very seriously and always make sure to keep your feelings in mind!

If your f/o is actually a painter / skilled in painting, think of them happily offering advice and assistance whenever you ask for it- don't worry, they won't judge your work! They just admire your desire to get creative with them and appreciate this time with you! They are so proud of you for not letting your self-doubt or the belief that you have to be "good" at something get in the way of just enjoying a fun activity!!

If your f/o is mischievous, think of them sometimes reaching over to swipe some paint on your shirt (one you don't mind getting paint on, remember!) or perhaps even your cheek if they're extra mischievous! Maybe... you two end up in a paint splatter fight :3c!!

Once your canvases are dry and you have signed your works, maybe you gift each the painting you had individually worked on? Or! Maybe you simply keep your own and put it somewhere in your house where you can admire it and remember making it alongside your f/o!

OR!!!! Maybe you and your f/o live together and so!! You can have your canvases (or rocks!) together somewhere in y'all's house, side by side, so you can always remember the occasion together ♡

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I once made an adult only f/o imagines post and after rereading it and reaping the serotonin, I decided to make a part two ♡

Adult selfshippers, please, please do yourself a favor and think about the following:

Your f/o helping you compile a list so you two can going grocery shopping with you; if you try to say you don't need xyz added to the list (even though it brings you a modicum of joy between the monotonous grind of work) your f/o won't hesitate to add it to the list themself, especially if it's well within your budget bc they want you to treat yourself!!

Regardless of your gender, as an adult you know (and prob have experienced) other people asking if you're going to have kids someday. If that just ain't for you, please think of your f/o (regardless of your relationship with them!!) standing up for you and telling those people it is none of their business.

Think of your f/o helping you calculate your PTO and with finding the best deals on flights / cruises / getaways to different places just take time and relax as you deserve! Bonus: think of taking them with you!!

Please think of your f/o helping you find time to exercise and stretch once you're home from work; they're happy to match your pace, help you however way they can, and of course run the bath for you afterwards so you can soak!

Please think of your f/o working around your schedule to come with you to your doctor / dentist / therapy appointments whenever they can, even insisting on driving you there and back to make the experience less stressful for you!

Your f/o calling you on their way home from work to ask if you'd like anything from one of the local restaurants as a to-go order

Your f/o actively encouraging you to use them as an excuse to beg off from going to certain social functions i.e. letting them "be the bad guy" so you two can instead stay home and rest

Your f/o surprising you with dinner ready and waiting by the time you get home from work, or, if you're the one who usually gets home first, your f/o tells you to just get everything ready to cook and when they get home they'll make dinner so you have more time to relax (imagine their sweet surprise when you return the favor :>!)

Please think of your f/o calling you on their way home from work, the relief in their voice when you pick up the phone and greet them, just chatting with them about their day and yours and, if you live together, think about them telling you they're looking forward to seeing you soon ♡

I've mentioned work a lot in this post and the last but really, for those of you adult selfshippers who are currently unemployed / in-between jobs, please think about your f/o proactively reminding you that your worth as an individual is not reliant on your employment status. They understand these things take time and luck and patience- please think of your f/o doing their best to help you keep your mental health afloat until you finally get the job you're looking for ;--;!!

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Those of you with grandparent f/os, please think of rubbing lotion onto their arms and hands for them ;--;!

Think of how grateful and happy you make them with how gentle you are as you warm your hands up first and gently apply the lotion while they chat about something or another, just so content with this lovely time with you, their favorite grandkiddo ♥︎

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Queerplatonic imagine

Please take time to imagine the way your QP f/os eyes light up whenever they see you. It's always the same, every time, doesn't matter how often you've seen each other in a day, stars burst into life inside their eyes at the mere sight of you.

Please think of that moment when you two finally sat down and told each other how you felt; what you have together is complex and hard to define but that's okay because now you know it's reciprocal, this tender, all encompassing feeling.

Consider other people trying and failing to label you and your QP f/o's relationship; people will think what they believe but at the end of the day, the only ones who needs to know how you and your QP f/o's relationship works is you and your QP f/o!

Maybe you live together. Maybe you don't. Maybe you're married or you don't even call yourself in a relationship with them. Maybe you both have romantic partners of your own and still have the QP bond you have.

Regardless of how your dynamic with your QP f/o works, it's so valid and lovely ♥︎