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[dandelionfags]

Hello! I'm a cis Latino person, and you're valid! You are so, so valid! You are Mexican inside and out!

If you want a tip on how to get a nice tan without risking your skin in the sun, here's what I suggest: Jergens Gradual Sunless Tanning Lotion. It smells amazing, and I use it in the winter when I start getting pale from the lack of sunshine. Genuinely, I see results in like three days minimum. It's wild.

You definitely don't need my approval, and idk if you needed my advice, but I hope you know that you'll always have my support.

Oooooo! Money's a little tight rn but I'll add it to my list of things to try! Thank you!!

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cant understand this post? check here for a guide to using xuer pronouns

⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀transplural tips !

xu am a part of a mixed - origin system, so these are only ideas xu have based off of xuer own experience being a part in it! they may not work for you, but hopefully they'll give you your own ideas!

this is a very generalized post. if you want tips for a specific -genic transition, send xie a request!

⠀ ⠀⠀to transition :

xu always like to say start small ! you dont need to rush your transition. xu know it hurts not being able to just be what you're supposed to be, but its more likely you'll give up on transitioning if you try to rush into it !

change your language — “ i went on a walk ” should become “ we went on a walk ”. it takes a conscious effort at first, but the more you ingrain it into your speech and typing style the more natural it becomes. always think about the fact that you are plural, that you're not alone—that in your body, theres more than one conscious. like xu said, it takes effort. its okay to fail, its okay to forget. just remind yourself as often as you can!

plan it out — write stuff down! it might seem stupid, but give it a try. you don't even need to decide on basic stuff, that can come naturally. get a notebook, and write down one word on each page. an object, an animal, an aesthetic, an emotion, a fashion style, or anything else. THAT is the beginning of an idea, of a person. you can expand based on what you want or whatever feels right, depending on the -genic you're transitioning to.

find a rhythm — this is easier said than done. whether you're going for a full transition or just looking for a way to relieve your dysphoria, this is a good way to do it! you don't need to be intense about it, use the notebooks or whatever equivalent you come up with. if one of the topics you wrote down was a fashion choice, go out and buy or make clothing of that type—or research its culture, and make a collage or playlist (see the next step). Anything that'll put you into a headspace for the other person you should be!

playlists — xu think they're actually really helpful for furthering how you should be. music can help you get into certain mindsets, and may even end up acting as front triggers for your parts! make them based on the information you wrote down, and play them while this part is fronting. make a few, play whichever feels right in the moment

first-person experience — ask your system friends or people who've successfully transitioned! this is a part of any transitional journey; figuring out how to transition safely and in a way that makes you comfortable. go ask your friends for tips, or just ask them about their plural experiences.

some other things to keep in mind as you explore your plurality :

𖹭 set up pluralkit, tupperbox, simply plural, or any other bots or apps that support plural people!

𖹭 make things or buy things with your parts in mind. “ [part] would love this.. ”

𖹭 roleplay as your parts, either via apps and bots or irl!

𖹭 think like your parts. react & respond in your head, it'll eventually come naturally.

𖹭 bah blogs on tumblr can be extremely helpful when trying to help your parts form, no matter what -genic you are! give them a try! (xuer headmate owns a blog you're absolutely free to submit to, @prestigousbah)

𖹭 endogenic / willogenic spaces are great places to look for tips if you don't know any other plurals.

remember! you wont be plural right away. transitioning doesn't happen overnight. you also dont need to fit the ”plural mold.” you should focus on you and your parts comfort above fitting in.

anything else xu might recommend is -genic specific, which sadly defeats the point of something more generalized! if you're looking for other tips, submit something more specific!

[dandelionfags]

do u have any transstutter tips?

TransStutter Tips

ive known some people with stutters so i will try my best to give some good tips

- Stuttering isnt just repeating the first letter of a word multiple times, it can be entire words or sentences at times.

- Practice your stutter alone to yourself, you dont want to sound like you are trying to do it; if you just go ahead and immediatley start stuttering people may think its mocking. This is one of the best tips here, just practice stuttering to yourself to make it seem real.

- Randomly stop your sentences and restart the sentence to make it seem like you stuttered and now you are restarting.

- Stuttering should start coming naturally and subconsciously if you practice enough. Dont think about it and do it naturally

- The people i know with a stutter sometimes have harder times with short syllables and get stuck there. For example „I“ or „The“.

- Your typing should be normal, you shouldnt have a stutter online or people may get suspicious that you are faking.

- You can watch videos of people stuttering, or maybe see some clips of characters stuttering, to better understand what sort of stutter you are going for and make it so you can easily understand and be able to realistically practice your stutter.

- Stutters should be much more common when you are feeling strong emotions, like when you are really sad or very angry.

- Subliminalsss. Here are two i found: X X

I tried my best with the limited info i had </3

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-> » 📌— C-PTSD┆complex post-traumatic stress disorder (cptsd) is a stress related disorder from a result of repeated trauma in one's life. ˎˊ˗

⤷ @francicide @sickingly @creaturesthathoard @radiomogai

── .📍; self - indulgent, flag was coined by me. however, if someone already created this, consider this an alt. flag.

i did not like the other C-PTSD flags and felt they did not represent me, so i made my own as a "celebration" of now being in the process of a diagnosis.

teal & purple are both associated with PTSD awareness, and the lotus flower is a symbol of PTSD. do not come at me telling me that PTSD and CPTSD are different therefore should have different colors / symbols. they are heavily related, the only true difference being that PTSD if from a singular event & CPTSD is from multiple, complex events.

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Check my blog’s rentry (link) before interacting

Dislegious

a term for when your condition (whether it be mental or physical) gets in the way of your religious practice, leaving you feeling somewhat sacrilegious

there is no “level” or “criteria” to meet to use this, just if you feel this experience

examples, alternative flags, and more information below the cut

tagging: @radiomogai

some examples: having aspd and not always following christian values, having no spoons which makes daily worship harder

you do not need to be part of a large religion to identify as this!!!

I HATE THE FLAG! you guys are absolutely free to make your own

here’s some different flags, i’m letting you guys have them regardless even if i think they’re ugly and are too similar to existing flags ❤️

[dandelionfags]

Day 22: Question

Quoipersona(lity)

A quoiID for individuals who don't fully understand one's persona(lity, are questioning one's persona(lity), or identify as questioning. This includes individuals who do or don't want to fully understand, people whose identity is marked by self-doubt, etc. who best resonate with struggle to understand oneself that may be simplified to "questioning".

Taglist: @2timequeer, @datakeep, @escortedescape, @fagcvnt-bah, @jestingjellyjamboree, @loverboyvergil, @perma-pup, @permamanipulover, @radically-katrielle, @nullqueer, @truebluemagiicc, @vocalux, @werdothestrange

[dandelionfags]

👶Transp0rnkid / TranskidCPartist/star🧒

Gender linked to boy/masc/shota ^^^

Gender linked to girl/fem/loli ^^^

general flag ^^^

(Or Nana(Neutral version of shota/loli) for the genderless/non binary folks)

when you feel it's right for you to be a child/minor who makes p0rn/cp - forced or not

By me :33

[dandelionfags]

Trans black tips from a cis black person! (AKA me) :3

Research: doing research on black history and culture will help you Bond and understand more about us! My opinion is us black ppl have a amazing and wonderful history.

Skin: make your skin darker! You can go tanning, or maybe put on dark makeup like foundation. (If you are a chronominor i recommend you just doing makeup. If you can't don't worry about this part)

Hair (optional): you can't change your hair type (I think) but that doesn't matter. It's natural for some black ppl to have straight hair or you can wear wigs!

Media: look at black media, like songs, shows, movies, and maybe some books. I bet you to please only look at the media if it's me by a Cis-black person! I do not recommend looking at it if it's not. It'll be better to understand when it's made by cis-black people! (This is also optional)

This is all I got sadly.. but I hope this helps! :3

If you have any more questions feel free to ask!

[dandelionfags]

when I was a kid I wished I had nosebleeds. I had some friends who had them and I was like. that looks so fucking cool. you're just sitting there and suddenly you're covered in blood. it looks so dramatic. it looks so... and here my language failed me. at such a humble age I did not have the vocabulary to describe the sublime. I just sat in incomprehensible jealousy. I turned out totally normal by the way

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I hadn't actually thought about this. As much as I don't like the letter soup and not being able to tell what something means by just looking at the word, I hate long word mashups more. But I understand this viewpoint and.. do actually agree. I'll make sure to sit my coinings to make them easier to understand :)

Thank you

Watching transid coins slowly veer more into mogai territory of “shortening the words in the name to the point that no one can tell what it even means” and for the love of god please dont this is what i liked about transid coins that the names had full words in them and i could tell what they means

[dandelionfags]

Can you do trans (ethnically) jewish tips pls :3

TRANS JEWISH TIPS

1. Research about culture, and moat importantly history, unfortunately Jewish ppl have suffered throughout history so it's important that you know about that

2. Research about Jewish holidays, and celebrate them

3. If you're a man, wear Kippah (Yarmulke) small cap worn on the head, Tallit (Prayer Shawl) Worn during morning prayers (and all prayers on Yom Kippur), if you're a woman Head Coverings (Tichels, Sheitels, Hats) Married Orthodox Jewish women often cover their hair as a sign of modesty, can include scarves (tichels), wigs (sheitels), or hats.

4. There are several ethnicity groups when it comes to Jews; Ashkenazi Jews: From Central and Eastern Europe, Sephardi Jews: From Spain, Portugal, and later North Africa and the Middle East, Mizrahi Jews: From Middle Eastern countries like Iraq, Iran, and Yemen. Each group has unique traditions, food, and prayer customs.

5. A weekly day of rest — many Jews light candles, have festive meals, and refrain from work or electronics (in traditional observance)

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Calling him daddy but in an incestuous way,, this is far deeper than simply a "daddy kink." I need this man to dress me up like a little kid, play dolls with me, and treat me like a daughter. Like his daughter. I need him to give me his approval before I can do anything. I need structure,, a bedtime, rules. Need him to force me to do things and apologize in between actions,, "I'm sorry baby, daddy's needy." Obviously, I'll forgive him before he's even finished with me. .. I wanna be daddy's little girl. I wanna be good for him :3

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Drug me. Rape me. Cut me. Beat me to a pulp while I can barely hold myself together. Leave me in a ditch with nothing but hazy memories of what you did.

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It hurts. It genuinely hurts so much. To know, deep down, that I am Mexican. That I am meant to be Mexican but am not. I know who I am. I know who I'm meant to be. I.. I don't know what to do. It hurts so much

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hey. Hey. HEY.

pedophilia ≠ makes someone a predator.

pedophilia ≠ someone is condoning it.

pedophilia ≠ makes someone an automatic sex offender

pedophilia ≠ makes someone a bad person

STOP. CALLING. PEOPLE. PEDOS. AS. A. INSULT.

Say sex offender, say abuser, say predator- pedophilia is (typically) a disordered paraphilia. it DOES NOT means someone is a predator and predators don't automatically have pedophilia as well!!!

[dandelionfags]

I love my boyfriend so fucking much. Despite everything, he makes me feel normal for all my cannibalistic desires 🥺

Here's a moodboard of us 💕

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I am so tired of people who have nothing better to do with their time

BLOCK THIS ANTI RADQUEER. ON THEIR PROFILE THERE ARE DRAWINGS OF RADQUEERS BEING KILLED