#pro radqueer

[lobotomidori]

conabuser && conabused flags

// pt: conabuser and conabused flags //

NOTE: THESE TERMS DO NOT SUPPORT GENUINE/NON-CONSENSUAL ABUSE. these terms/flags are not supportive of non-consensual harm in any form. these terms are specifically for dynamics that are agreed on with informed consent.

flags i made for being in conabuse/consensually abusive relationships. left is conabuser, right is conabused

these flags are loosely inspired by what i remember the transabuser and transabused flags looking like

[longlivetheradiantqueer]

RADIANTQUEER

I am quite annoyed at what I'm seeing in the radqueer community, so consider this an official alternative Radiantqueer holds all the same values as original radqueer(acceptance of all, including transids, paras, etc.) but has the following alterations; it is strictly proship, anti-abuse, against CP/CSEM, against minor x adult(Note this specifically refers to chrono minor x chrono adult with 3+ year age gaps) and human x animal relationships, anti-zionist, and overall refuses to accept anyone that does genuine, non-consensual harm into the community. Flag is below!

[badboybandit]

me after everyone else turns into antis because they think every radqueer is pro noncon abuse now:

[radqueer-takes]

Zionists don’t belong in the radqueer community :)

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[doctordeathawaits]

Was informed by a couple of people that there are also transid accounts ! Sad part - 4 of them were copy-pasting my tips and just reposting it-- You could see our typing quirk , in many posts I ( Joey ) or Jeffrey are mentioned even though the accounts have completely different admins . Now we are not the first transid-tips account ! We had people asking if they can also do it and yes ! Yes you can ! We do not own this sort of thing ! But please don't just copy-paste our shit to your account and pass it off as your own- it looks trashy and overall not a good look , we try to do a lot of research over some topics to ensure you guys best results , so it definitely is something when seeing accounts like that just copy-paste our tips and the proceed to claim that they " looked for these tips for hours " ( quote from one of these accounts . . . )

Anyway , gonna be back doing tips more often , sorry for the slow down < 3

[rqkin-radio]

Friendly reminder, radqueers and transids are allowed in fandom spaces. <3

[rosie-rq]

Amorace / Amoracial

(Amor - race)

When your race identity is affected by those you have a strong emotional bond with, be it a romantic relationship or otherwise.

Already coined? Consider it an alt flag!

[angelivampic]

transdating? like, trans dating someone

and transmarried

୨୧ TransDating / TransMarried

a transID where one wishes to or identifies as dating / being married to someone they are currently not

[rqteaparty]

HEY RADICAL QUEERS!!

here's a friendly reminder for all of you that:

❥ you are your own being, you do not owe an explanation to anyone of your existence. if they refuse to understand you, they can kick rocks!

❥ it's okay to disagree with other radqueers, it's okay to dislike them. you don't have to get along with everyone.

❥ bullying and infighting will do nothing but make the community worse. isn't the point of being a radqueer to include and welcome everyone regardless of their identity and experience? isn't the point to judge people based on their current actions, rather than their thoughts?

❥ use. the. block. button!!! please curate your own experience! take care of yourself!

❥ the most radqueer thing you can do is love each other. the most radical form of protest is love and compassion. the greatest weapon we as a community can wield is support and community. i see you fighting. keep going, we've got you.

[lobotomidori]

there are no rules to identity. we only live once, identify however you see fit.

you're bodily white but identify as transpoc? that's amazing. i'm happy you found a label to express yourself with!

you're bodily amab but identify as a trans man? sick!! i'd love to hear more about that!

you don't tell people whether your IDs are cis or trans? good on you. i'm glad you're living your truth!

you only live once. don't let social constructs and societal norms deter you from being yourself <3

[longlivetheradiantqueer]

Just so we're clear...

Zionists are not welcome on this blog, nor are their supporters. We don't support genocide here.

[cecilnightvalepalmer]

I need you all to hear me.

Man, I truly am watching as the radqueer community eats itself, aren't I?

And it really is it's own fault above all else.

No matter how many times we've told you all to ignore this shit, no matter how many times we've told you not to feed into bullshit drama, no matter how many times we've explained what to do when shit like this occurs, no matter how many times we sit you down and teach you that giving the thing you hate attention does nothing but flourish it?

A lot of you people never listen. A lot of you relish on that drama. So I'll say this:

I remain Radqueer, being Radqueer does not equal supporting everything or every ideal in the community or by people in the community. Being Radqueer simply means sharing beliefs with some or most of the community, especially on being pro-para and pro-transid.

Soon I'll recoin Dovequeer. It was my original blankqueer term and I hold it dearly, and I'll remake it with all the original things plus more in hopes some will turn to Dovequeer when losing hope for Radqueer. It is a good alternative with its basis in anti-abuse and anti-discourse

But understand one thing and one thing clearly.

Pro-para and pro-transid, radqueer or not, need a community to provide itself stability. Our ideals only go so far as our ability to bring them. If one woman could've done stonewall, she would have, but it takes an army.

It takes an army.

Don't make me say I warned you.

[badboybandit]

gentle reminder that queerplatonic relationships can be just as, if not more important / devoted / committed than traditional romantic relationships

just thought id say this since there seems to be this unwarranted notion that its not the case??

if youre gonna talk about relationships, please dont treat qprs as lesser than or less serious

[radqueer-takes]

"this community seems cutthroat" yeah because when were not this place is fucking crawling with people who think its okay to hurt nonconsenting people and animals to relieve dysphoria 🙄

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[stolasqueer]

If you all can't figure out how to block and move on I'm gonna lose it

Any type of person you don't like will always exist even in communities you're in.

No matter how much you or I want to push people out, we can't, that's not how this works.

So for your own mental well being and also so we can get our shit together, just block people.

[doctordeathawaits]

PLEASEEEE CAN I GET SOME TRANSPRIEST TIPS?? /Nf (I think that's the right tone tag, I'm meaning to say not forced)

Thank you if you do it !! :]]

FUN FACT WE WERE SUPPOSED TO BE A PRIEST . WENT TO A SEMINARY AND SHIT AND WERE A PASTORS ASSISTANT IN 2021

TRANS - PRIESTS ...

Obviously - practice the religion , we personally studied catholic yet it's all up to you < 3

Surround yourself with said religion , add elements of it in your daily life . Wear crosses , pray in the morning and in the night , read a Bible verse everyday and let it motivate you for the day < 3

Make it a goal to read the whole Bible ! But not only to read it - dissect it , theorize every verse < 3

To become a priest , make it a habit of attending church - befriend the pastors / priests in your community , help out at the church , having a good reputation will help you in the future !

If able - enter a seminary ! Depending on the community , some need a specific GPA , some need proof of physical / mental wellness , so look into it !

In seminary , you'll spend your years studying philosophy , Latin , Greek , Gregorian chants , dogmatic and moral theology , exegesis , canon law , and church history ! You are able to study these topics in your spare time / in the comfort of you home < 3

Study psychology !!!! Many Priests need to learn psychology / end up having to learn it in order to join a Priesthood !

If you pass the seminary - you will have to serve six months as a deacon < 3

As for euphoria / appearance wise , wear black clothing with white undergarments ! Example ; simple black pants and a black sweater vest with a white shirt underneath ! < 3 inspo .. INSPO .. inspo ..

Most priest have this weird thing where they always have to nod and smile at other priests , so this interaction can help with euphoria ! < 3

If you know other transPriests - greet each other by saying '' Father , bless '' ( first to greet asks to be blessed ) , " Blessed be , Father " ( the person in response )

Reading the Bible and silently reciting Rosary on public transport !

You can order clergy collar tabs and pin them behind collard button-ups ! Although as an alternative , you can get a thick piece of white paper , cut and pin the paper behind the button-up collar !

Anytime you leave someone's house , tell them '' Blessed be '' instead of goodbye < 3

Good luck and happy transitioning , Blessed Be !!