#pro selfship

[hardmangoshipping]

💙 proship/neutral safe 💙

imagine walking in on your f/o jerking off.

you hear noise from behind a door while walking by. it sounds like your f/o might be talking aloud to themself, but its quiet enough that you arent sure what youre hearing.

youre curious. the door is open a crack... so you gently push it open, not wanting to disturb. you dont open it enough to be noticable, but enough that you can see and hear better.

your eyes widen as you realize whats happening - their hand is in their pants, little noises keep slipping out, and you hear your name being moaned out. theyre obviously trying to keep quiet, and you realize that maybe you should do something.

you debate with yourself for a split second - do you leave and not mention this, or... should you be honest and let them know youre here?

you decide to be honest.

maybe your f/o gets embarrassed upon noticing you, all flustered! trying to cover themself, nervously asking "h-how much did you hear?", blushing profusely.

or maybe, your f/o isnt really embarrassed at all. maybe, they invite you over, teasing you for watching, and flustering you instead.

both ways? you end up doing more than just watching.

💙 proship/neutral safe 💙

[selfshipkeith]

Selfshippers who spiral in any way, your f/o would help you stop falling down that deep pit, catching you and making sure you’re alright and comforting you until it’s all out of your system. They’re always there for you, they won’t stop when it gets difficult.

[Stolen from an anti]

[sweet-ladys-things]

Antis: "How is writing about murder/gore and pedophilia/incest the same!? Drawing gore is way different!!"

They're both crimes.

That's how they're the same.

They both will send you to jail irl. Both murder and pedophilia will send you to jail. That's how they're the same.

That's why writing/drawing murder and torture is in the same boat as pedophilia. They're just two different forms of horror. If drawing torture doesn't mean you want to actually torture someone then drawing incest doesn't mean you actually want to have sex with your siblings.

Because they are the same.

[dokukoi]

reblog game time!!! reblog this with a photo of your f/o(s) and ill assign them a jellycat amuseable!

example:

the amuseable clementine reminds me of ren, and the amuseable lovelocks remind me of yul!!

please do not interact if you're not proship-safe!

this rb game is now closed!! thank you so much to everyone who participated!!! 🩷

[sillyfriend-selfship]

Selfshippers!!! Your f/os would never make you feel bad for sleeping too much, too little, or at odd times. They'll help you work on it if you want help, but they'd never force you. They've got your back.

Also, between you and me, they think your sleeping face is soooo cute!! Don't tell them I told you though.

[roseselfships]

having obscure f/os is lonely but it means when you find other people who have f/os from the same source it means you can all link hands and do this

[dead-pidove-do-not-eat]

I saw a good post, but it had something at the end so I’m making my own.

You can make any character you want an F/O <3 and nobody can stop you. Got that one film that might or might not be a fever dream? Go ahead! An F/O that’s sourced from something that’s a meme or is entrenched in meme culture? Hell ya!!! Obscure shows, books, whatever media you can think of. There’s so many potential F/O’s in there :3 just waiting for ya. Mascots? Go wild. Anything that has fictional characters, is F/O material.

The point of self shipping is always to have fun, so don’t be afraid to F/O a character. Any character. Obscure, weird or otherwise. You’re valid <3

[OP is a freak, and Pro-ship]

[vampirepunks]

Seeing "proship dni" (or the variety of rude variations that folks think are cute/clever *sigh*) in controversial communities, attached to dead dove content, or on selfship posts makes my head spin every damn time

my brother in christ, who else is gonna stick up for you? the antis? lol. lmao, even.

[thepitycryingparty]

I wanna join in on the fun, so reblog this with a pic of your F/O and I'll assign them a Squishmallow!

-antis dni-

[proselfship-imagine-hub]

since there's a lot accounts that either don't have a dni, or will say something vague like, "just be nice", and i don't want to risk reblogging any selfship posts from antis/people who will be rude or violent towards me and other proshippers for interacting:

if you are not proship and make selfship posts, but are fine with proshippers interacting with you, please in some way interact with this post! like it, comment, reblog, whatever—feel free to even specify that you're not proship, just fine with us interacting if you want to make sure your followers don't get confused

but also, if you are proship and you make selfship posts, feel free to interact as well! i just want to expand the amount of people who i'm reblogging from because i feel like i'm only reblogging from the same handful of folks, and well, i want this be a blog that showcases the welcoming and kind side of the selfship community as a whole—proship or not 💛

also, for those who don't know what the proship stance is, or those who have been misinformed, here is the definition of proship and an explanation of what being proship means:

proship means you pro/for shipping, the same way someone who is pro abortion is pro/for abortion, "pro" is not short problematic like some will try to say it

this is a belief that people should not be shamed or harrassed for the ship dynamics they like or engage in with fictional characters, even if those dynamics are ones you find disgusting, squicky, or triggering. blocking, blacklisting, and or just ignoring tags and users is encouraged

it does not mean that you like every ship dynamics, or even the people who ship those dynamics, it just means you acknowledge the fact that while fiction affects reality, it does not do so on a 1 to 1 ratio

like how watching a horror movie may upset you or may make you excited, it is not going to make you a murder, or even make you want to murder people. and in the very rare case that someone does decide to commit a murder after being inspired by a horror movie, the blame still lies fully on them because they still made the choice the murder, the movie may have caused inspiration but it did not force them to act on those inspirations. giving any blame to the movie in this case is saying that people are not responsible for their actions, that emotions and feelings are understandable excuses, removes accountability from and give justification to abusers, and allows other kinds of abusers to use similar means of defense such as "well, she was wearing a short skirt and i couldn't help myself!"

and for an example specifically about not liking ships, i do not like ships featuring any child aged characters, including child x child/teen/adult, loli, shota, etcetera, but i do not harrass, shame, and or accuse these people of being pedophiles or anything. i block people who ship these ships and block any related tags to avoid seeing this kind of dynamic but that's it. i acknowledge that people who like seeing murder in media most often have no desire to see murder in real life and that this same logic applies to other crimes depicted in fiction, such as incest, domestic abuse, and yes, even pedophilia

being proship also doesn't mean shutting down discussions around media, it just means not censoring that media so that those discussions can take place. to give an example, i find racist and homophobic stories, movies, etcetera disgusting but i do not want them censored, because if we censor them we remove our means to analyze, debate, and discuss these stories/etcetera and the people who make them

take the phenomenon around the popularity of Fifty Shades of Gray where suddenly there was a lot of new easily accessible information on how those scenes were wrong, but here's how to do kink properly and safely. if we had censored Fifty Shades of Gray out of fear people would have began sexually abusing each other, we never would have gotten all the wonderful education and discussions that we did

also, proship refers solely to the belief, not the dynamics of certain ships often associated with proshipper. either you are proship, a proshipper, or you beliving in proshipping, but you cannot ship a "proship" nor is there such thing a "proship ship" since proship is a belief, not a dynamic

*note, if you wish just to reblog the definition and explanation of proship that i gave, you can find it here: [○•♡click here♡•○]

[deuces-ninth-live]

(Stole this meme from a anti)

[sweet-ladys-things]

I genuinely want to know what antis are telling their therapists for them to say that comshipping is bad. I literally told my therapist today that I ship incest and why and his response, no joke, was: "Ok."

[dokukoi]

to the anxious, insecure, or sensitive self-shippers...

no matter how big or small it was that upset you, your f/o will always be there to comfort you! if something upsets you, it's obviously not silly—especially to them! whether you want to vent, advice, or just need someone to sit with you, they've always got your back.

your f/o always wants you to know that their jokes and teasing are in good fun! they'd never want to upset you and they'll never tease you about your worries, insecurities, and anxieties.

to cheer you up, they'll suggest something they know you'll adore: whether that's cooking your favorite food, taking you to a special place, buying you a meaningful gift, or just spending quality time together, they'll have it all planned out before you can say "yes"!

you are never, ever a burden to your f/o! they love you with all their heart and always, always want to see you smile.

your smile is their entire world!! ♡

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[roseselfships]

reminder you should be kissing your f/o with as much tongue as physically possible every waking moment of your day

[delirious-donna]

The cute aggression is acting up and I just want to sink my teeth into my faves… go chomp chomp.

Where do you bite your faves?

[fenrir-wolf-of-gotham]

Selfshippers who use selfshipping to deal with loneliness. Imagine your future partner thanking your f/o for taking care of you when they couldn’t.