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DEAR ATE/KUYA

Dear Kuya Dalandan

             Hi there kuya, it`s been a while ever since we talk to each other. Right now my head and my heart are aching because of the problems that I had face in my present time.

           Lots of task and work to do in this week and I feel like I had enough of these. I felt tired, weary and sometimes when I made efforts on a certain work to do but ends with an unsatisfactory result, I just can`t believe that all of the sudden, I feel that my effort was futile.I keep on mourning on the vain result of my output an ask on myself on “Where did I go wrong”. Why people can`t appreciate my effort but only to a product that is appealing to their own eyes and heart. Can they even see my hardships that I had done on my part while I`m doing those things? You know how it feels when you worked very hard and felt tired but you only end up in a catastrophic result. It is like I worked very hard for nothing or for less effort even though it takes many hours and days to do the difficult task.

         There are times also that I feel betrayal. Even my deepest secrets will be exposed to the whole community and it is like I feel embarrassed by it. Why do secrets can`t be kept and why do I feel being betrayed? I did not do anything wrong to those persons. There are times also that my problems was about to be accepted. Suddenly I was rejected and suffered a whole lot of depression due to rejection. The reason for rejection was because of some of the mistakes that I had been committed and I always fell in the same trap all over again. It keeps repeating all the time. Did I do something that help them loss their own tolerance on me?

      As you can see, these are the problems that if faced in my everyday life and it keeps on repeating.

                                                                                           Yours truly,

                                                                                               Dan

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Dear Dan,

          I received your letter and I also feel the same way as you do because sometimes, I also experience the same way as you do. Anyways I am going to tell you some piece of advises in overcoming your problems.

          I know that you feel very tired because you done many thing but what is important is that you had done your role no matter what. Always remember that God will give you rest. Just pray to him and he will carry all your burdens, your sufferings and your hardships and turn them around. I also notice that you feel useless on your work because it is not being tolerated by other or ended up in an unsatisfying result. Also remember that God said “Your labors will not be in vain”. Even others cannot see your hardship but God sees more than just your hardships in life but the way you feel especially today. Pray to God and he will turn them into success. Only God can use our failures into a better one.

         I also noticed that you felt betrayal in your part especially by other people. Well at least you learn that they are not the one you should trust especially on those plastic people. Move on because there are some people who will never betray you but they can earn your trust in a sincere way.. That is really part of life but we should embrace it because it is only challenging us to be stronger. Also when there are times that you are being rejected by others, it is okay. Just move on. Remember, a no to someone means a yes to something or someone better. That is what life meant to be.

      I hope that after you red all my advises, you will be free from your worries and depression. Remember, God is with us in every trials in our life.

                                                                                     Yours truly,

                                                                                         Dalandan

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Leadership is one of the values that we should apply in the society and in the community but did you know what it takes to be an effective leader. Find out by watching the video. Hope you like it.

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THIS WORKS FOR ME TOO!!

This is my mind map on how or what should be developed while studying. As you can see, it shows different things to do while doing your study and most of the students did not apply these. I suggest that you should do these things in order to have an effective study and have a high mark. You know studying is hard and tiresome. Even for me, i felt the same way as you do because I am also a student who also studied very hard that I almost don`t have any sleep at night. Anyways, hope you liked it :))))).

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GENOGRAM

This is the representation of my Genogram. As you can see, my family was more like an extended family. Additional information is that most of my relatives comes from some parts in Ozamis city. But Parents and my grandmother and brother are here in Iligan city.

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MY KIND OF LOVE

I based my belief of love from the bible. Well, I based it because God`s love for us is unconditional and eternal. The famous bible verse that also defines my definition of love is

1 Corinthians 13:4-7

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

For starters, love for me is perfect because

1 Corinthians 13:8

Love never fails

So in other words, when there are break-ups in relation or any failing love, it is not love after all.

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HOW TO MANAGE YOUR EMOTIONS

1. Don`t be affected on what others told you

- Do not listen to the insults of others. Instead of listening to what they said, ignore them and stay strong. Also do not fight back or done any vengeful acts towards the person. You are just going to hurt yourself or make the issue even worse. Remember that strong people are insulted and teased but they only overcame it by just passing away on what the others had told them.

2. Be Optimistic.

- One way to control your emotions is to think positive. No matter what negative situation on your life, just always think that there is a possible solution to overcame that situation. Being positive helps you in tact. You will have a great day if you are just being positive to yourself. Also don`t be discourage. Discouragement will not help you solve the problem.

3.Learn how to move on.

- Forget the past and move on. If not, your present life and your future will just be affected badly. In every failure, there is something better and someday you will rise from you trials.

4. Find time to de-stress yourself.

- If you are not busy, de-stress yourself by bonding with friends, play game, have some fun and so on. De-stressing helps not just for you to relax a lot but also to think properly since your brain is not that tensed. From negative mood, you will have a positive one by this kind of activity.

5. Ask guidance from God.

- There is power in prayer. By praying or developing your spiritual life, you can focus on your work and you can control on what you feel on that day. Remember that you will have a clear mind if you will develop your spiritual life especially praying to God.  

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THIS WORKS FOR ME

Hey Folks! Do you feel stressed out from your work or from school? Do you feel tired from stress and stress related work. Then this video is for you. Watch the video and relieved your stress, Hope you liked it.

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My Mandala

                 The word Mandala is a Sanskrit word which really means “Cirlcle”. This is originated in India and they used this kind of circle for spiritual and religious purposes. In India, the circle or the mandala represents the universe for them. Anyways, I have my own symbolism of the circle that I had drawn from the picture. Moreover the Mandala I presents is more on my life and my self.

               Circles, in lots of perspective had many symbolism. Some say that it represents the universe, some say it symbolizes infinity or some just represent it as the world. For me, it represents myself or just simply me. Is just symbolizes my world filled with lots of things like what I had drawn inside and outside of the circle. Like a world, it does not only being represented by a circle or a sphere but more on a circle that is empty less and that is a one kind of a person.

                 Curve lines represents my problems and my misfortunes.My problems, as you know are not solved straight but rather it just brings me to perplexity and chaos not just to other things but also to myself. Like in political perspective, curve lines sometimes does not develop a person or a certain thing.

                  The triangles can be modeled as my friends, love ones, and other things that are important for me. Well as you know, they are part of my life and they played and important role in my life. The inner circle is just a mere representation of my mind and my conscience and the triangles in that circle (color orange triangles) are just the persons and things on my mind and I always think of them

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                                    MORALE BOOSTERS

  On the photos that are shown, these are the encouraging letters that my friends and my classmates that write about me. I thank them for encouraging me and making my days great.

Encouraging letter to self:

I always exist in this world for a greater reason and for a greater purpose. Through the years that passed by, I faced happy and difficult times and commonly, they are part of people`s everyday life.When there are challenges that comes to my life, I hope that I will always stay positive and endure all trials no matter what will happen. When there are people who betray and back stabbed you, I hope that you will easily get downtrodden but you easily forgive those people who had hurt you even it is hard to forgive. No matter what, you are not an accident. God Bless you always self.

                                 - Self

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                         THE PERKS OF BEING EXPECTED 

                                    Love does not hurt, Expectation do.                                                               - Pushkaraj Shirke

                   Well most of us are being expected from other people which includes not just our parent but also from our friends, classmates, teachers and other persons who are interrelated to you or persons who considered them as your love ones. Well, The person you can give as an example is me and I faced lots of pressures within those expectations. For the record, I am sick of those kinds of stuff in which people keeps on expecting from me and it is like I am that smart to handle everything. Sheesh~

                        Im not Perfect. No one is really perfect so why EXPECT in the first place. I recieved lots of expectations from my schoolmates and it`s like I am perfect to their eyes. When I missed something, they just called me “Paasa” (false hope). Why pressure me when even yourselves can`t even handle everything or maybe anything. Just because I missed something or there are some things that I failed to do, it does not make me completely :Paasa” or Colombia (in other expressions). Sometimes there are also lots of of factors which made me failed to do that meets their own expectation and that is one emotional and mental thing that drives me crazy on my mind and to my whole self.

                      Sometimes, other friends of mine expects a lot from me. They get so disappointed when I did not met their expectation even though it is common to them to learn the lesson of “not to expect”. But there are times that it is all my fault because I made a promise and I tend to break them. On the other hand, I had a good reason for breaking it :( That what some quotes said that promises are mend to be broken and I somehow apply it to a certain scenario of my whole life.

                   Note to all who expects from me: Never expects me or be disappointed. :P :(

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I HAD A BIG DREAM

I had a big dream That I can carry my bag And finish the term

I had a big dream The dream of successful life With lots of reward

I had a big dream Earning all kinds of living And surviving life

I had a big dream That I can reach my future No matter what happen

I had a big dream Someday God will raise me up And tells me “Well done”

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Hey Readers of my blogs! A warm greetings to all of you :)

                   First and Foremost, allow me to introduce`s myself. I am Daniel Lanzaderas (just call me Dan for short) I am a learner in La Salle Academy, here in Iligan City.I always love to listen music and make music out of this world. My hobbies at home are just sleeping, watching movies, surfing the internet and most especially chatting with my friends. The thing that I loved the most is going to gym and build some guts of myself.

                         Before I was very chubby like a panda but now, well, it`s gone. I onl love to eat lots of sweets and desserts on the cheat day of the week. I also love to hang out with friends especially when classes are not on, and I also love to play guitar. There are times that I am humble but sometimes, I am overwhelmed with myself. Also I love to update current events, read books and watch movies which are marvel, DC, Sci-fi, drama and many more.

                       I love to learn lots of things, not just some philosophy and moral lessons but some things that aroused my own curiosity. I also want to go beyond on what I experienced and learn today but more on to have transcendence. That just some times what my mind told me.:)

                        When you meet me in reality, you will know more about me but now that all I can say about myself. God Bless Readers! :)

Anyways, allow me to post my picture of myself :)