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[darkvenus3]

So much has been happening recently. My husband is dating two women. One who he has been seeing for over a year now. Another woman that we are both dating together. It all started when he told me he wanted me to try exploring sex with others. I told him I’m not attracted to other men and he started looking for a woman for me. It didn’t take long for him to find someone. She’s perfect. She has beautiful, firm breasts, dark hair and eyes and a slender body. We will call her S. Her and I were chatting and seeing each other a little, but I found it hard to maintain the relationship with my other wifely duties. It wasn’t long before her and my husband were texting, and after a night of sexting she decided she wanted to date us both. It is very nice to be dating a woman together again. Just knowing it makes me more turned on than I usually am. Him and I just had sex, and he talked to me about how he would fuck her and that he would fuck me after her. It had me so turned on that I came right then.

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Having a lot of emotions right now and wondering if you have any advice. I'm currently a cuckcake to a married couple. The man was very up front about him having his wife know about us. At first, I assumed he was lying but I didn't want to make it my business. But after a few months, he invited me to his house to meet his wife. She was very nice and very sexy. The first few times she kissed him while I gave him a blowjob. Then she'd hold me and kiss me while he fucked me. It was amazing. Sometimes she cries. She says it's because she's happy for him (which I totally understand). But I want to make sure it's.. consensual? I don't want to overstep though.. Should I talk to her, or to him? How do I bring it up?! More complicated.. I'm kind of falling in love with him. We go on a lot of dates which she says she's okay with. I fantasize about us being a throuple.. I really like her and I really want us to team up to find other women for him to cuck us with. How should I navigate this issue too!?

I think it definitely would help to begin a relationship/friendship with the wife. Reach out to her and maybe even express your appreciation for her by doing sexual favors for her, in whatever way that may be, if you’re attracted to her. Ask her about her sexual desires. You may find she just desires you to be with her husband or you may discover she has unfulfilled kinks you can help her fulfill. Considering that she does seem to get emotional seeing you all together I would ask her if she is really okay with things, or if this really is a positive experience for her. I think it’s great you are thinking of everyone involved in this.

And it’s okay to be in love with the husband, just make sure you’re open and honest and also expressing your boundaries. What do you want in this? If you would like to be an equal partner in a throuple relationship with both of them I would state that, so they know you want to be treated with the same love and respect they treat each other. Expectations not being clearly stated by all parties is usually what I have found to be the main cause of conflict in most relationships.

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It’s been a while since I’ve posted and a lot has happened, so here is an update. We had our baby. And that’s the main reason I’ve been MIA. Life has been busy but wonderful with a newborn and a happy husband. Jason is no longer seeing Ada. She started getting jealous that he couldn’t see her more often, especially after I asked him to spend more time with me, as he was seeing two other women, and we had just had a baby. I asked him to scale it down with the other women a little to help out more at home, and he agreed that was the right choice. She became bitter that she couldn’t have as much time with him and started belittling me every time she saw him. Normally I wouldn’t mind this in a kinky sense, but taken through the lens of someone who truly doesn’t have good will toward me, I had to ask my husband to end it with her. It was difficult for him, he even relapsed a bit the last time he saw her, telling me they both touched and fondled each other. However he knew I wasn’t okay with the relationship and so he ultimately cut off complete contact with her after that last visit and hasn’t seen her for several weeks.

He is seeing one other woman still, who he has been seeing for about a year now. He visited her last Friday which of course had me very wet and excited. He has kept my pussy denied for about 9 days now. Recently he has been encouraging me to be more slutty. I have been chatting with another woman for a couple months now and we will probably take it to the next level next time I see her. He’s told me to use my mouth to please her for at least 2 hours the next time I see her and he may reward me with some attention when I get home.

He’s also been talking about letting me explore with men, possibly only starting out with letting one use my mouth as much as he wants and maybe graduating to my pussy. He still isn’t entirely sure he doesn’t want me to be just a free use oral slut because he says he likes to keep my pussy to himself, or when he’s not using it, denied. This is all still in the very early stages and I’m not sure I’m going to go through with it. It would have to be the right person and I’m not entirely sure I’ve figured out who that would be yet, and not sure that’s the route I want to take. Truthfully I’m addicted only to him. I can’t help it. 😍

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Sooo...

I was wondering if I could have your input on something.

I'm someone who can't stop fantasizing about being cucked. The emotional pain is so addictive. In the past with an ex-boyfriend, I tried simply role-playing the idea of being cucked during "sexy time". We just sort of pretended he was seeking out another girl. We talked about how he'd find a "better" woman, someone "more attractive" and "more suited to his physical preferences". There were phrases such as "she will be better than you" and "she will be prettier than you could ever be".

While this turned me on like crazy, I was deeply hurt for days and days after. Even though it was a hypothetical situation and fantasy talk.

He gave me care before and after this happened. I know the words weren't real. But, I carried them with me for weeks to maybe a month after. I'd randomly cry with anxiety, or insecurity for a long time after this fearing I wasn't good enough or attractive to him.

We decided to NEVER try that again. Now that partner and I have separated.

Now years later I'm with someone new. But, in my own time, I cannot resist this cuckquean fantasy. It's the first thing I read on tumblr, first adult content I look for, and I just cannot stop fantasizing about it, even though i don't think this is something i could ever handle, or even necessarily want to handle.

Nothing turns me on like this, but nothing hurts me like this either. Is that normal? Is it okay to keep obsessing over my cuckquean fantasy all alone, in the dark depths of my mind, as my own little secret?

First off, I think it’s smart that you tried this out in fantasy form first. Secondly, I do think even when you find something very sexy as a fantasy, you may have to build up a tolerance for that kind of emotional masochism. For example, when my husband and I take a break from cucking, diving right back into it can send me reeling, so we try to start back with him seeing other people less frequently. It’s always good to start out small and see how we handle things.

Perhaps being degraded is sexy in your head but not in practice. Would it be attractive for you instead to role play having a threesome with your current partner? Rather than him degrading you, he could praise you for how well you’re pleasing him, bringing him extra women to fuck. How sexy you are to him that you find this hot, etc.

Also, if you ever do decide to find a woman to try this with in real life, I would recommend starting out with threesomes that way too. When I first started sharing my husband, it was during threesomes, and gradually over time the focus became more and more of him with other women.

I think the reason this is such a difficult fantasy to explore is because we are taking something we fear and making it real. On one hand, it’s empowering. It can bring us closer to our partner, bring us out of our shell, and conquer our worst nightmare by turning it into something pleasurable and sexually enlightening. On the other hand, it’s literally turning our fears and insecurities into a reality, so there is definitely a delicate balance there.

My last suggestion would be to take care of yourself while you’re exploring this fantasy. Whether that means having a close friend or partner you can confide in, a therapist, or just an outlet, like yoga or a hobby you find stimulating. Do something that makes you feel good about yourself because even though the bad things we tell ourselves aren’t true, it can be easy to believe our worst fears when they’re all we think about.

All that to say, it’s definitely normal and okay to have a fantasy like this, and yours doesn’t have to stay in the closet unless you want it to. Our dark desires don’t define us, they just make our lives more fun in the bedroom. 😉😘💕

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Jason mentioned last night that a situation with one of his mistresses could possibly turn into a cuckcake situation soon. He said she is crazy about him, and even though she initially didn’t want to be involved in group play, he thinks she would if it meant she got more time with him. He plans to start out slow, first having us meet, getting her more comfortable with us all going out on a date. Him kissing and touching her in public while I play the third wheel. Next he wants me to meet them in another city and have dinner with him, while he takes it to the next level with the PDA, kissing and groping her and being very public about her being his. We would go back to a hotel room that night that has adjoining rooms. I would be allowed to be present for some of their groping, kissing, and play, but eventually I’d go to the next room and only be able to listen to the sound of her moaning on his cock. We will slowly work up to me being present for them having sex on occasion. I’d love to progresss to me being there the whole time, watching them fuck and eating his cum out of her pussy. 😍

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Mmm, yes! Find me a cuckcake who is into this. 🤤

The idea of a cheating man with a pregnant partner is such a turn on for me for some reason 😭 like yes she's giving ur child a home for nine months and you'd rather neglect her needs to talk and sext with me, tell me about the baby updates and how she's doing, but never give her ur full time and attention, because it's only for me

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My husband finally decided to have sex with me. I had lost track of how long ago it was since we last had sex. He came home yesterday and told me to get undressed and assume the position. Right now that is on my knees with my cow bell on and my tits out. He started fucking me hard and tugging on and twisting my nipples. I could tell he really liked thinking of me like I was just a dumb, horny animal. Every time he said it he fucked me a little harder. He eventually came hard and when he was finished he rewarded me with some time with my vibrator. I asked him to talk to me, he knows I love the degrading stuff. He told me he loved fucking my pussy and how fat my pussy was now since getting pregnant. He said I had a fat ass too and he loved hearing my little cow bell ring. He also said he loved fucking me after he had fucked another woman and talked about how much more fit his mistresses are. He said next time I want his cock, I have to suck another woman’s cum off of him before I can have it. That really made me cum hard. I know it wouldn’t seem right to others but I really love the degrading talk. 🥵🔥

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July 2, 2024

I’ve received some messages lately, some hate mail, and some expressing genuine concern for my well-being regarding my relationship with my husband, so I thought I would take some time to explain our relationship in more detail. I’m a cuckquean, and I find a deep satisfaction in him having sex with other women. We’ve explored many other kinks before, but lately we’ve also been exploring sexual denial, him denying me for long periods of time while he has sex with others. Often times he will come home and torture me with the sexy details of his escapades, but he does nothing with me sexually. We have a safe word, and I have used it at times when things get too intense for me. Sometimes we will take a little break for a couple weeks to reconnect and then dip our toes back into the water. We are both enjoying exploring this kink right now. This may just be a phase for us, as we’ve explored other kinks like this before and then moved on to different things, but for now it’s not something I want to end.

Something I would love to explore more in the future is having a cuckcake again. We had this situation once, and it was amazing. 🔥 However, we plan to do this in a few months, as I’m currently pregnant and just don’t feel as up to it.

We also have a rich relationship outside of our kink. We cuddle every night, kiss, touch, go for walks, dates, and otherwise have a very fulfilling, somewhat vanilla life together. Everything I post on here is related to our kink, which can seem very intense, degrading and wrong to outsiders, even if that is not the case from my perspective.

I’m open to advice, questions, and friendly suggestions. However, please refrain from sending me derogatory messages about my lifestyle - You will only be blocked and likely reported! Although it’s not a lifestyle I would encourage anyone to jump into lightly, this is something I have consented to and I do trust my husband completely to respect my needs and wants.

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He hasn’t had sex with me in almost two weeks, but he has fucked his mistresses. He averages about twice a week with them, while I’m kept horny and needy. I have been allowed to cum, just not with any help by him, except for an occasional kiss and naughty whispers in my ear.

Now a former flame has reached out to him wanting to rekindle things, and he is considering taking her on as well. I am starting to wonder if he will just keep me around for breeding purposes and ignore me sexually otherwise. I wouldn’t want to be ignored sexually forever, but I do so love knowing how much me allowing to him explore to his hearts content pleases him. I’m interested to see how long he keeps me horny and denied. 🔥

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Do you think if you ever told your partner that being cucked is way too much for you, temporarily or permanently, that they would reassure you and respect your request to stop seeing other women?

Yes I do. We have talked about this before when I’ve felt insecure. We like to play with the kink, and sometimes he pushes my limits, but he always reassures me that it can and will end whenever I want it to. There have been times I’ve asked him to slow it down for me by seeing the other women less, and making more time for me. He always respects my wishes.

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Hi,

25/F.

I don't really understand why this turns me on so much. This is not a dynamic I ever want to seek out. I couldn't handle the insecurity, jealousy, and feelings of distrust/betrayal/abandonment. Cuckqueaning is a kink that I kind of treat like it's evil.

On the other hand, this emotional torment is what turns me on so much. It's like, this kink is my biggest fear, but it still gets me off. I don't understand. Lol

I'm also never interested in the "learning how to cope with the jealousy by building trust with your partner" because, this kink is like, a limit and a turn on. Idk. Very confused.

Hi,

I completely understand the feeling. At times I want my husband to reassure me he loves me the most and will never leave me. Other times, I want him to talk to me about how much better sex with them is.

I’m completely tormented by the concept that he has fucked two other women this week, and has barely kissed me, and yet also secretly am turned on and wet by the idea.

I think it’s very wise of you to acknowledge that you couldn’t handle this kink in real life. It’s a roller coaster of emotions and I won’t lie that sometimes I wonder if I’ve gotten myself in over my head. 😅 And yet I’m addicted to imagining what it’s like for him with other women, love cuddling him after he comes home smelling of his betrayal. Love the degrading act of deep throating his cock afterward. The reward of getting his dick when I’ve been wanting it so bad, even though he’s mostly satisfied and it feels like he’s just throwing me a bone. - Maybe that makes it even hotter for me. It’s twisted, and yes, sometimes I need a mental break from it and can’t allow myself to think on it too much. But the desire and thrill of being his degraded, submissive cuckquean always comes back to me in my darkest fantasies.

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My husband is on a hiking trip with a friend and I’ve had more time to let my mind be in the gutter. I usually ask for sex at least once a week. He’s so busy with his other sluts he only has time for me once a week at the most, and one of them twice a week or each of them once a week lately. However their visits are much more satisfying and lengthy than what I get. He spends a few hours each time, chatting, kissing, getting massages from them, going down on them or getting blow jobs from them, as well as fucking them senseless, filling their pussies, and then fucking them all over again. He leaves them filled to the brim with his cum before leaving, so he tells me. I get 5 minutes of doggy and a vibrator after he uses my wet, needy, pregnant pussy - if I’ve been good. He likes to call me his good little cow, and tells me I have such a fat little pussy now while he pinches my nipples and I hump my vibrator. As much as I love this, ugh, it feels like not enough at all in comparison to what his other sluts get. They get hours of his loving attention. It makes me so jealous, it’s overwhelming, but also my depraved cuckquean mind thinks, what if I stopped begging for sex? Would he even offer it to me? Shouldn’t I stop taking his energy away from his true pleasure? My true purpose should be to be his baby-maker wife, and only to take his cock when he truly needs relief and can’t get to one of his mistresses. How long will he go before he notices that he hasn’t had to please his needy, pregnant cow of a wife for a while? Will he ask about it, or will he just use that extra time to fuck his other mistresses? Either way, it will be fun to see what happens.

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I’m 7 months into my pregnancy and barely have energy for sexual things, although I miss regular sex very much. Jason has been regularly seeing his two other women, one once or twice a week and the other once every 4-5 weeks. At times it’s incredibly hard to share him this way even though it’s a turn on. I’m filled with dual, conflicting emotions when I think about how I barely get his cock once a week, and he’s having multiple sex sessions with 2 other women each time he goes to see them. One of them is very graphic with him about how she loves to get his cream pie and then having him fuck his cum into her and cum again, leaving her pussy filled.

All I can really do sexually right now is sex in the doggie position, which is nice, but oh, I miss missionary. I miss kissing him while he fills me with cum. I’m filled with jealousy knowing other women get that with him, and it will be a while before I can have that back. But I’m also incredibly wet thinking about it too. The most I can do right now is tease my pussy with my big dildo and maybe cum if I’ve worked hard enough to edge. I’m his owned cuck wife and I do love that he is being so well taken care of. 🔥

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Hello,

Ive been looking at your posts and is there ever a time where you can have someone? it seems that all time he's the one having all the fun. I think you need to be able to have your chance too

So I know it may not seem fair, but our dynamic is more focused on his pleasure. It’s doesn’t turn him on to think of me with another man, so I don’t meet other men. I do occasionally date other women though. I have found my favorite thing is just helping please another woman while she has sex with my husband. I love seeing how turned on they both get. Love watching them flirt and watching him fill her with cum, and then licking it out of her, and helping her cum.🔥That’s just my kink. It would be incredibly unfair for most women, but it works for us.

I’m also 7 months pregnant so it’s been nearly impossible for me to date. I may however, date again once I’ve had this baby and have had time to recover.

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Hii I jus wanted to say I love your blog I’m really into this stuff the only thing is I don’t know how to bring it up to my partner how do you think I should go about that is there anything I can do to ease him into it ?

Hi, and thank you! I would tell him you have this fantasy that you need him to consider with an open mind because it’s difficult to talk about. Explain your ideal situation/fantasy to him and what about it that turns you on so much. Maybe show him some cuckquean videos, gifs, or stories you really like. Draw him into your fantasy.

If he agrees to it, would start out with him just texting other women, browsing dating apps together, or watching porn together while you two play. It’s always good to take baby steps before diving deep into being a cuckquean. And a threesome that isn’t technically you being cucked is a good way to find out what aspects of cuckqueaning you like the most. Is it watching? Do you like to participate? Do you want him or her to be dominant to you, or do you want to try being dominant of your cuckcake? There are so many options to explore. Good luck, and happy hunting!

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Has your husband made you eat pussy yet?

Mmm, yes! Many times. I love to eat pussy for him, especially when it’s filled with his cum!

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Hubby should put you in a chastity belt!

I would love that. We’ve talked about it and may make that decision later on. I’d like something I could wear all the time, that only gets taken off when he’s with other women. 😍❤️