darlingincarnate

[darlingincarnate]

hey, just a notice for inbox please don't flood my inbox with the same ask multiple times just because i haven't answered it yet!!

i go through all your guys' asks and i promise you i see every single one. if i haven't answered it it's often because i'm just very busy and haven't been able to sit down and answer asks. there's a very slim number of asks i don't answer because i don't have the proper knowledge/don't want to answer. i'm probably not ignoring your ask, so don't worry and just be patient :)

[darlingincarnate]

Hi selena, i hope you are having a great day sweetheart:)

hi babe!! thank you, you too darling <33

[darlingincarnate]

I've been commanding my subconscious and I haven't received my desires, even though I had faith and trust in my subconscious. What can I do ?

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i've seen stuff like this a lot. things like "i've been doing this but i never get results, why?"

right now you are affirming you haven't got results. you've been sitting around waiting for your desires. do you think that's trusting your subconscious? if you trust it, why would you sit around and watch it like a hawk, then when you don't see what you want you doubt it and reaffirm the old story?

command it, then trust it and continue with your day as normal. not looking for your desires around every corner.

[darlingincarnate]

hi selena :)) how would i command my subconscious to revise something like my appearance?

"subconscious, i command you to make me look like my ideal appearance," or anything else along the lines of that! then, trust and don't worry about

[darlingincarnate]

It feels like i trust my subconscious but i never get results. I also affirmed that i never fail bc i thought i was assuming that 'i never get results' and that 'it doesn't work' but i just don't know what is wrong😭

well, what are you doing right now babe? you're affirming that you never get results not matter what you affirm.

let go of the doubts, the worries and the old story. that's the only thing holding you back. if you're affirming from a place of doubt or lack, then that's why it goes wrong.

[darlingincarnate]

When I am lucid dreaming I just need to say "I am I'm the void" and I will go in the void right? I hope you don't mind me asking this question I don't know if my question is dumb.

yup, exactly!

(don't worry about it bby <3!)

[darlingincarnate]

It is a pleasure to meet you, in October in my country a famous person will come to make a concert and thousands of people will go, many famous and beautiful girls will go, I want to show it but I don't know how it would be if there are many beautiful and famous girls and also how could he realize that I am there.

hello darlinggg

put yourself on the pedestal. no more "but so many other beautiful girls are going, and they're famous too, how will he notice me?"

it's now "i am the most beautiful person ever going to this concert, all eyes are on me, of course he will notice me."

your assumption is key. don't put him on the pedestal just because he's famous. he's just another person. don't put the girls on a pedestal just because they're famous and beautiful. you're prettier than them and more famous.

[darlingincarnate]

The guy I like studies at my school but so far I haven't seen him in person only in video call, he does go to my school but I still can't go to presential so he doesn't know me in person, I don't have him on any social network and he seems to date some girls from school.... Can I manifest it even without him seeing me in person ? How do I do it?

yes, you can manifest this! circumstances do not matter, ever. it doesn't matter if you've never met in person, if he doesn't have social networks, and if he's already dating someone. none of that matters when it comes to your assumptions.

you can go about manifesting this a few ways, bottom line being him being in love with you. you can manifest meeting in person, manifest him being single, him having socials, etc. but basically just assume that he has contact with you, that he is in love with you and it will all align.

[darlingincarnate]

Can I manifest to be the most beautiful woman in the world? How would my physique change or what? What would happen to the other women and how could I do it?

yes, darling, of course you can. physically, you would just change to what you see as the ideal, which can be anything you could ever imagine. there is no other most beautiful woman if you're the most beautiful woman in the entire world!

how you would do it : start assuming it. it's as simple as affirming you are the most beautiful woman in the entire world. repeat it and act like you are.

[darlingincarnate]

🐍 | hii sel! not the same anon, but i intend to do the same...could you tell us how you'd do this?

hey babe!

basically, time crunch or not manifesting self concept and the void is just like manifesting everything else.

for self concept, imagine the ideal you, then become and live as that person. walk around everyday like you are the most perfect person in the entire world.

for void, affirm that the void is the easiest method in the world, that you get into the void instantly, and that it's simple. take the method off the pedestal and realize you are the only one giving the void the power it has.

and with a time crunch it's no different. like everything else, you can get perfect self concept and getting into the void instantly. it all lies in how much you are truly living in the end and the state of knowing. don't waste time reaffirming the old story, start affirming the new now and results will follow.

[darlingincarnate]

selena I have said some affirmations and also scripted about my desire now how do I live in the end? How Is a person who remembers everything he reads, looks at and listens to(my desire)supposed to feel and act? Because I'll have to do the same things to live in the end, right?

basically go about your day knowing you have your desire already. it'd be things like you wouldn't worry about reading a passage twice since you know you already have it memorized, or won't have to write anything down because you know you remember it all so easily. it's just living naturally and not having doubts or worries.

[darlingincarnate]

Hi sel, i think i really want to manifest the perfect self concept and void concept on a time crunch. Will i be limiting myself if i do so?

nope not at all, as long as you get rid of all limiting beliefs you will not limit yourself at all.

[darlingincarnate]

The guy I like is a badboy literally not faithful and I would really like him to fall in love only with me and be faithful only to me.

it's really simple--affirm he will always be faithful to only you and assume it.

[darlingincarnate]

bestieee, i just watched 13 going on 30 and...i realized that she probably shifted without even know? wow that's crazy, i love this movie btw

i absolutely adoreeee that movie too!!

and you're so right! the way she affirmed her ideal life at thirty and probably visualized it in the closet too totally makes sense for shifting.

[darlingincarnate]

🐍 | dude i'm manifesting a soccer player as well, he's my age and very mysterious...nobody knows shit about his personal life and apparently he never dated before, but i'm kinda afraid of having him as my bf cause soccer players really do have a bad fame when it comes to loyalty 😭

oooh he sounds interestinggg

get into the assumption that he has perfect loyalty, despite him being a soccer player! or just assume all soccer players are extremely loyal. no need to be afraid, if he's already your bf you wouldn't be afraid to be his, would you?

[darlingincarnate]

sel how do I make my assumptions on something like how do I assume something that I want to happen? Should I just keep affirming what I WANT my assumptions to be whenever I think about them? And also how to then believe in my assumptions with all my heart?

okay, let's break this down a little bit.

when you put a cake in an oven, what do you assume it's doing? you assume it's baking, right? and when you take that cake out of the oven and it's all baked, it's because you assumed the cake was baking when you put it in an oven. if you assumed the cake wasn't baking or that the oven broke or something, then you'd pull out an unbaked cake because of that assumption.

and this applies to everything else under the law of assumption. affirmations and assumptions go hand in hand. affirming "the cake is baking" is causing you to have the assumption that the cake is baking. if you affirmed "the cake never bakes when i put it in the oven," then you create the assumption that the cake never bakes when you put it in the oven.

if you want to have a certain quality ➸ affirm that you already have that quality ➸ affirming creates assumption ➸ assumptions to dominant thoughts ➸ dominant thoughts become state of knowing ➸ state of knowing becomes having your desire.

your assumptions are facts the second you assume them. if you have issues believing them, i highly advise working on self concept.

[darlingincarnate]

this anon was 100% copy pasted I got asked the exact same thing a bit back

that's so strange? i get maybe asking different blogs the same question but with a gap in time that's really interesting?? i also wonder why they would copy paste 😭😭