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The Quarantine Date

These are tough times, tough times indeed. The world has turned upside down, and as a result we have been confined to our homes. “But wait a minute” I hear you ask, “Does that mean I can’t go on any dates?” Well, yes and no. Everyone should be social distancing themselves (meaning keeping apart from each other) so dating in the traditional sense has to be put on the back burner for now. But what if you’ve just started seeing your special someone and are worried this lack of interaction might ruin things. Well, you’ll just have to think more creatively. Or better yet, let me think for you. 

The Date

I’m going to give you 3 core date ideas, in addition to a plethora of fun “video chat” games you can play. But of course, there’ll be some Dates 101 flare added for good measure. Let’s begin with the one you’ve probably heard people doing already.

Video Chat First Date

The is easily the most obvious date idea out there for dating during a pandemic, and I wouldn't be surprised if you’ve heard about this date already. It’s easy enough, hop on to your preferred video chat application, and ‘simulate’ a first date with someone on the other side. Better yet, it can (and will) be used multiple times throughout your isolation weeks because its a fantastic way to communicate with someone! If you’re planning on doing this, I would recommend you start off simple: look presentable (not like you’ve just woken up), set a time where there won't be any distractions, get some wine (or any drink of your choice) and get to know your date. Now, the problem with this date idea in my opinion is it could get really awkward, really fast. What if the lighting isn't good, or what if you run out of things to talk about? I would write out a few topics on a piece of paper beforehand, in case you run into this issue. Some topics of discussion could be... 

-What are you doing to pass the time during isolation?

-What do you do for a living/ If you could do anything else what would it be

-Where have you traveled/ Where would you like to travel once this is over?

-What do you like to do for fun/ What are your hobbies?

-What’s your family like?

-Tell some of your favourite memories

Being prepared is key for this kind of date, and with a list I’m sure your nerves will quickly vanish. Also, don't forget to keep it out of sight. 

Movie Watching

The next date idea requires both of you to have a Netflix account (or similar streaming service). Pretty much you're going to watch a movie together. Simple right? Well, not so fast. Like the video chat date, I’ve seen this idea many times as well. And while I think it could be really fun, I’m afraid most people have never tried watching a movie while trying to talk to someone at the same time. Talk about audio overload... Now, it definitely could be done. Have the volume on the Tv or computer low and the audio on your video chat high. Did I mention you’re doing this on video chat? No? Well that's because it can be done other ways. You could always talk on the phone while watching the movie, which would work much better in my opinion (specifically because you don't want to be focused on 2 screens at once). But I believe the best way to experience this date idea is actually through text; albeit in the chat itself or with your phone (if you're not using it to communicate) Why text? Well, for one its much quieter and less distracting. And two, I feel like the conversation would be a lot better! You can text what you think is going to happen next, who you think the bad guy is, who’s gonna die next, or how scared you are at that very second (if watching a horror movie). It’s also a completely different way of communication, which can be a nice change of pace coming from the video chat date. But feel free to use any method you wish. 

Question and Answer

Like the previous date idea, this can be done through video, phone call or text. But can I make another suggestion? I really feel like the phone is the best method of communication for this one. Why? Because no one uses the phone anymore, and sometimes you want to talk to someone without worrying about how you look (where my sweatpants people at?). So for this idea, you're going to come up with A BUNCH of questions for your date to answer. What should the questions be? Well, anything you want to learn about your date honestly. It can range from the super basic like what's your favourite dessert to the total extreme like if there was a zombie apocalypse what would your game plan be? Ideally you’d want anywhere between 20 and 50 questions. “Wait, 50 questions!?!” Yup 50. The reason I want you to have so many is because you could do this idea multiple times if you wish, or keep the questions coming by text throughout the day. Am I going to tell you what questions to write? Nah, you’ll have to figure that one on your own. Once you’ve come up with your questions, you're going to simply go back and forth with your date answering each others questions (you decide if they're allowed to ask the same ones you asked). 

Quick Video Chat Games

And there you have it, 3 core date ideas you can do without having to leave your house. But what if you’re looking for a more casual date idea? Here’s a bunch of light hearted video chat games you can do to pass the time.

-2 Truths 1 Lie

-Truth or Dare

-20 Questions

-Never Have I Ever

-Sausage (Pick 1 word, in this case “sausage”. Player 1 asks question and Player 2 must always answer with “sausage”. If Player 2 laughs, they lose. Player 1 gets 10 tries, and then the word changes)

-Questions Only (have a conversation only with questions, see who can last the longest)

-iMessage GamePigeon games

But before we go

Wow, this is a long post. But I wanted to give you a comprehensive list of things you can do, so bare with me because this is where things get real. Below you will find really unique, Dates 101 type of activities you can do with your date over video chat. These activities range from mundane to totally outrageous so hope you enjoy! 

Video Chat Outside- Show your date your neighbourhood or cool areas in your city (watch out for data overages). Don't forget to keep your distance from people

Video Chat Drinking Games- can be done while talking or watching a tv show (drink every time you/they do *blank*)

Dinner Date- Eat dinner while talking over video chat (try to make the same meal and see who’s turned out better)

Dinner Theme- Same as above, only have a theme attached to it (Western food, Mexican food, Sushi, Pizza)

Romantic Dinner- Dress up really fancy (maybe add some candles too)

Cooking Channel- Start your dinner date in the kitchen, both must have the same ingredients. One of you is the head chef and directs the other on how to make a delicious meal. Watch each other make the same food and see who’s turns out the best

Guy’s Grocery Games- Be on the phone with each other as you search the grocery store. Each of you picks 3 ingredients that the other must use in their dish. See who can make the best meal with the chosen ingredients included

Bob Ross- Video chat each other while listening to an episode of Bob Ross and painting. Who’s the better painter?

Stranger- Want to make your first date super memorable? Video chat for the first time wearing a whole bunch of clothing on your face (hats, sunglasses, bandanas, etc.). Take turns asking about each other. For example, do you like cookies, do you listen to Ed Sheeran? If the answer is yes, they must take off a piece of headwear. Play until their face is finally revealed. 

Wrap Up

So that was a lot of ideas thrown at you, but that was the point. Hopefully there’s enough here to keep the two of you occupied until this pandemic is over. Don’t feel like using these ideas, or dating for that matter? No worries, you can always do this stuff with your friends! Or wait until we’re allowed to interact with each other again to start dating face to face. But in the meantime, let’s all do our best to get through this thing together, one day at a time.

Remember, make every date a story.

Dates 101 

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The Laser Tag Date

Wait...is that Dates101? With a new blog post?? Yes my lovelies, I am indeed alive and well. I took a little hiatus from posting because I had other stuff (mainly school stuff) to do, you know how life happens. But today I’m here to bring to you people a brand new glow in the dark date idea! Well, kind of new.

The Date

All my OG followers will know that I’ve talked about Laser tag within another glow in the dark date idea. I think it was the arcade date, but could have been mini golf? I’m not entirely sure. Anywho, I wanted to expand on that idea, because I have some really neat tricks for it! But first, why laser tag? Well, the short answer is its a lot of fun, totally unique, and a great addition to a current date idea! (like....the arcade). Should Laser Tag be your only date activity? I would say probably not. You can only play so many rounds before it gets tiring, literally. I would say 1 round is perfect, maybe two if you're really keen, and three if you're having the most fun ever, but that's it. How do you play laser tag? Well, here is where you can bring in some variety.

Pew..Pew..Pew

There are some Laser Tag places out there that add different game modes and objectives, which I think is totally awesome! But just in case you don't have access to one, we’ll be talking about the barebones, shoot at person don't get shot game type. And for that, I have a couple of ideas. Firstly, you can play the game completely normally. You and your date can be on a team, or even against one another! It's simple, fun and effective. You could even put fun bets on who’s going to come out on top. But what if you wanted more? Well, I have two ideas for you. The first, you can pretend you two are in some sort of video game or movie. One person is the commander, with the other one following their orders. “Go to that spot, give me cover, meet me up there, play dead!” You could get totally wacky with this idea, and the one following the orders has to comply no matter what is being asked (within boundaries of course). Switch commanders mid way through, or during the next game, and you're in for a pretty hilarious time. So what is the second idea? Well its pretty out there, and totally corny, but really fun and unique (or so on paper). So you two will be on a team for this idea, sticking together for the whole round. If one person gets shot, they're dead, and need to be revived before they can resume playing. How are you going to revive them? With a kiss of course. You two are going to be each others medics, and continually “bring them back to life” throughout the match. Of course, they have to be ok with kissing you before hand though! Or you ain’t getting revived anytime soon.

Wrap Up

And that’s my take on Laser Tag. Is it corny and a little ridiculous? Probably. But is it effective? Honestly, I’m not sure. I’ll be experiencing this date idea for the first time, tonight in fact. Like, in 2 hours! Hopefully it goes well, but if it's a total bomb I will definitely let you people know. Wish me luck!

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101 

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The Billiards Date

Picture this: it's Saturday night, and you have a date with that good looking barista you’ve summed up the courage to finally ask out. You plan to go out for a drink, but you’re worried there won’t be enough to talk about, resulting in that dreaded awkward silence. What do you do? You cancel out of nervousness three hours before. Sound familiar? Well, I’m here today to talk about a great first date idea that provides protection to the awkward silence nightmare.

The Date

So what is it already? The answer is Billiards, or “pool” as its often referred as. Now what makes billiards such a great first date option? Well for starters its very similar to the bar, meaning its low key, involves drinks, and has plenty of time for great conversation. But what separates this from the bar is if the conversation does dies down for whatever reason, you have the game of billiards to fall back on. Confused? Let’s get into this.

Billiards is a simple enough game to play. You take turns trying to get balls into pockets essentially. Now, I'm not going to bore you with the rules of the game, but I am going to suggest a way to progress through the night. Grab a drink for each other, set up the balls and start playing! You can start off with small talk while each of you play your turn, comment on their amazing trick shot (or trick shot fail), and even talk about wants happening on the TV in the corner. Its great because billiards allows for you to just jump right into it. No need to try to think of something to say, because something will naturally come up as you play. For some reason, I find it much easier to talk to someone brand new while doing something at the same time, and I’m sure I’m not alone in thinking this. Better yet, you can take fun risk shots while the game progresses, and make fun of yourself in the process. Got a tricky shot coming up next? “Watch as a hit it behind my back with my eyes closed!” This breaks down awkward barriers, making both of you feel that much more comfortable. I suggest a 2-1 approach here. Have one full on conversation after every second billiard shot (each). Meaning, you take a shot, your date takes a shot, then you, then them, then you start a conversation about anything you want to know. After that conversation dies down, you move on to your next shot! Its a way to get to know your date really well, while limiting the awkward “stare-down” some experience while getting a drink at the bar. But what if you wanted to make billiards even more interesting?

Ball for a question

This is a super fun mini game you can do to guaranty the conversation keeps going on for a while. But before I get into it, I have to make sure you understand that winning the game absolutely does not matter! You're here to have fun and learn about your date, not destroy them with your pool skills (or lack thereof). So please, don't take this as a way to win the game. Now with that out of the way, this game idea is called “Ball for a Question” Every time your dates sinks a ball, they must answer a question of your choosing (and vice versa). This question could be absolutely anything, but must be answered honesty no matte what. If your date answers, then the game continues, however if your date choses not to answer, then you have to take one of their sunken balls outside of its pocket. Now hold on, before you think about all these dastardly questions you want to ask, know this: every question that is asked, gets redirected to the person who asked the initial question. Meaning, when you ask your date a question, regardless of if they answer or not, you must answer your own question as well. If you refuse, your ball gets taken out. And if you haven't sunken any yet, you miss a turn. Are you up for the challenge?

Wrap Up

Now, like all my date ideas, you absolutely don't have to do the mini game if you don't want to. Getting some drinks, playing pool and taking with your date would still make for a great first date experience! But if you're dying to know a little more about the other person, Ball for a Question is a great way to find out more about that special someone. Regardless of what you chose to do, billiards is a fantastic option for anyone looking for a fun and unique first date experience.

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Autumn Date

Fall is finally here my lovelies! The weather is colder, the leaves are changing, and the date ideas are a plenty! “But wait a minute”, I hear you ask. “What kind of dates can I specifically do during fall?” Well, because schools been incredibly busy and I haven't posted it decades, I feel it fair to give you not 1, not 2, but 4 date ideas to do during this awesome season! So without further ado, let’s jump right into our first date idea (pun intended).

Jumping for Joy

Ok, the first date idea I have is going to require you to release your inner child. Remember raking leaves and jumping into them afterwards? Well, you guessed it, you're gonna do just that. “That doesn't sound very romantic, it sounds like work to me”. Oh, ye of little faith. Making a leaf pile is a lot more fun than you would think! Bring out some autumn beverages, crank the tunes, and see who can make the biggest leaf pile. Or you could be a team player and build one big pile together. See if you can get all the leafs into on place, and then have a contest to see who can come up with the best jump (all filmed for social media of course). Is it the most glamorous of date ideas? No. But it’s not supposed to be. This is a fun way to kill a couple of hours while doing getting some great photos in the process. Plus laying in a pile of leaves and cuddling next to your significant other is a pretty great experience. Give it a try!

Picking perfection

Next up we have another classic fall activity. Some families might even have a tradition of doing this every year (and maybe you two will as well). Ever been apple picking before? For those of you that said yes, you already know where I’m going with this. However for those that said no, let me tell you how romantic this date idea can be. It’s just you and your partner, alone picking the biggest, juiciest apples you can find. Need to get an apple at the tallest branch? No problem, get on someone’s shoulders and BOOM memorable moment. Tired from all the picking during the day? Most apple picking places have tractor rides and BOOM memorable moment. Need a recipe for all those apples you picked? Find a recipe for apple pie and BOOM...well you get it. There are so many memorable moments to be had while picking apples, in addition to all the other cool things consumer farms have on offer. In fact, let’s talk about another date idea while we’re at the farm.

Lost in Love

Most farms now a days (but not all so don't quote me on this) have some kind of corn or sunflower maze as an attraction. Getting lost in a corn maze with the love of your life, being goofy and trying to find the way out? Umm hello Hollywood, I got your next RomCom right here! But in all seriousness, mazes are a super unique way to spend an afternoon, and a great addition to going to the farm. But what about the last date idea?

Pumpkin Spiced....Pumpkins

I’ve saved the best for last obviously, because you'll be making Jack-o-lanterns! Yes its super cute, and yes you have to do it (well not actually but it would make me happy). Buy two pumpkins from the local grocery store (although I prefer from a farm), set up some newspaper and get carving! “But wait, shouldn’t we work on one pumpkin together?” I mean, you could. However I think its better if you work on your own and compare when its done. You could even make caricatures of each other and get incredibly silly with it!

Wrap Up

And there you have it, 4 date ideas you could do this Autumn season. Could you do all 4 in one day? Of course! I would actually prefer it all be done in one day because that would make an incredibly memorable story. However it’s also a lot in one day, so you might want to break it up into two or even three days. Whatever you decide to do, make sure you take a bunch of pictures. Autumn is only here for a short while after all.

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Drive-In Date

It's sad to say, but summer is on its way out. And with it, the potential for fun summer date ideas. We’ve talked about Stargazing, Parks, Concerts and Ice Cream, yet there’s so many more Summer dates I’d like to write about. Time is not on my side but I don't care, for this week I’m going with a summer classic, The Drive-In Movie.

The Date

For all you younglings out there, let me explain what the Drive-In is. You watch a movie, on a giant screen, in your car. And that's pretty much it. “But you’ve said movie dates are the worst things ever!” Yes, and I still stand by that argument. However this my friend, doesn't count as a movie date because it is so much more that just watching a movie. It’s a totally different experience, one that lets you bend the rules of traditional movie watching. Drive-Ins are super unique, fun, intimate, and exciting. They are also a dying breed, so I highly suggest trying it before all of them are gone forever. Now, confused as to what you need to do? Let me explain.

Down In Front

There are lots of Do’s and Do Not’s when it comes to Drive-Ins, and Im going to go through each of them so you are fully prepared to have a great date experience. First, is preparation. You’ll obviously need a car to watch from, although you could use lawn chairs if you so wish. My all time favourite would be watching in the bed of a truck (make sure to bring bug spray). I also suggest getting there super early so you get a good spot (maybe even bring a ball or game to entertain you). Now that you’re settled, you’ll have to tune into a specific FM radio station in order to have audio for the movie. But, I’ve had great success bringing a portable speaker and plugging it into the cars radio with a 35mm headphone jack (yes those are still a thing, I checked). You’ll also need jumper cables! Why? Well your car has to be on in order for you to get the audio from the radio, and your battery might die. So just in case, please bring jumper cables. Next is snacks, and for this section I want you to go crazy! Bring all the snacks you want, the more the merrier! You could also bring a cooler if you so wish. Flashlights are important as well, because one of you will eventually need to take a leak, and I wouldn't want you bumping into anything or anyone. Lastly is blankets, pillows, sleeping bags, even pyjamas if you wish; anything you need to be as comfy as possible. And that's pretty much all you need for a great Drive-In movie experience. Now as for the Do Not’s, make sure you don't park at the very front if you have a large vehicle, because no one wants to be that person. Also, make sure you don't press down on the brake pad accidentally while watching, its super distracting. Lastly, be respectful for the people around you and that's it!

Wrap Up

Ok, to sum up: get there early, don't park in the front, bring something to entertain you, bring lots of snacks, blankets, pillows, pjs, portable speaker, and jumper cables. Got all of that? Then you're ready for your movie under the stars. Oh and if you want a cool little idea to spice up your Drive-In experience then listen up. Most of the time there will be more than one movie playing at the same time. Feeling bored with the movie you’re watching? Turn off the audio and try to watch a different movie being played, but try and guess what is happening in that movie without audio. It’s going to be confusing, you're gonna be confused, you're gonna laugh, its gonna be great. 

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Cooking Date

Got a super fun, super delicious date idea for you this week! So dust off those cookbooks, clean up those pans and load up on paprika, because we’re cooking.

The Date

With the right mentality, a simple task like cooking can become a date in itself. Just picture this: you and your significant other spot a delicious looking dish in a magazine, on Pinterest etc, and decide you’re gonna make it yourself. You two get the ingredients, put on some music and cook away! And its actually a lot of fun cooking together I'm not gonna lie. In fact, you could just stop reading here because cooking on its own would make a great story, especially if it turned out really good (or really bad). Just follow everything in “The Pizza Date” but substitute pizza for whatever you're making. However, I hear you want something a little more on the wild side. Well I got an idea just for you.

Hell’s Kitchen

So this is my idea to flip cooking on its head. To start off, your significant other is going to give you a picture of a delicious meal. Thats it, just 1 legible picture of the meals entirety (it has to be a fair photo though). After that's done, the outcome is in your hands. You are now the head chef of the Dates101 restaurant, and your partner is the sous-chef. Based on the photo you received, you're going to try and recreate said meal as perfectly as you can. Meaning, you come up with the recipe (or find it online), you get the ingredients (with your partner there of course) and you are in charge of cooking the meal (your partner is also there to help but you must tell them what to do). The whole dish is in your complete control, so if you mess up its kinda on your head. BUT with that being said, it makes this idea super fun and unique because for all we know your partner could be an expert in making this dish, but isn't allowed to help because they are not in charge. There is a very high chance that your partner starts bursting out laughing because you're making them cut onions the wrong way! But that's all in the fun of it, because its your kitchen, and everything is done your way. If the meal is a success you can gloat till your hearts content, but if it’s a complete disaster, at least you got a really great memory out of it.

Wrap Up

Regardless of the outcome, its your partners turn to be head chef next time, so if they gave you an incredibly hard dish to create, nows your chance for revenge! Or go easy on them, its your choice. Either way, you're going to have a blast being in charge, as well as seeing your significant other in charge. No pressure, Gordon Ramsay.

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Cache Date

Got another first date idea for you lovely people! Is it the greatest idea of all time? No, not really. But it is super unique and out there, which in my opinion makes this one a winner. So without further ado, let’s get into this.

The Date

“Cache? What’s a cache?” Well dear reader, a cache or ‘Geocache’ as its properly called is essentially real life treasure hunting. People place containers of varying sizes all over the world for other people to find. Some are large, and can be found in easy to spot locations. While others are quite small and difficult to find. How do you find them you ask? Well, firstly you download the Geocache app through your favourite app store. You’ll have to create an account (I think) but you most certainly do not have to pay for a membership. I sure don't, because I don't have money for that. After you’ve downloaded the app you’ll be given a map of your surrounding area, and all the caches in that area! (Some will be blocked off to members only, but not a lot). Now it is your job to go find them. The app will act as a compass for you to follow, however once you're about 30m away from the cache, you're on your own. Hints and pictures are sometimes provided, but it’s way more fun to find these things without any help. And let me tell you, these things are tricky! Most will be camouflaged with the surrounding environment, so keep your eyes peeled! All caches will have a small piece of paper inside, so once you're found it you can write down your name and the date, proving you were successful in locating the cache. Make sure to put it back where you found it, and move on to the next one. But how to you make a date out of this?

Well, simply put you could have a date completely based on finding caches. It’s actually a lot of fun, because majority of the time caches will be within walking distance of each other. But even if you don't dedicate a whole date to caching, I still think it's a good idea to have in the back of your mind. Let’s say you're on a hike, or walking in a place you've never been before. Its always a good idea to check the app and see if there’s any caches lying around. Do you always have to go find them? No. But it’s nice to know you have something to do in case you run out of fun activities. “But what's all this about a first date idea?” I hear you say. 

Writing Down your First Moments Together

Ok, this is a super simple, but highly effective date idea to do on first dates. If you’ve read any of my other first date ideas before, you know how awkward, daunting, and scary first dates can be. Sometimes, your best bet is to do something super casual in order to relieve some awkwardness. Although I still stand behind my more intense first date ideas, as I feel the crazier it is the faster the awkwardness fades. But in any case, this is a great addition to any walk in the park, coffee date or ice cream date you may be going on. 

So let’s take a walk in the park for example. Nothing wrong with it on its own, and I especially like how you get to talk with your date. However there's not too much to it, as in you're not going anywhere. Well, now you can. Plan ahead (if you know the route you're going to take) and locate a geocache in the nearby area. It’s very important to actually locate the cache before hand, because you’ll look silly if you can't find it. Now as you're walking with your date, get closer and closer to the cache until you're right beside it. Say something along the lines of “Hey, do you see that funny looking thing there?” and take the cache in your hand. Tell your date that its a geocache and take out the pen you brought with you. Did I tell you to bring a pen before starting the walk? Oh, whoops....make sure to bring a pen. Now you get to write your names inside the cache, which is actually really cool because it signifies your first date immortalized in the cache! I think this is really romantic, like a new generational carving your names into a tree kind of thing. Now you have the option to continue the date and find more caches if you want, or do something completely different. The most important thing is that you did something really unique, and made a lasting memory out of it. 

Wrap Up

Whoa, now that was a long post. It’s like my earlier stuff where each section was super long! Hopefully you enjoyed this one, because I know it to be very effective from personal experience. Better yet, in a years time when you two are madly in love, you can go back to the cache and see where it all began. Now that's something incredible.

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Concert Date

We’re already half way through summer, yikes! But with that being said, there’s still time to do a big planned summer date idea with your significant other. Or, not planned (more on that later). For now, we’re talking about the classic concert date.

The Date

Concerts are amazing, simply put. I get such a thrill seeing my favourite bands and artists live in person. In fact, some of my favourite moments have been during concerts. But you probably already knew concerts were a great time. However, how would they be as a date idea? The answer, even better. Now there are two ways to go about a concert date. The first one is to pick a concert you know is happening in advance. That way you can get tickets no problem, book off work, and plan according. That in itself would make a pretty amazing date experience! But I think it could be better. A great idea would be making it a surprise (maybe for a birthday or anniversary). Make a card, with the tickets inside, and accompany it with the band/artist’s latest album on vinyl! You know, because you’ve been building up your vinyl collection ever since I wrote about the record store date right?? Jokes aside, vinyl is a great option because you get to listen to music in a whole different way. I would also suggest making a playlist of that artist, so that you can listen to it on the way to the concert. “I can't wait to hear this live” and “Do you think they will play this?” are all conversations I want you two to have on your concert adventure. But what if I told you there’s a way to make it even more adventurous?

2 Tickets Please

So here's my idea on flipping the concert date on its head. Simply put, you're going to go on your favourite concert site, ticket venue place, Spotify concerts, etc. and find the literal next concert you can buy tickets for (as long as they’re reasonably priced). Then, you're going to get tickets for the show! Even if you haven't heard of them before, just go for it! This spontaneous idea is kinda crazy, I know. But crazy is good sometimes. Plus you’d be in for one awesome story. Yes, it could be a terrible experience, or the music could be awful, or you could meet some really awesome people there, and end up loving the music! And it's that slim chance of success, that makes this idea so intriguing in my opinion. I mean, how many people can say they went to a concern just on a whim, and ended up finding one of their favourite bands!

Wrap Up

If that idea is too intense for you (which is completely fine by the way), you can always do the main idea I talked about in the beginning! What ever you decide to do, I know you'll be able to make some great memories out of it; because in the end that's what it's all about.

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Romance Date

“Whoa hold on a minute, The Romance Date? That could literally be anything!” Yes dear reader you are correct. I kinda don't have a title for this date idea, because it doesn't really have a theme besides being romantic. But let me tell you, romantic it is. I’d definitely suggest saving this one for a special moment in your relationship.

The Date

“But what kind of special moment” I hear you ask. Well, ideally you could save this for an anniversary. However, I feel like this idea is too generic for an anniversary. My pick for such an occasion would be something meaningful to the both of you. But if you’re out of ideas, this one would definitely work. Other suggestions I could think of would be Valentines Day, a big promotion at work, a huge accomplishment, or just because you love your significant other and want to surprise them. All choices are good, and would work for this idea. So what is it already?

Straight out of a Movie

Ok, you're going to create a surprise, romantic setting for the two of you. And it has to be a surprise, as that will make it the most impactful. Firstly, you're going to need a room to set up in. I would suggest a bedroom, but a living room would work just as well. Now that you have your location, let’s go through this step by step.

Step 1: Create a romantic music playlist (ideally of songs they really like) and have it playing when they walk in. Having a portable speaker would be a huge help!

Step 2: Have candles lit all around the room. No, I’m not talking about expensive candles here. Cheap, little candles will work perfectly (unless you want to go all out). And of course have them be your only light source.

Step 3: Wine! Have a bottle of their favourite wine (or alcoholic beverage) poured into two glasses ready to go.

Step 4: Their favourite flowers or chocolate or both! My pick would be Guylian Belgian Chocolates, because they are the greatest chocolates of life. Give me a box of those and I’m all yours, seriously.

Step 5: Last step on the list is your main event, a blanket to sit on in the middle of the room and cheesecake. Delicious, fatty, too good to be true cheesecake. 

Wrap Up

If you know when your partner will be home, that would be ideal. Or set everything up and tell them to come over for a surprise. Obviously you don't want to light the candles until they're close to arriving, and same goes to playing the music. But when they do show up, and they see what you’ve done for them, the look on their face will be priceless. But, why should you do all of this? Because no one does anything like this anymore! It shows how much you care about them, and that you're willing to put in effort to please them. It’s going to be super romantic, and I guaranteed it’ll make a lasting memory. After you finish the cheesecake, what you do next is completely up to you....

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Park Date

Before we get into this, I want to give thanks to Awkwardmarine for this awesome date idea! Also, I’m going to write this one a bit differently than other blog posts, because I have a bunch of ideas for the park, yet they aren't big enough to have their own post. So I’m just going to write all of them down, and you can pick and choose which ones interest you. Now with that being said, I present to you dear readers 12 date ideas to do at the park!

The Date

Like most of my date ideas, planning ahead of time will be essential. BUT, I hear you say, what if I wanted a spur of the moment, no planning required, back up idea. I hear you loud and clear, so I’m going to include free date ideas that don't require any planning! But no matter what idea is your favourite, you're going to need a public city park to do this in, so hopefully you have one near you. Can you do all of these ideas at once? Of course, but I would recommend only picking a few, or at least having them in the back of your mind in case one of your dates ends quickly and you need to think of something fast to do. Hope you have fun!

The 12 Park Date Ideas

People watching: Simply put, you and your significant other are going to sit somewhere and watch people walk by you. But of course there’s a little more to that. Try to figure them out before they walk out of sight. Guess their story, occupation, favourite colour, whether they're vegan or not, that sort of thing.

20 questions: Ever play 20 questions before? You’re going to think of something (literally anything) and your partner has 20 questions to find out more about what you picked. Also, you can only answer with yes or no. Oh, and did I mention you're gonna be doing this on the swings? If you're asking the questions you push. Switch once its the other persons turn!

Kite Flying: This one is super fun on a windy day. You can easily pick up a dollar store kite or make your own! Better yet, if you go on “The Arcade Date” I wrote about many moons ago, make sure to get one of those build your own toy planes and have races!

Catch: A football, Frisbee, tennis ball, or baseball can work for this activity. Bonus points if you're practising for a coed sports league (date foreshadowing??) 

Cloud Watching: It’s actually a lot more fun than it sounds. The more ridiculous the object in the sky the better!

Eye Spy: Ok hear me out first. You're gonna walk the full length of the park, making mental notes of things that catch your eye. Once you've picked something, your partner has to try and guess what it is. Start at the entrance (or wherever you want) and give hints about your selection. Hints could be how big it is, the colour, if your partner is “hot or cold”. But the catch here is they can only ask for 5 hints!

Events: Look to see if there is an event happening in your local park. There’s usually something happening during the summer months, you never know what you might stumble upon. 

Painting/Drawing: Bring some art supplies and paint the scenery of your choice! Bonus points if its sunset.

Picnic: Bring a blanket, maybe some food, and enjoy eating outside. Need a spin on this idea? Well lucky for you I’ve already written about a super awesome picnic date idea!

Ice Cream: Theres always some kind of ice cream vendor near city parks (hopefully). So grab a cone in one hand, your partners hand in the other, and walk through the park, enjoying your delicious treat. Just watch out for bugs.

Talk: This one is pretty self explanatory, but just sitting and talking could make for a great date! Especially if you don't know much about them yet.

Make Out: And of course, a romantic classic. Find somewhere secluded and hidden from the other park goers, and just have a really fun and passionate make out session!

Wrap Up

What did you think of this different blog post style? Usually I like to go into great detail about my ideas (as you obviously know), but for this Sundays post I wanted to mix it up a bit. Also, I’m surprised nobody called me out on this, but last week I didn't post anything. I have good reasons though! I’m working on something pretty cool, but more on that when its ready. 

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Board Game Date

Rainy day got you down? Never fear, date night can still be saved with this awesome and hilarious date idea! With a small twist of course.

The Date

The great thing about this idea is that it can be a planned date or a backup, as long as you have the games already. “But I don't have any board games” I hear you say. Never fear loyal reader, I got you covered. Firstly, let’s talk about the types of games you'll be playing. Of course, I always recommend playing whatever games you like the most, however this date idea was designed to use older games from your childhood, or even older! I’m talking about classics like Twister, Ker-plunk, Hungry Hungry Hippos, Uno, Barrel Full of Monkeys, Yahtzee, Connect 4, Guess Who, Memory, Mouse Trap, those kind of games! Yes, I know what you're thinking, those are goofy games for kids; and that's the point. You could play your Monopolies and your Risks, but that's too normal. I want you to release your inner child, and play games you've completely forgotten about! They're dumb, they're silly and they're quick, sounds like a pretty hilarious night to me. Add some drinks, snacks and music to the mix, and you're looking at a great memory maker! But with that being said, I don't want you to be spending hundreds of dollars on these games. See what you have in storage, and go from there. A great way to save money is buy travel versions. They're much smaller yes, but also much cheeper. Thrift stores are a good option too, as you never know what you can find there. But if nothing is working, I do have another option for you.

“You” The Board Game

Yes, you read that right. You're going to create your own board game, with your significant others’ help of course. Whoa, wait, huh? Confused? Ok hear me out first. Think of a combination between candy land, and snakes and ladders. You can get a bristol board and create mini squares with sticky notes with a whole bunch of fun colours, or you could simply draw on a piece of paper. The amount of effort you want to put into this is totally up to you. Next you can decorate it with different memories, inside jokes, add some areas to move up or move back (like snakes and ladders) and make this “Your relationship the Board Game”. You make the rules, so it can whatever you want, but I do encourage you to add this one element. Have part of your game involve answering questions on cards. This could be if you land on a certain square, or required before moving your character piece. I want you to write a bunch of questions about yourself. What your favourite colour is, your birth month, your favourite flavour of ice cream, anything really! Its your partners job to see how well they know you (and visa vera of course when they make their own cards). It adds a really cool and personal element to the board game, as well as answers the most important question of any relationship: “How well does my partner know me”. You might be surprised by how much they remember, or forget.

Wrap Up

And that's my take on Board Games. As always, this date idea could be as simple or as complicated as you want. But, I do challenge you to make this one complicated. Its so much fun getting materials to make your own game, decorating it, and deciding upon rules. I really think you should give it a try! And don't forget to add on new questions as your relationship continues. 

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Stargazing Date

Summer is only here for a couple of months, which means you need to take advantage of these warm summer nights. What better way to do so then cuddling up under the stars, Nicholas Sparks style? 

The Date

Like most of my date ideas, preparation is key. First is location, i.e where you'll be looking up at the stars. The most common place would be a public park, although somewhere more rural would work out better (the less light pollution, the more visible the stars). If your city supports Earth Day, I would highly recommend doing it then, as the city participates in a brief no electricity time period. Well at least that's what my city does, do you even have Earth Day in your city? I’m going to pretend the answer to that is yes and you totally know what I’m talking about. You should also pick a night that wont be very cloudy. Planning everything just to have it ruined by a cloudy night would literally be the worst thing ever. Ok so we have the location, next is the necessities. Are you going to watch in your car? In the bed of a truck? On a blanket in the grass? Majority of you will probably pick the latter, so we’ll go with that. Lastly you should bring a couple of snacks, some extra blankets just in case, a pillow or two, a portable speaker with romantic music, maybe some drinks, and most importantly bug spray! Yes, I said bug spray. It may kill the ambiance for a brief second but most people forget that bugs are a thing during the summer, especially at night. And I don't want my lovely readers being eaten alive by mosquitos. Ok so you're laying under the stars..... what now?

Star Light Star Bright

You're going to get really romantic for this one, yay! Play that music, get under those covers and cuddle up with your significant other. Talk about life, talk about your day, the future, something funny that happened, your deepest darkest secrets, make out, anything you want really. It’s just the two of you and the stars. In this exact moment, nobody else exists. But what about the stars themselves? Well, you could bring a telescope, and I think that would be really cool! However, they are expensive ranging from $50-$150 so only get one if you plan on using it more than once. Thats a lot of money to spend on one date. An alternative would be downloading a stargazing app on your phone. If your location data is turned on, the app will actually pin point the constellations for you! So you can take turns locating them, which is actually a lot of fun.

Wrap Up

And that's the Stargazing Date. Realistically this date could be completely free, and just requires a little bit of cash to make it really nice (or a lot of cash if you so wish). And for you Nicholas Sparks fans out there, yes I’m going to answer the elephant in the room (I’m looking at you “A Walk To Remember”). Naming a Star costs around $50-$100 depending on what registry you go to. If you decide to do this, you've hit romantic overload, and will definitely make a memorable moment you two will share forever. But with that being said, I only recommend this to couples who have been seeing each other for a VARY long time. Nothing says “moving too fast” like naming a star for someone on the first few dates. Also, unfortunately the star isn't officially named the name you pick. In fact, the same star could have multiple “unique” names from different agencies. It’s sad to hear, but I wanted to let you know before you dropped a lot of money. At least you still get a really cool looking certificate!

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101 

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I absolutely love your blog! You're an expert at dates and I'm definitely doing a lot of these with my girl. Have you ever thought of writing about a park date? That may sound boring but just exploring the park and having an adventure was one of the best dates I've ever had. I totally recommend making a post about it.

Hey thank you so much! I don’t think that sounds boring at all, in fact I think it could be an amazing summer date idea. Adding it to the list right now, thanks for the suggestion!

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The Ice Cream Date

The quintessential, best summer date there is. Agreed? Good, I think so too. I mean how can you go wrong with such a classic? It’s date perfection because it's casual, cheap, and delicious. Not to mention it can be done at any age, and is almost universally adored. So what do you do on this date anyway?

The Date

You guessed it, you’re going to get ice cream. But there's a lot more to it than that. Before we get into this, I want to state that getting ice cream is a fantastic first date and couple date. However, depending on where you are in your relationship will depend on what you do for this idea. If this is a first date situation, I suggest treating this like the Coffee Date. Get your ice creams to go, and walk around the surrounding area while enjoying your delicious treat. For couples, I suggest you make getting there the adventure, and ice cream as the reward. Anyone can drive to their closest McDonalds, but what about biking to an old school ice cream parlour? As a bonus you'll be making room for those extra calories. “What about flavours? Are you going to make us pick our date’s flavour for them?” Umm no, no I’m not. You don't mess with ice cream. Your flavour is your flavour, so you should get whatever you want. I don't want to make this idea too complicated, because the simplicity of it is what makes it so amazing. Find a cool way to get there, or walk around after, but mainly enjoy that special treat with your special someone. What? You DO want to mess with ice cream? Ok, ok....heres The Ice Cream Date with that special Dates 101 flare.

Open Your Own Parlour

Yes, you read that correctly. You and your date (probably significant other in this scenario) are going to be turned into ice cream specialists. You will need a bunch of different cones, ice cream flavours , sauces, and toppings. Ok, realistically like 2 different cones, two or three flavours (one should be vanilla), 1 or 2 sauces, and maybe 3 or 4 toppings. What should you pick for toppings? Well, you could go traditional with gummy bears, sprinkles, cookie crumbs etc. or you could go extreme with some outliers such as almonds, chocolate pieces, or skittles. Ok now for sauces. Chocolate is a given, but have you ever considered adding peanut butter in there? Jelly? Nutella?! Yes, take a moment because your mind has probably just been blown. So lay out all your ingredients, and get creative! Try and make the best (or worst) tasting ice cream possible with the stuff you have and out do your partner! That last combination didn't work out for you? Try another, and another! Make as many as you want and just go crazy for ice cream! Afterwards you can chill out on the couch and enjoy your lovely creations, or freeze them for another time. The choice is totally up to you.

Wrap Up

And that's my take on this beloved ice cream classic. Again, don't make this one too complicated, especially if its a first date. And let me tell you, it’s a great first date option. But for those of you looking for a little extra, the option is there for you as well.

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101

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The Water Gun Date

Its officially summer you guys! Which means the hot summer days are upon us. And because of the heat, I’m bringing you a super unique take on the classic water gun fight. Prepare to get wet.

The Date

Preparation for this date idea is crucial, as you're gonna need a few things. Well...mainly water guns. To make this fair, I would recommend you go to your local water gun store (you have those right) and bring $30 to spend on a set. Or $30 for both of you and buy anything within that money limit. You could get really tactical! Next you'll want to head to the Dollar Store and pick up some water balloons, some buckets, and even a sprinkler if they have it. When you get home, you'll want to set up your battlefield. Set up shop in a backyard, park, cottage, etc. and gear up for your water gun war! You’ll be using your main water guns of course, as well as the balloons to throw at each other (hopefully not too hard). Buckets of water can be picked up and used, as well as sprinklers! Want to add some extra fun to the date? Make it a double date with teams and capture the flag! And make sure to pick a hot day of course to take full advantage of the weather. Oh....and one more thing.

Locked and Loaded

Ok, so you could stop reading here and just do the above. You and your significant other would still have a great time! However, I would add one more thing to this date idea....washable markers. Before the battle begins, you’re gonna mark up your partner, and visa-versa. Mark up their skin everywhere! It could be super simple, with coloured lines, or you could get creative and draw on wacky sayings, designs, maybe even a target. The whole idea is that the person who has the most marker on them in the end wins! For added fun, take a before and after picture of your good looking selves to show the world who came up on top.

Wrap Up

And there you have it, the first date of the summer. The main thing to remember for this date is location, water guns, and washable markers. Once you have that, you can get as creative as you want. Oh, and if you decide to challenge other couples, just know I’ll be rooting for you.

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates 101

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The Record Store Date

Should we keep with the retro inspired date idea theme? Sure, why not! Like the previous week, for this idea we’re going to go way back....again. Simply put, you and your significant other will take a little trip to your local record store. Only there’s one small problem....there aren't a lot of record stores anymore. So, a warning before we get into this. You might have to scout out a record store if you want to try this idea out. Or substitute it with a CD store (like that makes it any easier). I know it might be tough if you don't know what you're looking for, but hey, finding it is half the fun right?

The Date

Have you found a local record store near you? You have? Thats great! Now go to it. For those of you who are unfamiliar with records, they're like giant CDs you play on a record player. Oh did I mention you're also going to need a record player for this? But hold on a moment before you write an angry comment. Collecting records is actually a really cool hobby, and starting a collection with your significant other could be something super fun! It can be a thrill going to your local store or garage sales, and seeing what you can find. Vinyl records are definitely an interesting (and dying) art, but well worth it. In fact, believe it or not records sound a lot better (from an audiophile perspective) than music streamed from your Spotifys or Apple Musics of the world. Plus its something physical, something you can display, and that's a feeling worth pursuing. Ok you two are in the record store, now what? 

A Day at the Races

So this date idea comes in two parts. For the first part, you're just going to look at the records available. Maybe you found an album from a long lost artist you forgot about, or maybe you found something brand new! Its great to look for something you and your partner would genuinely like to add to your collection. However this wouldn't be Dates101 if there wasn't a little twist involved right?

You are going to buy an album for your partner, and visa versa. But... there's a catch. You aren't allowed to know the artist before hand, it has to be someone completely new. Which means, you have no idea what it’s going to sound like. Then, you must pick a record based on the album artwork, and nothing more. It could be the coolest looking album, the scariest, the weirdest, the most simple, the most green looking one, the one with the most people on it. Pick whatever category you want for this. Just know that you must pick a record based on that artwork category. Your partner does the same, with either the same category or something completely different. And of course you're gonna try and buy the album without your partner knowing what it looks like. When the two of you get home, set some time to listen to your new records! You could have just found your new favourite band, or it could be the worst thing you've ever heard. Either way, you've made a great memory out of it. Plus the record will be a fantastic conversation starter with friends.

Wrap Up

And that's the record store date. Record players themselves aren't very expensive (ok well kinda). But think of it as an investment, rather than a nuisance. Record collection is a lot of fun, and I personally do it. Plus, this could be a recurring date idea, say the 5th of every month is record store day. Make a tradition out of it, and keep the music alive.

Remember, make every date a story.

-Dates101