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We might set up a whole new account (+email) exclusively for discourse + debates of all kind. I want to separate this account from discourse as much as possible in order to create a safe space for those who want to stray away from hostile environments.

12:46 A.M. ~ 10/11/23

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May all plurals and systems of color have a fantastic day and a joyful week. May today and all the days ahead and beyond bring you peace. We support you, today, tomorrow, always and forever. Always remember just how important you are and how much you matter, each and every day.

From our system to yours, we wish you all the best. Take care, for you will always belong here.

We're here and we're not going anywhere.

- From your local neighborhood Indigenous system

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Happy Lesbian Day to all my lesbian friends! This includes but is not limited to:

Transgender lesbians

Non-binary lesbians

Genderqueer lesbians

Third Gender Lesbians

He/Him Lesbians

Pronoun Nonconforming (PNC) lesbians

Straight lesbians

Bisexual lesbians

Polysexual lesbians

Pansexual lesbians

Omnisexual lesbians

Lesbian boys/men (lesboy)

~ 10/08/23

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do you remember the 21st night of transgender

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does anyone else feel so dissociated from the concept of time like holy shit halloween is already near last I remember it was like august

09/22/23 ~ 6:00 P.M.

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Narrow-minded bigotry is calling someone a pedophile because xe supports the idea that pedophilia is not inherently abusive/predatory in nature and that attraction is not synonymous with action. Pedophilia is not something you choose, rather is a consequence of temperamental, environmental and/or genetic/physiological factors. A study conducted in 2012 has shown that among 104 men who committed sexual offenses, 53 people had pedophilic attraction while 51 people had nonpedophilic attraction.

Friendly reminder that it’s okay to be a pedophile. You did not choose to have attraction to children. It’s okay if you developed pedophilia due to trauma. You are not a monster. You are not worth less because of it. Having attraction to children doesn’t define who you are. You deserve to be loved. You deserve to feel safe. You matter. Always.

09/22/23 ~ 1:04 P.M.

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🍰 *leaves a slice of cake on ur dash and walks away, hoping you like it*

Reblog to cake ur mutuals

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Online queer spaces are nothing like real life queer spaces. I went to megaplex and wore my "lesboy pride" drawing as a badge. I received nothing but compliments and support from so many people. I felt loved and accepted for once. I had an amazing conversation about it with a favorite artist of mine. If you ever feel left out and excluded because of your identity on the internet, just know there are people out there who love and accept you!

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terflets when multigender men/genderfluid men/third gender men have the self autonomy to identify as a lesbian due to the complexity of gender identity and sexual orientation

09/18/23 ~ 9:55 A.M.

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I’ve never heard of this before but this is very sweet nevertheless.

09/18/23 ~ 1:30 A.M.

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[An orange banner with a longhair black cat on either side. It reads: "The cat says: This blog is 100% jumpscare free for spoopy season!"]

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If you’re interested in talking to me about chainsaw man, please hit me up! I absolutely love it to death and I will love you (/p) forever 🥺💖

09/17/23 ~ 11:20 P.M.

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Alterhuman here 👋 (I& am part of a system and am personally nonhuman although im very uncomfortable talking about it.)

My account is a safe space for ALL beings under the alterhuman umbrella, even niche ones that aren’t seen as such.

09/17/23 ~ 11:15 P.M.

reblog this post if ur alterhuman (stuff like otherkin/hearted, therian, fictionkin, etc) i want more alterhuman stuff recommended to me

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Which ones of these arbitrary trauma-induced rules do you follow?

No spending money, ever. what if you need it later and your life depends on it.

Assume that all strangers are 3 seconds close to becoming hostile. fawn to keep them friendly.

No delegating tasks. no telling other people to do things you could potentially do yourself. what if they mess up.

Assume that everyone will consider you a burden if you do 1 single mistake that inconveniences them. do all that is possible to not make that mistake.

Do not admit when things are going wrong. wait until theres no other option but to ask for help, and even then consider not doing that.

Always act like you're okay. not doing so might make you seem 'not normal' and 'accused of being crazy and unstable'.

Do anything for friends, even if it sounds weird, dodgy, illegal. you want to prove that you're fun and easy going and helpful and useful and extremely cool with anything.

Never let it show if you're suspicious of someone. never say out loud that you think their intentions are bad. that might set them off.

If hurt, hide and isolate. Do not let anyone see you hurt.

Do not ask help for problems you feel are your own responsibility to solve. Even if you don't see yourself solving them successfully. If you can't do it, assume nobody can help you.

Help others to try and build positive relationships. Don't accept help so you don't end up relying on them for anything.

Do not start things that involve help or participation from other people. People are not reliable.

Assume that institutions, government, police, social services, and any kind of groups of people are all considering you a nuisance, and would attack you on sight, in every single situation. Never rely on them or assume they would do anything else.

No arguing, confronting, or standing up for yourself unless the situation is absolutely unsurvivable otherwise. Lay low until doing otherwise is seriously damaging your mental health and ability to live.

Give up on hopeful social encounters before they disappoint you. If you have to interact with people, assume the worst is about to happen.

No allowing yourself to idealize, or dream of positive future with people. It's a trap and your expectations need to be either extremely realistic or low.

Assume that fancy and expensive things don't exist for you. Despise them and get away from them.

No comparing yourself and your life to how other people live. It causes depression and despair. Other people's lives and standards of living are none of your business.

Do not showcase any skill or brag about any achievement. Jealous people can destroy you for satisfaction.

Assume people think the worst of you and don't consider changing their mind. Just try to keep out of their way.

Do not display anger. You don't want to be called insane or get arrested. You don't know what people could potentially blame you for if you're openly angry. But other angry people are dangerous and you need to get away from them.

If you follow more than half of these, you have a trauma-induced problem. These are not normal or healthy. These are not developed in a healthy environment. These are extremely self-protective, isolating, ruled by terror of the world and the people living in it. If you follow these, something bad has been done to you.

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I put the “fuck you” in queer.

I put the “fuck you” in alterhumanity.

I put the “fuck you” in disability.

I put the “fuck you” in neurodivergency.

I put the “fuck you” in BIPOC.

I put the “fuck you” in systemhood/plurality/multiplicity

09/17/23 ~ 11:05 P.M.

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Mspec ≠ attraction to men.

Mspec folks including Mspec Lesbians can of course be attracted to men, but it’s not inherent to being Mspec.

There’s more genders than just man and woman.

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Our identity isn’t for you comfort, it’s for our own self-understanding and expression.