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#SouthAfrica

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Unseen rare photos of Aaliyah and Usher backstage at Power 106 Concert, Photographed by Gayle Elliott (1995)

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Best Movie Roll

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Mon cadeau du samedi soir ...

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Thought for today

Bob Marley was once asked if there was a perfect woman. He replies :

Who cares about perfection?

Even the moon is not perfect, it is full of craters.

The sea is incredibly beautiful, but salty and dark in the depths.

The sky is always infinite, but often cloudy.

So, everything that is beautiful isn't perfect, it's special.

Therefore, every woman can be special to someone.

Stop being "perfect", but try to be free and live, doing what you love, not wanting to impress others!

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Wow

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Congratulations to this family.

Rihanna, A$AP and their sons RZA & Riot

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coco gauff wins her maiden grand slam title in home soil at the us open (09.09.2023)

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15+ Timeless Nelson Mandela Quotes That Changed The World

On the birth anniversary of the iconic leader and advocate for equality, Nelson Mandela, we remember him and his powerful words that continue to inspire generations.

Here are 15 famous nelson mandela quotes about life, each with its own significance:

“It always seems impossible until it’s done.” This quote epitomizes Mandela’s determination and optimism, encouraging us to overcome seemingly insurmountable challenges through perseverance and collective action.

“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” Mandela’s life exemplified resilience, and this quote reminds us to embrace failures as stepping stones to success.

“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.” Mandela recognized the transformative power of education in breaking the chains of ignorance and building a brighter future.

“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it.” This quote reflects Mandela’s courage and understanding that bravery is about confronting fear and not letting it control one’s actions.

“To deny people their human rights is to challenge their very humanity.” Freedom, for Mandela, extended beyond personal liberation to advocating for the rights and dignity of all individuals.

“Do not judge me by my successes, judge me by how many times I fell down and got back up again.” Mandela’s humility shines through this acknowledgment of his imperfections, emphasizing the importance of resilience.

“The greatest gift in life is to be remembered.” This poignant quote highlights Mandela’s desire for a legacy based on positive impact and creating a better world for future generations.

“A winner is a dreamer who never gives up.” Mandela remained a dreamer throughout his life, encouraging us to hold onto our dreams and persevere despite adversity.

“I am fundamentally an optimist… Part of being optimistic is keeping one’s head pointed toward the sun.” Mandela’s optimism was a driving force behind his leadership, even in challenging times.

“Difficulties break some men but make others.” Mandela’s personal experiences reinforced the notion that challenges can either defeat or strengthen individuals, depending on their resilience and determination.

“Lead from the back, and let others believe they are in front.” Mandela’s leadership style was based on humility and empowerment, fostering a sense of agency and responsibility in others.

“Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.” Mandela’s emphasis on forgiveness and reconciliation was crucial in the healing process of South Africa post-apartheid, urging us to let go of hatred.

“If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart.” Mandela recognized the power of language in building bridges between people, emphasizing the importance of communication and cultural understanding.

“I am not a saint unless you think of a saint as a sinner who keeps on trying.” In acknowledging his flaws, Mandela emphasized the significance of perseverance in pursuing noble causes and personal growth.

Nelson Mandela’s wisdom and legacy continue to inspire us to strive for a better and more equitable world.

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30 Signs You Are Not The Victim! You Are The Toxic Person

Evil exists, and it can manifest through both you and me. Many of us have encountered toxic and harmful individuals who pose a threat to others. However, have you ever considered the possibility that you may be the bad person in someone else’s story without even realizing it? Here are signs that you may be a bad person, rather than someone else.

Know some signs you are a bad person. While I’m not suggesting that you aspire to become an evil supervillain intent on world destruction, it’s important to recognize that throughout life, we can develop toxic traits that harm others, often without our awareness. Most of us like to believe that we are inherently good individuals — honest, empathetic, helpful, and optimistic. However, when we become truly toxic, we may deny our reality and refuse to acknowledge our transformation into a bad person.

We turn a blind eye to the clear signs that we exhibit as a bad person. We dismiss the concerns raised by our friends and family about how much we have changed. We convince ourselves that they are mistaken, attributing our negative behavior to stress. We cling to the belief that deep down, we are still the loving, caring, and kind individuals we once were. Yet, as life unfolds, things change, and so do we. Life has the power to break us, corrupt us, and distort our perception of the world. While it may not be entirely your fault that you have transformed into someone unrecognizable, you cannot escape the responsibility of being a negative influence.

I acknowledge that trauma, depression, stress, and life circumstances such as failed relationships or the loss of loved ones can completely alter our inner selves. However, once you recognize that you have changed, that you have become a different — perhaps even malevolent — version of your former self, it is crucial to take responsibility, identify the signs of being a bad person, and embark on a journey of self-improvement. Reclaim your true self — an individual with good intentions. It is worth noting that there are genuinely evil individuals out there — narcissists, psychopaths, and those who derive pleasure from causing harm to others. So, are you genuinely a bad person or merely transforming into one? The distinction lies in being aware of your behavior and its impact on others.

Now, let’s explore some common signs that indicate you may be a bad person:

Deriving Joy from Others’ Misery: If you find amusement in witnessing others’ pain or misfortune, such as laughing when someone falls and gets hurt or finding entertainment in tragic news events, it suggests that you lack empathy. This feeling, known as Schadenfreude, can be linked to low self-esteem, high aggression, and a strong sense of rivalry.

Extreme Sense of Self-Importance: Do you believe the entire world revolves around you? Do you throw tantrums when others fail to meet your expectations? If you prioritize yourself excessively, maintain a sense of entitlement, and disregard others’ happiness, you may exhibit traits of narcissism.

Judgmental Attitude: While it is natural to form opinions about others, being excessively judgmental without properly understanding their motives or circumstances is a toxic behavior. Making baseless assumptions and criticizing others for no reason indicates a negative outlook on people.

Manipulative Behavior: Do you twist the intentions of others to suit your own narrative? Do you blame others to shift power dynamics and exploit them for personal gain? Manipulative individuals exert control over others, creating confusion and affecting victims’ mental well-being.

Lack of Empathy: If you are unsympathetic, insensitive, and incapable of relating to the pain and suffering of others, it shows a lack of empathy. Believing that others’ misfortunes are their own doing and refusing to acknowledge their experiences further contributes to a negative persona.

Victim Mentality: Assuming the role of a victim and using tears to escape difficult situations indicates a pessimistic outlook. Such individuals believe they are incapable of controlling their lives and often engage in unhealthy coping mechanisms.

Inability to Apologize: Refusing to admit faults or take responsibility for mistakes demonstrates a lack of accountability. Shifting blame onto others and avoiding genuine apologies prevents personal growth and indicates a negative character.

Passive-Aggressive Behavior: Expressing anger indirectly, giving the silent treatment, and engaging in subtle negative actions are signs of passive-aggressive behavior. This toxic approach to interactions harms others and contributes to a negative personality.

If you resonate with several of these signs and exhibit toxic behaviors that negatively affect others’ lives, it is essential to recognize them as indicators of being a bad person. While lacking empathy or displaying manipulative tendencies doesn’t automatically make you an evil individual, it is crucial to address these traits and work towards personal growth.

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💁🏾‍♀️ Jill Scott

🎶 A Long Walk

💿 Who is Jill Scott?-2000

Soulful Sunday

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The Tougaloo Nine. The nine students who walked into a “whites only” library in Mississippi and were later arrested. 1961 

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The Queen mother.... rest in grace your highness.

R.I.P Queen Elizabeth ll

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Great shot

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My favourite hip hop album....

Today in Hip Hop History:

Scarface released his fourth album The Untouchable March 11, 1997