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16:55 There is no responsibility w/o consciousness and there is no blame! These unconscious patterns have been passed on and have an impact on physiology, and if you want an impact on physiology you have to get conscious. In his world th ere is No room for blame there is room for health people to be responsible! To respond to their circumstances.

17:55 emotional health - therapy helps me see why as I peel back onion. Thought this addiction is from the way I was born. However, as I sort through emotional baggage and start to clear it. I’m no longer as an a addictive person as I used to be. That wasn’t my personality that was the behavior I had chosen to sooth something that I was missing. 19:30 Dr GM - he agrees w/ concept but wants to use different language. That was your personality. But that wasn’t your person that wasn’t who you were. Your personality is your defense structure that we develop as we deal with we’re pain. It’s an overlay of a true self for example my ADD tuning out I never chosen to now but when I was a infant I have plenty of stress and how does a infant deal with stress that they can’t change… They tune out. There for a tuning on is a program in the brain that you develop your childhood. It was an added Tatian your addictive personality it’s not you… It’s an adaptation bed that you take on as a way of surviving. As a child as a way of soothing your pain. It’s when we become an adult there’s something more to us than her personality that her personality is a defensive cover for who we truly are as you go through therapy you go through layers you discover that does not actually me.So what you think is your personality is actually a defensive cover. It’s a defense that we no longer need and so we become true or to ourselves. Therefore more balanced and happy in our life but you are hundred percent so that was your personality but you are not your personality

22:08 stress as a baby your brain adapts to that with signals that your brain is getting.

Example - Hyper tension social psi. Driven by stress - drives risk! Warning!

Black us males - in racist society - suppressed rage!

Socially induced mediated through emotions on nervous system.

25:00 insane society and stress! Life style changes! Don’t get better what’s the root cause of the problem. Addiction and trauma and all human behavior DRDM - meat people’s needs adapting in artificial means. Harvard center of child development - troubled children early adaptation caused problems as an adult. However. Tuning out!