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The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy

I tried to scroll past this. I really did

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have you ever seen a fictional male character that is obviously designed by straight people to be ugly as possible but you KNOW would be extremely popular with gay men???

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Some reader, lightly commenting on my fic: hey i liked this.

me, my eyes enormous: you COMMENT me? you comment on my fic, like the story? oh! oh! love for reader! love for reader for One Thousand Years!!!!

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“Abortion is wrong! You’re murdering a baby!”

You mean fetus with no bodily autonomy that will not know or care if it’s aborted? It’s weird you prioritize a literal parasite over a live breathing autonomous human being.

Also it’s not “murdering a baby” if someone planted, let’s say an apple seed, in the ground and took it out you wouldn’t call it cutting down a tree, would you?

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ummm so basically reblog and add the first set of neopronouns you think of in the tags. trying to see something

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I’m getting obsessed with drawing bodies lmao

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THIS WAS SO DAMN CUTE OMG

It was also a trainwreck but I adore that.

GUYS READ ALL OF THIS PLEASE PLEASE PL–

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“aromantic people wanting to reclaim love, especially non-romantic love, as an important part of their humanity in the face of dehumanisation” and “a lot of aromantic people have been dehumanised and then forced to justify their humanity to people in the name of love, especially non-romantic love, and have thus rejected the idea of needing love at all to be considered fulfilled or even human” are ideas that must co-exist actually

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Why does everything have to be an argument. Using the MLM or “toothpaste” flag does not fucking mean you hate history or you don’t respect the community. It means that the original rainbow flag, does not symbolize being a gay man anymore.

It symbolizes and is an umbrella for the community as a whole, which is incredibly important for us to have!!

But if you’re bisexual and you want to flag that, you can wave the bi flag.

If you’re a lesbian you can wave the sunset flag.

But guess what?? If I as a gay trans man wear the rainbow flag, it doesn’t tell people that I’m a gay man, it tells people that I’m under the lgbt umbrella, which 90% of the time leads people to assume I’m a bi girl. I use the MLM flag to tie my gender to my sexuality, for my own comfort.

Is the MLM flag as well known as the others? Maybe not!

Does the rainbow flag still represent my family, my fight and my identity? Of course!

I agree that a disturbing amount of queer kids aren’t getting any history, and I’m sure there are some on twitter that are being little douchebags and trouncing on Gilbert Bakers name and that does make me want to cry

But denouncing flags and identities isn’t the way to make them come around. You can fly more than one flag. Your presentation and the information you show people is up to you. And trying to tell kids that they’re bad for wanting a flag that they feel represents them best really isn’t gonna make them listen.

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One thing I really hate is how often, when I talk about how I was a girl at one point and how that's a thing I like about myself and am proud of, someone takes it upon themselves to "correct" me and tell me I was "always" a man and that society had just "misled" me.

No. No. No.

I was a girl. I spent the majority of my childhood as a girl. I *liked* being a girl! It made me HAPPY. I WAS EXCITED FOR BOOBS *AND MY PERIOD*

I dont know why, at 16 (in 2008 with NO INTERACTION with trans men other than seeing one cute trans boy on Gaiaonline who I crushed on really hard) I woke up one day and my brain went "no. All of this is wrong. We aren't a girl. We shouldn't be in this body!!!!" And developed really severe dysphoria.

I have no idea why it happened and I spent nearly 12 years trying to pretend I didnt still feel that way... And I figure, 12 years is plenty of time to give my brain a chance to go "no, wait. Actually a girl, lol never mind!"

But it didn't.

Stop telling me I was ~always~ a boy and just didnt know it. Stop acting as if YOU are the authority on MY experiences.

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it never fails to surprise me how alloarophobic even inclusive spaces can be, ngl

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I— PFFFTTT

Sander sides as things me and my friends have said, pt. 17

Roman: Why was frozen 2 so sad

Virgil: Sad as in

"Narratively it had a lot to live up to with the first one -which honestly wasn't all that great to begin with- resulting in a poorly constructed story with inconsistent characters and underwhelming plot points"

Virgil: or sad as in, "boo hoo the snowman died"

Roman: sad as in "Poor blonde man is worried about his gf and sings song about being lost in the woods"

Virgil: ah. Himbo sadness.

Roman: exactly.

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Patton: POSITIVITY TIME

Patton: HOPE

Patton: SAY IT WITH ME

Virgil: Hope

Patton: AND WHAT IS THAT

Virgil: the first step to disappointment

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AWWWW

hi i am crying. i love you trans women ❤

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WOAH

I seem to be on my way to do all Major Arcanes, and, for some reason, also the Suit of Swords. Ah, well.

Today, I drew the Seven of Swords ; and who's better to incarnate a card about betrayal, deception, lies et keeping secrets than our one and onely Lord Of the Lies, Janus Sanders ?

Believe it or not, the swords were actually not easy to draw. I am no sword-person. So why draw the Suit of Swords ? Eh.

Upright, this card indicates theft, trickery, among other things : you may be trying to get away with something, or are being sneaky. You use cunning and deception to get the advantage in situations. On another note, it suggests that you may need to put yourself first to get that stuff you want, and grossly, don't hesitate to, ya know, attack the Piñata. Sometimes, you need to put your own needs first, even if other may not agree with you.

Reversed, the cards implies you feel like a fraud, that you are deceiving yourself, attempt to fool yourself that everything is okay when it's not. Il represents keeping secrets hidden from others, which may bring you stress, tension, along with guilt and shame.

I think you can see why I picked my favorite snake to represente the card !

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PFFTTT YES