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actually gnawing on the bars of my enclosure

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hes just so meow to me

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Fuck it ill just be drawing anything these days

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horses anyone??

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as a tme person, what do you recommend i do to become a better ally to trans women?

ive had this sitting in my inbox for a few weeks and i think i know what to say now;

The most direct and obvious answer is to donate money to transfems. All other variables (race, disability, parent's economic status, etc) equal, a tme person is going to have better job prospects and make more money than a transfeminine person. Hit up donation posts. It's not fun but I mean, its easy and its practical and it directly helps.

If there are trans women in your life, just... know them, respect them, be there for them, be open about the fact that you're aware of transmisogyny and trying to unlearn it, and just generally just offer your hand in help when you can.

More in general, interrogate your own biases wrt to trans women. Ask yourself questions like "am i projecting sexuality onto her?" am i projecting malice or deception onto her?" "am i assuming she knows less about gender than someone who was afab?" And- if you're comfortable- ask yourself that of other people, and challenge them when you see them say something transmisogynistic. Be vocal about these double standards- we're not predators, we're not sex objects, we're not liars, we're not men.

When you see people say "be normal about trans women", know that that's not something that's going to come naturally to anyone living in our society- just know that you're going to have to do some manual gear-shifting around the image of transfems in your head.

Read Whipping Girl.

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MYSTIC SMUTEMBER VOL.4 DAY 03 - "Want you so bad" | DAY 04 - Dream

Full version of the illustrations HERE !

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Kissing practice with your bestie but it’s the 13th century 😳

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the swag sisters

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hexcellent ✨🎃🕯️ instagram | bluesky | patreon

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Philly 8.15.25

📸: Evan Albuck

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AEW DYNAMITE | 09.03.25

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User’s Manual to Godhood

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Free pdf.

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tjpw live in houston

maki itoh vs. raku

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(id in alt)

robin and wonder girl for claudia via @dcforgaza , tysm!

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you MUST unlearn the visceral, shame reaction to things you were taught is salacious acts committed by strangers and choose to look at the actual reality of these scandalizing sins. is it, statistically, a marginalized person with no power over people "grooming" minors, or the kids' relatives, teachers (esp at boarding schools) and religious figures (esp youth group pastors)? every time you deploy the language of shame and scandalization against your fellow sexual minorities, you normalize criminalizing and further, shifting of blame of the crimes of patriarchical reactionary institutions onto people who are some of the most victimized by the institutions.

a person consuming (and then discussing) or even, making arts or expressing themselves in a way that makes you, personally, uncomfortable is none of your business, to be perfectly blunt. choose to disengage with those that make you uncomfortable without leaning on the logos and pathos of reactionary institutions to unperson those around you or be prepared to be seen as a collaborator in the rightward shift in the cultural norms. if we had to ask the moral majority's permission before doing anything, then we'd never get anywhere with any marginalized people's rights.