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women let this radicalize you. men as a whole do not care about you. men will never have your best interests at heart. internalize this fact and do with it what you must.

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if u only like horror movies with excessive violence towards women, you like violence towards women. you don’t like terrifier because it’s ‘scary,’ you like terrifier because you want to see women hurt. men are always producing these types of horror films at the expense of women.

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this genuinely breaks my heart

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if u only like horror movies with excessive violence towards women, you like violence towards women. you don’t like terrifier because it’s ‘scary,’ you like terrifier because you want to see women hurt. men are always producing these types of horror films at the expense of women.

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an XY promoting violence??? who would’ve guessed…

I don't know about you,but I don't think individuals who are pumped full of hormones and have extreme delusions/ideologies should be trusted with weapons.

Same vibes as those incel mass shooters.

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If genitals don't determine your gender, how does removing them affirm it?

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“My boyfriend watches porn and I don’t mind.” “My husband likes porn! Men have needs!” “My man and I watch porn together. Don’t be a prude.”

Just because you tolerate a man’s bullshit doesn’t mean other women should. Instead of shaming a woman’s discomfort with a man’s inability to not jack it to other women while in a relationship, you should look inside yourself and wonder why you’re so comfortable letting your partner watch porn.

Hint: It’s not because you ‘actually don’t mind.’ It’s because you’re so desensitized to it and men want you to view watching porn as a normal thing for men to do in a relationship when it isn’t normal (even though it is common). Men have convinced you to not question why watching porn is necessary because it isn’t. No one needs porn to survive. Your man is watching porn because he’s addicted to it and can’t even stop watching it to respect you.

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Men “scared” of women: “I-I’ll be made fun of, the-they will reject me for being sh-short and ugly 🥺😡😭”

Women scared of men: They could verbally abuse, hit, murder, rape… etc. us.

Notice the difference?

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a transgender identified female being sexually harassed and threatened…it’s almost like that’s misogyny because she’s still a female. ‘gender diverse folk,’ trans identified males specifically, can just go back to their sex and the issues we share go away for them. women cannot change, we face misogyny no matter what. no one is denying that males are at fault for the oppression we face, TiMs are just included in the males that oppress us. they actually make it worse by fetishizing that misogyny and make it into a gender euphoria thing.

Hey just a message to the terfs and radfems who think they have a monopoly on oppression: when I came out as a trans man the sexual harassment and threats against me became so much worse.

Women and gender diverse folks experience a lot of the same issues and yet we have been taught (by fascists and conservatives) to hate each other, and to blame each other for the oppression we face, so the people who are really responsible are spared the blame.

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if u only like horror movies with excessive violence towards women, you like violence towards women. you don’t like terrifier because it’s ‘scary,’ you like terrifier because you want to see women hurt. men are always producing these types of horror films at the expense of women.

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tagging this radical feminist safe and terfsafe is insane. you’re trying to make this into a peace, love, and positivity thing while also subtly baiting radfems to get into an argument with you so you can try to tear them down. it’s giving internalized misogyny and to alleviate it, you’re trying to externalize it onto radfem women. also, do you really think that if a radfem was standing in front of an active rape happening and she had the choice to yell at a detrans woman or help that victim, she’d pick the detrans woman? that’s delusional. detransitioning women are not that big of an issue and it’s quite egotistical to say that. it’s giving when TiMs say that we envy them. completely out of touch with reality.

Why I will never support the radical feminist movement, as a detransitioning woman.

note: this is not meant to be any sort of hit piece or slander, I respect every feminist, even ones I disagree with. This is just my reasoning for why I do not like the radfem movement.

For a bit of context, I’ve indentified as trans since I was 12. At 18, I’ve decided to live my life as a lesbian woman, and i’ve never been happier with that choice.

Now, being a young trans man, I interacted a lot with pro trans content online (of course I did), and so of course I’ve heard about radical feminism. A passionate branch of feminism that takes a unique approach to women’s rights- deconstructing gender entirely. It sounds wonderful in theory, because of course gender is oppressive, most notably of women. I would know, being one. Even when I was trans I had to worry about being out at night. I even got chased once, and a man attempted to lure me to his truck another time. It’s brutal. But radical feminists devote their activism to ending this in a straightforward, logical way.

So why do I, a woman who has experienced both misogyny and transphobia, not support that? I feel that this is a good question for both trans allies and radfems alike to to ask. Knowledge is power.

Well, I’ll be direct. Radfems are some of the most depraved people i’ve ever met. I know, that sounds like a lot, but there’s no other words I can use that don’t perfectly encapsulate my experience with radfems. It’s depravity.

For weeks, I was harassed by transphobic radfems. Radfems, who are insistent on their love and support for TIFs aka trans men. It’s strange then that they would be so cruel towards one, wouldn’t you say?

Detransition is hard enough. It’s difficult to tell family that you were wrong. It’s difficult to reconnect with my gender. Hell, i prefer the term detrans over cis just because i have such a disconnect from my gender. So why do I have to deal with transphobic radfems sending me gore and death threats?

Thankfully all of the accounts doing this seem to be deleted or repurposed. But it’s only a matter of time until a new account is made just to send me an ask telling me to kill myself or a message about how much of a loser i am.

It’s this reason alone why i’ll never be a radfem. They’re just sick people. They don’t want liberation for women, they just hate trans people. It’s not even thinly veiled, their accounts are fully based around how horrible trans women are.

The truth being, trans women aren’t bad people at all. It’s easy to think they are because the news and media cherry picks some of the worst ones, but every community and minority group has bad people in it. some of the sickest people you could imagine, really. yes, they can be trans. but does being trans make you a sick person? does it turn you into a predator? no, it doesn’t. it just means you’re trans. trans or not, it’s up to men to be mature and take accountability for their own actions that they consciously make. a cis man is as capable to walk into a women’s room as a trans woman is.

if radical feminists cared more about women and detrans women, i could consider getting along with them. but sadly, all these passionate and dedicated feminists care about is hating trans people with a fiery passion. and i’ve been a casualty. it’s very difficult for me to sympathize with radfems when they’ve upset me to the point that they have

let me make it clear that gore and death threats don’t upset me, i’m not easily offended. So it’s not the threats that make me angry. It’s just the principle. The fact that radfems are spending their time scrolling reddit for gore pictures to send to fellow women instead of supporting us makes me SICK. it’s heartbreaking to picture a woman, raped and beaten by her boyfriend, and a radfem standing in front of her, readily available to help, but choosing to yell at a passing detrans woman. It’s really sad.

hopefully those reading this can take my words into consideration and use it to improve yourselves or your community (if you’re a radfem). i love womanhood and being a woman and i would love to share that joy with my sisters, but i just can’t when these issues i’ve experienced are in the back of my mind. I want radical feminism to be a safe space, a place where sisters can go to talk to women, relate to women, cry with and support women. but so far, the only love and support i’ve received has been from the trans community. that speaks volumes.

i am going to post more about my experience with finding my womanhood again in the future, so if you’re a detrans woman yourself, trans ally or not, consider following me :) i’d love to build myself a little community

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OTHER MEN

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jealous of…ur ill-fitting skirts and caricature of femininity? 

Delusional TiMs acting up again

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TiM gets validation from misogyny while females get hurt from misogyny. Interesting

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from the abhorrent sex crimes in south korea, to femicide in the united kingdom, to women and girls in afghanistan losing the right to be seen and heard in public. misogyny is the most prevalent form of oppression around the world, yet, is the one that is the least taken seriously by governments and society as a whole.

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"women, if you don't include every group in your struggle against oppression, then you are no better than the men that oppress you" bffr