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They all say it hurts to live this way I don’t mind the pain And I like to feel the shame of it

Boat Yongyut as SORN & Oat Pasakorn as JUN MY STUBBORN (2025), Ep. 4

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There’s so much going on with EarthMix lately, it feels like they’re not even hiding anything anymore. Do you think we’ll see FirstKhao reach this level of transparency about their relationship in the future? (a girl can dream ^ ^)

I guess that depends on whether they think EM are successfully getting away with it or not because Earth definitely thinks they are and Mix has clearly never bothered to correct him. If FK do start dating and decide to use EM as their model of how to keep a relationship secret, good things might be in store for us, my friend.

Just for funsies since we're already on the subject, I would like to document all of the insane things EarthMix have done in the past week because it's truly next level boyfriendism.

Took a family trip to the vet with Mix's puppy and at least one of Earth's cats in tow—all while wearing matching shirts!

Dyed their gray hairs together

Accidentally announced to a live audience that they would be sleeping in the same bed.

Started crying because of how much they love each other—multiple times. Earth was particularly teary and cried once when Mix was talking about how special Earth made his birthday and once when they were exchanging wedding vows personal messages to each other and Mix told him they would get through life holding hands.

Bought a ring

Which was apparently exhausting because this was them at the airport a few hours later.

So, anyway, yes, you're right. They have apparently stopped giving a shit. I saw this meme about how bad they are at hiding their relationship once and I literally think about it all the time. We can only hope FK will half as bad at hiding their feelings one day.

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Where can I watch the new prince pls 👉👈

Officially, you can watch it on iQIYI. Unofficially, you can watch it here. Go forth and enjoy The Princess Diaries: BDSM version!

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I know you think having a gf thing is a joke and honestly I don't think it's a problem when bl actors have gfs or bfs, but they do get massive hate for that for real. do you know that new got so much hate for having a girlfriend? he still gets hate comments from toxic shippers that he should die for heart failure because he got heart problem? and that account that was hating on dunk was really pushing for hate. so of course it was the problem. the number one reason bl/gl actors get massive hate and death threats is literally having a gf/bf. it's a sad reality but i don't think you should treat it lightly.

I don't think this situation is a joke.

It -is- a joke.

And to show you how serious I am about this, I'm not even going to include images. This is just a giant wall of text.

Because outside of the BL-sphere, what are the repercussions of Dunk really dating a girl? What issues would he face if he was really straight? I'm going to skip over bisexuality because Lord knows half these fans don't even register that as a thing. So what harm would come his way if he was an actual heterosexual man?

Nothing. None. Nada.

If he was dating a girl, it would hurt his branded pair, but he could pivot. He could still work in other roles outside of the pair which he has done because being straight or being perceived straight isn't an issue. He would still have a job. He could even do something else outside of the industry. He'd be fine.

Because the issue isn't Dunk having a girlfriend. The issue is him stepping out on his branded pair because people are real weird about monogamy, especially when it comes to two boys because queerness actual queer people are scary to them.

So since you wanted to start with Tay and New, let me remind you that New get threats for having a girlfriend, but when Gun and Tay kissed during New's live, people went out of their way to call Gun, who is perceived as the more effeminate one, a straight up fag in the comments of his posts. Tay also got so much hate that he made a video and people's biggest issue was how could he go from such a masculine guy like New to such a twink like Gun who has never stated his sexuality. Because the issue wasn't Tay 'cheating' on his partner (with the partner literally being right next to him), but was the possibility of Tay kissing an actual gay guy.

Milk of MilkLove was rumored to be dating Noeul of BossNoeul and both of them received online hate at the mere thought they were breaking up their ships, but Noeul has received far more online and in-person hate once he started dressing and presenting a bit more effeminate than previously.

Freen of BeckyFreen was dating Seng formally of BillySeng. The hate was ridiculous and it has followed Seng even after he departed from Idol Factory, which can easily be seen in the comment section of his posts. I genuinely feel bad for the boy, yet he still is working.

So you know who I do feel bad for all of the time? Publicly out queer folks in this industry!

Max of MaxTul dates women. People knew that and hated it because he was 'cheating' on Tul. But he still had work, and he still has work now. Because being straight does not harm people. Online hate is real. Cyberbullying is real. But Max could pivot if he wanted to like Nanon, Bright, and Win. But you know who never said he was dating anyone? The actual gay guy, Tul! And who retired from acting before he announced he was dating a man? Tul.

Cooheart has gone on record stating that being an openly gay man in the BL industry has severely limited his options. He will not be able to play a straight character because people know he is gay, so the online harassment he receives isn't because of not being faithful to a branded pair, but because he is actually gay, and that harassment has translated into him getting less jobs. He cannot pivot. He is essentially stuck.

When Supanut was hanging out with Sailub, he received more online and in-person harassment because he is the openly queer man. Sailub received comments that he was disrespecting Pon per the usual, but Supanut received comments that were directed not at him just trying to break up a ship, but about him being queer. People were equivocating him to being basically a gay hussy, who just wanted to wreck all the ships, which makes me very interested in what fan interactions will look like once I'm the Most Beautiful Count airs.

Daou gets lots of comments about disrespecting Offroad by hanging out with other guys, but the comments that really upset him were the ones saying HE WAS DISGUSTING FOR POSSIBLY BOTTOMING! Offroad stays quiet mostly, but he was bothered by people saying he was BULKING UP TOO MUCH AS A QUEER MAN!

I'm not even touching Mew and Gulf, but only one of them was labeled a predator and it wasn't the straight one!

So just because some of y'all want to take Joong liking a post about Dunk having a girlfriend seriously does not mean I need to. The online harassment is disgusting because people have parasocial relationships with actors who are simply doing their jobs, but I am not going to sit here on Tumblr dot com slash Respect the Petty and entertain this made up drama that stemmed from Joong liking a post about Dunk being perceived as a straight guy when openly gay people are being significantly more harassed, targeted, and limited for being gay in an industry that profits off of gayness.

Take all this energy you have for me and meet me in the My Sweetheart Jom chat on Friday, so every time someone mentions how Saint isn't believable in his role because he is a 'bottom,' you can give them the same lecture you want to give me about the seriousness of online harassment and its real-world repercussions.

Kay? Okay!

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I finally got a chance to watch Ohm’s latest TikTok with the audio and were none of y’all going to tell me the lyrics were “Jimmy, Jimmy ride”????

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Dynamic of all time

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i needed this actually...

MILK PANSA as WAN THANTARA episode 1 of WHALE STORE XOXO

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Where are you running off to? Could you care about how I feel too? Not just Pete all the time.

▷ PIT BABE THE SERIES 2 · Episode 8

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Twitter’s been teasing Aston for staring at Great with heart eyes yesterday and he finally responded.

Aston: I was stunned by Phi’s handsomeness 😭😭😭

Great: Can I join the Gen Z gang krup?

Aston: 100% kup!

For additional context, Paul asked Great at the press conference yesterday if Gen Z could match MOR and Great said that he was Gen Z too 😂

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“Good stuffs, you’d better keep it, bro” - caption on KT’s TikTok video

“Fit check” by Khaotung (featuring First 😉)

Source: Khaotung’s TikTok (thisismyktnw)

25/06/2025

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Inn never misses an opportunity to to gas himself up on his own broadcast channel

Your handsome boy krup

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🖤💚 them

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They asked Great to tell the audience how to watch MOR but he made Inn do it and then had to turn him around so he was facing the right camera 😂

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My Stubborn ● Episode 10

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MEMOIR OF RATI (2025) | EP 1

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If Thame and Po really want to keep their relationship a secret, they should just star in a BL together. Then they can act as gay as they want and everyone will call it fanservice. Living together with an army of cats (EarthMix)? Fanservice. Strolling through the market with your hand around your partner’s waist and a baby strapped to your chest (MosBank)? Fanservice. Filming yourself literally naked in bed together (BillyBabe)? Somehow still fanservice. It’s like a life hack for being gay in a conservative country. You can be as loud as you want but suddenly no one will believe you.