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You know you archieved a milestone in your transition when, at the hospital, instead of asking if you want to test for pregnancy, they ask if you want to test for HIV/AIDS
#ftm#transmasc#transmasculinity#trans men#anyway#got valided by the medical secretary#thx#idk if they ask that specifically to trans people#or if its more a general things for queer people#i’d love if it was because of my cis gay passing but#rationnally she had all my legal documents with her#and I didn’t change them#yet
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don't forget to be the way you are
my first commissioned work! thanks so much to my client who had great ideas that matched my style. hope you enjoy the artwork! if anyone wants a commission hit my dms :)
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thinking about making my baby teeth into jewelry..
yeah these? the teeth of the little girl i killed and buried with my own hands
it's just a trans metaphor, don't worry
hey, why r u calling the cops haha..
calm down, she's okay! i visit her sometimes, don't even worry about it. the dirt is warm around her when it rains, it's fineeee
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Nice people make the best Nazis. Be mean, be tough, have a fascist tooth/skull collection.
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again. bodily autonomy, fundamental bodily autonomy HAS to have room for people doing things with their own bodies that you do not and will not approve of. if it doesnt, it is not bodily autonomy
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Shoutout to being a boy. You don't have to be "subversive" or "revolutionary. It's enough to just be yourself.
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i'm just saying man
"there's nothing wrong with being effeminate." of course. and do you feel happy with how you look?
"i worry people would feel unsafe around me." do you feel safe around you?
"it would be hard for other people to adjust." and you think it'd be easier to suffer quietly?
"he/they is fine. i really prefer he/him, but i have to make it easier on other people." so you want to let other people decide your gender? again?
"if i'm going to be a man, i owe it to other people to be as soft, friendly, and nonthreatening as possible."
No. You don't.
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If you want to discover a new super cool musician who is so very talented, my friend Blue Laïka has 2 singles out on every platform:
Still Myself, a super emotional song with an addictive poprock production
And Mean It, a catchy one about polyamorous relationship !
Please give her a listen, she's wonderful and really, really worth it !!
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I know people aren't here for the news, but trans folks, I'm thinking of you tonight and how you deserve better.
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"but you were so much prettier when-"
Actually my worth isn't determined by how I look. No, I'm not a trans poster child who is gonna get hundreds of likes for a selfie but that's not why I transitioned. You have no idea how good it is to be able to go "Woah who is that guy in the mirror?? Oh yeah, it's me!" not because I'm a hunk but because I'm finally ME.
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Me when I realised that, even if all the porn with transmascs bottoms was hot, it wasn’t for me and I, in fact, prefer to top

this may be one of the most insightful & incisive & humble & honest & earned reflections/sentences I’ve read in an interview. and so casually and earnestly admitted, signaling a truly clean & organized soul——the two (the desire to “be” a poet (or any “vocational” position) & the desire/capacity for the work said vocation requires) are so very easily conflated—perhaps forever—for/in some —causing them undue suffering, or shame, or envy, or spite, and so forth .
thinking of George Steiner — to know one’s own limits, to see them as gifts, and to choose the path of celebration rather than envy……. is a result of a deep knowing of self and soul . Of deep and honest acceptance. Watering and tending what one was given — but even to do that one must understand and accept one’s life—i.e see it clearly, unflinchingly—is a difficult, initially painful task that, terrifyingly, is quite often left undone. which is what tragedy kind of is, to me, at its heart, anyway……
https://www.quantamagazine.org/june-huh-high-school-dropout-wins-the-fields-medal-20220705/
#the first time I bottomed was a true diseapointment#the second and third time too#and the other#i didnt count#i was like#that all ??#i have the self lubricating magic hole and it fell like nothing ??#treason#disgrace#ftm#transmasc#i liked thinking of myself a bottom more that I like bottoming
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my partner might be onto something when she says you can disguise your pickiness and food sensitivity as an adult by calling yourself a “purist.” so instead of saying “the taste and texture of cooked raisins make me want to hmork,” you say “i’m actually kind of a cinnamon roll purist, i prefer just a classic cinnamon filling and a really good dough instead of something with a ton of random mix ins,” which takes you from who gave this four year old a bachelor degree to oh wow this guy is a pretentious asshole about more things than i even thought was possible
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