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shout out to all the people who used to struggle with being Mean or cruel to others and are actively working on being better. shout out to all the people who were hurt, externalized it, and then decided to be kind about it instead. shout out to all the people who CHOSE kindness, shout out.

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Kurama and Kai have a hilarious relationship lol

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When you think about it, David Kawena is the biggest green flag among Disney men

No, I am not accepting counter-arguments

Not only is he super sweet to Nani, he's just really nice to Lilo. Just genuinely nice. He cares about Lilo like they're already Ohana, which is perfect because when he marries Nani, they will be one

There are tragically people who see the children in single-guardian families as burdens or obstacles. I once heard of a man who told a single mom "I don't mind if you have baggage." Said "baggage" being her daughter and she did not take that comment well at all. I've even personally heard stories about a stepmother who actually pushed to replace their spouse's old children with new children

The fact that David cares about Lilo enough that he essentially tries to be an older brother/father figure for her makes him so great. There's never even an implication of him trying to get brownie points from Nani by taking care of her. Lilo will bring up that they like each other, but David only ever focuses on Lilo when they hang out

David never treats Lilo like a problem he has to accept to be with Nani. It's never "Well, I like Nani so Lilo's part of the deal, I guess."

David just genuinely cares enough about Lilo that he willingly puts himself in a paternal role for her well-being

The true testament to this man's quality is that there are episodes in the series where Lilo says she would be happy if David married Nani and became part of the family. You cannot name a green flag better than that

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ty, astarion, for failing every fucking arcana check possible here to make this amazing comedy bit

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Thank you, Seto.

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Wanted to respond that it happened to both in a sense because though Gideon was awake on the rapier in Harrow's body, Harrow was stabbed when conscious (she recalls during the final bits of Harrow the Ninth that she was stabbed), Gideon and Harrow were pretty beat up when she opened the locked tomb but her body was falling apart (literally) while Alecto was too big of a soul for Harrow's body to contain while they were heading inside the tomb as a group. So she's correct that all of those things would happen, just to Harrow's body, just not Harrow when she's in her body specifically.

Would be interesting if the backflipping into Drearburh was them running up the tower in the river or backflipping off the top tier into the river to reach the tower.

Just noticed something about this bit in gideon:

"Nonagesimus,” she said slowly, “the only job I’d do for you would be if you wanted someone to hold the sword as you fell on it. The only job I’d do for you would be if you wanted your ass kicked so hard, the Locked Tomb opened and a parade came out to sing, ‘Lo! A destructed ass.’ The only job I’d do would be if you wanted me to spot you while you backflipped off the top tier into Drearburh.”

So far, two of those things directly relate to things Gideon has actually done for Harrow except that they're reversed. Gideon fell on a sword for Harrow and she got her ass kicked so hard the locked tomb opened. I don't know exactly what will happen but i think "backflipping into Drearburh" is going to be one of the more devastating moments of alecto

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it doesn’t have to be good it just has to be done

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honestly tho that scene in the incredibles where mr. incredible sees the names of all the old super heroes that used to be his friends / that he knew from Back in the Day and how every one of them has been killed by syndrome is such a chilling scene for so many reasons 

like for one, everyone he knew is dead at this point and has been killed on the same island he’s at now and two, its heartbreaking bc that means that almost every hero wanted to try out being a hero again despite the laws against it and wanted to try and help someone out and relive their glory days, only to be straight up murdered like fuck that scene is just so fuckin intense

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From one Gen-Z to another, let’s continue to deprogram ourselves from the idea that 30 is old and you need to have your shit together before 30.

You can go back to school after age 30!

You can fall in love after age 30!

You can find a best friend after age 30!

You can find a passion after age 30!

You can find a job you love after age 30!

You can recover from an addiction after the age 30!

You can pursue a large goal after age 30!

You can travel the world after age 30!

You can move after age 30!

You can change your appearance after age 30!

You can ask for help after age 30!

You can make discoveries about yourself after age 30!

You can come out after age 30!

You can fix your finances after age 30!

You can be attractive after age 30!

You can fix your life after age 30!

You can do anything after age 30!

Idk what so specifically about the number 30 has bewitched so many of us into believing that means your life is over, but it’s just so far from the truth!

You have so much more time after 30 to accomplish all that you want to do.

Your life isn’t over until it quite literally is over. Stop giving yourself a deadline that doesn’t exist!

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