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fictionkin culture is being all sunshine and rainbows with your canon storyline until you think on it a liiiiiittle too hard and all of a sudden you are. very sad.

(tagging myself @buggy-is-a-warrior)

Fictionkin culture is!

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fictionkin culture is showing the source material to others and hoping they don’t judge you-

Fictionkin culture is!

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update: oof life is happening so I haven't been as active but oops I'm hinata shoyo from haikyuu

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diasomnia's housewarden bestows upon you...

୨୧ needy

[pt: needy /end pt]

a flag for those who consider themselves needy, specifically in the clingy sense. meant for those with DPD, BPD, HPD, seperation anxiety, etc, but anyone may use (even neurotypicals!)

coined by us!

please do not repost our creations, or add them to any wikis. our terms and flags can be used by everyone!

taglist: [ @radiomogai, @noxwithoutstars, @daybreakthing ]

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misc masks

original post

f2u, credit if reposting

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 ིྀ‿ ͜ 𝓜usic 𝓟ixels  ͜‿  ྀི ╪══ purple / blue recolour །† 𓏶 f2u  ུ ♡ / reblog if using ｡ ©  recolour edit by me  ཀ

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hai uhm luka stamps here uh yah no creds needed and erm i have no idea how 2 make stamps😭

skibidi

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ALIEN STAGE SHINY BUTTONS

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ermm luka graphic uh use if u want no creds needed uh yah uh sigma

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★ I love alien stage sm

🎤These blinkies are free to use, credit is appreciated but not required!

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luka hate shiny buttons

i hate him som uch anyways f2u with credit

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⚊ R7 LUKA RENTRY GRAPHICS . 🫐

rentry graphics / icons of :: luka from alien stage !

requested by :: no one

|| sidenote ; WOW. round 7... i really like his ponytail in it !!! he managed to get even prettier somehow... alas i am afraid i don't forgive him. at least not yet (more alnst r7 graphics are coming! till is next.)

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🎤— Alien Stage, Season 50 ;;

like/rb + credit if using !

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★🎤🔫ALIEN STAGE BLINK GONE GRAPHICS👽🎶

*touches ground* .. something happened here …..

🎸These graphics are free to use!

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IMPORTANT: TUMBLR HAS MADE A DEAL WITH MIDJOURNEY/OPENAI.

YOUR ART AND IMAGES ON TUMBLR ARE BEING USED TO TRAIN AI MODELS.

The opt-in is automatic, but you can turn it off in settings.

Go to "Blog Settings" -> "Visibility" -> "Third-Party Sharing" and turn on "Prevent third-party sharing for [blog]". (This post shows how to do it on browser and on mobile.) You need to do this with every sideblog. (Note: The option in settings might not appear if your app hasn't updated yet. You can still opt out via browser.)

Spread the word. Everyone on Tumblr needs to know about this.

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fictionkin culture is seeing the canon ship about you and another person but your source you're with another person so it feels weird

fan ii fictionkin [who hates fantube]

Fictionkin culture is!

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Harmless Personal Identity coining

Since the term I crafted has been picking up steam in a couple places, I decided it's time to make a official post for it and propose a flag. I'm not good at making flags and you're welcome to redesign the above one if you like this term.

Harmless Personal Identity (HPI) is an umbrella term meant to describe personal identities that people might assign to themselves, coin for others, make pride flags for, and so on, but not any identities that inherently cause harm. If an identity checks the following boxes, it can be called a Harmless Personal Identity.

Harmless: It doesn't encourage predatory behavior, racism, ableism, transphobia etc just by existing.

The identity is being labeled because it makes the person using it comfortable. Not to harm others by deceiving them. For example: LGBT people and systems are not intending to deceive others and simply want to live as they are. This doesn't mean that the term in question is completely free of criticism or couldn't be used in bad faith—I think every term that's ever been coined could be used in bad faith. This means that it may be unusual or strange, especially to people who aren't familiar with the social groups/contexts the term was coined in, but the definition doesn't encourage people to appropriate culture, speak over people of color, commit inc-st/p-dophilia/z-ophilia, or otherwise cause harm to themselves or another living being as part of that identity.

Example: "Transhawaiian" is not an HPI, because by virtue of it existing the coiner and anyone who uses this term are saying that "Hawaiian" is a feeling someone can decide they feel and apply to themself at will, instead of the racial minority that "Hawaiian" actually is.

Personal: Identities which are wholly self-determined and locatable only within that person's interaction with and relations to the world around them.

In general—Other people cannot determine your internal view of yourself because they cannot be you, therefore your identity is personal! Someone who's unfamiliar with xenogenders may tell me that I cannot be -insert gender- because -thing- isn't a gender, but my gender is inside me and I cannot possibly give them the ability to feel it for me. It is located only within me.

This includes labels that get called "contradictory", like identifying as a lesbian and a man at the same time. If you're not familiar with multigender and multisexual lesbian spaces that might sound strange, but gender+presentation and orientation labels are purely self-defined—they are the coiner/anyone who uses that term saying "this is how I would describe my attraction to -insert gender here-," "this is how I would describe my gender that only I can feel inside my head and can't physically show to someone else," and so on. A bisexual lesbian's identity is not saying that all lesbians are bisexual or that they should identify that way; It is saying that that individual determined themself to be bisexual and lesbian.

(This does not extend to, again, racism and cultural appropriation. Queer labels are a self-defined thing, whereas racial and ethnic identity and things like congenital disorders can have self-defined aspects but are largely on a completely different quadrant of identity and can't be "decided" in the same way that queer labels can.)

Identity: A self-applied label or understanding of yourself.

This one is straightforward mostly. I would like to note that this does include things like reclaimed slurs and derogatory words, since in those cases, it's that person who's been called that word choosing "you know what? I AM a -slur- and I love myself for it!" instead of it being used to put them down.

Ok, so what identities specifically?

MOGAI (xenogenders, neogenders, neo/newly coined orientations, presentation terms, neopronouns+etc)

Alterhuman (the entire alterhuman umbrella, excluding any culturally appropriative behavior)

Most lural culture (Most coined terms for plural experiences)

Other identity umbrellas (Dissomei, desirdae, reclaimed xenoidentities, xenonatures, neurowiry,+etc)

And so on. Is it not a radqueer, transrace, transabled, transx, etc term or would you call it a "good faith identity"? It most likely fits here.

This also includes a category of personal identity I've been seeing more and more lately, which are these uncategorized identifications with specific words that have pride flags. Some examples: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5

Ok, cool, do I identify as this?

You would say "I use harmless personal identities"/"I support harmless personal identities"/I coin harmless personal identities"+etc. This is less an identity and more of a faster way to describe these identities.

TD;LR— Identities that are probably niche, but don't harm people like radqueer/transid/transrace/transabled do.

Tagging: @gender-jargon | @neopronouns | @radiomogai | @kiruliom | @aspectsofidentity | @beyond-mogai-pride-flags | @neopronouns | @antiradqueerguy

Alt flags and more things are beneath the cut:

Two alternative flag ideas which I abandoned, but you can use if you want.

The phrasing "locatable only within your interaction with and relations to the world around you" came from a Tumblr post by txttletale (lost link). This term and the author have no affiliation with them, I just thought it was a wonderful way to phrase this concept. This would later inspire me to coin the term History Inclusionist, which then led to me sort of backwards-coining HPI to describe it.

You don't have to be a History Inclusionist to use the term HPI and I won't tell you not to interact with me if you aren't one.

I might make subset flags later. Maybe?