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autistic folks when their routine gets disrupted, and they don't get alone time when they're supposed to get alone time

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[genderqueerboy]

y e a

hmm. whoops. maybe even. oops.

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btw roleplaying various characters with your friends is the singular most healing thing in the world. playing with toys for adults

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hmm ://

hmm. whoops. maybe even. oops.

[genderqueerboy]

I’m going to tell you something nobody told me:

It is O-fucking-Kay if you think you’re trans except for that one thing

If you think you might be a girl but you like having your hair short, or you don’t like wearing dresses, or you don’t want to wear makeup, that is totally okay

If you think you might be a guy but you like having long hair or you really love skirts or you wear lots of sparkly jewellery, that is totally okay

If you think you might be nonbinary but you really like presenting in a way that aligns with your agab, that is totally okay

If you think you might be trans but you aren’t sure if you want hormones, that is totally okay

If you think you’re trans “except for…” that is totally okay and get this: you don’t have to change that part of yourself to be trans

You can if you want to, but if you don’t, that is totally okay

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reasons i haven’t replied back:

- i’m socially exhausted - i don’t have the time right now - i don’t know how to reply - i have a bad memory and got distracted - i’m having a depressive episode and don’t have the energy to socialise

not reasons i haven’t replied back:

- i’m ignoring you just because - i hate you - i’m fed up with you - i don’t want to be your friend anymore

[genderqueerboy]

You can change your name, it doesn't matter how often you change it, it doesn't matter however many names you go by, if you want to, you can change it, you could change it every week, every month, every year, it doesn't matter, you can change your name, don't feel bad about it

[genderqueerboy]

How do people even pick a name for their name change I haven't been able to make a single decision my entire life

[genderqueerboy]

Having your main anxiety response be Avoidance is crazy cause you'll think you're chillin and then one day you're like waitttt I've been paralyzed with fear this whole time. Damn

[genderqueerboy]

i get to be a girrrlll i get to be a girl!!!!!

i get to be a girl

im going to be a girl

im a girl

im such a girl

im going to be such a girl

a girl

girliepop

be a girl

going girl!!

i going to be girl

i love being a girl

[genderqueerboy]

recognising your parent's mannerisms in yourself and physically feeling psychic damage occur

[genderqueerboy]

the urge to deactivate everything and go missing

[genderqueerboy]

I very rarely feel like I'm actually in the moment. like 95 % of time I feel like there's a thin veil between me and reality. I'm never present I'm never there

[genderqueerboy]

“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.”

— Robert Holden