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[ghostreadingz]

Hi. I jux saw ur post and would like to request a reading❤ btw, a new follower here and I love ur blog's aesthetic😊

Initials: A.M

Pronouns: she/her

Question: How will my first girlfriend be like and also, what will our relationship dynamic be like? (Like what roles will we play in the relationship?)

Some info about me: I am single and have never been in any relationship so I am curious to know how my first one will be. I am very strict with my boundaries and has high standards when it comes to who I allow into my life since I don't like toxic ppl and situations(I've dealt with toxic ppl before and it was terrible so i am never going to allow toxicity in my life again) and that's why I am choosing to remain single until I meet the right one for me since I don't want to waste my time and energy on the wrong person. That is jux some info about me and I hope that helps!

This was such a fun question, no way I was going to ignore it. And thank you! I like making my blogs at least somewhat cohesive.

Anyway, seeing as I'm only doing one question, I chose to ask about what your first girlfriend will be like; as it might give you some ideas as to how you gel together anyway.

Your reading is below the cut!

⸝⸝ ʚ ⛸ ! ⌗ What will A.M's first girlfriend be like?

Dancing in Light | Joke's on You | Divine Feminine

Immediately, I get the feeling that she's a rather playful and silly person. She is full of humour and joy in general, and likes to make jokes in any appropriate situation (and sometimes inappropriate ones, but it's always harmless). She could even be quite sarcastic and jokingly bully or tease people. Again, it is always harmless: she's quite emotionally aware and intuitive, and doesn't cross any boundaries.

She might have some "childish" interests that she gets rather passionate about. Regardless, she speaks with a lot of energy and is very animated by nature. She seems to be a very bright and enthusiastic person. She has a lot of energy and her happiness is very contagious to the people around her. She is not overwhelming, though! She's not loud. She's quite calm, in fact.

While the current description might paint her as a ball of energy (which, internally, absolutely!) she's externally rather composed. Her inner chaos bubbles out through her rambles - she could interrupt people sometimes, or go on very long tangents - and through being clumsy and forgetful. She might lose and misplace things a lot; she might have ADHD, or at least show a handful of the symptoms.

However, she's also extremely caring and considerate. She is warm and welcoming and knows when to tone herself down in order to not overwhelm the people around her. She is quite forgiving, too. She treats conflict with an open mind and considers all perspectives in an issue.

Overall, she's quite a sweet person with a great sense of humour and an ability to make anyone laugh.

As always, take what resonates, and leave what doesn't. (And remember, future readings are based on your current energy - so take them with a grain of salt!)

. . . Please don't forget to leave feedback - whether in the comments of this post or privately (in my inbox/messages) is okay, as long as it's there!

Remember: You are loved.

[ghostreadingz]

Hey!! Thank you sm for doing these free readings, I hope all is well for you <3 Name / alias / initials: Angel Your pronouns: She/her Your question: Is there anything I need to hear/work on in this current phase of my life with shifting? Extra or important information: Been feeling a bit confused and indecisive with my journey lately, so I'd love some clarity

Hi! Shifting journeys are a rough one, huh? I understand entirely. For this, I felt my Animal Power deck would be fitting. I hope it helps!

Your reading is below the cut.

⸝⸝ ʚ ⛸ ! ⌗ Shifting insight for Angel

Sloth: Seek Nature's Wisdom | Zebra: Break Free of the Box | Rooster: Remember Laughter and Joy

Keep in mind that there is not one set way to shift. Everyone's journey is personal to them, and one person's rules might be another person's antithesis. Being indecisive in of itself isn't a problem, but are you getting too caught up in what others are advising you to do?

Ask yourself what you want to do! What brings you joy, or excitement? What makes you feel enthusiastic about shifting or your DRs? Lean into whatever that is. Utilize it. Plan accordingly and around it.

Sometimes, the answers are beyond you. Sometimes, the answers are even beyond those around you. Take some time to sit with your question. Let your intuition guide you. I know, I know, everyone always says to trust your intuition and never explains what that means, and it only furthers the confusion. But I'm here to say that whatever you feel drawn to, or pulled towards? That is your intuition. That is your guideline. Follow it! Seek out the things that bring energy to you. Do what you want to do, what you are more than happy to try.

Be more confident in yourself. Be more 'positive', so to speak. Feel excited over what is going to happen, rather than dwelling in the fact that something hasn't. You know? You will get there. You will shift. You found it for a reason. So now, find your way!

Take some time offline, if you need to. Don't consuming as much. Filter through the information you have and decide what you do or do not want to keep. It is yours, after all. It is your journey. Your rules. Your path. So treat it as such!

As always, take what resonates, and leave what doesn't.

. . . Please don't forget to leave feedback - whether in the comments of this post or privately (in my inbox/messages) is okay, as long as it's there!

Remember: You are loved.

[ghostreadingz]

Hello! Here to shoot my shot ^~°

I'm MS, my pronouns are she/her and my question is about sc who's pronouns are he/him

My question is about what he feels towards me and whether he plans to come back, since I am not in a position to seek reconciliation

Much thanks if you do the reading and even if you don't I already vibe with your readings so it's k, may the odds be in my favour 🤭

Hello again!

Because I'm only doing one question, I decided to condense it into just how he feels about you (especially because the second half of the question would be a yes/no rather than a full reading)! I hope that's alright.

Your reading is below the cut.

⸝⸝ ʚ ⛸ ! ⌗ How does SC feel toward MS?

Cyanide - Soul Blind | Remember Me - Suzy Clue

There seems to be a feel of pained nostalgia. He thinks of you, sometimes; and he knows that you think of him, too. He wonders what you remember, how you feel; the curiosity is mutual, in a way.

Unfortunately, there's a lot of inner turmoil for SC. There are a lot of mixed feelings and experiences. There is this sense of "nothing"ness, a sense of numbness. He has buried his feelings quite deep. It seems that he tries to avoid them. On the other hand, he has quite a strong mass of mangled emotions.

Anger, hurt, remorse. He wonders how you could have let him go so easily, but also understands that he was the one who left. He hopes you still care, but doesn't want you to hold on. He wants you to know that he loves you, but needs to pretend he doesn't.

You are a sore spot, like a weakness to him. He can't think of you for too long. He's running from his emotions quite intensely, and he struggles to make out what most of them are. You're a subject of great confusion and distress, but also warmth and comfort. What you once had still sticks with him.

Overall, it's very messy in his heart. There's too much conflict to give a straight or clear answer to how he feels regarding you. I suppose I could say he feels everything.

As always, take what resonates, and leave what doesn't.

. . . Please don't forget to leave feedback - whether in the comments of this post or privately (in my inbox/messages) is okay, as long as it's there!

Remember: You are loved.

[ghostreadingz]

Heyyyy :D generic question ,, thank yeww if you answerrrrr ^^ name / alias / initials: Beverly, Bev is fine your pronouns: he/him your question: How does my DR S/O see/percieve me? extra or important information: my blog is @/valerieality but i'm on anon for side blog reasons <3 if involving someone else, their name or initials: Blaine their pronouns: he/him

Hello hello @valerieality! (Tagging in case you're on your main instead of where you sent this)

I was tempted to use my Woodland Wardens deck, but I felt particularly drawn towards shufflemancy for this instead.

Your reading is below the cut!

⸝⸝ ʚ ⛸ ! ⌗ How does Blaine perceive Beverly?

bell's palsy - suggi | Risk - Deftones

In Blaine's eyes, you're a very strong individual. You keep your emotions within, not wanting to burden him with what you're feeling or experiencing. You might suppress/repress your feelings a lot, intellectualizing them or outright ignoring them rather than feeling them.

You seem to sacrifice a lot for him - or at least, provide him with a lot of support that he doesn't expect. You care for him even on his bad days, which he is eternally grateful for.

There are a lot of themes of lost lives and saving; did you save his life? Did you (almost) die for him? I have no idea what your DR is, so that's a wild guess, but he definitely feels indebted to you in some way. He feels as though you've done something gigantic for him, that you fundamentally changed him.

He wants to protect you. He wants you to let him in. Blaine doesn't feel locked out, per se, but he is worried for you in some extent. He wants to try. He wants to be the best for you, because he believes that you deserve that.

There's something in particular that you struggle with - a disability of sorts, I would assume? - that not everyone is the kindest to you about. I don't know how to word this statement, but he's not ashamed of it, or of you. In fact, he's proud of how you work through/with it. He sees how hard you try and he's grateful to have you.

Overall, he sees you as a very strong and capable individual. He's deeply proud of you, and is always grateful for the compassion that radiates from within you.

As always, take what resonates, and leave what doesn't.

. . . Please don't forget to leave feedback - whether in the comments of this post or privately (in my inbox/messages) is okay, as long as it's there!

Remember: You are loved.

[ghostreadingz]

Initials : CM

Pronouns : she/her

Question : What do I need to hear right now?

Extra info : I've been super stressed regarding my future in general, particularly love and career/academics, and felt overwhelmed and my self-worth went down (they were always low to begin with) and that's been messing with me, especially when seeing how much others have done and if I wouldn't have been feeling all of this or been more focused or paid attention, I would've reached some of their stuff too.

Hi, hi! Firstly, I'm sorry that you've been so stressed; I completely understand how that feels, and I hope you feel better soon. For this, I felt drawn to use my Macabre Tarot deck; it's honestly my best friend for "what do I need to hear" type of questions.

Your reading is below the cut!

⸝⸝ ʚ ⛸ ! ⌗ What does CM need to hear right now?

Seven of Bones [R]. Haunting of Crystals. The Guide.

You are overwhelmed, feeling crushed by the weight of the expectations and appearances around you. The people around you seem like they have it together, and society insists that there is a right and wrong way to be. The truth is that there is no right or wrong way.

You need to make your own rules. Stop comparing yourself to everyone else, because you are not them. Maybe they're richer. Maybe they have a better degree. So what? Maybe you're more creative. Maybe you're smarter. Who knows? More importantly, who cares? Your happiness is what matters. Your own sense of fulfillment is what matters.

Ask yourself what you want, not what everyone expects of you. Don't overwork yourself trying to fit a mold of someone else's making.

Keep doing what you're doing. Keep moving on ahead. Your hard work and your effort will pay off, so just keep trying. This isn't the time to give up, to stop fighting this battle. You deserve everything that you're working for.

There is no reason to worry. The stress will do nothing but hack away at your confidence and your motivation, and that serves nobody. Prioritize yourself and your desires and watch the magic happen. You are in control. You are living your life. So live it! Stop comparing yourself to everybody around you and start appreciating what you have done.

Remember that the material world is not all that there is. Academic and career fulfillment does not have a set standard, and it is not the only form of fulfillment that exists. Find your place and thrive in it. I know you can.

As always, take what resonates, and leave what doesn't.

. . . Please don't forget to leave feedback - whether in the comments of this post or privately (in my inbox/messages) is okay, as long as it's there!

Remember: You are loved.

[ghostreadingz]

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[ghostreadingz]

Dude bro idk why but in your readings I always find something so specific to my situation or my life that it's scary af. I'm spooked like how tf??? You're unbelievably good

awh, thank you! but I can definitely see how that's spooky LOL. I hope they help you in some way!

[ghostreadingz]

# ⋆｡°✩ 👻 PAC :: Messages of Empowerment

from the "believe in your own magic" oracle deck by amanda lovelace. it says empowerment, but it's mostly gentle reassurance and guidance. this deck is quite a soft-spoken one. as always - take what resonates and leave what doesn't.

. . . masterlist | ko-fi | carrd

Take a deep breath, and pick the pile that you feel drawn to.

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VILLAIN: You can always rewrite the story

Sometimes, bad people get away with bad things. We do not always win our battles. However, you are strong. You are capable. You of all people know and understand that you can and will move past it. The turmoil is over, and even if it was not, you would still pull through. You are the strongest person that you know.

It is not a personal loss. Whatever has happened will build your character, further your growth.

Change how you're looking at the situation. Put it into a different perspective. Into your perspective. After all, that is the only thing that remains constant is you. Destroy the story you are telling yourself and create one that furthers your path. You are powerful and you need to know that.

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TREE: Let them go

Other people's burdens are not your problem. You are allowed to be happy independently. Perhaps you consider yourself to be an empath - perhaps you are. It does not matter. What matters is that you are allowing the energy of everyone else in and it is leaving little room for your own.

You matter. Your feelings, your thoughts, your opinions: they all matter.

Do not let other people dictate what you are and are not worthy of. You are worth a great many things. You need to value yourself for as much as you are worth, because it is a lot. You need to see that.

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DRAGON: Slay them all

Stand up for yourself! I know that it is terrifying, but you are more than capable of it. Some people may try to hurt you, but that does not mean that you should let them.

You are allowed to have a voice. You are allowed to set boundaries.

Fight your battles. You are not any less than the people around you, and it is worth the struggle. Do not allow people to walk all over you. You are not weak, you are not incapable. You must speak your truth. Do not let it simmer until you break.

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LIONESS: You've earned all your stripes

You've gone through a lot, and grown so much as a result. You should feel proud of yourself for all the progress that you have made. In many ways, you have broken free of your cocoon and become a beautiful butterfly.

The past may be a reminder of everything that you have been through, but it does not define you.

Despite everything, you have become who you are today. And that is something worth celebrating. You have accomplished far more than you could even comprehend. Give yourself some more credit. You deserve it.

Thank you for reading <3

[ghostreadingz]

Shifters.... Eheheheh. Another shifter one🫰🏻

I would never neglect the community that got me into divination in the first place <3

[ghostreadingz]

SELF CONCEPT IS KEY — WHO ARE YOU BEING TODAY?

feel like you’re stuck in a loop?

Pete Sapper said “When you know who you are, your mirror will reflect it, when you don’t know who you are, it will also reflect”

You don’t need to anything for your manifestations to materialise, as they already have, creation is finished, but self concept is something that really helps you wrap your mind around it.

When I say that you are God, do you really and truly know that? And I ask for knowing and not believing because beliefs change all the time. Do you KNOW you are God, or do you just get this rush of excitement and adrenaline after reading some motivational posts just to fall back into old patterns a few hours later?

What colour hair do you have? Let’s say you have black hair and maybe you dyed it blonde, would you constantly go back on the fact that you have black hair, i mean if it was a dye job you got done yesterday, you might forget for a moment, but you’ll be like “oh that’s right, i have blonde hair” and go on about your day, because 1. You KNOW that’s it’s true and 2. You KNOW that you are the person who has blonde hair. That one time you forgot doesn’t negate from the fact that you have blonde hair.

A lot of you “persist and persist”, and wonder why your outer world hasn’t changed, let me tell you something i’m not gonna bullshit you and tell you that these are old thoughts playing out because they aren’t, it’s just not true, there is no separation between your outer and inner, A mirror doesn’t have a mind of its own, it can’t “test” you or show you something that you are NOT, because think of a literal mirror (that’s what this outer world is), when we say that, it isn’t some cute metaphor, it’s the truth. The reason things haven’t changed is because YOU haven’t. Again, think of a mirror, instant reflections are the ONLY TYPE OF REFLECTIONS!! be the person who assumes otherwise? you will stay waiting, looking for posts to motivate you instead of living the life you want.

You can do as many things to manifest your dream body, but if you’re still being the person who is a loser with a shitty figure, guess what?… Have you heard the phrase “You cannot trick God”, since we have now come to terms with the fact that we are God, the term can now be written as “you cannot trick yourself”, you also can’t run from who you are. God, you, your consciousness can tell the difference between believing, and KNOWING. If you KNOW and accept your unfavourable life as true, no amount of wishful thinking and hopeful attempts at techniques will change what you know. So what is there to do? change SELF.

ꨄꨄꨄ

Become God, step into that state of being now, you ARE pure consciousness now, there is nothing to do, nothing to induce. You ARE the void now. You are limitless, you have always succeeded in anything you do, so why not know? Your outer world reflects instantly because you are God and what you say goes. There is no one above you, now if you knew that why are you getting triggered with all the limiting beliefs, why would anyone tell YOU, as God, how to create.

When someone says “your manifestation will ONLY take 3 Days if you do this magnificent method that-”.

Instead of mindlessly following another method like a junkie. You say “wtf i’m literally GOD not you, 3 days?? pfft my shit is instant because i’m just so fucking unlimited and ethereal”

You are God, the only free thinker in your reality. Not even im freely thinking from your perspective, im just a projection. So what if someone tells you that you have to do this and that to get what you want? everyone else is a lowly human, YOU are God. Absolute Intelligence. With words that instantly create. Once you get that through your skull you will never have a day in your life where you are experiencing unfavourable circumstances.

Who cares if Nancy’s dream bod took 3 months?

Who cares if Wyatt took 2 weeks to shift to his dream life?

Who cares if Jessica looped affirmations all day to get her grades?

YOU ARE GOD HERE. Not them. Time is not real and Creation is finished, WHO CARES ABOUT THEM?? YOU. HAVE. EVERYTHING.

I am not religious by any means but i believe a lot of religious books were guides to understand self, that got, as we can see, heavily misconstrued. And there’s this verse:

Joshua 24:15 “As for me and my house we will serve the Lord”

Do you know what that actually means: It means who cares what everyone else’s limiting beliefs are, who cares what everyone else “had” to do, or what everyone else believes. As for you and your mind, You will serve God, That is You.

You are one perception away from everything materialising. This isn’t the Law of Desire, if so everyone would have everything they could ever want, by simply.. wanting it. It’s the law of Being, BE GOD, and put YOURSELF on the pedestal, then you will wake up in this illusion, you will start to see that there are no big and small manifestations. You will start to see that your consciousness created all of this and none of it is real, and nothing will be hard or easy for you anymore, it will just be. You will start to understand that time doesn’t exist, and all this other noise matters not anymore, for you are sovereign. You will start to understand that you are one decision away.

Idc if you have to repeat it, or to visualise yourself as this godly being, idc what you do, even so much as a one-and-done decision as long as you understand who you are.

I get all these asks and dms too (before i turned them off) with problems that would not be problems if you guys understood who you actually are. Some of the things you guys complain about WOULDNT EVEN EXIST if you just stepped into that knowing that you are God.

And I know time doesn’t exist, but for those of you who still resonate with the 3D and human concepts (even tho that’s like, soooo dumb 🙄), you will spend a lot more “time” without what you want if you don’t start BEING the person who has it all.

Focus on that self concept, be the most egotistical, self-obsessed, head-up-your-own-ass typa bitch. For you are God and any lesser treatment of self would be nonsensical.

When you know you are, the world will reflect your power

©salemlunaa

[ghostreadingz]

What to do if you have not shifted for +++years

(Most of my anons were along the lines of this same issue, I want to make a common post for them. I won't be telling you "you're already there" or "persist" I'm going to have a heart to heart conversation with your mental health in mind, this will be a long post)

First and foremost I have to say, this post is very heavily opinion-based. Alright, I'll divide it into topics, and two categories: before shifting and during shifting.

Before Shifting.

Determining the laws of your reality.

This is where you've got to do most of the work. (Don't worry, it won't be 7 hour subliminal listening sessions) now let's present a very important note: I don't know who you are. But most importantly I don't know what you believe in. Shifting isn't a known set of rules, Shifting doesn't have a single method, it does not have a wikihow page. Everything that exist is because of you. Therefore there are differences in my reality and yours. What you believe in is acting out in reality. LITERALLY.

So first you need to ask yourself some questions, with full honesty, oh and don't apply the thoughts you have by certain reprogramming affirmations, don't force yourself just because you have to persist.

"What am I?" What do you believe you are? Currently, are you a soul, a human? Or you something greater, seek within yourself to answer what you believe.

"What is reality?" How is everything working around you? Why are you here.

"Who is in control?" Who makes you shift. Who or what makes everything happen.

"How to shift?" Self explanatory. If you write with utmost truth on what you think shifting is like and when and how it happens; you'll basically have the code of how reality works for you.

Relax.

After you've gathered your research sheets. Take a breath, since you've got all the answers you need. Now, close your eyes, whenever you like. Imagine a serene atmosphere, for example, sharp sunlight falling on your skin, warming you up, or the rain droplets drowning your senses, as you run across a forest. Tell yourself, "this is what shifting is" , and "I've shifted." That's all it is. You feel some you get some.

Some important realizations,

• Time is not linear.

• Failure is a perception.

• You're not beneath anyone.

• You don't need to prove yourself to anyone.

• you'll survive, you'll be alright.

Don't. Kidnap. Yourself.

The title sounds weird, but it is regarding heavily applying the principle of assuming until you have it, to EVERYTHING. Idc if people come after me. I don't want anyone to suffer by stamping their foreheads with "persist!" Even if it works. I love loa, until it crosses over into toxic positively. Don't just put yourself in a coffin; don't become a prisoner to your thoughts! Don't make it feel like there's an angry witch in your mind, who will scream at you if something goes wrong, the problem is! Something might go wrong and you'd end up highlighting the idea that you are being forced to assume against something. Don't feel forced. Simple. (You can still use loa, if you like)

Declutter your mind.

I said it before. and @ilovecatfr explained this here, there's so much in your mind. I can tell. Each and everyone has their own unique spin on shifting. That's great and they put out advice to help people, similarly you... also have it within you. Afterall, these bloggers, big well written and decorated posts are the projection of your assumptions. I'd like to say, majority of the bloggers are kindhearted with the aim to help others. Although for some, you being desperate in their asks is an ego boost, nothing is wrong with feeling good about yourself for your knowledge, but you the person at the other end of this screen, are not a pawn, not just another anon, alright? you know how to shift, look back at what your answers were to the questions.

Control your emotions towards this reality.

I've always wanted to discuss this. Emotions are the puppeteers of this show. They're a grounding mechanism of any reality. If you feel something deeply, you're angry at circumstances you form an attachment to this reality, it keeps you here. Think about what happens to a person when they get disassociation. Similarly belief + emotional investment = reality. Its a code. I can confidently say anyone who has not shifted (... not targeting anyone, genuinely trying my best to help; ty ty back to the text) is because they're giving too much emotional importance to this reality. This can be in the form of stressing that you have not shifted, being worried that you're not in your dr, putting much focus on the "What ifs" of if you wake back in this reality.

But we can't just go BLANK. we're still humans who feel deeply (for now huehue) so what's the solution to this non-issue? Direct these feelings towards your destination, your intended reality! This would mean feeling like your dr self, if you're experiencing negative emotions you can last second convert them to any scenario related to your dr, emotional investment there pays well, here? It just wastes time.

Don't let feelings get the best of you and keep you here; you're their creator after all.

(Optional) Create a homey dr.

This comes from personal experiences. If I don't mention this I won't be completely open with each one of you. I shifted through intense love and reverence for my home. I knew that each and every second spent in this reality led up to me shifting to my home.

So for ease later on when you can't decide between drs, it'll be comforting to have a reality you can call home and choose over and over again.

Rewire.

This is where you come back to what you answered to the questions. Do you like your response? A human is living in a reality, and your answers are the universal law there. Will they have an easy time with shifting? If you think so, then choose to not do any "rewiring" and act upon the answers you wrote, shifting in accordance to them as they have become the pillars of your reality. If you think the person's reality's laws regarding shifting are complicated, then you can choose to rewire them. This can be a simple manifestation. As it has no basis in the 3D yet, you will manifest it within seconds. You can either write it down, listen to a subliminal, or simply think of the new beliefs in your head (eg "I shift in seconds") and let go. Stop.

(Severely optional) strive for spiritual awakenings

*shrugs* I thought I should mention based on personal experience.

During shifting.

Confuse your logical brain

You don't have to give it validation. Instead, just make it unable to predict the next move of it creator. Its built to look at everything with skepticism.. but it has nothing when you don't give it the chance. For example, the anti method by @hrrtshape is the best example. I like that you can do this, pre-method like a little warm up. (You can also manifest to not think logically)

Know your game

To act like you're in a battle field is not the way to shift. You don't have to give the actual practice of shifting much or any importance. You know how to shift, then why is there a need to have plan B's and checking your own environment? You are the commander in front, you're the one switching the reality, your reality is not the one switching.

Senses shift last

Explained by @stilljuststardust here.

Be blind and deaf to each and everything other than your intended reality

...and be so obsessed with your intended reality. Live out entire days, you're there, no, time is not passing by, the previous reality has disappeared by your hyperfixation on your intended reality. Ever done that exercise where you stare at a dot for so long, everything around it disappears? Well then, EXACTLY. Make it dissapear. Make it dissappear by not giving it any more of your energy. ....how I shifted. This is based upon being your dr self, that's snatches away the spotlight from this current reality.

Keep yourself comfortable

All of you are experienced enough to know, you don't need to lay in the starfish position. But remove the unnecessary thought that if you dare move your finger you might mess up the whole attempt (This is a subconsciousness belief) here's how to not worry about your 3D: again, senses shift last, Your current reality = intended reality.

It is about breaking free from human functions

Your software is set to being an earthly human. This is why acting like your current reality (the noises from the environment, physical annoyances) are from your intended reality, helps. This allows you to trick your human brain and move forward. The more you try to make sense of shifting, the more less it'll make sense. You don't have to know everything about shifting. The point is to be awfully natural about it. Just like how you wake up in this current reality without any requirement. You don't overthink it, then why overthink shifting.

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Now let's see how much time I take to actually make this post aesthetically pleasing, so people don't have to bleach their eyes or ruin their blogs with this.

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# ⋆｡°✩ 👻 PAP :: What made your SP realize that they love you?

focused primarily on shifters but applies to non-shifters too

this pap is an explanation of when and why your person fell for you. while it is meant for s/o's and romance, you could also apply it to platonic love! the question was intentionally left a bit open-ended. i wanted it to be wholesome, but due to the circumstances, some of the piles are not as sweet. cws / tws : drugs. family/daddy issues. trauma. abuse. abandonment issues. self-sacrifice. mild gore mentions. guns. as always - take what resonates and leave what doesn't.

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Take a deep breath, and pick the pile that you feel drawn to.

⋆｡°✩🕷️⊹ ࣪ ˖ PILE 01.

The Badger and Gingko [R]. The Bee and Pomegranate | Nobody Like U - 4*TOWN. Trip - Akintoye.

Honestly, this pile got the most simple response out of all of them. Your SP is just blatantly whipped. Everything in this pile seems wholesome and loving.

Your partner loves your individuality. Whoever you are, you shine bright. People stop to stare at you - because you are one of a kind. You are the kind of person that people would gawk at when you enter a room, who would never get interrupted because of the sheer power in your voice.

There is a chance you and your SP may have been childhood friends - or, at least, you are now constantly by eachother’s side. You are companions first, partners second. This has given them a broader insight of you and who you are as a person, and they love all of you. Specfically, though, they love your ambition. Your determination. You never back down. Once you set your mind on something, you chase it, and you GET it. They love that so much about you. No matter what happens, no matter what gets you down, you do not falter.

I believe that the exact moment that they fell for you was in a sudden moment of determination. You were frustrated with the fact that you did not succeed at a task, but you immediately dusted yourself off and got back to it. That moment of sheer positivity and perseverance got the gears in their head turning, and it clicked in their brain that they truly and deeply loved you.

The songs / cards themselves give me strong boy-group energy. Are you or your partner in one? If so, I’m vividly recalling the blonde member of 4*TOWN (I know they’re a fictional group, but shh). Perhaps your partner has blonde hair. or maybe you do? This bit is a bit cloudy, and would probably not resonate with the majority in this pile. A lot of you are probably in some sort of K-Pop group (or are famous in some way).

ASSOCIATIONS . . . idols/bands. fame drs. jeon jungkook. fluffy hair. studios. lip rings. blue eyes. restaurant dates. quiet giggling. main character energy. puppies. wealth? angel wings.

⋆｡°✩🕷️⊹ ࣪ ˖ PILE 02.

The Quail and Gooseberry. The Owl and Hop [R] | All For Us - Labrinth. Stereo Hearts - Gym Class Heroes.

This pile… I am so sorry. This one is pretty heavy. You might have also felt drawn to pile 3.

You have not lived a good life. I’m sensing family issues - primarily, though, daddy issues. Perhaps he was absent, did not fill his role properly, or passed away. Whatever it was, it has left its mark on you. Though… I am also getting the feeling that rather than you going through this, your SP might have instead. Whichever one of you did, though - it seems that they succumbed to drug use as a way to cope.

I am getting the message “would you still love me?” very heavily in this pile. It feels as if either you or your partner are scared to be fully yourself, because of the belief that the other will no longer like what they see. There is a lot of insecurity and self-doubt within this pile.

From this point on, I will be using ‘you/your’ for the reading, but please do note that this could easily apply to your SP as well. I am just trying to make it more simply to read.

You haven’t had the best relationships in your life. Your past partners were not good to you, and it has instilled a heavy fear of abandonment within you. Because of this, you are almost unhealthily devoted to your current SP. You are extremely loyal, and devote a lot of your time and energy to them. Maybe you even move too fast in the relationship? Whatever it is, though, they don’t mind.

The vision I’m getting of what moment exactly they fell for you is… more of a concept than a moment. I’m seeing a moment where you provided for your family/loved ones, despite struggle, and despite everything they put you through. A moment of genuine kindness from you. And that moment truly captured your SP’s heart. Because, well… Despite everything, you still loved, and you loved hard. And they admire that.

When reading this, I got a lot of Stranger Things energy. Other than that, there aren't many DR-specific concepts present.

ASSOCIATIONS . . . euphoria. drug use/abuse. foggy skies. loud music. brown eyes. glitter. eddie munson. messy rooms/floors. thorns. anticipation of danger. masking. (self) sacrifice?

⋆｡°✩🕷️⊹ ࣪ ˖ PILE 03.

The Raccoon and Sycamore [R]. The Bobcat and Blackthorn | Am I Dreaming - Lil Nas X. dream - pxzvc

There are a LOT of references to dreams in this pile. Like, a lot. Either you live in your own head, or you lost something and it has caused you to constantly be in a state of wishing. I’m also getting the message that the one of you that is the dreamer is also an airhead. Full of curiosity and wonder. I think that might be you? And if so, that is what your partner treasures about you. If it is your partner who is that way, they treasure that you ground them.

The answer to my question in this pile is… well… sort of difficult to explain. This pile is giving me heavy ‘seperated lovers’ energy - so a lot of this pile feels like yearning. Like wanting. Overall, it genuinely just feels like your memories together have been clouded, and your SP can no longer identify the exact moment. OOr, they don’t want to think about it, because it hurts so much. Anyway.

It feels as if you or your partner can spiral at times. You want to start again, write a new story with just the two of you in it, being happy and all of that. But you can’t, and so instead you (or they) dream about it. You never want one another to forget each other. You want to be together forever. At peace, eternally.

For this pile, there is no exact moment. They have loved you for a while, and there is no longer a specific answer to why. You are their world, and that is all there is to it.

It seems that you two were/are separated, for some reason. Maybe one (or both of you) are some sort of superhero (or agent) and have been tasked with a rather lengthy and dangerous mission. I am getting hints of self-sacrifice here. You both have some fear of abandonment, which is why this separation hurts so much. I don’t know why this idea is sticking so heavily with me, as the concept itself was not prominent within the songs/cards, but I feel heavily drawn to it. So I hope that resonates for at least some of you.

ASSOCIATIONS . . . mcu. villain x hero. blonde hair. missions. daydreams. static noises. corruption. dc. peter parker. suffocation. purple. adrenaline (rushes).

⋆｡°✩🕷️⊹ ࣪ ˖ PILE 04.

The Caiman and Poppy. The Vulture and Asphodel [R] | Outlaws - Au/Ra. I Scared All My Friends Away - Beard

Honestly, this pile is a fun one. Stressful and dangerous, sure, but fun. Anyway! This pile gives me heavy ‘on the run’ energy. It also does not feel modern, at all. This feels like some sort of apocalypse, or olden day, or just… a DR with a lack of proper civilization. So what I say mostly applies to situations like that, and so the moral implications are a lot less drastic.

The two of you are a duo. Usually, it is ONLY the two of you, as well. You’re a pair. You will never find one without the other. It’s a relationship full of laughter and energy. Though… It does have the downside of stress and aggressive arguments, when they are had.

You two help each other survive in the hellhole that you live in. Whether it is via killing zombies or hunting for food, you two are survivalists. I am getting images of bloody hands, torn clothes, greasy hair… You get the idea. For whatever reason, the two of you are almost always separated from others. Either you two simply just are ‘unfit’ for regular society, or prefer the solitude. It seems that either you or your partner struggle to maintain friends. Regardless, you are happy together, even if it does get a bit lonely. You could be exiles, you could simply just be two loners who like travelling… But you definitely are not settled down in one place.

Though, this IS still a traumatizing world to live in. You both have a lot of mental and physical wounds that need to be tended to. I get the feeling that you both distract yourself via adrenaline, and the fact that you’re constantly on your toes trying to stay alive.

The moment which they fell for you was a chaotic one. It was a moment where you displayed physical/mental strength. I’m getting a lot of mental images for this one, so I’m assuming it’s for different people in this pile. I’ll briefly list the images I’m getting. 

CW for mentions of hunting/skinning/dead animals and vague gore mentions.

- shooting the head off of a zombie and grinning victoriously. - wiping the blood of a skinned rabbit off your hands onto your shirt. - kissing despite there being dirt all over your face/body/hands. - almost tripping while being chased by something. - jumping onto a roof and sprinting. - throwing your partner onto your shoulder and carrying them away from danger.

ASSOCIATIONS . . . apocalypse. illegal activities / contraband. conquer. running & laughing. bloody hands. twd. ride or die relationship. red dead. affairs. jilted lovers. 'freaks'. carl grimes. sparrows. adrenaline. zombies. revolvers.

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# ⋆｡°✩ 👻 PAP :: What wound is haunting your relationships?

every inner child has bruises and bandages; which of yours are so tender that healthy love is stopped by it?

this pap is mostly about healing that needs to be done, and why it impacts your relationships. so, 85/15 shadow-work/love. this is not primarily a relationship dynamics reading !! cws / tws : these readings will touch on potentially sensitive or painful information, vaguely touching on childhood and behaviours. has relatively harsh delivery? read with caution. as always - take what resonates and leave what doesn't.

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Take a deep breath, and pick the pile that you feel drawn to.

⋆｡°✩🕷️⊹ ࣪ ˖ PILE 01.

Seven of Cups. Haunting of Crystals (R). Seven of Crystals (R).

You like to keep your options open; you strongly dislike feeling as though you are chained down to a specific situation, or even person. Due to this, you tend to be somewhat greedy with experiences - moving on from one to the other in rapid succession. It is rare to see you staying with one thing, one person, one job. You get bored, or frustrated, and move on to something more fun.

You feel suffocated by commitment. It feels as though you are trapped once again, forced to obey and kneel to whatever it is that is tying you down. Perhaps you were forced to behave as a child, painted in their ideal image - your own identity was not nurtured. No, you became what they wanted you to be, forced to work in the confines of their expectations. Now, you're free of it, and you don't want to experience that ever again.

Unfortunately, this means that it is hard for you to be truly loyal to a partner. Sure, you may not cheat, but you find yourself believing that eventually you will move on from them. Relationships, in your eyes, are something temporary; perhaps you believe that relationships are for fun, not for a permanent connection. This may in turn result in a never-ending cycle of failed relationships. A self-fulfilling prophecy of lovers who will never stay... if you even become exclusive with them. It is likely that you have a tendency to avoid serious relationships altogether, preferring the ease of choices. After all, why stick to one when you can try out many (or none at all?)

Your commitment issues cause a feeling of unfulfillment within you, a loneliness that you can't seem to fix. You are too afraid of being trapped by someone else to realize that you have trapped yourself. You have created an endless void, which consumes and consumes, with no regard for the empty space that it leaves behind.

Remember: you are your own person. It is okay to welcome stability. Of course, if you enjoy change, that's fine - but really reflect on this. Do you truly want spontaneity, or are you afraid that letting yourself stay in one place will somehow confine you? Are you afraid of giving any thing - any person - power over you?

You will not be loved, if you do not allow yourself to. Places, or things, can't control you, if you don't let them. You are giving them power by running away from them. I promise, the right person (or people) will make you feel safe in their stability. It will be scary, and it will not be an easy process, but you can do it.

Please know that I am not berating you; you have not committed a cardinal sin. The main person you're hurting is yourself. Trust that love is not dangerous, and that being around something for indefinite amounts of time will not instantly make you become a mold of what they want.

Your partner will always have desires, wants, expectations - and that doesn't take away from your independence. What they want from you, assuming that they are a good, healthy lover, is a result of love, and their independence. It's okay to compromise. You won't lose yourself. Maybe, if you ever were in a committed relationship, you got frustrated by their perceived demands and left. Maybe you felt as though they were trying to control you. Maybe they were. Regardless, you cannot deny every request that you're not happy with. Compromise, when it is possible, is important in a healthy relationship.

You need to learn where selfishness starts and independence ends. It's okay to be afraid. We all are, in our own ways. That doesn't mean you can continue to always want things your way, to refuse to submit.

There's safer places to be, but you'll never realize it if you turn away from it every single time. Your attempts at protecting yourself has hurt others, and may continue to do so. Keep an eye out for the safehouses, rather than running from stop to stop without looking back.

Your fear does not define you.

ASSOCIATIONS . . . Fireworks, parties, freckles, messy hair, desk job, green eyes, nails that are painted red, glow-in-the-dark stars on the ceiling, an expensive purse, laughter, quiet anger, nail biting, daisies, plaid skirts, pet dogs, Bluetooth speakers.

⋆｡°✩🕷️⊹ ࣪ ˖ PILE 02.

The Fool. Ace of Bones. Two of Cups (R).

How sweet; you're a delightful group, you are. This won't have much to say, so heed my words, okay?

You don't need to do anything. You've tried enough. You're wonderful. You are beautiful people and you have tried so hard to be better, to heal, to be perfect. Well, it's paid off.

You are incredibly bright. Your energy is bright, and warm, and I am so sorry that you've been hurt before. You deserve so much more than what people gave you.

This is a new beginning for you. Welcome any love that comes your way with open arms, because you deserve it. Don't push it away. I promise, you are not a burden. You are not a hindrance. You are worthy of it. You are care for, and admired, and appreciated. Do not forget that.

You will get the love you deserve, if you let it.

ASSOCIATIONS . . . white lillies, libraries, cardigans, converse, brown hair, wilted roses, sleepovers, potions, willow, snowflakes, 222, band posters, years-old journals, paint-stained dungarees, clear phone case

⋆｡°✩🕷️⊹ ࣪ ˖ PILE 03.

Six of Daggers. The Rigid (R). Ten of Bones.

You are afraid of moving on. You are stuck in the past, trapped in the hurt you've experienced, finding comfort in your misery. Your identity has become so deeply intertwined with pain that you don't want to stop experiencing hurt. After all, who would you be, then? It surely couldn't be you anymore, right?

You may have felt out of control of your life for a very long time. This has caused you to try and take control over whatever you can; and this has mostly translated to your work and your self. You do your best to be organized, to be put-together. You seem to be an extreme perfectionist, forcing yourself to be perfect and to excel at all times. You simply cannot do a "mediocre" job.

How do these things correlate, you might wonder? Well, your pain (overworking) has become a core part of you. "If I am not perfect, I am nothing". You're terrified of failure, and yet to heal from this, you need to fail. Willingly. And you're terrified of that, aren't you? Your entire self worth has been based on a concept which exists outside of you. Based on your capabilities, what you can do, rather than who you are. "Being a perfectionist" isn't who you are. It's how you are.

You're attached to the pain, to the pressure, because it's all that you know. It's what your self-esteem has attached on to, and you're afraid of trying to find something else. You don't feel worthy of other labels, yet the one you've assigned will always make you feel unworthy because failure is inevitable - do you see the cycle now?

You have unreasonably high standards for yourself, and you may burn yourself out trying to be a "perfect partner". Alternatively, you may not even let people be with you, because you don't think you'd be good enough for them. Regardless, your distance from love is a result of your need to be perfect.

There's also a chance that your perfectionism leaks into your home, your habits, your mannerisms. Maybe you get frustrated easily when the chores aren't done, when plans don't go the way you want. This could, unintentionally, cause distress for others. You may sometimes lash out, feeling as though your efforts are not reciprocated, but it's mostly a projection. After all, your own biggest critic is yourself.

You potentially struggle to move on from the present, wanting to clutch onto it as tightly as possible. Things being taken from you scares you - after all, loss is an uncontrollable event, and you don't like not being able to control something! Change is scary to you, and you likely fight twice as hard to keep everything "as it is", even if the change is for your greater good.

To put it bluntly: you need to relax. You need to learn how to be okay with not being perfect, because nobody ever will be infallible. You need to learn when to do your best and when it's okay to just leave it be. You're exhausting yourself non-stop. Firstly, if you're exhausted, your quality goes down anyway, but secondly, your mental health matters so much more than whatever task you have in front of you.

Even if you have to do something well, for whatever reason, it's not worth sacrificing your mental health for it. It's okay to struggle. It's okay to be less than excellent. It's okay to fail completely.

You, as a person, are valuable, because you are human. It does not come from what you do. Sure, you can do valuable things, but they do not define you. They never will. The sooner you learn this, the more at peace you will feel.

"Being a partner" is not another task, another job, to fulfil. You are human, not a robot. It's okay to be imperfect, it's okay to be vulnerable, it's okay to make mistakes. The right person would understand, not berate you. The right person would probably appreciate you being more "humane".

You are amazing as you are. Don't worry about what you can do. Worry about who you can be.

ASSOCIATIONS . . . Round framed glasses, Doberman, Jupiter, legal documents, thunderstorms, 777, burgers with no pickles or onion, PS4 Slim, tiger stripes, acne, painted nails, rock bands, itch scratching, pink roses, cargo pants

⋆｡°✩🕷️⊹ ࣪ ˖ PILE 04.

The Sun (R). Two of Bones (R). Judgement (R).

You are a mess. You are incredibly afraid, and scared, and tired - your bones are weary and you simply just want to give up. Everything is exhausting. Your problems constantly feel like they are piling on top of one another, solutions slipping through your fingertips like sand. Everything is overwhelming to you.

There's a constant knot in your stomach, a twist of dread; an ache in your chest, a pang of guilt. You don't feel seen. Your entire life has been spent in fight-or-flight, and you don't think you'll ever escape it. You can't imagine a world where you're doing anything but fighting.

You've grown accustomed to your suffering. Your identity is so deeply intertwined with your pain, with the bad things that happen to you, that you can't imagine anything good happening. You can't accept love - not in the way that you need it, at least. Hurt people hurt people, and you don't know how to be gentle. (And that's okay. You're learning).

You either push people away, or simply can't stand on your own two feet. There hasn't been much space for you to care for someone else in a healthy way, when you constantly feel like you're being slammed back into the floor. Event after event, wound after wound - a relentless slaughter of your sanity.

Maybe you're afraid of love because of what it has done to you. Maybe you desperately crave it, and act irrationally because of it. No matter the cause, love is something that doesn't seem to stick to you; the affection given to you seems to hide teeth and claws, frightening you at every turn.

The phrase "you cannot love others until you love yourself" is insensitive, and outright hurtful - it lacks so much nuance and understanding. But, unfortunately, some of that sentiment rings true. It's just not in the way that many tend to portray it.

You won't/can't accept love until you deem yourself worthy of it. Your emotions and your fears get the better of you, and that's okay. You don't need to adore yourself. You don't need to have the perfect self-concept. You just need to be willing to accept love. That's it. Having a healthy mindset is one thing, another battle you will need to fight. Fact is, things aren't easy to heal from. But you need to believe that you can heal. You need to, at least a little bit, trust that you deserve it.

You will find people willing to fight for, and with, you. You just need to let them in. You don't need to be alone. I'm sorry that things are difficult for you. You have been hurt without remorse, and it's greatly unfair.

But you need to take care of yourself first. You will get nowhere if you believe that the battlefield is where you're meant to be. It won't be an easy walk out - maybe you'll be stuck in the battlefield for longer. But you at least should don some armor. Your wounds don't make who you are. You're so much more than your pain.

Things will not suffer forever. Maybe your closest stop will just be feeling "okay". But okay is better than nothing. Give yourself some more credit. I know it's hard, but you deserve the happiness you seek.

ASSOCIATIONS . . . Spider lillies, wine glasses, cracked wallpaper, monarch butterflies, dark eyebags, Bojack Horseman, fog, newly bought books, ginger cats, beaches, fluffy boots, short nails, sleeveless dresses

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