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ok i’m curious

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what companies who sell you anti aging stuff don't want you to know is that if you're chill about aging, your perception of attractiveness changes as you get older. there is no "wall" where you suddenly become ugly and unfuckable because in my experience what actually happens is you get into your thirties and suddenly realize that people in their thirties are hot as fuck and the "flaws" that the beauty industry wants you to panic about are a feature not a bug, and based on the std statistics in nursing homes I don't really expect that trajectory to change.

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*touching his extremely defined six pack* who did this to you.....

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I really think we need to be having conversations more often about how to figure out if you're being abusive, and how to address it if you are.

Abuse isn't just done by one demographic, or in one specific way. Most abusers justify their actions to themselves and do not think of what is happening as abuse.

It's dangerous to just assume that you don't have the ability to abuse someone due to your Pureness of Heart or oppressed status. Thinking this way can make you more likely to harm someone.

I have known people who talk a lot about abuse, have read a lot about it, and have been abused themselves, who become abusers and don't notice because they see their victim status as overriding any concern they should have about how they treat others. It seems impossible to them that abuse could come FROM them rather than always automatically only happening TO them.

You can abuse people. I can abuse people. Abusers are human beings who choose to exert control over others. Not storybook monsters you have nothing in common with.

Let's talk about how to make sure we keep our friends, loved ones, and other community members safe from harmful behavior, not just from Total Irredeemable Obvious Monsters.

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Panther in the rain.

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shout out to the monkees for giving everybody head in 1968 i guess

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You know, that Mythbusters post legitimately changed my life. Before seeing it, I had exponentially more guilt and stress about not being able to sleep, which of course, further exacerbated my inability to sleep.

Now, every time I wake up about three am, knowing I have to get up at 6.45, instead of stressing and panicking about how my day is going to be sleep deprived and miserable, I just tell myself 'Time to activate Mythbusters Protocol' and lie there with my eyes closed safe in the knowledge that I am measurably reducing later feelings of exhaustion.

And when this happens, about 70% of the time the reduction of guilt and stress means I actually do fall back asleep, so all in all instead of getting only three or four hours sleep, I get five to six and a half.

Which y'know, major improvement in health and energy.

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The newlyweds.

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do you ever look at Successful™ people your age and feel like you’re just floating your way thru life like a very bewildered and directionless bumblebee

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"god, it's brutal out here" content master list (to be continually added to)

the feminine urge to engage exclusively with media about how fucking gnarly it is to be a teenage girl

movies

Welcome to the Dollhouse

Jennifer's Body

The Craft

Carrie

Election

Heathers

The Virgin Suicides

Girl, Interrupted

The Witch

Raw

Heavenly Creatures

Ginger Snaps

Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me

Whip It

Fear Street: 1994, 1978, and 1666

A Nightmare on Elm Street

The Exorcist

Excision

IT: Chapter One

Teeth

Scream

Picnic at Hanging Rock

A Girl Walks Home Alone at Night

Let the Right One In

But I'm a Cheerleader

Girlfight

The Blackcoat's Daughter

Thoroughbreds

Cruel Intentions

It Follows

Suspiria

tv series

Sharp Objects

Yellowjackets

My So-Called Life

Euphoria

Buffy the Vampire Slayer

American Horror Story: Coven

Chilling Adventures of Sabrina

Twin Peaks

Daria

PEN15

books/plays

My Best Friend's Exorcism by Grady Hendrix

Plain Bad Heroines by Emily S. Danforth

The Final Girl Support Group by Grady Hendrix

Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn

The Miseducation of Cameron Post by Emily S. Danforth

The Low, Low Woods by Carmen Maria Machado

The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath

Carrie by Stephen King

The Crucible by Arthur Miller

Her Body and Other Parties by Carmen Maria Machado

We Have Always Lived in the Castle by Shirley Jackson

Bastard out of Carolina by Dorothy Allison

albums

SOUR--Olivia Rodrigo

Fetch the Bolt Cutters--Fiona Apple

Live Through This--Hole

American Thighs--Veruca Salt

The Runaways--The Runaways

Aurora Gory Alice--Letters to Cleo

Tidal--Fiona Apple

Pure Heroine--Lorde

WHEN WE ALL FALL ASLEEP, WHERE DO WE GO?--Billie Eilish

Treats--Sleigh Bells

Whip Smart—Liz Phair

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ladies we need to start frantically and obsessively reading books in less than 24 hours again..remember how happy we were

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I’m begging of you even if you disagree with Israel (rightly so), do not fall into the enemy of my enemy is my friend mentality. Do not forget the atrocities that the Islamic Republic has committed and is committing against its own people, including children. Do not forget Mahsa Amini and Nika Shahkarami and the millions killed by the Islamic Republic.

Sincerely, an Iranian.