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"This selfshipper loves Lorelai Blyndeff!" userbox, requested by @grantyouakindness

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OK BUT imagine your f/o is in the midst of a battle, absolutely tearing it up, and then their phone rings with the special ringtone they have just for you.

They GRIP their enemy with a sudden new strength and hold them down while they fumble to answer it.

“[name]! No, no, you’re not interrupting anything. What’s up?”

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me & my BFF!

In my homewrecker era 😈 (towards canon ships)

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💖 daily selfship reminders!! 💖

❤️ your f/o adores you!!

🧡 every type of selfship (romantic, platonic, familial) is valid!!

💛 you don't owe anyone an explanation for your selfship, regardless if they're in the community or not!

💚 you can selfship and have an irl partner! Having one or the other isn't something to feel guilty for!

💙 if you struggle doing daily tasks, try to imagine your f/o encouraging you! They want you to be happy and healthy, so remember to take care of yourself!

💜 at the end of the day, selfshipping should be fun! Limit exposure to things that may trigger or upset you (if able to), and remember to practice self care- you're worth it!

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Someone: How do you even know if you and your f/o would get along?

Me, who has mentally thought out each and every single part of their personality and has gone over how they would be in a dynamic between the two of us and how it plays into the bond we would share but explaining it would take too long:

*Shrug* ...I just think they're neat.

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once again, biiig big big shout-out to selfshippers whose f/os have a canon partner / popular ship with a canon character and are uncomfortable with contents of them or anything related to them. no, you're not a 'stealer'. your f/o ONLY WANTS you. you're their canon partner. no one can change it. you're destined to be with them, and no one else.

we're here for you. you're not alone, and we all know that your f/o loves YOU and YOU only.

hugs you. 💗

pr.o.ship.dni

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Stimboards of My Favourite Pokemon: Rockruff & Lycanroc!

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REBLOG THIS IF ITS OKAY AND YOU'RE COMFORTABLE FOR ANONS TO SEND TO RANDOM LETTERS FROM UR F/O

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would your f/o be more of a cat person or a dog person? or maybe they'd be the type to answer "both!" or "neither," and say a totally different pet?

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Rank your main f/os from who gets the most to least sleep

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*Song could be anything from a boss theme, a song they themselves sing, a song sung about them, a song simply named after them, a preexisting song that's canonically associated with them or appears in a scene they’re in, etc etc...

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F/O holding you tightly. F/O nuzzling against one of your cheeks. F/O squishing you like a stuffed animal. F/O chuckling into your ear. F/O getting cozy with you. F/O being all snuggly with you.

Do not start imagining it or you might not be able to stop picturing F/O cuddles!

Proship/Comship do not interact please!

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proship DNI

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I know your f/o has a canon love interest. But this is your special world. They love you. They want you. You know them inside and out and clearly you're the one they want. They think you're beautiful and lovely and strong, and they want a life with you. They want to be with you forever. Never compare yourself because you're a fantastic human being.

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sorry you have to consider your f/os imperfections. you have to consider the off-tune singing or humming that they do anyway because they know they don't need to worry about coming off any certain way with you. you have to consider the snort-laughs and wheezing because some joke you made caught them off guard and got them good. you have to think about them mixing up their thoughts and making up new, incoherent sentences that they have to go 'no, wait-' and quickly fix with only a little bit of indignance. you have to think about if they sprawl out or curl up in any odd, possibly-unflattering ways when they sleep. you have to think about the smile lines and crows feet they're starting to get, no doubt linked to the non-insignificant amount of time they spend smiling at you. okay?? thanks.

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type in “my f/o is so” and then let ur keyboard finish it. have fun! <3