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You got to learn how to vibe alone. You can't live your life being dependent on other sources of energy. You have the ability to be self sufficient so tap into yourself once in a while.

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Intelligence is Sexy

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#teamleo #leowomen #facts 💯💪

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#brotherKanye #kanyewest speaking #truth 💯

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The Damn Truth

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The “Black Woman, Choose Better” Fallacy

If you are a Black woman who has ever had a failed relationship with a Black man whether it was because of him being physically abusive, verbally abusive, or just generally unsupportive….then I am sure you have heard the same slogan from unsympathetic people who will tell you to “Choose better”.

The only advice they have to offer you consists of criticizing your ability to choose a decent partner, which ultimately dismisses all accountability on behalf of that Black man.

The irony is that even Black men will tell you that you must choose better. However; they are not sincere.

Here is why.

How often do you hear Black men complaining about Black women having standards? Very often.

They will call us “gold diggers” if we expect them to be financially responsible. They tell us we should “hold a man down” when he is in a tight situation. They encourage us to accept the bare minimum from a man. They demand that we always give men second and third chances no matter how abusive they are.

But then. . Once a Black woman begins to complain after being hurt by one of them, she is told by those same men to “choose better”.

The truth is that they really do not want you to choose better because then many of them would not qualify.

What they want is a way to blame you for how their collective treats you and their line “Choose better” gives them the opportunity to do that.

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There’s nothing wrong with making your intentions clear

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"I use to dream in parables Partially love you naturally Happily ever after Cigarette over blunts now Miracle Whip at Funtown Summertime delight, delight Mississippi over ice Janet Jackson and flashing lights We can dance a little, if you'd like to My vagabonds is a lonely road, a celebrated haiku Contemporary overzealous think I really like you" #sunnyduet #noname #dopemusic

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"Noname off the drugs Noname quit the weed Telefone delight Love is all I need My honeybee red black and green Majestic queen" #allineed #noname #dopemusic #music

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If you don’t value yourself, then you will always be attracted to people who don’t value you either.

Sabrina Alexis, Everything You Need To Know If You Want Love That Lasts (via ohteenscanrelate)

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Beet scallion cucumber apple apricot carrot broccoli rabe strawberry adding rice milk #happyjuicing #vegetarianlife #poweredbyplants

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#poweredbyplants #vegetarianlife two juices #sauteed veggies #veggies I promise to work on a blog this weekend

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I want you to be Healthy and Happy

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#sauteed #swisschard #carrots #bokchoy #mushrooms #scallions over #organicnoodles lunch was awesome #vegetarianlife

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tips for a happy life

wake up early in the morning

do some kind of activity - go running, walk your dog, etc.

drink lots of water to boost your productivity

read more books

listen to inspiring music

clean your home/apartment for 15-20 minutes daily

consume fresh fruits and vegetables every day

prepare your own food - read more about healty eating, check out new recipies, cook with love

reward yourself, celebrate little victories - you’ve made it out of bed today, you washed your face and you had the strength to wake up and embrace the new day

go out, make new friends, be social

pick a diary and a beautiful pencil to write down how your day has been before you go to sleep

go to bed earlier

make plans for the next day - do something you’ve never done before. When was the last time you tried something diferent?

love life