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[hellychatterjee]

[20/1/19] How to Remember Everything You Read and Improve Your Memory

Hey guys, It’s Helly. Welcome back to my youtube channel in today's video I'm gonna tell you guys how you can have better memory and remember things better this will not only help you in your academic life but even in your real life and in your job because memory is something that we all need to keep working on and if you know some chips then leave them in the comment section as well today I'm gonna tell you guys about the things that I have done and the things that have helped me to remember better because I was a very average student in school but I think I have improved considerably in college and I hope for more improvisation definitely to better my grades because oh my god grades do matter a lot now without any further ado let's get into this video I think the first thing that you should keep in mind if you want to have better memory is that you need to be actively reading so there's two types of reading and I think there may be more but mostly its passive leading an active reading fascinating is sort of the reading I do most of the times which is with fiction books I do read them but I'm not very engaged in the whole book unless it's a very important book and active reading is the type of reading I do when I am reading my academic books because that is something I have to remember and I'll leave some links to active reading blogs and active reading tips in the description below because that is something you need to read a lot about but I'll give you three tips that be more focused when you're reading underline paths that are very very important and please keep asking questions in your mind when you're reading just don't read it blindly judge for yourself whether what you're reading is right or wrong that will help you a lot in remembering the text more and remembering the things more because you are not only reading but also interacting with it and playing a very very active role in the whole thing the second thing that I'll tell you is to write down please write down whatever you're reading especially if it's important and if you cannot write a whole page of an essay just make bullet points to write down the main thing that you can always elaborate on it when you are remembering the answer I think that bullet point thing helps a lot in so many subjects and if you have given exams like Isen izc you know how how good we were at remembering a two-word bullet point and expanding it to a  word essay that is something that helps a lot of students I think in a lot of boards and a lot of field of study while it is not really advisable I will say that bullet points help you a lot in remembering the key words of a text or an answer and making bullet points will definitely help you remembering the text better than if you were to probably read one page essay on the same topic the third tip that I have is to learn the spacing method so there's this channel called Thomas Frank who has elaborated it very well on his channel spacing method is basically reading something or rereading something at definite in towers the more the space between the two readings is the more you memory increases and that is a very very effective concept remember we revise a definite length of time so most of the times if you have studied something during your classes and then you study it two weeks later and then you study it right before the exam you will remember that better than something you just reread a few weeks before the exam or just to read it on the eve of the exam so yeah use this pacing technique whenever you're studying there are so many apps that will help you do it there are so many ways you can do it that is by writing it down making post-it notes making charts where you can track what you're reading and at what intervals but I think the best way definitely is to write it down and remember because I believe in the old-school method of writing whenever it comes to academic studies the third tip to have better memory is to definitely have foods that enhance your memory there are so many foods that enhance your memory and it is definitely a good idea to have them more in your diet I personally really love having almonds in my diet  almonds a day and I really notice a significant difference in my whole productivity level for that day my next step will be to start doing meditation that is something that I have been doing for a month and honestly there's a lot of study that I have to do I have to study for my college I have to study for my work I have to study for my passion because I you really really love reading books and then I also love reading critical Studies on the books that I have loved so there's a lot of studying that's there in my whole day and I don't know how I managed to incorporate that I honestly don't most of the times I do procrastinate but I do try to stop doing that and I think meditation has helped me a lot and that is because meditation helps you focus and focus is something that you do lack when you have a lot on your plate and doing meditation has truly truly helps me focus more on the important things and my studies and when you have better focus as I said you will remember more because you're actively reading a text

I think yoga saunas are a perfect way to enhance your memory and brain power and I do yoga every day five minutes of yoga not much definitely but even that helps a lot and if you manage to sneak in some more time for yoga. I am definitely sure that you will see significant change in your academic life and your memory the next step will be something that I used to do when I was in school and that is making charts so I love making charts and charts to help you have a better memory so whatever it is that you have to remember especially if there's a lot in that scenario so we have chapters on chemistry which had so many reactions we had chapters of geography which had the same crop being grown at different places with different results and in different climates and that is something I needed to make chart sauces those charts were right before my eye in my bedroom I saw them every day and since I saw them every day I remembered them better and I did better in those particular sections than the other sections which I have noticed for myself and if you are someone who does study from charts you will see that as well so while you are actually making the chart you are studying and that helps my last tip will be to create post-its post-its help you definitely a lot in remembering better post-its are so easy to make and if there is something you need to remember quickly just write it down and paste it somewhere near you if you saw my previous set up I did have a lot of post-its on my Almera that's because I am a person who does forget a lot so I just made quick notes on my post-its and posted them right before my eyes so that I have my eye on them and remember them better so these were the tips that I wanted to share there are many many more tips like learning a new layer new fair and so many things that actually help you have better memory and remember things better but these are the tips that I've seen have worked the best for me because I have got my pets and I I really don't feel that they have impacted my memory in any way if something I do forget more things just because I am busy after them and then I am learning Korean right now but once again I don't really think that is impacting my memory as of now I may change my mind later but these are the tips that have helped me if there are tips that have helped you leave them in the comment section below because there are so many people who need better memory inclusive of me and yeah guys I will be back with another video next week till then bye bye.

[hellychatterjee]

Hey guys, it's Helly and welcome back to my youtube channel in today's video I'm gonna be reviewing pseudo select mean Alliance new book Elephants in the Room and this is a book that was sent to me by the author and this is a sponsor to review but all the opinions are my own and yeah without any further ado let's get into this book so this book is basically a crime fiction but hey I was really really like hoping that it would be a more of a humorous book than crime but it's sort of like balances both of them out something that I really really enjoyed because I have never never read a crime fiction which had fun in it and I think that is very important there is no no reason why a crime fiction should always be a gloomy and dark and gothic type one so yeah this was a very very different type of a read in that perspective I really really loved the characterization of this book I loved the title because this is a proverb and I did not really know about this proverb before reading this book I'm so ashamed of myself right now but yeah that's their probably the only thing that I did not like about this book is the length it's very very lengthy and I'm a person who really has short-term memory loss so the thing is whenever I am reading a very fat work I really find it very difficult to remember the name of the characters most of the times and that was a bit of a problem and after reading this book also I realized that maybe it could have been shortened by a .. or .. pages I guess but otherwise this was a good read and it probably ate at .. stars out of  and if you want to grab a different type of a crime thriller maybe you should go for this one and I'll attach the link in the description below this book follows the life of three friends who decide to rob a bank they are not real robbers they just decide to rob a bank because they are in a cash crunch and honestly they are the stupidest and the absurdist crime doers ever I guess and it was probably so funny because of that because they are totally novices to crime and they are trying to rob a bank like and they are planning like they are having the best plan in the world while theirs it's probably the worst plan that ever I have heard about and that was really really funny but when they actually go to off the bank they see that there are others who are there to top the bagging on the same day as well and that is where the problem arises and yeah it was very very funny the encounter I guess and honestly the storyline is very unique I was very very tired of reading the same type of crime thrillers all the time and I would really really give kudos to the also for a unique storyline like this talking about the characters the characters are made very very well and all of them are very very unique there are a lot of cultural references throughout the book which makes you feel like the characters are real flesh-and-blood people you know about what type of background they are coming from you know what the societal position is you know the economical position and there are so many unique and funny characters there's this character called veil especially I loved him so he sort of deaf like not entirely but his hearing is going and he sort of acts like no to agony here's wrong things all the time and this is a very famous motive in all human Orville's but since this is a crime novel I really liked it really feel that wheels character was something that could have been utilized even better in this novel than it was but yeah that's there I really not Suraj Laxmi Narayan language because it's very ornate and very beautiful and very very delicious to read I'm a person who loves to read lovely language and maybe you do too because you know whenever I am reading a book the plot matters a little less to me than the language of the book I read books because I love the flavor of good language and this book does that you are someone who reads books to enhance their vocabulary this book is the one you must buy because the language is amazing and descriptive language is something that I'm a huge huge fan of I told you about the cultural references in this book so this book is set in Chennai and that is a part of India that I have not really explored a lot even in books so I was so happy that the author himself cleared some of my doubts when I asked him because some parts where it be little bit difficult for me to understand because I am not very aware of the culture and I would really love it for you guys to let me know about some culture of South India arcs about some books that are said in South India because I would love to read them especially books that in Chennai because that is a part of India that have not really read about much even though I would really really want to my only drawback as I told you guys is probably the length of this book and the abundance of characters in this book in a crime novel especially if it would have been a bit more crisp I think it would have been a perfect novel but otherwise it's a very very good read nevertheless if you happen to buy this book you will also see a part of my review towards the front page and I'm so happy that my small excerpt from my review was actually published in the final copy of this book so yeah do send me pictures if you see my name in this book because I have a review copy so this is the copy that was published before the official printing so I don't really hate to see my name in this coffee so please send me pictures if you happen to buy this book and yeah that will be great. So, yeah guys, I hope you enjoyed today's video if you want to recommend me some unlikely crime thrillers let me know in the comment section below because I am always waiting for your recommendations I hope you guys enjoy today's video if you did make sure you give this video a big fat thumbs up make sure you subscribe to my channel because I post new videos every week and till my next video bye.

[hellychatterjee]

7 Things To Stop Doing [12/01/19]

Hey guys, it's Helly and welcome back to my YouTube channel in today's video I'm gonna tell you guys about seven things you need to stop doing right now if you want to lead a more happy and productive life so if you are someone who has a lot of bad habits or you want to have a better life keep watching today's video note that I'm a person who has also fallen victim to some of these I have gotten over some of these and I'm still getting over some of these so I am nowhere near perfect but I think as a community these are things that we can really discuss so without any further ado let's get into this video and make sure you're subscribed to my channel so that you know every time I post a new video so the first thing that you should really really stop doing is checking your phone the moment you get up and if you're a millennial I know you do this all the time because guess what I did it all the time as well and then I saw this amazing session by Mel Robbins it made me laugh but it also made me realize how stupid we all are we're ready to consume others crap even before we are vertical and that is such a crazy thought right you have probably never thought about this in the same way as I'm a person whose work is always on the phone and laptop I am someone who always does this but after watching that session I have considerably stopped picking up my phone the first thing in the morning so what I do is I keep my phone either away or if I'm listening to an audio book at night I tell my parents that if they happen to wake up before me just move the phone away from me and since they are Indian parents they love they love they absolutely love taking my phone away from me so I am really grateful to them for doing this for me if you do not have someone to help you in this way I think that you need to have some self-control and not reach out for the phone the first thing in the morning you can use Mel Robbins own rule that is the five-second rule just count till and immediately get up without even looking at the phone in the morning and I know it may sound a bit difficult in the beginning because it's such an addictive thing you know but if you do this for days straight chances are that it will become a habit and you will never ever pick up your phone the first thing in the morning again the second thing that you should really stop doing is doubting yourself I am a power sinn who always doubts ourselves I'm always thinking that I'm not perfect I'm not doing this perfectly this is not turning out the way I wanted to and chances are that you are doing that too and you are also doubting yourself all the time but guess what perfection is something that can never be attained and if you keep delaying projects just because you think you're not perfect yet and you have doubts about yourself and your work chances are that you will never get that work done and never progress in your life so what you should do is do the job do it the way you want to maybe it won't be perfect maybe the person who is examining you or maybe the person who sees that will criticize you and guess what the criticism is going to help you further in life to improve that project and since you improve that project you will get better criticism and eventually perfect that piece of work of that piece of job and I feel that is so important I never wanted to make youtube videos after a one-year span because I thought that my videos were not being as good I was not been watched by as many people as I would want to be watched by even now I am NOT but then that is something that I have to keep striving for and I'm always learning new things I'm always learning new skills of editing how to shoot better whatever your job or creative field is it will be the same with you so keep improvising but never ever doubt yourself and never ever doubt and delay any process in your life the third thing you should stop doing and honestly this is more for me I guess that is giving up easily I think a big problem of our generation is that we give up too easily we don't have patience the moment we want something we want it and if things do not go right we don't perceive here I think this happens the most when we are trying to learn a new skill like calligraphy or singing or dancing we start doing something and we then just stop because it's not being as perfect as we would want it to be we want to dance like amazing dancers but we are always not giving as much effort that we probably should and we give up too easily and that is definitely something we all need to work on so something very simple that I started doing two years ago was meditation but I could just not focus as much as I should have probably to be good at it but right now I am focusing more on meditating and I've been doing it better thanks you guys you gave me a lot of tips in my previous videos and that helped a lot and I think that not giving up this time helped me a lot if there is something that you're doing and you're not getting as much success as you expected you would please perceive you please keep trying to do that as long as you can the speed of every person is different something that I learn in a month may take a year for you something that you may learn the month may take three years for me we are very very different from each other so don't compare yourself with others whatever you're doing keep going at your pace and success will come to you one day or the other let's talk about impulse shopping we have all done it we have always gone somewhere we saw something amazing or something delicious and we immediately put it in our card and checked out well impulse shopping is bad in so many ways first of all it is very very bad for your personal finance and secondly most of the times the things you buy on impulse and not even need it and later you realize that you could have better spent that money on something you actually needed and by the time you realize that it's definitely too late so I feel that you should definitely stop impulse buying if you want to stop impulse buying there are three ways to do it number one always try to trade in cash never use your card as long as it's not an emergency because I feel that when you're shopping using your card you spend a lot more money than you actually would and you probably know this as well but it seems really nice you know because the amount in your bank is definitely a lot more than what you'd probably be able to carry in cash and when you are paying from that account it seems like a very small amount of money but it is a significant amount of money the second way to stop impulse buying is that make a to-do list every time you're going out to shop or going online to shop so that you stick to your list and don't shop for things that are actually not necessarily good and the most effective tip to stop impulse buying is to count the digits in the item that you're buying so if you are buying something worth a hundred rupees on impulse and it is not something that is very necessary for you wait for three days before you actually buy it if you are going to buy something of about a thousand rupees wait for four days before you actually go and buy and most of the times by the time the days pass you either forget about it or you realize that it's actually not needed and that has helped me a lot in reducing my impulse shopping habits when I started making my own money it was very easy to go with the flow and spend all I can especially on books but even that is something that I need to control to a certain level and so should you next will be more of a health tip and that will be having less sugar we always have a lot of sugar and you never know when it is going to affect you as long as you're not really suffering from anything it's really hard to stop eating sugar and it's okay if you do have sugary stuff but try to keep that amount less than  grams of added sugar every day it is a very very easy way to control just stop adding instead of maybe three spoons start adding two spoonfuls and then move to one spoon food and slowly if you reduce these amounts you will see a significant change in your health and your whole body I really feel that if having something sugary makes you very happy then you should definitely go for it but if you want to be healthy you can start at sugar because I think it's a very very easy way to start caring about your health and I think that caring about your health is one of the most important steps in self-love the sixth tip will be to stop spending so much time on social media I know you're watching me on YouTube and that is something you should definitely do but like jokes apart most of the times we look at our social media feed and we realize there are so many people around us who are so perfect there leading perfect lives having perfect food travelling to perfect places which we can probably never afford they are having the perfect lives the perfectly curated lives rather that we aspire for and since I'm a social media person most of my work is related to social media let me tell you that getting a perfect photo takes somewhere between one to three hours and getting a perfect video I won't even talk about that so everything that you're seeing is curated the worst parts of it are always deleted and not for public eye you're only seeing the best sides of it and if you have where to see the behind-the-scenes you will be shocked at the realities social media is definitely something you should be looking at if want inspiration follow the people who inspire you follow the people who guide you follow the people who make you happy but make sure you're not being controlled or manipulated by the type of lives they are living or rather sure that they are living on social media and that is something that you can only do if you limit your time on social media there are so many apps that will help you do this and I'm definitely sure that you're going to be trying a few of them out and letting me know in the comment section below and the last thing that I want you guys to stop doing and something that I have never done in my life and I'm so proud of it that is binge watching binge watching is such a bad habit guys and with Netflix around it has become more common than ever and there are a lot of people who ask me why I don't binge watch series on Netflix or why I don't watch series on Netflix the main reason is that it's very addictive each episode is just about one hour but then if you compile the whole time if you spend that time doing something more productive or even spending time with your family so maybe you're watching a series of ten hours in one day by binge watching just think about how much time you could have invested in something else with that amount of time invested in something more productive you could have done wonders but you wasted the time watching a very entertaining series and I know entertainment is very important but keep in mind that entertainment is something you should resort to when you're taking a break most of the times not as a way of living so stop binge watching right now a very very good way to do this once again will be to limit your screen time using different add is something that can help you considerably in stopping binge watching and I know there are a lot of people who may disagree with me and that's amazing there are so many things that I talked about in today's video and I'm very very open to your thoughts if you disagree let me know in the comment section below I'd love to know what your views are because we are a healthy community guys so let me know in the comment section below about your thoughts on things that you feel that we all should really stop doing because I really believe in having a good life because you get it only once guys so yeah I hope you guys enjoyed today's video and let me know in the comment section below about that give this video a big fat thumbs up if you liked it if you are not subscribed to my channel as yet sure you subscribe because I post new videos every week let me know which video do you want next because I'm totally out of video ideas right now and my exams are coming up ahead so I don't really have the time to think that much so I just want you guys to guide me about what type of video you want to see next because I would love to make whatever you want me to make and till my next video bye bye

[hellychatterjee]

Fantasy Books to Read [09/01/19]

Hey guys, it's Helly and welcome back to my YouTube channel in today's video I'm gonna share some of my recommendations from the best Wylie fantasy books that I've read take note that I have not read a lord of wire fantasies I have read a few and from those few I have selected a fewer amount of why a titles that I have found the best these are why a fantasy novels not why a and I'm um almost righ nine percent sure that I do get the difference because honestly I get really confused with genres especially when it's young adult if I make any mistake I'd love it for you guys to tell me in the comment section below so without any further ado let's get started with this video and this video is sponsored by glory bug publications they have published in Creed yeah which is written by Sir uma Hodges this is definitely a recommendation from my side if you want to read a fantasy novel this is a brilliant novel the novel starts out with Lou one of brighter who lives in this place called Friday or Breda, whatever. So, Lou one is a really really awesome guy who sets out on an adventure quite unknowingly he actually left home because he had a fight with Meg his sister but eventually he realizes that he should not have done that and there's a lot of danger in the outside world there's also Meg in this book and meg is probably one of the best characters that have ever read about and definitely there are so many other characters other than them I have made a review on this book already so maybe you want to take the review out and the other books of the series are going to come out soon and I can't wait to read them because I really enjoyed the first book of the series my all-time favorite young adult fantasy has to be a nimble in the ashes the first three books are out and I've read them all and I've loved them all and I really really think I know what's gonna happen in the fourth book which I'm not ready for but I'm not sure yet so this book follows liya who sets out to find the resistance to seek help for her brother and she has to go to the black cliff Academy where alias Helene and so many other children are being trained they're not really children anymore though but she has to go there to spy on the command living in a world where everyone is almost reduced to slavery does not really matter what their occupation or what they are doing and it's really painful to see such amazing characters in such a condition this book arouses a lot of emotions in you it makes you angry it makes you afraid it makes you very very thrilled it makes you feel liberated and it makes you feel so sad at times and that is why I really loved this book series I have read the three books as I said and I can't wait for this book series to N but then I also know that I'm gonna be very very sad when this book series actually ends because it is amazing and there's no other wire fantasy series that has thrilled me as much as this one has been able to even though there are a lot of hyped books in this genre the next will be children of blood and borne by Thome are they gave me this book was so hyped the whole year everybody was anticipating this book and I am so so thrilled to read it too although you guys know I did not like the ending of this book because it is a cliffhanger differently but then I just did not really feel very satisfied with the ending I also did not feel very satisfied with Enon who is the male protagonist but celly the girl the female protagonist of this book and also Amari she is also another female protagonist both of them make up for this book is set in Orissa not Bhuvaneshwari Vala Arusha this is a different place entirely and I really thought it was like something close to Munna should and it's not like that so orisha is a place where there used to be magic but then one day magic was stolen from them and those who do have the power and the ability of magic are actually punished most of the times as Ellie is one such girl she lost her mother because of this now she has to do something to save her own people and the premise is amazing the alternating narrative was amazing the characters the female protagonists were amazing the male protagonists wealthy we're also not that bad honestly like it was I think just because of that I was a bit disappointed and then I was actually expecting this book this series to be like a total six stars out of five and it was not like that good nuts because this book has been overhyped that I had such high expectations that could not be met but anyway this series is gonna be amazing this book is amazing and I think the second book in the series is coming out in about two or three months so yeah I am totally ready for it it doesn't really matter whether you're a reader or not you definitely know about Hunger Games it has been made into an amazing movie series and the movie is actually awesome but this series is even better like any reader will see that though so this series follows Katniss Everdeen and Peeta who go to compete in The Hunger Games.

So, Hunger Games is basically this deadly game where children are chosen from every district and they have to fight against each other those who lose die and the winners emerge as victorious but winning is also like not winning in such a scenario and this concept is amazing. It's sort of a post-apocalyptic world which is something that I really love reading about also like guys there was this amazing movie that I saw last week called Bert boxed anyway coming back to the Hunger Games series this is definitely a highly recommended series if you want to read some good quality fantasy novel fiction well miss Peregrine's Home for peculiar children has been made into a very shitty movie I really loved this book this book follows Jacob who finds this peculiar home for peculiar children which is headed by none other than miss Peregrine's and it's a strange home because it is what strange people so these are the people who have strange abilities or powers and you will be thrilled to see them and this book has amazing pictures amazing pictures and I I just can't take my eyes of the images in this movie it actually mingers photography with fiction is absolutely amazing Madsen rates is one of my favorite writers of all time and I also read the short story collection called tales of the peculiar and I have to say I really loved reading about peculiar people I think because a peculiar person myself hey and let me know in the comment section below if you also love reading peculiar stories because these stories are the type of stories that I want to read all my life I have not really read the next two books in this series because I did not really have the money most of the times to buy the next two books because they are sort of expensive most of the times but I really really want to someday finish reading the series and let you guys know about my view on the entire series so yeah guys I hope you guys enjoyed my recommendations of Hawaii fantasy once again I'd like to thank Laura Berg publications for sponsoring this video and I really really would love it if you guys let me know in the comment section below which are the why your fantasy novels or why a novels that you think I should be reading if I haven't already and yeah I really really look up to your recommendations because I know you've read much more than I have and yeah guys I hope you guys enjoyed today's video if you did make sure you give this video a big fat thumbs up I hope you are subscribed to my channel because I post new videos every week and till my next video bye bye

[hellychatterjee]

Achievement Unlocked: 1 lakh subscribers!

[hellychatterjee]

Hey guys, it's Helly. Welcome back to my Youtube channel. So, since 2018 is over I want to share some of my favorites of that I hope that you may consider checking out or buying I'll mostly include things that are actually not monetary because I really believe that happiness comes from everything that does not cause but sometimes it also comes from things that you've actually purchased so this year I got a denim jacket and boy have I loved it I bought it everywhere it did not matter if it was hot or cold it accompanied me it complimented me with everything that I wear I have the least idea about fashion and this denim jacket actually helped me appear a little more presentable in all places so also this year I discovered a lot of songs which became my favorites very soon there was kpop definitely but one of my favorite songs this year was a French song from I think the s and it's called to like our souls and I have probably murdered the pronunciation but it is amazing it's an amazing song by Franco as Hardy and she is an amazing singer and the song itself has a aura of joy of vibrance and a little bit of loneliness but then also there's hope in that song and I really suggest you guys to check that song out and also listen to the translation or check out the translation because that will probably help you a lot another favorite song of mine this year or actually songs where songs of BTS I'm a huge Beatles fan now and if you are looking for my bias in the group yeah it's Jimin and my twice bias is Hyuna and I'm so so hoping that there's something going on between them because there's a lot of theories going on but yeah I'm a total K-Pop addict now but then I also love this song of somi called Kushina and then solo by jenny which released this year it was amazing and yeah totally guys if you want to check out kpop please listen to these songs I know you may be a bit afraid like I was because I knew I would get addicted but then I think it's totally worth it I totally love my kpop songs and yeah I really want to listen to more kpop now also there are some songs of like  years ago called nobody and tell me that there's also this group called me say there was actually they also really had really amazing songs the groups are not there anymore but you can always listen to the songs I speak a lot about books on my channel so you guys already know about my favorite books off  but if I have to list out only one it will be the little prince I have never encountered a book so diverse and so amazing and so different from every angle and so well written at the same time it's a wholesome book it's a book within your budget whatever it may be and it's an amazing book to company you anywhere anytime and definitely throughout your life so if I have to tell you guys about my favorite movie of  it is your name some of my subscribers actually suggested me to watch it and one of my subscribers actually pestered me to watch it and I finally watched it and it was such an amazing movie it's probably the best best traning me I've ever seen and also like the best romance or whatever it's the best thing ever I guess and I really was shocked thrilled and you know I was so so hoping that both of them end up together the end is very ambiguous and I would love to know what you guys thought about the movie if you have seen it already but yeah guys if you have not seen your name already please go and check it out another favorite movie of mine this year was a psychological thriller called seven oh my god it was gross and it also had some references to literature which I really loved and it's probably the best psychological thriller I've ever seen another very good psychological thriller that I had seen was this amazing amazing movie called shutter island' I think I saw the movie in  itself I have sort of forgotten if it was late in  on early in  but that movie was also amazing my favorite food this year has to be waffles I discovered waffles this year in waffle water which is at Park Street and they are amazing laughs waffle sometimes it does get a bit too expensive I guess like rupees still okay but one eighty rupees for a waffle it's too much what I really think the waffle size is very small but waffles as waffles are amazing and I really want to have more office in  also at least are a favorite of mine ever since my childhood and this year I discovered this place where you get to Italy's for rupees and I also discovered another place near our College where you get like three at least for  rupees and I think that's a great deal my favorite saying that discovery of this year was Billy ilish I'd really love Six Feet Under and all her songs and I definitely think you guys should be checking her out if I have to talk about my favorite director of this year I can't really name anyone except Makoto Shinkai because I loved your name my favorite app of this year was headspace and my favorite memory of this year was my trip to Mumbai for this book launch and I'm so so happy that  went by so well I hope you guys also had a great and I'd love to know about your favorite memories off  about your favorite things of Freddie teen so leave them in the comment section below I will be back with another video next week till then bye bye you sure you guys have already seen it I'm pretty sure you guys have already seen it it stars Brad Pitt and/or Dr. Nam later die I loved your name Kennan Thorogood CEO flash flash delito Karishma charts ish was this amazing amazing movie called shutter island' time only good services not hireNevada

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[hellychatterjee]

So, I lately read this book called Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps and small disclaimer men do listen and women can read maps but the thing is this book actually delineates the differences between men and women and how the differences can actually be understood, if you want to, and make your life better. Men and women have to understand that they are different and that is the first step in acknowledging the existence of the other, and then the next step will be to understand why they are different and this book actually helps you do that there are so many chapters that are divided in such a beautiful manner with illustrations and examples which will help you understand why and when men are different from women and that is something that I did not know about really sometimes I I just felt that I took men for granted I would not lie after reading this book I felt so bad because there were so many times where a bad hat sub take and I had said okay all better like this but the thing is there are reasons for most of the things that actually happened at this book helped me understand that there are also a lot of things that we men do that men must not understand which this book also helps you understand which is again a very very bizarre thing because I also did some things which I did not understand that are natural to do I thought that it's okay if I do or don't also this book actually helped me understand women better as well and that is something I really really thought that I already knew about but this book told me that I did not must be picking this book up even if you don't want to understand the other gender but yourself one huge drawback of this book is that it's absolutely like almost there's nothing told about the other genders it's like only about men and women which I think could have been walked upon a little bit also there are parts where I thought that this book was again Stevie OH typing which I did not agree with so yeah guys when you're reading a book like this you may not agree with everything that it has to say use your brains absorb what you think is right and then reject what you think is not right also if even before you take a step or imbibe something completely do a small google search and read from research papers whether the facts are actually right or wrong most of it is actually right because this is a very well researched book definitely but then there may be parts which you may not agree with and that is totally totally fine this is a nonfiction book so yeah if you are well-versed in biology you will probably be very very acquainted with a lot of it but since most people are not this book is the best way to understand yourself and those who are around you I also highly recommend this book to people who are getting married because yeah you'll know why I'm saying that so this is definitely not a book for children because there are a lot of chapters which deal with adult psychology and behavior so this book will probably be right for reading after plus age but not before that so make sure if you are trying to give this book to somebody they are not young people so yeah that's that I read this book I guess four stars out of five because of the drawbacks otherwise this book was actually very good I will also leave some recommendation for you if you want to read similar books I also really suggest you guys to read books on feminism and on understanding patriarchy. 

There's this amazing essay by bell hooks called understanding patriarchy which is penny a six page essay it's available free online check it out if you want to because it will help you understand patriarchy and how it has been suppressing women and men since ages so yeah that is something I highly suggest even though it's not directly related to this book that's something I just wanted to tell you guys I hope you guys enjoyed today's review if you did make sure you give this video a big thumbs up make sure you subscribe to my channel because I post new videos every week and share a lot of bookish goodness if you guys are subscribed to my channel already make sure you have hittin that notification bear so that you do every time I post another video ad til my next video bye.

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