hersouul

[hersouul]

xu haven't posted much, xu’ve been doing research into the terms sent! xu will be putting a request out soon though, admittedly as first priority since they're the only one that actually followed xuer rules. expect a post or two within the next week ^_^

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C4n w3 g3t s0m3 p0gg3r tr4nzplur4l t1pz? /NF

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Anon asks, Can we get some pogger transplural tips? /Nf

yes, of course! thank you for the request, xu really appreciate it! you can find your tips here. if they aren't what you were looking for, ask again with more specifics!

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cant understand this post? check here for a guide to using xuer pronouns

⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀transplural tips !

xu am a part of a mixed - origin system, so these are only ideas xu have based off of xuer own experience being a part in it! they may not work for you, but hopefully they'll give you your own ideas!

this is a very generalized post. if you want tips for a specific -genic transition, send xie a request!

⠀ ⠀⠀to transition :

xu always like to say start small ! you dont need to rush your transition. xu know it hurts not being able to just be what you're supposed to be, but its more likely you'll give up on transitioning if you try to rush into it !

change your language — “ i went on a walk ” should become “ we went on a walk ”. it takes a conscious effort at first, but the more you ingrain it into your speech and typing style the more natural it becomes. always think about the fact that you are plural, that you're not alone—that in your body, theres more than one conscious. like xu said, it takes effort. its okay to fail, its okay to forget. just remind yourself as often as you can!

plan it out — write stuff down! it might seem stupid, but give it a try. you don't even need to decide on basic stuff, that can come naturally. get a notebook, and write down one word on each page. an object, an animal, an aesthetic, an emotion, a fashion style, or anything else. THAT is the beginning of an idea, of a person. you can expand based on what you want or whatever feels right, depending on the -genic you're transitioning to.

find a rhythm — this is easier said than done. whether you're going for a full transition or just looking for a way to relieve your dysphoria, this is a good way to do it! you don't need to be intense about it, use the notebooks or whatever equivalent you come up with. if one of the topics you wrote down was a fashion choice, go out and buy or make clothing of that type—or research its culture, and make a collage or playlist (see the next step). Anything that'll put you into a headspace for the other person you should be!

playlists — xu think they're actually really helpful for furthering how you should be. music can help you get into certain mindsets, and may even end up acting as front triggers for your parts! make them based on the information you wrote down, and play them while this part is fronting. make a few, play whichever feels right in the moment

first-person experience — ask your system friends or people who've successfully transitioned! this is a part of any transitional journey; figuring out how to transition safely and in a way that makes you comfortable. go ask your friends for tips, or just ask them about their plural experiences.

some other things to keep in mind as you explore your plurality :

𖹭 set up pluralkit, tupperbox, simply plural, or any other bots or apps that support plural people!

𖹭 make things or buy things with your parts in mind. “ [part] would love this.. ”

𖹭 roleplay as your parts, either via apps and bots or irl!

𖹭 think like your parts. react & respond in your head, it'll eventually come naturally.

𖹭 bah blogs on tumblr can be extremely helpful when trying to help your parts form, no matter what -genic you are! give them a try! (xuer headmate owns a blog you're absolutely free to submit to, @prestigousbah)

𖹭 endogenic / willogenic spaces are great places to look for tips if you don't know any other plurals.

remember! you wont be plural right away. transitioning doesn't happen overnight. you also dont need to fit the ”plural mold.” you should focus on you and your parts comfort above fitting in.

anything else xu might recommend is -genic specific, which sadly defeats the point of something more generalized! if you're looking for other tips, submit something more specific!

[hersouul]

Can you explain first person pronouns to me?

yes! you use them in place of i/me/my pronouns. they're basically the same as neopronouns, just in a different tense

xu'll use xier as an example.

this kitchen is mine! i like to bake things by myself. it makes me happy to see people enjoy my treats. i'm happy you like them, i'll give you some. :)

this kitchen is xier! xu like to bake things by xun. it makes xie happy to see people enjoy xuer treats. xu'm happy you like them, xu'll give you some. :)

see? you just replace the base-pronoun with your chosen neopronoun. just like the third person, these can be whatever you want! xu like to use this for reference if you want some other “basic” or more commonly known ones. i&/me&/my& pronouns and similar also function and are considered to be first person neopronouns, if using those as a reference makes more sense since they're seen more often! :3

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⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀hello! xuer name is cyd. xuer favorite nickname is cydpie, but xu’m okay with other nicknames and whatever petnames you'd like! xu use she/her and rose/roses pronouns, plus xu/xie first person pronouns, and am an agender lesbian. xu mainly identify with transidol and transfamous, but xu have other ids that xu'll eventually list! xu am apart of a system and might not always be fronting.

⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀this account was originally created to offer transID tips outside of the simple "do this thing that makes you cis". xuer requests are always open, but it may take xie a little bit to get to them. please always include a definition or link to a definition when requesting unless its one of xuer ids or something xu'm cis of, thank you.

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