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WARNING TO ALL MOVIE THEATERS

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New York: Zohran Mamdani in 1st; Brad Lander in 2nd; do not rank Andrew Cuomo

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when the curse is lifted

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Was gonna buy something off mercari ive been eyeing for a month but waited til after i went to sleep and it's sold out

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Why does saying anything always make me feel like an idiot. I always miss some part of context or dont explain myself fully and say something silly. Im fine with making mistakes but it's harder to do that at work when i have to worry about my job. It becomes easier to not express anything which sucks to say the least

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new better call saul spin-off:  a demolition crew in albuquerque is destroying the ground of the old meth lab seeking the legendary heisenberg’s treasure. they find an old ornate coffin at the bottom of it, with the words ‘LALO’ engraved on it. noting that it’s locked from inside, they decide to open it as the sun is about to set…

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You can really tell when someone is in their body. The way they walk, like they feel every part of their body move. When they listen to music, they close their eyes. When they eat, they can barely talk because the tastes are stealing their focus. The connection to the senses is the greatest liberator, but I think so many things in every day life steal that from us. A lot of mental stress accumulates from a lack of this connection. Not that it’s the sole reason, but to find that connection at least gives you a fighting chance.

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Guys I want to bring attention to the Revive Gaza’s Farmland initiative!!!! APN is working w farmers in Gaza to help restore Gaza’s agricultural sector. They’re just shy of being within 67% of their goal at the moment. Please show them some love by donating & spreading the word

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men lose their masculinity (the social reward for correctly performed manhood) through advocating for, sympathizing with, or doing labor that is allocated to women.

(and I'm not talking about some innate, spiritual, or psychological masculinity. I mean social masculinity--being regarded by higher ranking men as masculine.)

you genuinely do lose your current standing if you meaningfully and consistently object to the economic, legal, and interpersonal status of women, especially in ways that implicate men around you.

many men believe that if they are willing to do this, occasionally, then they are owed a recuperation of their masculinity through some other means.

if they are sacrificing masculinity through advocating for women politically, then they expect to bolster their masculinity through receiving expressions of gratitude and adoration by women ("feminist men are so hot" "consent is sexy" "pro-choice men get laid more" etc.) or they expect to bolster their masculinity through emasculating other men by asserting the standards of masculinity they adhere to are the "real" masculinity ("real men support women" "sexists are immature boys, I'm a man" "I'm secure in my masculinity and they're insecure" etc.)

to dismantle patriarchy, you need to be able to advocate for women even when it means losing gendered status. other men mostly will not respect you, and many misogynist women will not respect you either. it might not get you laid or praised or validated. in fact, it will probably subject you to increased scrutiny and criticism (because feminized subjects are always subject to such, and if you lose social masculinity, you too will experience this to some degree).

will you still advocate for women even if there is no social benefit and only social cost? do you have principles, or do you just want the fantasy of being a benevolent ruler?

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Some reading from yesterday. First link is partially in response to this blog post that says we should want to write mediocre code (which is pretty bleak)

Imo ai is a tool and not inherently good/evil, but I think people are a little too excited to not have to think anymore.

How are ppl vibe coding successfully?? I feel like every blog or post i see about it is lying to me or overstating the utility

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How are ppl vibe coding successfully?? I feel like every blog or post i see about it is lying to me or overstating the utility

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You're obsessed with the rotting bloated corpse. It's like your Jungkook. Embarassing!

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Michaela Stark by Raga Muñecas

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Why am i saying hullabaloo and ilk in normal conversation