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family is fighting again

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childhood

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one step closer to fitting in

close ups:

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Let’s all light a candle and pour one out for all the trans men who never got to figure out they’re men because they were raised to believe they couldn’t ever be anything other than a wife and a mother and if they ever left the church that all their friends and family go to then they’ll burn in hell for all of eternity. May the names engraved on their tombstones fade to nothing and the dresses they were buried in disintegrate.

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not only is it pride month, but it is also mens mental health awareness month

take the time to check in with the trans men, nonbinary men, intersex men, queer men, disabled men, and men of color that you know

let them know that you support them

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evil jackenstein /j to send to all your creative friends <3

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New Secret Knots comic: "Cryptid".

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“What would you rather I use instead of TMA/TME?” I would rather you stop thinking in binaries altogether, how are we still having this conversation

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An overworked wishing flower

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As a black aromantic, amatonormativity looks different to me in compared to white aromantics.

When looking back into history of amatonormative as well as how my black family perpatuates it, it really all boils down to the same old story: white people forces thing onto black folks so black folks adopt it to survive cause they didn’t have a choice but to.

This is especially why I roll my eyes when they mention alloromantics to be the bane of their existence because to me that includes black alloromantics. Majority of the conservatism the black community holds is because they had no choice but to. And the reason they had no choice but to is because of white people, which is also what they are. I think when white people are also oppressed, because they’re taught to consistently center themselves in every conversation, they use their personal experiences to paint it as the universal community experience. There’s a lack of self awareness and intersectionality that really can only be solved through more black aro voices empowering themselves in this community.

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i don’t know how to explain to you people that no matter what a country’s government is like i do not and will not support the US indiscriminately bombing that country’s civilians and i don’t know why that’s a controversial take tbh

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so i wore a pride flag pin to work the other day and the kids were all interested (obviously) (find me a classroom of preschoolers who are not obsessed with rainbows) (i'll wait) so they crowded around to see.

"aww!" they said, "it's a flag!!"

but the thing is: they're little. a lot of them don't really have a handle on all their mouth sounds yet.

such as, notably, that tricky tricky "L" sound.

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maids are soooo uppity nowadays 🙄 i ask her for 100 grapes and she starts with this backtalk about "but your highness last time you ate so many grapes at once you got a tummy ache" as if she knows better than me??? when im literally a princess

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Just thought about it, but there are people who legitimately believe that Black people get to go to college for free. Which means that they thought we just WEREN'T going, due to being less than capable. And that everyone that DID go didn't actually earn it because "it's free/DEI". 😐

And it's crazy because the only reason we have increased tuition in the first place is because conservatives were afraid that poor, nonwhite kids would go to school and wise up and get competitive (maybe even become- EGADS- commies!)

Damned if we went, damned if we didn't 😐