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we need to stop calling abusive characters complex and just call them what they are. Abusive

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Also on the emerie vs feyre trauma response- feyre also has a hard time looking in the mirror because nesta “always” criticized her appearance. We see both responses (the mirror and the hearing her voice) multiple times with feyre in response to nesta’s abuse.

Nesta and Feyre relationship stopped being “sibling fights” once Nesta’s words started effecting Feyre’s psyche. There’s a reason people who Feyre met two years ago are more important to her than her sisters.

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The show's version of Suleiman and Hürrem:

The historical version of Suleiman and Hürrem:

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Leyla Feray as AYSE SULTAN [4/?] Muhteşem Yüzyıl: Kösem (2015)

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It is very interesting that it seems like Peirce is saying that the historical Rüstem was favoured by Süleyman before Hürrem. Which makes both his demonisation and the fact that in the show he is first and foremost Hürrem's ally...definitely a choice. A very telling one at that.

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Hürrem is genuinely the best part of this show and to say otherwise is to be wrong.

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See I might find Mahidevran show version annoying and just can’t stand her but to be honest, I can’t really blame her. Right from the beginning, she literally had everyone feeding her behavior and never truly scolded her.

She believed that her actions held no meaning and she wasn’t doing anything wrong. Like this woman did the exact same thing to Gulfem and expected that Suleiman would remain solely for her when he became a Sultan? Obviously, I don’t blame her for her rash actions. Being in love means being senseless with your actions but at the same time, right from the start, she was already doomed and had literally everyone protecting her bad behavior. It was always Ibrahim, Valide, Hatice and unfortunately her son who follows up after her to basically cuddle his mother.

Hurrem had literally NO ONE to support her. Suleiman was a good supporter but his attention always strained from her. And in every bad thing Hurrem pulled in an INSTANT, she would be rightfully punished. Her behavior wasn’t rewarded. She just had to fight back.

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Starting from now, i am going to pull away from discussing anything about SJM or her books. There are so many things about this woman that genuinely makes me uncomfortable and her books aren’t good enough for me to still carry on talking about it.

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Did y’all forget Cassian was conceived by 🍇……They even worked his mother to death😬😬😬 But good for Nesta for using that in an argument because who doesn’t love being reminded that their mother was 🍇ed and had him, Nesta stans are just as mature as her Omfg.

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Honestly I stop engaging with Nesta stans cause majority of the things they say about feyre is just multiple loads of misconceptions. And i genuinely can’t not find a bone in my body to care more about it.

I’ll say this once and I won’t say it again. Nesta’s behavior being a mirror of their mother because their mother abused Nesta is NOT an excuse. It’s like saying the mother is not a bad person because she is just mirroring the person who abused her all her life and you can tell from acosf what kind of a woman that grandmother is.

Generational trauma exists but we can’t keep giving excuses to people sometimes. I can understand Nesta has her own way of dealing with her trauma but letting other people catch strays because of how YOU feel is just wrong???

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For the addicted to you verse…I am going to be honest when I tell you that I only like Loren in that whole entire series.

Like let’s start with rose. A lot of yall too boldly say that Loren was mean to her. He always started fights then act as if rose is some victim now you know damn well she’s not?

Let’s start with this scene

This woman literally WALTZ into their apartment without notice and then demanded respect?? and im not even telling you that Loren was innocent because let’s face it they BOTH took digs but if we’re being honest, rose started everything. She literally admits to not liking Loren solely because she’s jealous of the attention he gets with Lily??

And what gets me the most is that her hatred for Loren really blinds her. I will never forget the scene where Loren literally feels worried that Daisy a MINOR was modeling half naked and you would think rose, who wants to be there for her sisters would take that as a chance to agree but nope, she uses that moment to take a dig on lo for being concerned about HER sister being GROOMED??

like rose I promise you that your one sided beef can continue any other day.

And don’t come here with the “he triggered her OCD” and rose accused him of going back to being an alcoholic and DEGRADES him and you expected him to shake ass? Like this woman is always talking about the benefit of her sisters then goes ahead to say she likes ryke more than Loren?? ur sister is literally being GROOMED?!

Honesrly, I don’t hate rose that much, my hatred goes towards ryke. I’m sorry but if you in your 20s and ur defending raisy, you need to be watched cause I can understand if minors ship them like let’s look at Ezaria. And the fact that KBR do NOT shy away from making sure everyone knows the age gap says a lot.

The literally subtitle of daisy’s book is “she’s all grown up now” ryke from the beginning had always made sexual comments about daisy and im meant to ship them or think this shit is normal? Like I understand that it’s fiction and I wouldn’t judge for that but if you DEFEND those actions??

And even aside from ryke being a groomer, he is genuinely not a good person. How he treated lily over her addiction and the constant belittling that he does to her??

Like ryke you are not funny, you’re just weird. and let’s not forget the whole all men lives matter speech because lily wanted to do a blowjob?? like please be genuinely so serious 🧐

Anyways, the only character that I like in this series is Lo

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I waited for you at breakfast, but you slept in. Or avoided me, apparently. And I tried to catch your eye this afternoon, but you were so good at shutting me out completely.”

“Is that what got under your skin? That I shut you out, or that it was so easy for Tarquin to get in?”

“What got under my skin,” Rhys said, his breathing a bit uneven, “is that you smiled at him.”

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Honestly I kind of laugh and giggle whenever Nesta stans say feyre of all people has never worked for anything in her life?? Your fave till this day leeches off her younger sister. Her life, her apartment, the money she makes, even her rent is done by her little sister.

And people want to tear down feyre for taking nesta’s old apartment mind you she made a place for VICTIMS of war?? cause nesta stans love to blame feyre for literally anything and most of them are misconceptions?? like please i beg of you to just accept that your fave did something wrong and MOVE ON from it, its that simple

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here is your daily reminder that Nesta Archeron is ableist. Moving her father’s cane out of his reach because she was upset that he wasn’t taking care of her or her sisters does not change that simple fact that she moved a disabled man’s cane out of his reach. Feelings can give reasons for your actions but they cannot change them. Nesta exploiting someone’s disability out of frustration and spite is why I, along with many other readers, have a hard time believing that she’s genuinely a good person.

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i'm sorry but your fantasy girlies WISH they were fang runin they WISH i tell you

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oh my god guys. please watch this - the creator is talking about SJM’s zionism and how it shows in ACOTAR through the dynamic of Velaris and the Hewn City. it’s actually insane the connections all make sense and create a VERY ugly picture.

i already hate SJM and knew she was a zionist, but this just makes everything SO much worse on top of all the issues with ACOTAR already. i’m so glad i sold her books.

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I think SJM wanted ToG to be the next asoiaf so badly after the second book and tried to evolve the series into that grimdark deep fantasy when it was just about an Assassin.