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OHM PAWAT AS PAT in BAD BUDDY [2021]

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Namtan Tipnaree and Film Rachanun for Pocky Idol (x)

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Do you know what they're afraid of? They're afraid that you're still alive, that we are still alive and fine to witness their downfall. Living is better revenge againts your enemies.

THE DOUBLE (2024)

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The Next Prince – Episode 8: RamilPaytai

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—KristSingto, Praew [June 2025]

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this is actually just for me. bison's hand on kant's back is just 🫠🫠🫠

FIRST KANAPHAN as KANT PATTANAWAT and KHAOTUNG THANAWAT as BISON AECHITPOL deleted scene of THE HEART KILLERS

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"Why do you care? Huh? Why do you even care? The reason I became this person is because of you, isn't it?" THE EX-MORNING (2025)

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There's no reason for me to be upset, because I belong to you, Prince Ramil. THE NEXT PRINCE E06

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stay by my side.

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At the risk of getting in trouble with Tumblr, I want to say that what I like about this:

Is that it's actually very good kink practice. When you're penetrating someone from behind and you want to have them on a leash with a collar around their neck, it's important to not have the pressure being put on their windpipe. See how the collar is arranged so that it's pressing on the side of Paytai's neck? We can't quite see, but it looks like Ramil is holding the collar in place to make sure of that. The neck is very delicate, and the windpipe is the most delicate part of it. It's fairly easy to damage. So when you're pulling on someone's collar when you're in that sexual position, you have to make sure that it's not putting pressure on their windpipe, or you could do serious harm.

BDSM is not something to be taken lightly. It's kind of like an extreme sport, except that the need kinky people have for it is deep and profound. The fact that Ramil and Paytai engage in it in the way that they do despite the fact that the trauma they're experiencing can taint it is indicative of that. It's not something a lot of us can ignore. Sure, for some people it's just a little bit of fun that they'd be fine without, but for a lot of us, it's a deep hunger. If you're one of those people, you need to be careful, and you need to do research on the risks of any kinky activity you want to do or relationship type you want to enter. Because it can be dangerous, both physically and emotionally. But if you do it safely, it can be the most wonderful experience in the world. For me, when I've engaged in BDSM with people, it's transcendent. Nothing matches the beauty of consensual power exchange for me.

That got away from me. The point is, good job show, for demonstrating the safe way to pull on someone's leash in doggy style.

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Ok, I stopped barking long enough to write down some stuff. Let’s talk about the Ramil/Paytai nc scene. I’m seeing some discourse along the lines of “Ramil realized that he was being abusive with Paytai”, “he realized he was perpetuating the violence that Paytai suffered at the hands of his father” etc. and as someone who is a dom IRL (not as a job but for personal fun time), I wanted to share some thoughts and maybe provide some insights.

First, I can’t stress this enough: bdsm play is not abuse. Dom/sub dynamics (properly negotiated) are not abuse.

Ramil is absolutely not abusive in his intimate life with Paytai. He literally doesn’t move a muscle unless Paytai tells him to. I’m not saying he’s never toxic - he’s obviously very jealous and possessive. Tbh though, I think he’s actually not that controlling outside the figurative bedroom. Many times we see him actually defer to Paytai instead of deciding something by himself and imposing it, which is (ahem) more than can be said about Khanin with Charan.

But engaging in bdsm play is not abuse. Pain/impact play is not abuse, it’s not violence. Violence is about inflicting harm/damage - Ramil never wants to harm Paytai, the show makes that abundantly clear.

I also don’t think flogging (and whatever other pain play they engage in) was introduced by Ramil, based on who he is shown to be and the fact that he never moves a finger until Paytai tells him to. I believe that Paytai is the one who initially asked Ramil to use a flogger on him, because he’s the, let’s say, main sub in the relationship and bdsm play (usually) centers around the sub’s desires. Paytai choosing to integrate flogging into his sex life, when and how he chooses, with a partner he loves and trusts, can be a way to reclaim something that harmed him in a different context and find empowerment in it. It is not the same thing as perpetuating violence. Paytai is not a victim in his sex life.

When we see the brief flashback of the night before the bike ride, Paytai is wearing a collar tied to a chain, which Ramil holds as he fucks him. This is also bdsm, and it’s very clear in the scene that they are both having a great fucking time. No one is being taken advantage of.

Now the end of the lace scene: Ramil not wanting to use the flogger (whip) on Paytai doesn’t mean that he suddenly doesn’t vibe with their dom/sub dynamic or bdsm play. I personally think for Ramil, the pain play was never his thing, really; he did it for Paytai. His thing was always the ownership - the reassurance that Paytai is his and his alone, that he’s not going anywhere. He can realize that he’s not comfortable using a flogger anymore, or maybe in that specific moment, because of the trauma they’ve both experienced but still enjoy tying up Paytai, being tied up by him, having Paytai tell him he belongs to him, etc. It can also be that in that moment, what he (Ramil) needed the most was softness. It doesn’t make any of the other stuff bad.

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TheExMorningEP2 Live: Who would you choose?

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Why do you still keep the lip balm I bought you? I think the person who’s still hung up and refuses to say it is you. What are you talking about? It might be a new one.

THE EX-MORNING | EP5

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"no more punishment."