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It’s such a red flag to me when cis people are involved in trans discourse because genuinely Who Asked You

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4 piercings each with a different looking earring in them is my tboy swag

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Perseus and Andromeda

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overemphasizing any type of trans person has the capacity to be misogynistic is gunna make you sound like a transphobe just like overemphasizing that gay people have the capacity to be child predators makes you sound like a homophobe.

It ain't rocket science.

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The bride and her ugly ass groom!!!!!!!

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I wish more people understood that being habitually uncomfortable with or hostile to masculine and butch women as a woman is also a form of internalized misogyny

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ik its cuz their only exposure to trans men is flat chested attractive skinny white ones with naturally masculine features pre t but omfg i wish people realized how hard it is to bind with a bigger chest. like it doesnt make my chest flat, it just minimizes it, plus i have unsupportive parents who used to openly stare at my chest and try to convince me not to bind when i used to wear my binder regularly so i have to put it on and take it off at school plus my school is long and i cant bind for more than 8 hours so i can't wear it for the whole school day plus i have to position my binder just right or it makes me nauseous plus whenever i see a "trans man hack for hiding your chest!!" i have to check if it only works on b cups or whatever everyone please stfu about trans mens bodies

You know what never made any sense to me? That trend of cis- CIS!!!- people making those "when a he/they has the biggest chongalongas you've ever seen and doesn't like to be called a girl" posts.

Like, famously, we can't control the size our boobs are? Very large breasts aren't easily bound? Binding is expensive and not always medically advisable? Respecting people's pronouns shouldn't rely on strict adherence to cis-passing norms? I thought all of these were like... established trans theory and yet I found many trans people defending these posts and saying they had a point. What point??? That people with big boobs get misgendered frequently if they aren't women???

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hey guys make sure to have plenty of Gender Wars "men be like this doodoodoo, women be like this dadada" type of conversations over and over. it is really helpful and not banal at all.

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he blocked me bc i pointed out he was cis😭

Non passing trans men don't benefit from misogyny whatsoever, besides possibly on the internet. If they are seen as a woman in someone's eyes, especially legally, they do not benefit from it. If you are not seen as a man by society, regardless of if you are or not, you do not benefit from misogyny.

It's that fuckin simple.

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At the Gala - My Little Pony

Yeah so I go from one massive 6 character piece to...another massive 6 character piece. I know adding the closeups kind of ruins the formatting but I worked really hard on each character and wanted to show off details.

It has been 11 years since I drew anything My Little Pony, I have wanted to draw the gala dresses for years! I kind of mixed it up a little with my own interpretations of what the dresses would be like on humans. I hope you like them!

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i cant believe this is a hot take on this stupid website but NO trans men dont benefit from the patriarchy!! there are ways we benefit from it (which is true for literally every single human ever) but the ways that we are oppressed by the patriarchy greatly outweighs the benefit!!! so yes it is annoying to hear people say "trans men benefit from the patriarchy" because while there are some ways we do benefit, the ways that we are actively harmed by the patriarchy greatly outweighs any benefit. there are some SMALL ways women benefit from the patriarchy, but it would be weird as fuck to say "women benefit from the patriarchy" because their oppression under the patriarchy is way worse than their benefit so WHY are people saying this abt trans men in the big 2025?? especially a cis man like stfu ofc trans men r gonna be mad

basically: "trans men benefit from the patriarchy" weird

"there are ways trans men benefit from the patriarchy but they are harmed by it much more" true

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cis man posting this btw💔

we can't even get a basic "all men structurally benefit from a misogynist society" to pass on this website without a bunch of queer men shooting themselves into a panic cause they get too uncomfortable about the idea of being culpable to self reflect. "feminist" website

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invincible 🔥

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I love you weird trans people, cis transfem? Beautiful, trans intersex? Nice, trans femmemasc? That sounds cool asf, spider gender? Why not?

We don't owe regular people our identities. Experimenting with gender and being weird is fun asf

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"you can't headcanon ralsei as a trans girl because he's feminine and that's stereotyping" and "you can't headcanon susie as a trans girl because she's masculine and that's stereotyping" are statements that were dreamed up by people who really don't want you to think of any characters as transfem. for some reason

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