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ᴄʜᴀᴋᴀ ᴋʜᴀɴ at the Los Angeles Memorial Coliseum, June 1977, by Bruce Talamon.

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I kinda genuinely don't understand this fandom tendency of interpreting things a Certain Way and believing that all else is incorrect

You guys really need to get into some 500 year old theatre play, watch 50 different performances and understand that even the "set in stone 100% acknowledged by scholars" interpretations can be disputed

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chris martin accidentally exposing a CEO for cheating with his employee via a kiss cam at a coldplay concert is the funniest thing i’ve heard in a while

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The way men talk about “false allegations” as if they’re this ubiquitous thing reeks of jealousy. Like they think you can “cry rape” and get all this sympathy and levy forces on your behalf. Totally detached from reality. It’s like how men whine about “sluts” in a clearly porn-based, frothingly jealous way. But what they ignore is that nothing is stopping those men, right now, from “crying rape.” If it’s such a powerful tool for leveraging power and rallying emotional supply, well, they could do that, right now. But they won’t. Because they understand rape is humiliating for human beings. They understand publicizing your rape is publicly advertising a massive humiliation. They would never dream of shouldering that humiliation, as the price of whatever personal ends. The thing is, they don’t view women as human. So when we say “i was raped,” they disregard the massive price of articulating it. They ignore the cost of coming forward. If they really considered allegations this amazing button of power women possess and choose to hit at volatile random, well, they have the same option. Any time.

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don't worry, some of the best people i know also scroll for hours on end

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YOUR EMAIL FINDS ME ON THE FIELD OF BATTLE

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Sacabambaspis.

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DOCTOR WHO (2005 - ) I 8.01

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You’re not depressed. You just need $250,000 in your bank account.

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I cannot stress enough how important it is to do silly, frivolous things that serve no other purpose than making you happy.

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had a women ask me if she could watch me and another guy fuck because she likes the sounds and smell. Grindr is very different in Lichtenstein. I may actually invite her to watch me rail this estonian twunk.

fujoshi final boss..

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me when my disabilities disable me:

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making art is just like showering………can’t get up and do it, can’t stop when you’ve started. you want to crawl out of your skin if you don’t do it often enough. everything in the world is the exact same

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we're in it now. the part of the s2-s3 hiatus I dreaded the most. the gatekeeping, the rumors, the flexing of knowledge of unshareable information.

inevitable but exhausting

im trying to figure out how to stay pumped for the next 6-9 months despite the relentless in-everyone's-face fandom "we know something about your passion that you don't know, it's delicious, maybe someday you'll find out" like the world's most hilariously insiders-only fuck-you cnn.

like, this is an old-ass situation for any filmed fandom. has anyone threaded the needle?earnestly asking: during a hiatus, how do you stay plugged in to a fandom that you love, and love creating for, when it doesn't love you back--not in an egalitarian way?

🤷 bc I don't want to leave my fandom until the season airs just to avoid this daily FOMO exhaustion. I'm happy to know spoilers or updates, but even my curated experience is inevitably heavily coming across my feed like "we saw something so cool. we loved it. we're so excited and we had to run to social to tell you there's a great thing you can't know about."

anyone want to offer their personal fandom sanity tips? (beyond "let your heart die and stop caring" lol?)

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hello disabled person who is dithering about whether or not to ask for a certain accommodation because you could "technically survive without it". that is the devil talking. you are allowed to demand more than "technically surviving". the world is a shitty ableist place, but if you have the chance to have your needs met in any tiny way you are allowed to take it. and yes, it's still a need even if you can kind of almost technically mostly survive without it